Malingaliro anga oyambilira anali oti ndilembe nkhani yanga yopambana pambuyo pa masiku a 90 kapena apo, koma ndidaganiza zolemba izi kale, mwina wina atapeza china kuchokera pamenepo.
Chifukwa choyamba ndichofunika kunena: uwu ndi ulendo wanu, ndipo muyenera kuchita mwanjira yanu. Pansi pansi, mukudziwa zomwe zikukuyenderani bwino, chifukwa ngati njira za ena sizikuthandizani, muchite mwanjira yanu.
Mwachitsanzo, ambiri amakhala otanganidwa kotero kuti sayenera kuganiza zolaula. Ndidapeza nthawi yosinkhasinkha ndikuwona malingaliro anga. Chikakamizo chikakhudza, ndidachipenyetsetsa ndipo ndidakumba mpaka pomwe ndidakwanitsa kuti ndimvetsetse. Palibenso chifukwa chothana ndi mano opweteka ndi manyazi, mkwiyo ndi chiyani. Ndikufuna kuganiza, kuti ngakhale mutha kuthana ndi vuto lanu laukali ndi mphamvu yanu, pamapeto pake lipambana ndi chipiriro komanso chinyengo. Payenera kukhala yankho la nthawi zonse.
Ulendo uwu si kulanga thupi langa: ndizotsutsana kwathunthu. Ndizokhudza kudzizindikira ndekha ndikukonda ndekha kudzera pakulandila. Ndikudziwa kuti kwa ena izi zimawoneka ngati malingaliro oyipa. "Mumangovomereza momwe mulili ndikukhala osakhumudwitsidwa, kenako ndikudzaza moyo wanu ndi zokonda kuti mumve china?" Osati chimodzimodzi. Zowona, pali gawo la ine lomwe likufuna kupewa maudindo amtundu uliwonse ndikuchita ntchito yeniyeni kuti ndikwaniritse zinazake. Palinso gawo mwa ine lomwe limafuna kuchita zinthu zazikulu m'moyo, kukhala ndi cholinga komanso zina. Kotero sikuti ndikungolandira gawo laulesi mwa ine ndikukhalamo, ndikulandiranso wamkulu, mwa zina zonse za ine.
Chifukwa chake pali zinthu zina mwa ine zomwe zimatha kuwonekera molakwika. Komabe, ndi gawo limodzi mwa ine. Ndikawakana, amakhala (olankhula mwamaganizidwe) mthunzi wanga. Ndipo pamene mbali zoyipazi sizivomerezedwa, zimakhala ndi mphamvu kuposa ife. Amakonda kuwonekera popanda ife kuwazindikira.
Zochitika tsiku ndi tsiku zimatha kukhala patsogolo kwambiri m'moyo. Nthawi zina nthawi yopuma ingafunike. Ichi chinali chinthu chovuta kwa ine kuvomereza. Ndimaganiza kuti tsiku lina "ndikazengereza", ndidzapulumutsidwa moyo wanga wonse, kapena china chake pamizere. Choonadi ndichakuti, ndimakhala wokondwa komanso wathanzi pamene sindinakhazikike mu chinthu chimodzimodzi, tsiku lomwelo tsiku limodzi. Zimandipangitsa kumva kuti ndikusowa moyo. Kupuma kotsitsimutsa nthawi ndi nthawi kumatha kukulitsa chisangalalo, kuwonjezera kuwonjezera moyo, komanso kulimbikitsidwa.
Tsopano kwa opambana. Palibe. Zovuta zanga zobisika sizinathe usiku umodzi chabe chifukwa ndinasiya kupukuta. Nofap adandithandizirabe. Zinandipangitsa kumva bwino kwambiri, motero ndimatha kuzindikira zosowa zanga. Chifukwa chake ngati panali wamphamvu kwa ine, zinali choncho. Kuzindikira momwe ndikumvera ndi kuwayamikira kunandithandiza kuzindikira kuti ndine ndani, ndipo zinandilimbitsa mtima. Zachidziwikire kuti kusungidwa kwa umuna komanso kusiyanitsa ndi maliseche kumawonjezera mphamvu, ndipo palinso maubwino ena. Zowonadi zanga ndi izi: nofap ndi chida chothandiza kuthana ndi mavuto anu, koma musayembekezere njira yosavuta yotulukira. Yembekezerani mantha ndi malingaliro onse omwe mwawabisa, ndipo avomerezeni ngati gawo la moyo ndi zomwe munthu akudziwa, mmalo mozithawa.
