Chifukwa chake ndimakhala ndi zolaula za miyezi 6 (ndikuchita maliseche koma osati zolaula). Ndine 25 (m) ndipo ndinayamba kuonera zolaula ndili ndi zaka 11. Ndinkakonda zolaula tsiku lililonse kuyambira 11 mpaka zaka 19. Kuyambira zaka za 19-24 ndidazindikira kuti ndinali ndi zovuta zina za PIED ndikuyesera kudziwa zomwe ndikuletsa ndikuchepetsa zolaula. Ndinaganiza zosiya miyezi 6 yapitayo.
Ndiye ndikumva bwanji? Kunena zowona sindimamva kuti ndine wosiyana kwambiri. Ndimakhala wodekha, wosafanana ndi galu wankhanza, ndipo ndimakhala ndi nthawi yosavuta kuyang'anitsitsa. Ndikumva kuti ndikuwongolera moyo wanga komanso zokhumba zanga. Ndimaseka kwambiri. Koma moona mtima, sizosiyana kwambiri. Zimakhala zovuta kuzindikira zabwino chifukwa zakhala zikuchitika kuyambira pomwe ndidawonera zolaula. Koma ine ndiridi wabwinoko kuposa momwe ndinali.
Kuchepetsa zolaula kunandivuta ndikamakula chifukwa ndakhala ndikugonana kuyambira 18. Zolaula zidachoka pang'onopang'ono m'moyo wanga pomwe ndimagonana kwambiri ndi akazi. Ndili ndi zolaula za miyezi 6 ndipo sindinazizindikire mpaka usikuuno.
Panali nthawi zambiri zokhumudwitsa ndi zovuta zanga za ED pazaka zambiri, komabe ndinazindikira kuti zolaula sizinali chifukwa cha onse.
Chifukwa chachikulu cha zovuta zanga za ED chinali kukhala ndi maimidwe usiku umodzi ndikuyembekeza kuchita ngati Johnny Sins pomwe ndidakumana ndi mtsikanayo ndipo sindimakhala bwino naye. Ndinaphunzira kutenga zinthu pang'onopang'ono ndi mtsikanayo ndipo ndinaphunzira kufotokozera zokhumba zanga ndi anzanga / mosemphanitsa.
Ndazindikira kuti chilakolako changa chawonjezeka. Ndinazindikiranso kuti zizolowezi zina zomwe ndili nazo (kutulutsa nikotini, kusuta udzu) zakhala zosavuta kuthana ndikuziletsa nditasiya zolaula.
Kuda nkhawa ndi anthu kulibe ndipo nditha kunena kuti ndikuchepetsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, koma makamaka koma osati kwathunthu.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zazikulu zomwe ndazindikira ndikuti ndili ndi "mutu waukulu" mwakuti ubongo wanga sunadzazidwe ndi zithunzi zodwala zogonana za akazi. Maganizo anga amakhala ndi zambiri osati kungogonana. Ndili ndi malingaliro achilengedwe komanso okhazikika pa moyo wanga komanso wa anthu omwe ndimakhala nawo pafupi. Ndine womasuka kuti ndipeze zokumana nazo ndikuwona njira yanga yamoyo momveka bwino.
Ndikumva ngati chisoni changa chawonjezeka komanso kuti ndimakhala ochezeka komanso aulemu.
Chachikulu kwambiri chomwe ndazindikira ndikuti… nditha kudzutsidwa mosavuta ngati wina wokongola ali patsogolo panga. Mwachitsanzo, ndisanasiye zolaula, ngati azimayi anali amaliseche pabedi langa akutambasula miyendo yawo, sindingathe kukonzekera. Tsopano, ngati ndikulankhula ndi mkazi wokongola kugolosale, ndimatha kukopeka mosavuta ndi chinthu chosavuta, monga kumwetulira kwake, kapena miyendo yake. Kuyendetsa kugonana kwanga sikunatsike konse. Ndimathamangirabe kugonana ndipo ndimakondabe kwambiri. Ndimangotsegulidwa ndi zinthu zosavuta kuposa kale. Monga ngati ndimawona ma boobs, tsopano ndimamvanso ngati mwana. Ndikayang'ana zolaula, ndikawona ma boobs, ndimakhala ngati "meh".
Ndikumva kulumikizana kwambiri ndi akazi omwe ndimawawona. Ndimakonda kwambiri kuyankhula, kupha nthawi, kapena kukumbatirana m'malo molumphira mu buluku lake. "Galu wankhanza wolusa" akadalipo, koma adakhalapo ndipo amangotuluka nthawi yoyenera. Izi zitha kungokhala kuti ndikukula ndikukula, komabe.
Ma Flatline ndi enieni! Ndidadutsa ambiri, ndipo ndimachitabe nthawi ndi nthawi. Moyo nthawi zonse umakhala bwinoko pambuyo pogona ... ngati mukukumana nawo, khalani momwemo.
Ndikumva kuti "ndikukhazikitsanso" ndipo ndikumva kuti ndikulimbikitsidwa, koma ndikumvanso ngati pali ntchito yambiri yoti tichite. Moyo susiya kusuntha, ulendowu sutha. Palibe chomwe chingakhutiritse moyo wamunthu kukhala chisangalalo chokwaniritsidwa. Nthawi zonse timapita patsogolo, ndipo ntchito yanga sinamalize. Tengani zinthu tsiku ndi tsiku.
Ndili ndi mwayi chifukwa sindinkakonda zolaula. Ndikuganiza kuti magwiritsidwe anga anali ofanana kwambiri poyerekeza ndi amuna ambiri. Komabe, pali zosintha zambiri zabwino. Ndipo sindingathe kudikirira zina. Zabwino zonse.
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