Imeneyi inali ntchito yovuta koma ambiri amati… sizokhudza komwe akupita, koma ulendowu ndi wofunika.
Ndinayamba kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 12, ndikuwonera makanema ndikuwachezera. Sindinasiyepo kuyambira pamenepo. Ndinali wotsimikiza kuti ndi momwe amzanga nawonso amathandizira, sindinaganizepo ngakhale kamodzi kuti zitha kukhala zolakwika. Sindinadziwe zomwe zandichitikira komanso momwe zochita zanga zitha kundibaya kumbuyo mtsogolo.
Nkhani yayitali yayitali, inandipangitsa kuti ndikhale ndi PIED ndi msungwana wokongola kwambiri omwe maso anga adayang'anapo. (tidalinso pachibwenzi kwa chaka ndi theka). Ichi chinali chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa kuswa kwathu pambuyo pa 3 ndi theka la kukhala pamodzi.
Vuto linali lakuti ndinali ndi PMO-pafupifupi pafupifupi tsiku ndi tsiku, sindinaganizirepo zomwe zinali zofunika kwambiri pamoyo.
Ndinali ndi mavuto ndi kukumbukira kwanga, ndinalibe zolinga, sindinayese kuchita chilichonse chofunikira pamoyo wanga. Kukhala ku koleji pamunda wovuta kwambiri kudakhala kovuta kwambiri chifukwa cholephera kuyang'ana. Gahena, ndimakhala ndimavuto polankhula, sindinapeze mawu anga oti ndiyankhule zinthu zosavuta nthawi zina, osatinso nkhani zovuta.
Sindikudziwa zomwe ndikuuzeni, owerenga anzanga, sindingakupatseni mndandanda wazomwe mungachite ndi zomwe simuyenera kuchita kuti mupewe chizolowezi chotembereredwa ichi, zomwe ndingakuuzeni ndikuti muyenera kukhulupirira 100% mwa inu nokha kuti mutha kumenya. Kuchokera pa zomwe ndakumana nazo, ndidazipereka ndipo sindinaziganizirenso. Kuwona maubwino kunapangitsa kukhala kopindulitsa kwambiri kwakanthawi.
UBWINO:
1. Ndikhoza kuganizira kwambiri zinthu zomwe ndikufuna kuchita.
2. Ndikhozanso kusangalala ndi zinthu zosavuta monga kumvetsera nyimbo, ndimatha kumverera zovuta zomwe zimadutsa, zojambula ndi mafilimu. Ndimakhalanso ndi maganizo ambiri, sindimaganizira zachabechabe (palibe chimwemwe, chisoni, nkhawa) AH, ndimanama Ndikanakhala ndi nkhawa koma sindingathe kuchita kanthu kuti ndisapezeke zomwe zingandipatse nkhaŵa.) . Pambuyo pa miyezi ya 2 ya nofap, ndinalira ngati pang'ono pamene ndinamva zomwe wachibale wanga wapanga
3. Sindikuonanso akazi ngati zinthu, ndimakonda kuona umunthu wawo, mantha awo, zolinga zawo. Ndimakonda kuwona momwe amachitira zinthu ndikuwonekanso moyo wawo, osati maonekedwe awo okha.
4. Kumbukirani bwino komanso, ndikutha kuyankhula mwachizolowezi tsopano.
5. Kukula kwa tsitsi: Tsitsi langa silimagwa mosavuta monga limachitira nthawi imeneyo, tsitsi la nkhope lasintha ndipo ndili ndi tsitsi lambiri.
6. Ndimakweza kwambiri ku masewero olimbitsa thupi ndipo ndimakonda kupeza minofu mofulumira.
7. Zolinga zanga zabwerera, ndalandira mayamiko ochokera kwa azimayi ndi akazi anzawo.
8. Zosintha zakhala bwino.
9. Sindikusamala zamatsenga tsopano, sindikuwona kufunika koti ndiziziwonera.
10. Ine ndikukhudzidwa kwambiri ndi kukhala 2.0 ndondomeko yanga ndekha kuposa kukomana ndi mkazi wangwiro kwa ine.
Ngati ndikadatha kupewa masiku 100, nonse mungathe. Ndikukufunirani zabwino zonse ndi mphamvu paulendowu. Musaope, mutha kutero, tonse tili ndi chikhulupiriro mwa inu. Khama nthawi zonse limapindulitsa, musalole chilichonse kukulepheretsani kuchoka panjira yomwe mwadzipangila nokha, pitani patsogolo mpaka kumapeto, gwiritsitsani pamenepo ndikutipangitsa kukhala onyada, khalani chilichonse chomwe mungakhale!
LINK - Ulendo wa masiku 100
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