Ndinafikira mwachangu masiku a 100 opanda PMO. Ndinaganiza zolemba chingwechi kuti ndikufotokozereni zomwe mungayembekezere NoFap, ndi maubwino ati omwe ndidapeza kuchokera ku izi, ndipo ndi upangiri wanga uti.
Chidule cha nkhaniyi:
- Nkhani yanga
- Zomwe ndidadutsamo
- Zabwino zomwe ndidayesa
- Zolakwika zodziwika kwambiri zomwe ndidaziwona
Nkhani yanga:
Ndidagwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa zaka zingapo. Ndazindikira zolaula pa zaka 12ndipo maliseche pa zaka 10.
Idzani nthawi yomwe ndikufuna kusintha. Kukhala munthu wabwino. Pafupifupi zaka 2 zoyesera zomwe sizinaphule kanthu, ndinayesa maulendo angapo a masiku a 10, ena a masiku a 20 komanso mbiri yakale ya masiku a 40. Koma nthawi zonse zinali zofanana, ndimatha kupanga masiku ochepa ndipo kenako anakhumudwa.
Ndinayesanso ma binge ambiri komwe ndimakhala kwa milungu ingapo popanda kufikira masiku ochulukirapo. Mndende ndekha, ndidaganiza zodzipereka. Zingatero chomaliza. Ndidapanga lingaliro lolembetsa pa NoFap 100 masiku apitawa, ndipo lidali vumbulutso: NoFap yasintha moyo wanga kukhala wabwino.
Zomwe ndidakumana nazo:
Nkhani iliyonse ndi yosiyana, chilichonse chomwe takumana nacho sichidzakhala chimodzimodzi. Koma chinthu chimodzi ndikutsimikiza: inu mudzadutsa pomwe ndidadutsamo, mudzakhala zinthu zofananazo ndipo mudzayesanso mantha omwewo ngati ine.
Kunena zowona, nditabwerera mobwerezabwereza, ndidadzilonjeza ndekha: kukhala munthu watsopano, kukula, kudzilemekeza, ndikusiya zolaula. NoFap sikungonena zosiya zolaula, koma ndikutsata moyo watsopano ndi kuphunzira kukula - kukhala mtundu wathu wabwino.
pa woyamba miyezi iwiri m'masiku anga a 100, ndinali m'tawuni, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ndinalibe konse libido. Ndinalibe chikhumbo chilichonse komanso malingaliro. Thupi langa linali lakufa chifukwa cha zolakalaka zonse zogonana.
Pambuyo masiku 60, thupi langa lidabwereranso pamlandu. Mwa njira yamphamvu kwambiri. Chophweka kwambiri chinali chitatha ndipo ndinali kukumana ndi nthawi yovuta kwambiri yoyambiranso. Tsiku 73 linali lovuta, ndinali ndi nkhawa zambiri ndikukayika. Koma sindinataye mtima, ndipo ndili pano kuti ndikufotokozereni nkhani yanga.
Mapindu ake: Chabwino… Ili ndiye gawo losangalatsa kwambiri. Ndilongosola mwatchutchutchu zonse zomwe ndinayesa potengera maubwino. Kodi izi zomwe zimatchedwa "zopambana" ndizowona? Tiwayankha limodzi.
Pakati pa masiku a 0 ndi 30:
- Osasangalatsa kwambiri. Kunena zowona, palibe. Koma sitiyenera kutaya pamenepa: zingakhale zolakwika zazikulu.
Pakati pa masiku a 30 ndi 45:
- My mawu wakhala Zamitsani.
- My maso akuwala ngati kalirole. Ali otseguka komanso owoneka bwino.
- My ziphuphu zakumaso is wapita. Ziphuphu zanga zambiri zasowa, ochepa okha ndi omwe atsala chifukwa cha chakudya chokoma kwambiri chomwe ndimadya (koma ndikamadya athanzi, onse amachoka kumaso kwanga).
- My chikumbukiro ali bwino. Ndinkakonda kuyiwala zinthu maola angapo pambuyo pake, koma tsopano ndimatha kukumbukira zidziwitso masiku angapo pambuyo pake.
- I anakhala Zambiri wopatsa. Ndimaganizira kwambiri za ena. Ndimamva kudzikonda kochepa, mwina sindinenso.
- Music zomveka zosaneneka.
Pakati pa masiku a 45 ndi 70:
- My malankhulidwe anachoka kanthu ku chirichonse. Ndimalankhula ndi a mawu odekha. Ndikumva ngati "wokamba".
- ndikumverera bata mwambiri.
