Choyamba, ndikupepesa chifukwa chochedwa kuyankha. Ndikudziwa kuti sindine membala wachangu pamsonkhanowu (kapena wina aliyense), koma anthu pano andithandiza kwambiri, ndipo ndikufuna ndibwezerenso. Izi zati, ndiyesetsa kupanga izi pang'ono.
BWINO.
Mwamuna wazaka 45 wazaka 30 wazolowera zolaula zolaula tsiku lililonse kumbuyo kwanga, kuphatikiza kukongoletsa, kuseweretsa maliseche, zopatuka zachilendo komanso zikhalidwe zonse zomwe zili pamsonkhanowu ndizoyipa komanso zoyipa. Wokhumudwa, wofuna kudzipha, wosadziwa kucheza ndi anthu komanso wosagwira ntchito ndi akazi enieni. Mlandu wotayika wokhala ndi ma dopamine receptors wotenthedwa ndikuphwanyidwa ndi zolaula zaka makumi atatu. Ngati wina akufuna zambiri, mutha kutsatira izi: https://forum.rebootnation.org/index.php?threads/19576/
KULINGALIRA.
Uku ndi kuyesa kwanga kwachitatu, ndili pa tsiku la 108th. Ndikuganiza kuti ndiyenera kutchula mfundoyi, chifukwa ndalephera kawiri kale, ndipo chiyembekezo chilipo. Pambuyo polephera kwanga koyamba kawiri, ndidasanthula zomwe zimayambitsa, ndikuyesera kuphunzira kena kake. Zachisoni, ndidapeza kuti ... moyo wanga umayamwa. Ndinali wonenepa komanso wosakwanira kucheza ndi anthu, ndimakhala kudziko lina makilomita 3000 kuchokera kwa anzanga atatu okha, ndipo ndinali mgulu laukwati wosagwirizana komanso wogonana. Zolakalaka zolaula zinali kuyesa kupanga zonsezi, ndiye kuti palibe chifukwa chothetsera vutoli ngati nyumbayo itagwa.
Chifukwa chake, ndikupezerapo mwayi poyambiranso, ndayesetsa kumanganso moyo wanga ndikusintha kukhala wabwino. Pambuyo masiku 45 mu "monk mode" (kuchotsa ngakhale zolaula kapena malingaliro olakwika), ndapeza kuti ndili ndi mphamvu zachitsulo, ndipo ndagwiritsa ntchito mwayiwu kuti ndilowe nawo masewera olimbitsa thupi. Ndadzikakamiza kupita masiku ONSE. Mosiyana ndi zomwe ndimaganiza, mphamvu yanga ndiyokwera kwambiri (ngakhale imasinthasintha pang'ono, ndipo milungu ingapo ndi "yabwinobwino"), ndipo nditatha m'mawa wotopetsa ku malo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndimatha kugwira ntchito maola 8 ndikutuluka watsopano, miyezi 4 yapitayo ndinali nditatopa NDisanapite kuntchito.
Ndinkakonda kusewera masewera apakompyuta, vuto lodziwika bwino pakati pa anthu omwe ali ndi vuto losokoneza bongo (Inde, ndili ndi mavuto ambiri. Kodi ndidanena kuti inali mlandu wotayika?). Ngati ndingathe kuthana ndi zolaula, ndimaganiza kuti ndithanso kuthana ndi vutoli, chifukwa kuyambira tsiku 60 ndasiya masewera apakompyuta. Ndikupita tsiku 48 popanda masewera, ndipo ndazindikira kuti ngakhale nkhawa zanga zatha (zomwe zili zabwino zokha), zokolola zanga zakula kwambiri. Tsopano ndimathera maola mazana onsewo poyambitsa bizinesi yanga (chidwi cha moyo wanga) komanso pakusintha Chijeremani changa. Sindinakhalepo wopambana m'moyo wanga, ndipo malingaliro anga asintha kwambiri. Masiku ena ndimangomva ... wokondwa. Pachifukwa ichi chokha, ulendowu wakhala wopindulitsa kale.
NKHANI ZA KUGONANA.
Ili ndiye gawo lovuta kwambiri. Pambuyo pa masabata angapo oyambilira, komanso poyambiranso, libido yanga yagwera pafupifupi 0. Ndikudziwa kuti kutuluka mu "mzere wolimba" nthawi zina kumafuna kuyambiranso, ndikuyanjana ndi anyamata, koma kwa ine , Ndikukumana ndi mavuto awiri:
Ndine wosasangalala ndi mkazi wamwamuna yemwe ndimagonana naye ndipo ndimakhala kudziko lina. Njira yanga yokhayo yogonana ndi mahule. Tikulankhula zakugonana kozizira komanso kopanda vuto, popanda nthawi yowonera komanso osalumikizana ndi gawo lina (omwe amangofuna kutenga ndalama zanu kuti akutulutseni). Osati njira yabwino kwambiri yobwezeretsanso.
Ndimaopa kugonana. Ndizovuta kuvomereza, koma kuchokera kwa amayi anga (omwe adandimenya ndili mwana) mpaka kwa mkazi wanga wapano, azimayi onse m'moyo wanga andichititsa manyazi, kundiseka kapena kundigwiritsa ntchito. Ndilibe zochitika zabwino zapitazo zokhudzana ndi kugonana, kapena kungokhala ndi akazi, koma m'malo mwake ndili ndi zoyipa zambiri. Mlandu wolimba, ha?
