Nkhani yanga mpaka pano ikuphatikiza kuyesa kusiya zolaula kwa nthawi yayitali. Nthawi zonse ndazindikira kuti ndi chifukwa chachikulu cha mavuto ambiri omwe ndimakumana nawo.
Lero masiku ake akhala masiku a 30 ndi limodzi mwa masiku ovuta kwambiri a 30. Poyamba zinamveka zabwino koma posachedwa kusilira kumakopeka, flatline idayamba ndipo zonse ziwonetserozo. Zinthuzi zitha kufotokozedwa bwino ndi winawake.
Zomwe ndingakuuzeni ngakhale momwe ndimasiyana ndi zomwe ndidali masiku a 30 kale.
1. Ndikaona mkazi (wokonda kapena ayi) tsopano, Sindikuganiza zolaula koma kugonana. Komanso, zomwe sizingachitike sikungandikhumudwitse. Momwemonso, kulephera kwasiyanso zokhumudwitsa koma gawo lazomwe ndimachita tsiku ndi tsiku.
2. Ndayamba kukhala lotseguka kwambiri ndi malingaliro anga. Poyamba, ndimakhala wamantha pafupifupi 30min - 1hr patsiku ndikamayang'ana zolaula ndipo malingaliro anga ambiri anali ndi vutoli. Koma tsopano ndikudzimva kuti ndikulankhula zakukhosi kwa aliyense, m'malo mochita nawo mantha (kapena manyazi) za iwo.
3. Ndachulukanso kudzidziwa. Kudzizindikira wekha ndi mkhalidwe womwe umabwera chifukwa chodzidziwitsa wekha. Ndiyenera kuvomereza kuti ndimachita izi kale, koma osapumira. Tsopano ndikakhala kuti sindimakhala womasuka ndi china chake chomwe ndachita, sindimachotsa, koma ndimayamba kugwira ntchito kuti ndikwaniritse ndekha. (Ndikupangira kuti musatengere wina aliyense koma kuti muzitha kuchita zinthu mwanjira yanu.)
3a. Tsopano ndikudziwa ndikaganiza zogonana komanso momwe ubongo wanga ungatsatire. Chifukwa chake ndimakhala kuti ndayamba kusakatula zithunzi zachikhalidwe, zina. Ichi ndi chowonjezera popeza tsopano sindinasokonezekebe ntchito pa intaneti.
4. Kudzipereka kowonjezereka. Tsopano nditha kudzipereka kuti ndichite ntchito yovuta. Ndinganene kuti ndili ndi kuthekera kwambiri kokungoyang'ana pa cholinga ndikupereka chilichonse kuti ndikwaniritse. Izi zimawoneka ngati chokwaniritsa pamene kuchuluka kwa ntchito zomwe ndikumaliza, kulimba mtima kwanga kumakula.
5. Njira ya kuganiza kwa akazi kapena moyo wamba. Ndazindikira kuti tsopano, sindikuyang'ana kwa amayi omwe ali ndi cholinga chogwiritsa ntchito gawo lawo. Ndingakhale bwino kumuweruza ndi zomwe ali nazo, monga munthu. Izi zakhala zikuchitika tsiku ndi tsiku, pomwe ntchito sinakhale yofunikanso kwambiri kotero kuti kukonzekera kwake. Ndikhulupirireni, ngakhale kusintha kosabisika kumeneku kwa malingaliro kungapangitse kusiyana kwakukulu momwe mumakhalira ndikuganiza mozungulira azimayi kapena anthu wamba kapena ngakhale nokha.
Ndakhala ndikulandiranso koyambirira koma osati chachikulu chonchi. Mukumva kwanga kwamasiku 30 apitawa, chopinga chachikulu chomwe ndimapereka chinali lingaliro loti, "Popeza ndilibe moyo wokonda kucheza kapena kugonana, kodi izi zindithandiza bwanji" ndipo ndimalola (Umenewu ndi msampha. Ingoyesani kukana kwa masiku angapo ndipo mudzakhala ndi ina yatsopano yomwe mungakumane nayo.) Koma moyo wakugonana pambali, moyo wanga wachikhalidwe wapindula kwambiri ndipo zinthu zikuwoneka zowala kwambiri kuposa kale.
LINK - Zinasintha momwe ndimaganizira
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