N’chifukwa chiyani chilakolako changa chogonana chili chachikulu kwambiri kuposa cha anzanga/anzanga? N’zosokoneza kuthetsa chilakolako chenicheni cha kugonana ("chilakolako chofuna kugonana") kuchokera ku chilakolako chofuna kugonana ("Ndiyenera kusiya kapena kufa"). Chomalizachi sichili chofanana ndi choyamba. "Chilakolako cha kugonana" chimatanthauza chilakolako chogonana ndi mnzanu pamene muli ndi mnzanu amene angakhale mnzanu. Kukonda kwambiri kugonana masiku ano kukupangitsa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula ambiri kukhala ndi chilakolako chofuna kugonana nthawi zonse, koma chilakolako chochepa chofuna mnzanu weniweni. Zotsatira zake? Kugonana kwambiri ... koma kukhutitsidwa kochepa komanso kukhumudwa kwambiri pogonana.
Onani: Kafukufuku wogwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kapena chizolowezi chogonana ndi zolaula ndi zovuta zogonana, kutsekereza ubongo ku zolimbikitsa kugonana, komanso kuchepetsa kukhutitsidwa kwa kugonana
Izi ndi zomwe membala wina wa pamsonkhano ananena:
Ngati pali chinthu chimodzi chomwe ndazindikira, zoyendetsa zanga zogonana sizolimba monga ndimaganizira. Sindinadzichepetse, koma ndimatha kuwongolera zovuta zanga mosavuta. Izi mwina chifukwa cha msinkhu wanga (47). Komabe, ndimakhala ndikudabwa kuti ndichifukwa chiyani kuyendetsa kugonana kwanga sikunatsike ngati anyamata anzanga. Ndinapita ngakhale kwa dokotala kamodzi kuti ndikaone ngati angandipatse kena kake kochepetsera kugonana kwanga. Mkazi wanga amakonda kugonana 3 kapena 4 nthawi pamwezi zomwe sizachilendo. Ndinkafuna kugonana 3 kapena 4 nthawi patsiku.
Ndikuganiza kuti ndinali / wokonda zachiwerewere kuposa zolaula. Ndikudziwa kuti zonsezi zimayendera limodzi, koma sizikuwoneka kuti ndilibe vuto lokhala ndi zolaula. Vuto langa lalikulu linali loti amwalira. Kuti ndidzipangitse kukhala wamaliseche panthawi yakuseweretsa maliseche ndimayenera kugwira mwamphamvu kwambiri. Komabe, mukamagwira mwamphamvu kwambiri, ndikamapha kupweteketsa mtima kumatenga nthawi yayitali kwa O. Ndi bwalo loipa lomwe limadzetsa vuto loyimitsidwa mwachedwa. Ndikuwona kuti mayiyu sakonda kuponderezedwa kwa ola limodzi kwinaku akutuluka thukuta. Makamaka ngati cholinga chakumapeto sichikwaniritsidwa.
Nthawi zonse ndimaganiza kuti ndiyenera kumenyedwa pansi kuti ndisapenge zogonana. Sizowona. Monga momwe ndaphunzirira, libido yanga yopenga imatsika ndipo imachepa ndikamayesetsa kupewa maliseche / zolaula (tsopano masiku a 25).
Kugonana ndiko, NTHAWI ZOCHITIKA, KUKHALA KUKHALA KWAMBIRI pamene mukukondwera ndi munthu amene mumamukonda, osati kukhala nokha pa chimbudzi kapena kukhala pamaso pa kompyuta.
Mnyamata wina:
Yakhala gehena koma ndikutha kunena kuti zolimbikitsa kuseweretsa maliseche (chizolowezi / chizolowezi chamoyo), zatha kwambiri ndipo mosakayikira ndili ndi mphamvu komanso 'moyo' m'moyo wanga. Ndipo kuyesaku KUKHALA KWABWINO KWAMBIRI - ZONSE!
Nthawi zambiri mnzanu angakuuzeni kuti simuli bwino ndipo palibe chomwe chingapindule pokuthandizani kukumba dzenje lanu mozama. Koma popeza palibe amene wamvetsa zenizeni (ndi sayansi kumbuyo) kwa zotsatira za kuthamangitsana , vutoli limasiya okwatirana osagwirizana - wina akumva kuti sakukondedwa ndipo winayo akumva kuti sakukondedwa. N'zosachita kunena kuti si nthawi zonse mwamuna amene akumva kuti ndi wotopa komanso wosowa.
Nkhani yabwino ndi yakuti okwatirana nthawi zambiri amakondana kwambiri kuposa momwe akuonekera. Akufuna kuvomerezana . Dziwani kuti "dzenje lakuda la mitsempha" lomwe lili kumbuyo kwa zilakolako silingathe kudzazidwa - ngakhale mnzanuyo akufunitsitsa bwanji. Nthawi yomweyo, kugonana ndi lingaliro labwino. Ganizirani zoyesera machitidwe ogwirizana tsiku ndi tsiku , koma osafika padera pafupipafupi.