Tikufuna kugawana nkhani yopambana ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zimalimbikitsa ena a inu. Pambuyo pazaka 10+ zakumwa kwambiri kwa PMO ndi PIED, nditha kunena kuti ndachiritsidwa pambuyo pa mwezi umodzi wokha wa nofap.
Chiyambi chaching'ono pa ine, ndakhala ndikuyesera nofap kwa miyezi pafupifupi 8 ndi mwezi wopitilira mwezi ngati chingwe changa chotalika kwambiri. Ndinavutika ndi chizolowezi cha PMO kuyambira ndili wachinyamata ndipo ndili ndi zaka 27. Ndakhala ndi PIED pachibwenzi chilichonse chomwe ndakhala ndikulimbikitsanso Kuda nkhawa Kwambiri. Ndagula zovuta kuti ndithandizire izi poyamba koma sizinathandize zomwe zinandipangitsa kupeza za nofap ndi pied.
Kwa ine, gawo lovuta kwambiri kudutsa nofap ndipamene ndimakhala wowopsa kwambiri ndipo sindikuwona aliyense. Malingaliro anga amandiuza "ingochitani, zikuyenera kukhala milungu ingapo mpaka mudzakhale ndi mwayi wogonana popeza simukuwona aliyense". Izi zimachitika mobwerezabwereza paulendo wanga wonse mpaka nditakumana ndi bwenzi langa latsopanoli.
Tinali ndi tsiku lathu loyamba mwezi wopitilira ndipo ine PMO'd usiku watha. Tsiku lathu loyamba linatha kupitilira maola 12 pomwe tinakumana pachakudya cham'mawa ndipo tinadziwa kuti pali china chapadera za iye. Ndili ndi chizolowezi chomangokhalira kumwa mankhwalawa, ndidamaliza PMOing pambuyo poti tili ndi chibwenzi masiku awiri patadutsa masiku ochepa, ndipo ndidakumanabe ndi PM mpaka m'mawa wa tsiku lathu la 5th.
Tsiku la 5th lidali pomwe tidayamba kuyesa kugonana ndipo ndidalephera kuvutanso. Panthawiyo ndinazindikira kuti izi zinali zovuta kwambiri ndipo ndikhoza kutaya chikondi chomwe ndingakhale nacho pamoyo wanga (ndadutsa masiku mazana ambiri ndipo sindinamve kulumikizana mwamphamvu za wina kale). Anandilimbikitsa nati tidzayesanso, koma anatchulanso zakugonana ndikofunikira kwambiri kwa iye pachibwenzi motero zachidziwikire kuti izi sizingachitike. Tsiku limenelo linali pafupi masabata a 3 apitawo ndipo sindinakhalepo ndi chidwi chofuna kuyang'ana kapena kuchita nawo PMO kuyambira pano.
Titalephera patsiku lachisanu, tidatha kuwonana tsiku la 6 ndi 7 tisanayesenso kugonana pa tsiku la 8 (pafupifupi milungu iwiri yapitayo). Kugonana uku kunali kopambana ndipo anali wokondwa ndimagwiridwe anga. Ndili ndi vuto linalake kotero ndinazitengapo kale kuti ndithandizire misempha yanga, koma takhala tikugonana kangapo popanda izi ndipo ndikonzekera kuthana nawo kwathunthu kuti ubongo wanga usamve ngati ukufunika.
Magazini yokhayo yomwe ndili nayo tsopano ndimakhala motalika kwambiri ndisanathe O, koma moona mtima ndine wokondwa kuti ndimatha kulimbikira ndi barele wake yemwe akundigwira tsopano ndikusunga choncho. Nthawi zingapo takhala tikugonana motalika kwambiri kotero kuti samatha kupitanso pambuyo pokhala ndi ziphuphu zingapo ndipo sindinathe kumaliza ngakhale tayandikira. Ndinali wokhumudwa ndekha koma mwamwayi ndinalibe mipira ya buluu yoyipa kwambiri ndipo zidandipangitsa kukhala wowopsa komanso wokondwa kuyesanso naye. Sindinkafunanso kukhala ndi chidwi ndi PMO ndipo malingaliro omwe ndinali nawo amangopita kwa iye.
Chosangalatsa ndichakuti nthawi zina safuna kugonana chifukwa ndimakhala motalika kwambiri ndipo amayamba kupweteka, koma usiku watha tinayesanso ndipo ndinatha kumaliza mozungulira mphindi 10-15 motsutsana ndi 60-120 yanga yanthawi zonse mphindi zomwe zimatenga. Ndikuganiza chomwe chimandithandiza ndikumakhala womasuka kwambiri ndikakhala naye tsopano ndikukhala bwino / kudziwa zomwe tonsefe timakonda.
Cholemba chammbali pazonsezi ndi momwe amandiwuza nthawi zonse momwe ndimafananira ndi anyamata ena. Moyo wanga wonse ndimaganiza kuti ndinali wochepa kwambiri ndipo atsikana sanandiuzepo kuti ndine wamkulu kapena chilichonse. Ndikudziwa kuti nofap yandipangitsa kukhala ndi zosintha zazikulu monga ndidayesera m'mbuyomu komanso pambuyo pa nofap ndikuwona kukula kwakukula kwa inchi imodzi m'machitidwe anga. Komabe amalimbikira kuti sakungoyesera kuchita zabwino ndipo ndiyenera kuzichedwa pang'onopang'ono nthawi zina. Anadabwa nditamuuza momwe atsikana ena sanandiuze izi, koma ndikuganiza izi ndichifukwa ndikudutsa nofap yomwe ndidamuuza (ngakhale sindinafotokozere mwatsatanetsatane). Ndimangonena izi chifukwa ndikuganiza kuti anyamata amadzilimbitsa okha kukula kwawo ndikuganiza kuti ndi ochepa koma mutha kudabwa.
Nkhani yayifupi, pomwe nofap ndiulendo wautali ndipo ungatenge nthawi yayitali kwa ena kuposa ena, kupambana kumatha kuchitika mwachangu kuposa momwe mumaganizira mukapeza munthu woyenera kukhala naye. Zabwino zonse kunjaku!
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