Ngakhale zili choncho, ndasankha kukhala munthu wabwino, ndikukumana ndi mavuto ngati bambo, m'malo mozipewa. Pa tsiku la 101 ndinapita kunyumba yachigololo… ndipo sindinakhalepo ndi mtsikana aliyense, chifukwa cha mantha. Ndakhala ndikutha kuyankhula nawo mwachilengedwe komanso mopanda mantha, nkhawa zanga zokhudzana ndi chikhalidwe changa zatha, koma ... sindinayerekeze kupita ndi chilichonse. Zachisoni ndikulephera, ndabwereranso tsiku la 101 (Ndipo inde, mfundoyi ndiyofunikira).
Kutsimikiza mtima kuthana ndi vuto langali, ndinayesanso tsiku la 106th. Maganizo anga anali chabe mantha. Zomwe ndimafuna ndikutuluka, koma ndinadzikakamiza kukwera ndi mtsikana, ndikugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zanga kudzikakamiza kuti ndichite zomwe sindimafuna kuchita panthawiyo, koma ndikadandaula kuti sindidzachita yesani.
Zotsatira zake zakhala kuchita bwino kwamaluso (zachilendo, sichoncho?). Pambuyo pa miniti 1 yakukondoweza, ndakwanitsa kulowa mokwanira, ndikulimba kwa 100%. Pambuyo pa mphindi 5, ndadwala msanga msanga, vuto lomwe obwezeretsanso ena adakumana nalo kale, kotero izi sizinali zosayembekezereka, makamaka patapita nthawi yayitali. Sindinasangalale ndi mchitidwewu, zikuwoneka ngati zozizira, zopanda kanthu komanso zamakina. Sindinakopeke ndi mnzanga (ngakhale anali ndi thupi labwino kwambiri), ndipo ndimayenera kudzisangalatsa ndikulimbikitsa. Sizotsatira zabwino kwambiri, koma sizinali zabwino kwambiri, ndipo mulimonsemo, kulowerera kumakhala kopambana. PIED adachiritsidwa.
MAFUNSO.
Mwachidule. Pambuyo masiku 106:
* Ndasiya kugwiritsa ntchito masewera apakanema. Zokolola zanga ndizazikulu.
* Ndakhala ndikupita kumalo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndipo ndalimbitsa thupi langa kwambiri. Ngakhale ndili ndi zaka 20 sindinakhale woyenera motero. Izi zimathandiza LOTI ndikakhala wamaliseche pamaso pa mtsikana, thupi langa ndiloti ligwire ntchitoyi.
* Ndayamba kudzidalira, ndipo ndathetsa nkhawa zanga. Ndidasiya maphunziro a sayansi chifukwa cholephera komanso mantha olankhula pagulu. Masabata awiri apitawo ndidachita manyazi woperekera chakudya pamaso pa anthu 60 omwe amayesa kutipusitsa, sabata yapitayo ndimayankhula ndi azimayi atatu osavala nthawi imodzi. Ndilibe nkhawa zamagulu.
* Ndachiritsa PIED yanga. Zinthu sizabwino kwenikweni, monga ndanenera, koma ndakwanitsa kulowa m'masiku ochepa pambuyo pobwereranso (ZOFUNIKIRA: Kwa onse omwe amawerenga izi: kubwereranso kwina, sikuti ndi hecatomb. Ambiri amabwereranso. Ngati mwakhala oyera kwa miyezi itatu, kukhala ndi slip sikubwezeretsanso kauntala, ndikulankhula zondichitikira). Ndikuganiza kuti ndi koyambirira kuti tikambirane za kuchira kwathunthu, koma tikulankhula za miyezi 3 yokha… motsutsana ndi zaka 30 zolaula zolaula.
* Ndine wokondwa kwambiri. Ndikumva ngati munthu watsopano. Ndimayang'ana kumbuyo ndipo sindikumvetsa momwe ndikadakhalira chonchi. Izi zokha zapangitsa kuti ulendowu ukhale wopindulitsa.
Ndipo ndizo zonse, pakadali pano. Ndipitiliza kwakanthawi pamsonkhano, ndipo ndidzakhala wokondwa kuyankha mafunso aliwonse. Ngati mlandu woipa ngati wanga upita patsogolo ... aliyense angathe.
pomwe:
Ndimamva "kukhala wosangalala" ambiri. Mphamvu zanga ndizokwera kwambiri. Nditha kupita pafupifupi tsiku lililonse kumalo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi NDIPO ndikagwire ntchito zikadzatha, ndipo ndidzakhalabe watsopano kumapeto kwa tsiku. Ndasiya kusewera makanema apa vidiyo, ndipo zomwe ndimachita ndi zodabwitsa. Sindilinso ndi nkhawa zilizonse, ndipo sindiopa kuyankhula ndi wina aliyense kapena gulu la anthu.
Mbali yokhayo yomwe sindimamva kuti "ndachiritsidwa" ndiyo gawo logonana. Libido yanga ndiyotsika, kuyambira nthawi yayitali. Nditha ngakhale kugonana (miyezi 4 yapitayo zomwe zinali zosatheka), koma ndimaona ngati pang'ono… mokakamizidwa, ndipo sindisangalala nazo. Ndikuganiza kuti ndidzafunika nthawi yochulukirapo, anthu ena amafotokoza zabwino zambiri pambuyo pa mwezi wa 6 kapena apo. Posachedwa ndidayambanso kulakalaka zolaula, koma sindikubwereranso momwemo, maubwino omwe atchulidwa pamwambapa amapitilira zomwe ndikupeza ndi zolaula. Ah, ndidaiwala izi: nditabwereranso kumapeto kwa tsiku la 101, ndidataya mphamvu zanga zonse, chisangalalo komanso chidwi chamasiku opitilira 2-3, sindikufunanso kumva chisoni. Khalani kutali ndi zolaula, ndizolimba momwe mukuganizira!
LINK - Chovuta, chotayika. Atapambana pambuyo masiku 106.
Wolemba - Strecker
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