Ndikufuna kugawana zomwe zandichitikira pa NoFap - Monk mode.
Ndinathamanga ngati kuyesa. Ndinazichita kwa masabata a 2 kenako ndikubwereranso nthawi yokwanira kutulutsa dongosolo langa lonse. Zinatenga pafupifupi nthawi 12 kuti zitulutse zonse (ndikudziwa, lol). Kuchita izi ndinadziphunzitsa ndekha kuchuluka kwa mphamvu zanthawi imeneyo. Komanso ndinawona kusintha kwakuthupi momveka bwino, zomwe zidalimbikitsa chikhulupiriro changa mmoyo uno. Izi zidandiwonetsanso kuti mukabwereranso kamodzi, ndiye kuti simutaya katundu wanu yense, komabe mumataya kwambiri pakubwereranso koyamba. Izi zithetsa kupita patsogolo, koma osati zonse. Komabe, tsopano ndikupangira kuti musabwererenso, ngati zingatheke.
Ndapeza chinsinsi ndi Kusunga. Ngati muli ndi chibwenzi ndikugonana tsiku lililonse popanda PMO, sindikuganiza kuti mudzapinduladi. Sitikunena zakusintha kwamaganizidwe pano, monga "Lekani kuonera zolaula" zingakupatseni. Mwa kukusungani mumakhala chinthu china, mwathupi (palibe chochita ndi momwe mumaganizira kapena momwe mumamvera). Ndinali sabata limodzi ndipo china chake chinadzuka mwa ine. Ndinaitcha chinjoka mkati. Ndi mtundu wa chitsogozo chauzimu chomwe chimakuthandizani, kudzera mwa inu. Palibe amene ayenera kuyesa F naye. "Kukhala" uyu akuyimira lingaliro la "Alfa".
Pa izi ndidawona kuti nkhani yonse ndiyosavuta. Mukamaliza nthawi yonseyi, mumatsitsa dongosolo lanu. Mukakhala opanda kanthu mulibe Mphamvu (umuna ndimphamvu zowonjezera). Mukakhala opanda kanthu mumakhala achikazi kwambiri, chifukwa mphamvu zanu zachimuna zamasulidwa. Mukamakhalabe ndi zambiri, mumakhala amuna a Alfa ndipo, mukakhala opanda kanthu, mumakhala Amuna a Beta. Akazi amakopeka ndi amuna a Alfa, ndichifukwa chake kukopa kwa akazi kumakwera.
Ndidaziwona izi pantchito yanga. Pakati pa sabata 1 ndi 2, azimayi awiri omwe anali muofesi amangokhalira kupempha thandizo langa ndi upangiri wanga. Pafupifupi ndinaloweza. Dziwani kuti sindinayese kuchita chilichonse, kunali kuyankha kwadzidzidzi. Ichi ndiye chinthu chabwino paulendowu. Mutha kuchita monk modelo ndikungokhala, kudikira zabwino zomwe zingabwere. Lero ndibwerera tsiku 1 ndipo mkazi muofesiyo amandinyalanyaza tsopano, kupenga bwanji, haha.
TBH, maubwenzi onse ndi anthu amasintha, ngakhale amuna nawonso. Panali nthawi yomwe ndimaganiza pambuyo pa sabata 1 pomwe amuna amandipatsa phewa lozizira, koma kumapeto kwa sabata 2, zimawoneka ngati aliyense anali ndikudzidalira. Ndinali ndi "mawu" omwewo pakulumikizana kulikonse kwa anthu. Palibe chomwe chingathetse vuto ili. ” Kutanthauza, nthawi iliyonse yomwe ndimalankhula mosalala, wodalirika, wodekha. Nditha kuwona momwe munthu aliyense amasangalalira ndikupezeka kwanga. Popanda ngakhale kunena mawu, anthu amakuchitirani kale mosiyana. Izi zikuwonetsa kuti akumva mphamvu yanu.
Ndinkamva ngati mtsogoleri wa amuna.
Zinayambira pafupifupi masiku 5-8, pomwe kusintha kwakuthupi kudachitika. Pafupifupi ndimamva ngati, ndimaganiza kuti mayi wapakati angamve. Umuna wanga unali ana anga omwe ndimayenera kuwateteza, kufikira nditatha kuwapatsa wamkazi, omwe amayeneranso. Mumasiya kuyang'ana mkazi, ambiri amati ndi chifukwa choti musiye kuonera zolaula, koma kwa ine zidawoneka ngati kusintha kwakasungidwe kake kwandipangitsa kuti ndiwawone mosiyana. Nthawi zonse ndimayang'ana Beubz ndi @ss, koma posungira ndimamuwona maso, khungu, khomo la phewa. Mwanjira ina, ulemu kwambiri kwa iwo.
Uwu ndiye moyo wachinsinsi, wobisika kwa ife, mwina ndi anthu. Popeza kutisunga amuna a Beta, kufalitsa mbewu kumawapatsa mphamvu. Chifukwa chake timayenda pang'onopang'ono, mwamphamvu koma modekha. Kuphatikiza apo, ndinadzipeza ndekha ndikukonda moyo, ndimakhala ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi kawiri kawiri ndikukhala munthu amene ndikufuna kukhala. Zimachotsa kukhumudwa, kuda nkhawa komanso zovuta, zimakupangitsani kuti mukhale olimba komanso otengeka kwambiri (ndicholinga). Komanso pamene ndimakhala Alfa, ndimatha kuyamba kuwona bwino amuna achi Beta. Yemwe Amakula ndikukhala ndi mphamvu zochepa. Ndidawawona kuti nthawi zonse amakhala okhumudwa, omvetsa chisoni, okonda kudzionetsera, akuyesera kutsimikizira kuti iwonso ndi Alfas, komabe ndizachisoni kuti akudzitchinjiriza. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake IMO idapangidwa. Amuna a Beta akuyesera kukakamiza kupita ku Alfa kudzera modzikweza.
Zimakupangitsanso kuti mukhale wauzimu kwambiri. Ntchito yonse yosunga ili ngati kukwera phiri, ulendo wopereka ulemu. Chinthu china chodabwitsa ndikuti ndidayamba kuwona "Kusungidwa kwa Mission" kumagwirizana ndi nkhani zambiri zamoyo. Kutanthauza, ngati nditenga zokambirana kuchokera mu kanema kapena nkhani yolembedwa zimawoneka kuti zikukhudzana ndi "ulendo wanga wosungira". Monga kuphimba kwa nkhani yayikulu pakati pa Mulungu ndi mphamvu zake zolengedwa. Kumanga kapena kutaya.
Tsopano ndikupita kwa masiku 90 amonke. Ngati zitatha ine ndine munthu amene ndinasintha kwambiri, ndidzaziphatikiza ndi moyo wanga kufikira nditafa. (mwina zitero, popeza ndikudziwa kuti izi ndi zenizeni.)
LINK - Njira Ya Monk Gawo 3 - Masiku 150
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