Ndamva za NoFap nthawi zina nthawi zina chaka chatha ndipo ndidayamba kuchita nawo chaka chino. Choyamba ndinali ndi mzere wabwino kuyambira pa Jan 5th mpaka Juni 23rd, kenako kuyambira pa 24 Juni mpaka Ogasiti 1 ndipo nthawiyo inali yofunika kwambiri kwa ine.
M'mwezi womwewo kapena munthawi imeneyi ndimakhala ndikuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndipo ndimatuluka pafupifupi usiku uliwonse, ndimayimilira pang'ono masiku awiri kapena atatu. Zomwe ndimakhala kuti ndimakhala wamanyazi nthawi zonse komanso wopanda nkhawa ndi atsikana ndipo sindinawafikirepo ndekha, chabwino… mpaka pano.
Ndikupita ndi bwenzi langa labwino kumakalabu ena ndi maphwando ndipo ndinangomva chidaliro chonsecho mwadzidzidzi ndipo ndinamuuza bambo usiku uno kuti tifika kwa atsikana zivute zitani. Uwo anali June 25th. Usiku womwewo tinayandikira atsikana a 4 ndipo onse anali ozizira komanso ozizira ngakhale kuti iwo kumene ma 9 olimba.
Nthawi yomwe ndinawona kuti ali ndi chidwi cholankhula ndinangoyamba kuwauza chilichonse monga momwe ndimawadziwira kwanthawi yayitali ndipo anali omvera. Usiku womwewo ndizomwe zidasintha malingaliro anga pazinthu zonse ndipo nthawi yomweyo ndimaganizira zam'mbuyomu komanso atsikana omwe ndikadakhala nawo ndikakumana nawo, koma osadandaula kungophunzira. Nkhani yayitali kuyambira usiku womwewo mpaka pano ndakumanapo ndi atsikana pafupifupi 20 ena kudzera mwa abwenzi ndipo nditha kunena 10 mwa iwo komwe kuzizira kukuyandikira.
Panopa ndili paulendo wanga kuyambira Ogasiti 1st ndipo sindikukonzekera kuletsa anyamata, ndili ndi chidaliro ngati kale, chilankhulo changa ndi chodekha komanso chotetezeka ndipo atsikana amazindikira. Ndili ndi zambiri zoti ndiphunzire pamasewera ndi atsikana koma zomwe ndidazindikira masiku angapo apitawa ndikuti sindingakhale otalikirapo kwanthawi yayitali ngati ndili ndi mphamvu zambiri zogulira zinthu zosiyanasiyana. Ndikufuna kuyambitsa bizinesi yanga yapaintaneti tsopano ndipo ndimakwiya ndikawona kuti ndikuwononga nthawi yanga pazinthu zopusa kapena ngati sindinachite kalikonse kwakanthawi masana.
Mnzanga wina yemwe nthawi zonse amafunsa ngati ndili ndi mtsikana m'moyo wanga pa Ogasiti 3 ndidati bwerani nane ndikulola kukumana ndi atsikana, adandiyang'ana ndipo sanakhulupirire kuti ndanena izi. Sanayandikire atsikana pamasom'pamaso koma anali pachibwenzi ndi awiriwa. Usiku womwewo ndidakumana ndi bulauni wokongola kwambiri yemwe anali wangwiro 10. Muyenera kuti mudamuwona nkhope yake nthawi yomwe ndimayankhula naye. Ndili ndi nambala yake usiku womwewo. Usiku watha timamwa zakumwa zingapo pa bala ndipo mtsikana mmodzi mwa atatu omwe anali pafupi ndi ife ankangondiyang'ana usiku wonse ndipo nthawi iliyonse ndikamugwira amayang'ana kumbali 
Ndikutanthauza miyezi yochepa ya 2 yapitayi ndinali wosiyana kotheratu, monga nyama yomwe mkati mwanga idadzuka ndikunena kuti yakwanira. NoFap mwandichitira chiyani
Ngati simukuwona zotsatira zikungokhalira kukankhira, ndidakwaniritsa mzere wanga woyamba ndipo palibe chomwe chidachitika mpaka nditayamba wachiwiri ndikungokhulupirira kuti ndili m'njira yoyenera. Komanso musaiwale osangokhala ndikudikirira kuti zonse zikuyendereni bwino, pakufunika kuchitapo kanthu pang'ono. Limbani malo anu otonthoza, ndikudziwa kuti ndidatsutsana ndi zanga ndipo sizinakwaniritse bwino ndipo ndikumva bwino.
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