Zaka 24 - Kuda nkhawa ndi anthu kunachepa kwambiri. Kulimba mtima kwambiri. Maganizo anga ali bwino kwambiri. Tsopano ndili ndi chisoni chachikulu

Moni nonse! Uwu ndiye mwayi wanga woyamba pa Reddit. Ndine bambo wa 24yo waku Italiya ndipo ndakhala ndikulimbana ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi P kuyambira zaka zaunyamata. Ndinayamba kuwonera P ndili ndi zaka 11, kuyambira nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndinali ndi intaneti yothamanga kwambiri.

Kuyambira 14 mpaka 20 ndimangovutika nazo

  • kuda nkhawa pang'ono
  • zovuta zolumikizana ndi anthu omwe ndimangoyang'ana P kwa maola pafupifupi 3 patsiku.

Kuyambira ku 21, ndinayamba kuvutika

  • nkhaŵa yochuluka kwambiri yaumphawi ndi kuopsya
  • maganizo
  • kusowa mphamvu ndi cholinga
  • utsi wa ubongo wolemera komanso kusowa maganizo ndi kukumbukira
  • kubweza [depersonalization]
  • Kuyanjana kwa 0 ndi anthu osachepera 0 maganizo
  • Zithunzi zogonana za vanilla zinasinthidwa kukhala zovuta kwambiri
  • wofatsa PIED
  • Kutaya chilakolako ndi kuyembekezera tsogolo
  • osakhudzidwa ndi amayi omwe ndimayang'ana P nthawi yanga yonse yopatula, ngakhale usiku nthawi zina.

Kenako china chake chinasintha muubongo wanga. Tsiku lomaliza la Disembala, ndikuganiza za chaka cham'mbuyomu, ndidazindikira kuti ndili ndi vuto ndi P. Ndidayamba kusaka pa Webusayiti ndipo zotsatira zoyambirira zinali kanema wotchuka wa Gary Wilson.

Zotsatira:

  • Kuyambira Januware mpaka Juni sindinayang'ane P yamtundu uliwonse.

Ndazindikira kusintha kwakukulu kwambiri ndi mavuto onse omwe atchulidwa pamwambapa. Ndinkatengedwa 2 kangapo pamwezi pa nthawiyo.

Kenako, munthawi yovuta kwambiri, ndinabwereranso. Zinali zosiyana kwambiri nthawi ino. Ndinayang'ana zinthu zochepa kwambiri kwakanthawi kochepa. NDINAPEREKA katatu mu Julayi komanso kamodzi mu Ogasiti. Sindinawononge zonse zomwe ndasintha m'miyezi yapitayi, koma sindinakhutire ndi zotsatira.

Kotero, masiku 90 apitawo, ndinayambitsa mzere watsopano, ndipo nthawi ino ndinaganiza zosayang'ana P kapena MO. Ndidzabwezeretsanso MO ndikadzimva wokonzeka. Sindikudziwa ngati mzere woyamba udathandizira kukwaniritsa zabwino zomwe ndapeza m'chiwiri, koma nditatha masiku 90 ndimakhala munthu wosiyana kotheratu.

Ndaona zotsatirazi:

  • Nkhawa yamagulu inachepa kwambiri ndipo ikuchepa tsiku ndi tsiku. Tsopano ndikhoza kulankhula ndi alendo popanda mavuto
  • Ndimakhala wotsimikiza kwambiri ndipo mawu anga ndi amphamvu kwambiri polankhula.
  • Ndili ndi chifundo chachikulu tsopano: Ndikuganiza zambiri za ena komanso zochepa za ine ndekha
  • Ndikuwona kuti ndikufunika kulumikizana ndi anthu ndipo sindikonda kukhala ndekha
  • Maganizo anga ali bwino kwambiri masiku ambiri. Ndimamwetulira komanso ndimakonda kukondweretsa anthu, makamaka atsikana
  • Ndikuchita bwino kwambiri kuntchito
  • Ndili ndi mphamvu zochita zinthu zambiri patsiku
  • ubongo wa ubongo unachepa ndipo ukupitirirabe. Ndikukumbukira bwino.
  • Ndimasangalala kwambiri kuposa kale. Maganizo abwino ndi oipa.

Kuti ndikafike masiku a 90, ndidachita zinthu izi:

  • Ntchito OpenDNS pa rauta ndi K9 Web Filter pamakompyuta kuti mupewe P kunyumba
  • Kuyimitsidwa kugwiritsa ntchito kompyuta kunyumba
  • Momwemo mwatseka masamba ambiri a P pa mafoni a Android omwe amasunga mafoni.
  • Kuchepetsa kugwiritsa ntchito foni
  • Ndinayamba kuvomereza kuyitanidwa ndi abwenzi ndikupita kunyumba tsiku lililonse
  • Werengani gawo ili la reddit (Chifukwa cha aliyense)

Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zithandiza wina. Zikomo powerenga komanso pepani chingerezi changa.