- I ndidzitchinjirize. Nthawi zambiri, amuna ankayesetsa kundiseka. Ndinkachita bwino kwambiri.
- Ndine mwamakani. Ndizabwino, koma osati nthawi zonse… ndipo nthawi zina zimakhala zoipa. Nthawi zambiri ndimayang'ana amuna ena m'maso mpaka kutsikira m'maso. Ndikumva mphamvu mwa ine.
Pakati pa masiku a 70 ndi 99:
- My manyazi ali kuchepa. M'moyo wanga wonse, sindinkadzidalira. Masiku ano, ndimatha kuyang'ana munthu m'maso, kucheza naye komanso kukhala wodekha nthawi zambiri. Ndine samachita mantha. Ndine wachidziwikire kuti ndine wamanyazi nthawi zina, koma pakhala kusintha kwakukulu.
- My mawu zimakhala zakuya kwambiri, mwakuti aliyense amazindikira nthawi zonse: banja langa, anthu ozungulira, etc.
- I dzimva wamoyo. Chilichonse chaching'ono chimandilimbikitsa. Duwa, nyama, mtundu wa dzuwa ... moyo ndi wosangalatsa.
Tsiku 100:
- Ndikumva ngati Chilichonse ndichotheka.
Zolakwika zofala kwambiri:
Amakhala akukambirana kambirimbiri, ndipo munthu aliyense amakhala ndi njira zawo. Koma ndikufuna kugawana nanu zolakwa zofala, zomwe zidandigwira mtima. Awa ndi zolakwitsa zazikulu, makamaka malinga ndi malingaliro anga.
Choyipa choyamba: Iyi sili nkhondo yolimbana ndi zolaula.
Munazimva bwino. Palibe wopambana, palibe wotayika. Si nkhondo, sitimenya nkhondo zolaula. Sitimenyana tokha. Ndizosamveka. Sitilimbana ndi zikhumbo zathu. Kampani ya NoFap ikulimbana ndi zolaula. Sitilimbana ndi zolaula, monga osokoneza bongo.
Cholakwika chachiwiri: Simungachite nokha, muyenera kuthandiza ndi kuthandiza ena.
Nthawi zambiri ndakhala ndikuwona anthu akuyesera kuchita bwino okha, koma ndizosatheka. Tiyenera kupereka nthawi yathu kuthandiza ena ndikuthandizira ena.
- Moyo wokha womwe mudakhalira ena ndi moyo wopindulitsa. (Albert Einstein)
Vuto lachitatu: Muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito zizolowezi zabwino tsiku lililonse. NoFap ndi moyo watsopano, sikuti amangothetsa chizolowezi chokha.
Tiyenera kusinthanitsa mphamvu zathu zakugonana kukhala zizikhalidwe zabwino. Lingaliro sikuti kuthana ndi chikhumbo, koma kubwezeretsanso mphamvu zakugonana ku zinthu zina zopanga: ntchito yanu, maphunziro anu, zosangalatsa zomwe mumakonda, etc. mphamvu.
Mawu omaliza:
Ndisananene china chilichonse, ndikufuna ndikuthokozeni kwambiri, kuchokera pansi pamtima, kwa anthu onse omwe amandithandizira. Sindingakwanitse kufikira sabata limodzi osakhala NONSE. Ndemanga zanu pazakale zanga, zokonda zanu masauzande ambiri, thandizo lanu m'mauthenga achinsinsi… Zachidziwikire, masiku 1 sikokwanira kuti mubwezeretsedwe, zingatenge nthawi yochulukirapo… Icho chinali cholinga changa kuchokera pachiyambi.
Ndine woyamikira chifukwa cha chithandizo chonse chomwe ndinalandira. Ndikhala wokondwa chifukwa cha moyo wanga wonse.
Ndimakukondani, anyamata. Zikomo pondiwerengera. Ngati muli ndi mafunso okhudza nkhani yanga, kapena ngati mukuganiza za zomwe mungayambirenso, ndingakhale wokondwa kuyankha.
Ndimatenga mwayi uwu kuti ndikutumizireni ku ulusi wocheperako, chonde onani:
- Kuchita 50 + Kuchita Bwino Kuyambiranso
- Cholinga Cha Tsiku Lililonse: "Lero sindigwiritsa ntchito zolaula chifukwa…"
- Vuto la Masiku Asanu ndi Awiri
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- [Zambiri] 50 + Zizolowezi Zoyendetsa Bwino
- Cholinga Cha Tsiku Lililonse: "Lero sindigwiritsa ntchito zolaula chifukwa…"
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