Akuluakulu amilandu yonse ndidapeza tsamba ili chaka chatha ndipo ndidachita chidwi koma sindinalembe, nditatha masiku ena a 13 kutuluka chaka cha 1 kuchokera ku zolaula, kuseweretsa maliseche, kudzikhuthula ndi kugonana. Ndinaganiza kuti nditha kugawana nawo nkhani yanga ndikuyembekeza kuthandiza ena atsopano. Ndingogawana zabwino zomwe ndapeza pochita izi, masiku oyambira sizinali zophweka anali ndimalingaliro azakugonana komanso mayesero ambiri. Sindikudziwa ngati izi zidakhala zosavuta kwa ine kukhala wachikulire ku 41 koma ndikuganiza kuti ngati mukuwona momwe izi zikuyendetsere moyo wanu mumalolera kusintha.
Ndiye nayi maubwino ..
1. Zowongolera chidwi ndi chidwi.
Monga malingaliro ogonana
Kupulumutsidwa ndidapezeka kuti ndimatha kuyang'ana kwambiri pazomwe ndimachita panthawiyo. Gwira ntchito, kusangalatsa anthu, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Ndinkangowoneka wopezeka.
2. Pafupifupi anathetsa nkhawa zonse komanso kukhumudwa.
Pakadali pano ndachiritsidwa kwambiri nkhawa zakumunthu. Zili ngati ndikudziwa bwino momwe ndingakhalire mosagwirizana tsopano osaganiza kawiri za izi.
Zimangochitika mwachilengedwe.
3. Akazi okongola kwambiri amandiwona pafupipafupi.
Ndili ndi mawonekedwe ambiri kuchokera kwa akazi okongola omwe adawonekera masiku ano. Sikuti akungondithamangitsa ndikupempha nambala yanga kapena chilichonse koma ndikuzindikira zochulukira
4. Chilankhulo champhamvu
Maimidwe anga akhala bwino kwambiri chaka chapitachi, ndikuyimirira mosadukiza, osagona pampando wanga, ndikamalankhula ndi manja, mapewa kumbuyo, mutu mmwamba, ndikulankhula ndi mawu olimba ndikutha kuyang'ana anthu pamaso wopanda mantha.
5. Kupititsa patsogolo chidwi ndi masewera othamanga.
Nthawi zambiri ndimkaopa kupita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi. Tsopano ndikulakalaka, osati kutchingira zitsulo koma ndimatha kukhala paulendo wautali kwa nthawi yayitali ndikuyenda mwachangu komanso kuthamanga kwambiri kuposa kale.
6. Kupanga zisankho zabwino
Poyamba ndinali wokayikakayika, sindinathe kudziwa zoyenera kuchita ndi nthawi yanji
Izi zathetsedwa
7. Kuphatikiza kwa uzimu kwabwinoko
Zakale komanso zamtsogolo zinali zanga panthawi yomwe ndimapanga. Kuyima kwandipangitsa kuti ndizitha kukhala bwino munthawiyo komanso kukhalapo. Ingomva wolumikizidwa kwambiri ndi anthu ena komanso chilengedwe chonse.
8. Ulemu wina
Tangoona kuti anthu akundichitira ulemu wophatikiza, zitha kutengera kuti chilankhulo cha thupi langa chikhala bwino.
9. Onani aliyense kukhala wofanana
M'mbuyomu ndikulipiritsa ndimawawerengera akazi pongowoneka, ndipo mwina anali abwino kwambiri kwa iwo kapena osakwanira. Ndidali ndekhandekha komanso osiyana ndi ena. Tsopano sindimaweruza potengera maonekedwe akunja.
10. Kuchulukirachulukira
Ndikumva bwino kwambiri kuti ndizitha kudya moyenera komanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndikungodzilimbitsa mtima momwe ndingaganizire.
Pamwamba pamutu panga izi ndi zomwe ndingaganizire pano. Komabe ndikuganiza kuti kusiya zolaula komanso kuseweretsa maliseche kungasinthe kwambiri moyo wa aliyense amene akufuna kudzipereka. Zinandisinthiratu kukhala munthu wosiyananso. Zabwino zonse pamaulendo anu onse. Mafunso kapena ndemanga iliyonse ndidziwitseni.
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