Malangizo ena omwe andithandiza, ndipo mwachiyembekezo inunso.
- Kundilola kuti ndikhale wachisoni, wamanyazi, wokwiya, wosungulumwa, wopanda chiyembekezo etc. Zinthu zonse zomwe sindimafuna kukumana nazo, komanso popanda woweruza wanga wamkati kuti azilamulira. Btw osaweruza woweruza wanu wamkati.
- Ndakatulo. Kulemba momwe ndimamvera kwandithandizira kwambiri kuthana ndi zomwe ndimalephera. Sindinazindikire izi ndisanalembe imodzi. Kulola kumverera kuti kufotokozedwe kumamasula, chifukwa sikungokhala mumalingaliro anu. Ndikupangira mawonekedwe amtundu uliwonse omwe akukuyenererani. Ndakatulo zimangondigwirira ntchito m'njira yomwe sindimatha kulingalira kuti angandichitire.
- Kutenga nthawi yoganizira. Kuzindikira zovuta zakuya kumafuna kudzipereka, nthawi komanso kuleza mtima.
- Kuyanjana ndi thupi langa. Kugwa kwanga nthawi zambiri kunkandifikitsa malire ndikumangokhala kopuma. Ndikupangira yoga izi, koma zolimbitsa thupi zilizonse zomwe zimakupangitsani kuyang'ana thupi lanu ziyenera kuchita.
- Kuzindikira kufunika kwanga. Sindikusowa chowiringula chilichonse chololeza kuti ndikhale amoyo momwe ndikufuna. Ndilibe udindo wosiya kudzifufuza ndikufotokozera ndekha, ndipo inunso simukuyenera.
- Kuphunzira zama psycho-, physio- ndi neurology. Makamaka ndidatero chifukwa ndimakhudzidwa ndi mitu yomwe yatchulidwayi, koma ndaphunziranso zinthu zambiri zothandiza.
- Kuwona ena ngati anthu. Za ine, zolaula zidasokoneza ubongo wanga kotero kuti chilichonse ndi aliyense amene ndidamuwona anali ndi malingaliro ogonana mwa iwo, makamaka akazi. Osati kupotoza kodzutsa, zonse zimangowonedwa mwakugonana. Ndinkachita njirayi nthawi iliyonse ndikawona wina yemwe amanyansidwa ndi malingaliro anga ogonana. Mwachitsanzo nditawona munthu wachikulire yemwe ngakhale ndimakhala wokonda zachiwerewere. Nditazindikira izi, ndidayamba kulingalira zongopeka za iwo. Ndinaganiza m'mene angabwere kudzapuma, kapena momwe adzagulitsire zakudya kuti athe kuphikira zidzukulu zawo zomwe zimabwera kudzacheza. Kapenanso agogo aja adangokhala amasiye, akudziwa ndani? Kuchita izi pafupipafupi komanso ndi anthu osiyanasiyana, zidakhala zosavuta kuti ndimvetsetse kuti aliyense ali ndi malingaliro komanso malingaliro, ndipo ali ndi zifukwa zake. Ndikuganiza kuti kuphunzira izi kumapangitsanso kuti zolaula zanga zokhudzana ndi kugonana sizichulukira. Mutu wamalingaliro anga azakugonana sunathenso kugwiritsa ntchito munthu wina kuseweretsa maliseche, kulakalaka kuyandikana kwambiri.
Kumbukirani, sikutanthauza kungopewa. Uwu ndiye ulendo wanu wokhala ndi moyo woyenera womwe mudayenera kukhala.
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