Zaka 25 - Anthu samandikhulupirira ndikawauza kuti ndinali ndi vuto lopuwala komanso nkhawa

Ndakhala ndikugwiritsa ntchito dera lino zaka zapitazo (~ 2014-2016), ndipo ndimafuna kuchita AMA iyi kuti ndifotokoze mbiri ya moyo wanga, kulimbikitsa ena, ndikuyankha mafunso aliwonse. Nkhani ngati izi zidandilimbikitsanso tsikulo. Nazi izi.

Kuyambira ndili mwana, ndimakonda kusewera masewera apakanema ndikamaliza sukulu ndikupewa zochitika zonse pagulu. Nthawi zonse kusewera masewera apakanema, ndimatanthauza maola 8 tsiku lililonse. Ndimasewera amakanema onsewa ndimakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, koma sindinazindikire kuti linali vuto. Ndikapita ku koleji, ndimakhala ndi nkhawa yayikulu nthawi ina sindimatha kuyimba foni, kupita kukagula golosale, kapena kutuluka mnyumba yanga osakwiya. Sindinadziwe kuti nkhaniyi ndi yotani koma ndinapitilizabe kugwiritsa ntchito makompyuta / zolaula. Ndinalibe anzanga, sindimalankhula ndi atsikana, ndipo sindinadziwe tanthauzo la kukhala wosangalala. Ndidali ndi malingaliro osazindikira kwenikweni padziko lapansi, sindinathe kuyimilira zikhulupiriro zanga, ndipo ndimakhala ndi nkhawa nthawi zonse.

Mnzanga adandiwonetsa kanema wa Ted Talks pa zolaula ndipo ndidayamba kusintha zizolowezi zanga zakale komanso kuti ndine ndani. Ndinadziwa kuti ichi ndiye chomwe chimayambitsa mavuto anga. Ndinkamvetsetsa kuti ndimakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula komanso kugwiritsa ntchito makompyuta chifukwa cha zovuta zaubwana zomwe sindinazindikire kapena kukumana nazo. Ndidalandilidwa kwambiri chifukwa chakukula kwathu chifukwa cha mtundu wanga kuchokera kwa aphunzitsi ochepa komanso ophunzira anzanga, sindinatenge nthawi yopanga maluso ochezera, komanso sindinadzidalire kapena kuzindikira kuti ndine munthu wogonana. Ndinkadziona ngati munthu wachiwiri.

Ndinasiya zolaula ndipo ndinkachita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Posiya, ndikutanthauza kuti ndinazindikira kuti linali vuto ndipo ndimamvetsetsa nthawi iliyonse yomwe ndimayang'ana ndimapweteka malingaliro anga. Uwu unali ulendo wautali wokha. Ndinalankhula ndi mtsikana woyamba ZONSE m'moyo wanga ndili ndi zaka 20. Mwa kuyankhula, ndimatanthauza kuti ndimalankhula zenizeni. Sindinayambe ndayankhulapo kapena kupeza nambala ya atsikana zisanachitike. Zinthu zinasokonekera. Atsikana angapo otsatira zinthu zinasokonekanso. Koma ndidaphunzira. Ulendo wanga wochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi udachoka pagulu loyipa, mpaka kudula, kuzindikira zolakwika ndi zakudya. Koma ndinaphunziranso. Ndinasokoneza zinthu zina zambiri koma ndidaphunzira

Posachedwa chaka cha 5 +, ndine wokondwa kwambiri ndi komwe ndili m'moyo, ntchito yanga, komanso inenso monga munthu. Sindingathe kuzindikira munthu yemwe ndinali zaka 5+ zapitazo. Amandiwona ngati munthu wopitilira muyeso komanso wachimwemwe, ndipo anthu samandikhulupirira ndikawauza kuti ndinali ndi vuto lopanikizika ndi nkhawa mpaka kufa ziwalo. Ndine wabwino kwambiri m'moyo wanga, ndipo anthu amakhulupirira kuti ndakhala ndikukongola komanso wokondwa kwambiri. Ndili ndi abwenzi akazi osawerengeka, chibwenzi, ndi abwenzi ambiri achimuna, pomwe kale ndinalibe anzanga ndipo sindinayankhulepo ndi atsikana.

Ndine munthu wachifundo kwambiri kwa ena (kapena mwina ndikuganiza choncho) ndipo ndimalumikiza ndikumvetsetsa anthu mosavuta. Ndikulimbanabe ndi nkhawa pang'ono koma kulibe monga kale.

Sindikunena kuti nofap ndiye yankho pamavuto anu, koma ndikukhulupirira pali zolimbikitsa zambiri komanso mitundu ya achinyamata omwe athawa komanso achichepere amachita osazindikira zovuta zake zazikulu.

Nditha kulowa mwatsatanetsatane koma ndikufuna kuthokoza anthu amtundu wa youtube komanso gulu la nofap ndi chithandizo changa.

LINK - AMA - Wina amene adasintha moyo wawo kwambiri ndikupereka ndalama ku Nofap. Kulepheretsa Kuda nkhawa ndi Kukhumudwa Kukhala Wosangalala

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