Ndasiya kuchita zolaula komanso kufuna kudziwa zolaula pafupifupi chaka chimodzi ndi theka zapitazo. Ndili ndi zifuniro z zero kapena zokhumba kuti ndiziwonera zolaula kapena zolimbikitsa zilizonse pa intaneti. Ndasiya kufuna kuonera zolaula zakale kwambiri. Ndili ndi chibwenzi pano ndipo timapanga chikondi, ndipo mkulu ndimamva ndikupanga chikondi ndikulumikizana ndi iye ndi 1,000x bwino kuposa kuthana ndi zolaula kapena popanda porn komanso.
Sindinaganize zolembapo chinthu chopambana. Ndasiya kugwiritsa ntchito mabwalo onse kalekale, koma mnzanga wina atandiuza kuti "Hei ndikuganiza zosiya zolaula" zidandipangitsa kuganiza momwe ndidasankhira kusiya kalekale ndikupanga chisankho changa ndichinsinsi. Sindinauze aliyense, sindinapemphe kapena kufunsa mnzanga woti ndiziyankha mlandu (ndakhala ndikulephera zaka zapitazo) ndipo ndapambana tsopano. Chisankho changa chosiya zolaula chinali chachinsinsi. Sindinauze aliyense, osati chifukwa cha mantha kapena manyazi koma chifukwa chodzipereka kwa mphamvu.
Uthengawu ndiwachidule komanso wofika pomwepo. Mmenemo ndifotokoza njira zomwe ndagwiritsira ntchito zomwe zimapangitsa kusiya zolaula ndi maliseche ** kwambiri, zosavuta kwambiri **. Ndiyenera kunena kuti kusiya zolaula kunali kosavuta komanso kosavuta. Ndi njira izi zomwe ndimagwiritsa ntchito, sindinapeze zovuta kapena zovuta. Zinali zosavuta. Ndinagulitsidwa kuyambira tsiku loyamba ndimachitidwe amenewa, ndipo tsiku lililonse ndimangokhala kosavuta komanso kosavuta kusiya zolaula zomwe sindikuganiza chifukwa chomwe sindinayese zinthu izi zaka ndi zaka zapitazo.
Mbiri Yakale ndi zolaula
- Ndinayamba kuonera zolaula ndili mwana. Ankachita masewera olimbitsa thupi ngati mwana.
- Ndili pafupi 15 ndinayesa kusiya maliseche ndi zolaula. Malo osapindulira a 1-2 masabata pano ndi apo.
- Izi zachitika mobwerezabwereza kwa zaka zambiri. Ndakhala ndikuyenda bwino kwa masabata a 1-2-3 osachita zolaula komanso kusangalala ndikamagwiritsa ntchito njira ya Pickup Art kuyesera kupeza bwenzi. Sindinkachita bwino kusiya zolaula ngakhale kuti ndinali ndi zibwenzi zabwino komanso luso lokondana.
- Ndili ndi bwenzi (bwenzi langa loyamba) zaka zingapo zapitazo. Ndinali ndikuwonabe zolaula ndikutuluka titakhala "ovomerezeka." Amadziwa ndipo sanadandaule.
- Munali ndimasewera ambiri, AMBIRI, AMBIRI ndi akazi otentha kwambiri. Sanakhalepo ndi gawo logonana nawo kuti mulumikizane nawo. Apezeni opanda chidwi kapena odabwitsa.
Mbiri ndi Akazi. Onse Anamwali kapena Osewera?
- Ndinaphunzira kujambulitsa ndili 19. Ndili ndi waluso kwambiri komanso waluso. M'malo mwake ndidagwira ntchito yodzipangira kampani ya PUA yodziwika bwino (sindinatchule mayina pano) kwa miyezi ingapo ndisanapange nthambi yoti ndiyambe ndikuyesa bizinesi yanga. Chifukwa chomwe ndikutchulira izi ndi zachifundo pazomwe ndasankha kuchita. Amuna ena amasankha kuchita nofap kuyesa kupeza bwenzi. Izi ndizovomerezeka, ndipo zinalidi zoyambitsa zanga zoyambirira.
- Nditha kuchita bwino ndi akazi. Ndili ndi chidaliro. Ndili ndi mipira yachitsulo ndimasewera olimbitsa chidaliro. Ndakhala ndikulemba pulofesa wanga waku yunivesite (mayi wotentha mu ma 40s), anthu ogwira nawo ntchito, abwenzi, azimayi achisawawa omwe ndimakumana nawo panthawi yopumira. Ndagonana ndi ambiri, ambiri operekeza. Ndimadziwa zachiwerewere. Ndimakondanso ndi maulendo opulumutsidwa.