LINK - Masiku 90: Chasintha chiyani?

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ZOCHITIKA - Masiku a 102: Zatsopano!

Ndili pano, patangotha ​​masiku 12 kuchokera pomwe ndidalemba pafupifupi masiku 90. Iyo ndi nthawi yayifupi, koma china chake chodabwitsa kwambiri chachitika kwa ine. Nditayamba ulendowu:

  • Ndinkachita manyazi kwambiri komanso ndinali ndi nkhawa.
  • Sindinkasamala za malingaliro a anthu ena, ndipo pamikhalidwe iliyonse momwe zimakhalira ndimakhala ngati ndimachita.
  • Sindinkalumikizana ndi munthu wina, ndipo ndimamva bwino ndikakhala ndekha mchipinda changa.
  • Sindingathe kupita ku supermarket kapena malo ena onse, chifukwa ndinali ndi mantha.
  • Mtima wanga unali wotsika kwambiri ndipo anthu samakonda kukhala pafupi ndi ine.
  • Nthawi zonse ndimakhala amene sindimalankhula pokambirana pagulu.

Ichi ndiye mbiri yanga. Dzulo, ndinachita chinthu chomwe sindimaganiza kuti ndichotheka.

  • Ndinapita kumsonkhano, ndikulankhula ndi unyinji wa anthu popanda mawu akunjenjemera kapena vuto lina lililonse la nkhawa.
  • Ndauza msungwana wabwino momwe ndikumvera za iye, pamaso pake, ndipo ndanena zowona (adalola kupita ndi ine).

Izi ndi zomwe zidasintha masiku pafupifupi 12.


 

ZOCHITIKA - Miyezi ya 4: Kusintha kwatsopano!

Pambuyo pa miyezi 4 yaulendo wopanda zolaula, ndikutsimikiza kuti ndidasankha bwino kwambiri moyo wanga. Izi ndi zomwe zidandichitikira:

  • Ndili ndi kulimbika mtima kuchita chilichonse chomwe ndili nacho m'malingaliro mwanga. Ndidauza msungwana kuti ndimamukonda, mwachindunji, osaganizira kwambiri. Ndidamuululira zinsinsi zanga zamkati, nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanga.
  • Ndikakhala ndekha m'chipinda changa, ndilibe chochita, ndi foni yam'manja ndi kompyuta pafupi nane, sindimva chidwi chilichonse kwa PMO.
  • Zithunzi zachiwerewere zanthawi yamafilimu sizimandidzutsa, koma kumwetulira kamodzi ndi mtsikana kumatha kundidzutsa.
  • Ndine wokangalika kwambiri ndipo sindikhala kunyumba. Tsopano ndimakonda kutuluka, kukakumana ndi anthu, kupita kulikonse. Ndimangokhala panyumba pokhapokha ndikafunika kugona. Kuda nkhawa kwanga pakati pa anthu kwatha.
  • Ndimakhala ndi mphamvu zambiri kuposa kale ndipo ndimachita zinthu zambiri masana.
  • Ndimapita kukachita masewera olimbitsa thupi pafupifupi tsiku lililonse. Ndataya mapaundi ambiri ndipo ndili bwino pompano.
  • Ndili ndi chidaliro kwambiri ndi anthu makamaka atsikana. Tsopano ndimatha kukopana ndi atsikana omwe ndimawakonda popanda mantha komanso malingaliro omwe ndinali nawo kale. Mtsikana akandikana, ndimamva chisoni kwakanthawi, koma pambuyo pake ndimakhala ndi chidaliro chokwanira kukopa wina.
  • Ndimatha kukhudzana ndi maso, kulumikizana, komanso kuyankhula. Ngakhale kuyankhula pagulu sikundiwopsezanso.
  • Kutopa kwakumatha. Tsopano ndimamva bwino kwambiri, zomwe sindinakhalepo nazo kale.
  • Ndinali wolemba m'mbuyomu, koma pazaka 4 zapitazi ndakhala ndilibe luso. Tsopano, ndimatha kulemba ndakatulo zambiri patsiku ndipo ndimakhala ndi malingaliro ambiri ambiri pachiyambi.

Ndikutsimikiza kuti ndakwaniritsa zoposa izi, koma sindikukumbukira izi pakadali pano. Khalani omasuka kufunsa mafunso aliwonse okhudza ulendo wanga.