Zaka 18 - Ndidakhala wolimba mtima pafupi ndi atsikana, Sipadzakhalanso kutopa, nkhawa zamagulu zimachepa, Kukula kwamalingaliro

Moni,

Ndili ndi zaka zoyambirira za 18. Kotero, nditangolowa ku koleji ndikupanga anzanga atsopano achikazi, chizolowezi changa chodziseweretsa maliseche chidayamba kuchepa. Chaka chatha, kuyambira Ogasiti, ndinasiya kuseweretsa maliseche nditakondana ndi mtsikana wina. Ngakhale tidasiyana mu Novembala koma sindinayambenso zizolowezi zanga zakale. Koma mu February, chaka chino, ndimayang'ana zolaula zakale zomwe ndinali nazo mu kompyuta yanga kale ndisanasiye kuseweretsa maliseche. Ndinali ndi mwazi wothamangira mwangozi ndipo sindinathe kuyesetsa kuti ndiumalize pambuyo pake. Inde, ndinasewera maliseche patatha miyezi isanu ndi umodzi mwangozi. Ndinakwiya kwambiri nditatha izi, kenako ndinachotsa zosowa zanga zakale. Sindingathe kubweza zomwe zidachitika. Chifukwa chake, ndidasamba ozizira ngati chilango. Kenako ndinalumbira mdzina langa la Mulungu kuti ndidzadzitchinjiriza ku zinthu zotere mtsogolomo ndikukhala ndi mapemphero osankhika kuti ndilape. Tsopano ndi Epulo, ndikupitabe bwino. Nthawi zina ndimakhala wokoma mtima, koma sindingathe kuseweretsa maliseche. Ndikadapanda kuseweretsa maliseche molakwika, zikadakhala pafupifupi miyezi 8 za ine osadziseweretsa maliseche. Ndinkangonyalanyaza mfundo yoti ndiseweretsa maliseche ndipo ndinapitiliza vuto langa loti sindidzachitanso zoseweretsa maliseche. Komanso, ndimadana kwambiri ndi zogonana.

ubwino:
1. Khalani otsimikiza mtima pafupi ndi atsikana
2. Palibenso kutopa kwatsiku ndi tsiku
3. Palibenso choyipa chilichonse chonyansa (kuseweretsa maliseche nthawi zonse kumandipatsa zabwino)
4. Kukula kwambiri kwa uzimu (ndikumva kulumikizidwa ndi Mulungu tsopano)
5. Kukula kwamaganizidwe akulu
6. Palibenso zolakwa
7. Zovuta zamtundu wa anthu zachepa
8. Kusintha kwamaganizidwe ambiri

kuipa:
1. Kuchuluka kwa maloto onyowa (nthawi zonse amasokoneza mathalauza anga, ndimadana ndi izi)
2. Maloto oyenda bwino amandilimbikitsanso
3. Nthawi zina ndimasowa malingaliro okhudzana ndi maliseche koma ndizofunika kwambiri

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Miyezi 6, ndiye miyezi iwiri yopanda maliseche! Ndipo ndikupitilizabe mpaka kufa!

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by YachidaKad