- Zolinga zanga zoyambirira zoyesera nofap zinali kuyesa kuchita bwino ndi amayi ndikupeza bwenzi lenileni la moyo. Zinagwira… .. mpaka ndinayambiranso kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Monga ndidanenera, ndimatha milungu iwiri ya 1-2 ndipo munthawi ino zotsatira zanga ndi akazi enieni zinali zodabwitsa. Nkhani zonse zazimayi zidathetsedwa nthawi iliyonse yomwe ndidakana.
- Ndikufuna kunena kuti ndinakumana ndi bwenzi langa loyamba nthawi yayitali. Kaya ndi placebo kapena ayi, ndani amasamala? Zinandigwira ntchito.
Mbiri Yakale Yoyesera Yosagonjetseka ya Nofap
Ndidayesa zifukwa zingapo. Nthawi iliyonse ndikayesera, zimakhala zolimbikitsa pang'ono; Ndimafuna mphamvu zapamwamba, ndimafuna kumva kuti ndi amuna ambiri, ndimafuna kugonana bwino, ndimafuna kusangalala ndi moyo, ndinkafuna kudzilimbitsa, ndikufuna kusiya chizolowezi chomwe kale ndimachita manyazi nacho. Ndakhala ndikuyesa zaka za 6-7 sizinaphule kanthu.
(My) Njira Zopanda phindu mukalephera NoFap:
- MLANGIZI WABODZA: Ndingayankhule ndi mnzanga za chisankho chofuna kusiya zolaula komanso kusangalala. Ankandithandizira. Amatha kumulembera mameseji kapena kumuimbira foni tsiku lililonse lomwe ndimachita bwino kwa milungu ingapo ya 4. Zinkagwira ntchito. Pambuyo pa masabata a 4 ngakhale ndidayambanso kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula
- EXERCISE, HOBBies, MEDITATION- Zinthu izi zidagwira ntchito kuti zisokonezedwe koma sizinandipatse mwayi kusiya zolaula. Amandisokoneza kwa maola angapo kapena masiku angapo kenako ndimawonanso zolaula.
- THERAPIST: Ndidawona othandizira kapena a 3x othandizira pazaka zonsezi. Nditawaona, anali othandizira ndipo anati ndimayang'ana zolaula kuti ndisamve kuwawa. Onse anati, mwa njira yanga kapena ina, kuti ndikufunika kusiya ozizira kuti ndikhale wolimba. Khalani olimbikira, olimba ndipo ingochitani. Nditha kukhala opambana ndi akatswiri azamankhwala kwa milungu ingapo, mpaka sindingathenso kuwalipira $ ndikuwonanso zolaula.
- GULU LOTHANDIZA GULU: Ndinalowa nawo gulu lachipembedzo kuti ndiyese kusiya zolaula. Ndinamva kukhala wodabwitsa kuuza gulu kuti ndikufuna kuthandizidwa kusiya zolaula. Ambiri mwa iwo adandilimbikitsa kuti ndisadzipanikize ndikugwiritsa ntchito. Ambiri adasinthiratu zolaula. Ambiri anandiuza kuti kugonana kunali bwino. Ngakhale nditawapatsa chifukwa chowonjezera chofuna kusiya zolaula samawoneka kuti akumvetsa. Membala m'modzi kapena awiri mgululi amandithandizira kwambiri ndipo amakhala othandizana nawo poyankha. Izi zidachita bwino kwambiri, mpaka patadutsa milungu ingapo ndidaganiza zosiya kuyankha mlandu chifukwa chakusemphana umunthu ndi chikhalidwe cha gululo.
- 12 STEP SEX ADDICTION GROUP: Ndalowa gulu la 12 la zolaula ndipo mamembala adachita bwino kwambiri. ambiri a iwo anali atapita miyezi yambiri osawonerera zolaula. Apanso, ndinatha kuyenda nawo kwa milungu ingapo koma ndimakhala ndi mikangano yayikulu yokhudzana ndi chipembedzo cha gulu lachipembedzo ichi ndikusiya. Nditasiya, ndinasiyanso tchubu yanga ya masiku angapo pambuyo pake.
- CHOLINGA CHOKHA: Izi zinagwira ntchito nthawi zambiri kwa masiku angapo mpaka nditayambiranso. Zosintha sizinali zakuya kapena zowona mtima.
Zasintha Zani Nthawi Ino? Cholinga changa chatsopano cha kuyesera?
Panali mkazi yemwe ndinali naye pachibwenzi ndipo ndakhala ndikugonana naye. Kupanga zina zotero… .Ndikuwona pomwe ndimacheza naye, pomwe ndimamufuna m'maganizo, ndinali wofooka. Amakhala akundiitanira kunyumba kwake nthawi zonse kuti tizigonana komanso kupanga zachikondi, ndipo sindinavomereze. Ndinalibe cholinga kapena chikhumbo koma ndinali kuwonerera zolaula kamodzi patsiku pafupifupi.
