Chaka chatha ndinali munthu wopanda chiyembekezo wopanda pake wopanda manyazi yemwe analibe luso lotha kucheza ndi anthu ndipo sanatengere chilichonse. Koma masiku opitilira 365 apitawa ndidazindikira za NoFap, ndipo zambiri zasintha kuyambira pamenepo. Ndikupitilirabe kukuwuzani zokopa, anzanga atsopano, magiredi onse omwe sindinapeze mpaka chaka chino, ndi nkhani zonse zobwerezedwa koma sizomwezo.
Chowonadi nchakuti, m'masiku 365 awa ndapeza pamtendere. Ndimatha kukhala ndekha mosavuta kuposa kale lonse, ndipo nthawi zonse ndimasinthasintha ndikupeza zinthu zatsopano. Mtundu wanga wanyimbo sunasinthe, koma wakula. Ndidangomvera nyimbo zapa rap mpaka sabata ino kutola zokonda zatsopano za nyimbo zanyimbo zanyimbo (Pure Comedy ndi 70's Bowie, mukundigwira?) Ndimadzimva kuti ndikusangalala ndi media zosadziwika bwino, monga ma memes omwe sindikadakhala nawo zilingaliridwe chifukwa "sizikugwirizana ndi mtundu". M'malo mwake, ndidayamba kudzipangira ndekha (zomvetsa chisoni kwenikweni). Ndimatha kudzitulutsa ndekha ndikuwona zinthu moyenera, ndikudziwa choti ndinene ndi chifukwa choti ndinene, ndikudziwa zomwe ndimamva nthawi yayitali, ndipo ngakhale izi zikutanthauza kuti sindimva chisoni mosavuta, sindimamva osangalala mosavuta mwina.
Sindikulowerera ndale, dziko losangalala. Koma sizitanthauza kuti ndilibe mwayi wopambana. Anthu ambiri amayang'ana kwa ine tsopano. M'malo mwake, munthu uyu kusukulu yanga m'kalasi la 10 adati akufuna kukhala ngati ine akafuna kumaliza maphunziro. Ndidamuuza kuti akuyenera kukhala yekha. Ndayamba kuwerenga mabuku ambiri (koma osati ambiri momwe ndingakonde ku TBH). Anthu ambiri amandiuza kuti ngakhale nditawoneka bwino ndili ndi umunthu wokhoza kuyankhula zambiri pamwamba pake. Nthawi zonse amandiuza momwe ndimakhalira wamng'ono ndikamaseka, ndikukhala okhwima kwambiri ndikumvetsetsa pakafunika kutero.
Ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri pa NoFao, ndipo china chake chomwe ndikumva kuti gawo ili silikusowa. Ngakhale sindinalembetse pano kwanthawi yayitali, sindingakane, anthu ambiri amangoyang'ana kuti asakule. Izi sizigwira ntchito. Ndipo zolinga zanu, ngakhale nthawi zonse zimakhala zofunikira kwambiri, sizimasangalatsa malingaliro anu nthawi zonse. Chifukwa chiyani osagwiritsa ntchito nthawi imeneyo kukhala wotopetsa kukulitsa zosangalatsa zanu. Ganizirani zinthu zomwe mumakonda, ndipo yesani kuziphatikiza. Mumakonda rap, yesani rap yoyesera. Mumakonda kuwerenga zolemba pamasewera achichepere, yesani kuwerenga buku la achikulire, pezani malingaliro pa intaneti (ndimakhala nthawi yambiri pa intaneti komabe osati za Facebook kapena Instagram, m'malo mwamawebusayiti monga Reddit komanso, ovuta, 4chan. pamenepo, chenjerani. Ndimazigwiritsa ntchito chifukwa ndimakumana ndi zatsopano). Nthawi zonse mumakonda kuwonera masewera, mwina kupita kukachita nawo zochitika zina, kapena kuposa pamenepo, pitani mukakasewere nokha. Onani momwe zimakhalira.
Koma osasiya kukula. Simuyenera kuchita kukula monganso momwe ndinakulira, pezani malingaliro kuchokera kwa owunikira YouTube ngati mukufuna (zambiri ndizopangidwa kutengera zomwe mudakonda kale, choncho pewani izi, koma yesani kupeza otsutsa omwe amawunikiranso mitundu yambiri ya mitundu mu chilichonse, osati zenera laling'ono), kapena kujambula m'malo mwa memes, koma chitani kena kake. Kukula mbali zonse, yesani kusokoneza nthabwala zina mozungulira anzanu. Chitani izi nthawi ina mukadzakhudzidwa. Yesani china chatsopano ku McDonalds, china chaching'ono chomwe chingapangitse kusiyana kwakukulu, yesani kuthana ndi nthabwala ndi munthu yemwe muyenera kukhala "wozama" naye. Gonjetsani mantha anu agalu poyenda pafupi ndi galu wosokera mukawona imodzi.
Iyi ndi gehena imodzi yachinyengo koma ndimayenera kunena izi. Osangoyang'ana kuti musakule, mudzawonongeka ndikuwotcha m'mwezi wongawu. Yambirani kukulira mbali zonse, osati kungogwira ntchito, osati zosangalatsa zokha, osati umunthu wokha, mulimonsemo. Kuti mukhale nokha, muyenera kudziwa nokha poyamba. Kuti mudzidziwe nokha, simuyenera kusiya kudzikakamiza kuti mukhale ndi malire atsopano. Ndipo ndikhulupirireni, mudzatha kukokera anthu muma quirks anu atsopano mosavuta. Afuna kuchita zomwe mukufuna kuchita. Musaope kukhala nokha chifukwa simukonda zomwe ena amachita. Pitirizani kukula mwachilengedwe komanso popanda chisonkhezero.
Chaka chabwino chatsopano ndipo zikomo ponditumiziranso pomwe ndimafunikira (ambiri anali atabwerera tsiku lomwe ndinawachotsa lmao) ndikukhala ndi chaka chabwino mtsogolo, komanso zabwino zonse zomwe mwayikira, osangoti osati kukula. Chifukwa ndipamene timalakwitsa!
SUNGANI: Musalole kuti kafukufukuyu atenge tsiku lanu lonse. Iyenera kukhala yocheperako tsiku lanu, koma iyenera kukhalapo.
Gawo loipitsitsa ndimadana ndikukhala 17 ndidzakhala 18 chaka chino kuti ndikhale ndi ufulu wowonjezeranso zoyipa zatsopano, mwina ndichite china chake chofunikira kuti ndikhale nawo. Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndikatha kuwoloka 95% kumapeto kwanga ndilowa koleji yabwino kenako zoyipa zidzakhala zosavuta kuzichita.
LINK - Tadutsa kuchokera pakujambulidwa koposa nthawi za 365 chaka chatha mpaka ochepera 60 chaka chino.