Usiku wina, adandiitanira ndipo ndidakana. Ndinalibe mapulani ena ndipo ndinali womasuka kumuwona koma ndidasankha kuti ndisatero.
Koma tsiku lotsatira, ndinali ndikudzifunsa ndekha. “Nchifukwa chiyani nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndimaopa kugona ndi akazi? Chifukwa chiyani ndakhala ndi zibwenzi zapamwamba, azimayi achikulire otentha, azimayi amitundu yonse, ndipo onsewa nthawi zonse amawoneka osowa? Chifukwa chiyani ndimagonana ndi (ena) azimayi amenewa sindimatha kulimba kapena kutaya mtima? ”
Ndipo ndinali kudwala nazo. Ndinali kudwala ndikukhala moyo pomwe sindingakhale ndi ubale wabwinobwino komanso moyo wogonana. Zomwe ndinkafuna ndikupeza azimayi enieni akuwotcha, monga momwe ndidakhalira ndili mwana ndisanadziwe chomwe zolaula ndi kulandira nawo.
Cholinga changa chinali kupeza mkazi weniweni wamoyo wotentha uyu ndikugonana naye. Kodi zinali zochuluka kufunsa?
Malangizo Atsopano Omwe Amagwira Ntchito Nanditsogolera ku MOYO WONSE WA CHAKA CHEMA
Ndinawerenga Psycho Cybernetics. Nditawerenga, ndidaganiza kuti ndikupanga chithunzi chatsopano. Munthu watsopano, SINDIDZAKHALA 'kukhala ndekha.' Ndimayesa kuti ndinali munthu amene ndinali nditasiya kale zolaula ndipo anali 'atakhalapo kale ngati munthu wotereyu.
Ndikufuna kuchita Method Acting ndikusintha kuti ndikhale munthu amene mwabodza sanayambe waonera zolaula. Ndidadzipereka, "ndi amene ndili monga pano" ndipo ndidangokhala 'masiku' pang'ono. Zosavuta. Palibe zolimbikitsira kuyang'ana zolaula. Nthawi iliyonse ndikadina china chake chomwe chimandipatsa lingaliro lachiwerewere NDINANGOTSEKA kutseka zenera ndikungoyambiranso intaneti ndikamagwiritsa ntchito intaneti.
Ndinachotsa akaunti yanga ya facebook ndi Instagram. Ndidachotsa mbiri yanga yonse ndikusunga zolaula pafoni yanga. Ndinkadziletsa kuti ndisalipire $ iliyonse ndikaperekeza ndikuwonera masamba ena a intaneti.
Ndinachitanso Hypnosis. Ndidadzizindikira ndekha kukhala munthu wamphamvu, wolamulira, wopanga zisankho ndikutsatira zolinga zonse ndi cholinga chimodzi.
- Ndidapanga chithunzi chatsopano ndipo ndidachita monga mwa icho
- Ndinkadzilimbitsa mtima ndipo ndinalipira maphunziro aukazitape kuti ndithandizire ndekha kuti ndinali munthu watsopano
- Ndinawonera makanema ambiri a Derren Brown kuti ndionetsetse kuti zamankhwala zimatheka
- Ndinkadzikonda ndikudzivomereza ndekha mosasamala kanthu za kusankha kwanga kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kapena ayi. Ndinafika poti ndinati "taonani, ngati sindingathe kusiya zolaula zivute zitani, ndimasankhabe kudzikonda ndikudzivomereza ndekha."
Kupambana. Ndinakumana ndi mtsikana patsiku la 40ish ndipo tinapanga chibwenzi naye posachedwa. tsopano ndi bwenzi langa kwa chaka chopitilira.
Sindimayang'ana zolaula ngakhale pang'ono kukhala ndi chidwi chofuna kutero.
NDIMAYESA BWINO, ndine wokondwa, ndili ndi mphamvu zambiri zamaganizidwe, ndimakhala wokondwa kwambiri komanso wokondwa komanso ndili ndi chiyembekezo. Ndili pachiwopsezo komanso chodalirika.
Zikomo inu, ndi mawu omaliza:
Kusiya zolaula SI zomwe mukufuna.
Zomwe mukufuna ndi 'chowiringula' kuti mukhale munthu WAMPHAMVU, WOLAMULIRA tsogolo lawo, NDI MPHAMVU.
Kusiya zolaula kumangokhala chiwonetsero ndi chilolezo chodzipatsira nokha kuti tsopano mwapatsidwa mphamvu. Sankhani kuti mupatsidwe mphamvu PAMBUYO musanayambe ndipo mutha kusiya zolaula patsiku 1 NDI ZERO EFFORT.
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