By Megan Fox - Novembala 21, 2019.
Alex Rhodes ndi munthu wosangalatsa. Ali ndi zaka 11, akuti adayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zaka zingapo zomwe zidasinthiratu moyo wake. Atasankha kuchitapo kanthu za izi, adapeza gulu la anthu omwe ali pa intaneti omwe anali ndi mavuto omwewo. Adayamba kampani yake, Palibe Fap, mu 2011 ngati bwalo lamilandu kuti anthu azikambirana zomwe zachitika chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula mopitirira muyeso, kugonana mokakamiza, komanso kuchira. "Fap" ndi mawu okhazikika pofotokoza maliseche. Njira yotsogolera ku Rhodes idayambira posiya kuseweretsa maliseche ndiku kupewa zolaula.
Madera omwe adakhazikitsa adakula kukhala anthu ambiri ochokera kosiyanasiyana omwe adapindula ndi kulimbikitsidwa kwa No Fap. Tsambali likuti, "tili pano kuti tikuthandizireni kusiya zolaula, kukonza maubale anu, komanso kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu zogonana." Rhode akuti sakukakamira kuletsa zolaula kapena kuletsa mwanjira iliyonse, koma akufuna gulu pomwe anthu omwe adakhudzidwa ndi izi akhoza kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake kuti athetse izi. Palibe Fap sanakhazikike pachipembedzo, chifukwa Rhode si munthu wokhulupirira zilizonse, zomwe zimapangitsa tsamba lake ndi ntchito zake kukhala zowopsa kwambiri kwa makampani opanga zolaula chifukwa sangathe kumenyedwa ngati wachangu wachipembedzo.
Ngakhale kuti zolaula sizimalembedwa pa Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorder, ndivuto lenileni lomwe ambiri amalimbana nalo. Malinga ndi Psych Guides, "chizolowezi cha zolaula chizolowezi chogonana, imatha kutanthauza mikhalidwe yosiyanasiyana yomwe imachitika mopambanitsa ndikuwononga moyo wathu. ”
Pali mapiri achidziwitso okhudzana ndi vuto logwiritsa ntchito zolaula likukhudzana ndi ana, kuphatikizapo kukwera kwa milandu ya chiwerewere monga akunenera ku UK, pomwe "ziwerengero kuchokera ku 30 [gwero] zikuwonetsa malipoti a zolakwira zakugonana kwa ana azaka za 10 ndipo zocheperapo zakhala zikuchulukirapo kuposa 204 mu 2013-14 mpaka 456 ku 2016-17. Akatswiri ku UK akuti chiwonetsero cha kuchuluka kwa zolaula kwa ana ngati chifukwa.
Zithunzi zolaula zimachititsanso kuti banja lisokonekere komanso zibwenzi. Psychology Today inanena kuti maukwati a 500,000 omwe amatha chaka chilichonse amatchukira zolaula ngati chifukwa.
Ndi malingaliro amenewo, bungwe ngati No Fap likuwoneka ngati lingakhale yankho losagawanika kwa iwo omwe amasankha kuti athe kuwongolera moyo wawo m'njira yabwino. Koma anthu ena si mafani. Akatswiri azakugonana ndi mafakitale a zolaula amadana ndi Alex Rhodes mwachidwi chomwe amakonda kusungira zoseweretsa zawo.
Rhodes yasumira mlandu wokhudza kuipitsa wophunzirira wa Kinsey Institute, Nicole Prause, wasayansi yemwe amaphunzira za kugonana. Rhode amakhulupirira kuti a Prause adamufuna kuti awononge bizinesi yake ndikunyoza dzina lake. Akatswiri azakugonana ngati Prause ali ndi malingaliro odabwitsa pankhani yokhudza kugonana kwa anthu. Patsamba lake la Twitter, a Prause amadandaula chifukwa cholephera kuphunzira zakugonana kwa ana osatchedwa kuti pedophile.
Izi ndizosadabwitsa kubwera kuchokera kwa munthu yemwe adaphunzira ku Kinsey Institute. Alfred Kinsey anali chilombo. Kuyeserera kwake pa ana kuyenera kuti kumamulepheretsa kukhala womasuka. Adafalitsa kafukufuku yemwe akukhudza ana osachepera a 188 ndi ana omwe adagonedwa ndi amuna omwe amadziwika kuti Kinsey kuti achite nawo masewera olimbitsa thupi ndipo zochitika zawo zimalembedwa ndikujambulidwa kuti phunziroli lipangidwe. Kafukufuku wake adatsimikiza kuti ndi wachinyengo komanso wopalamula, koma kafukufukuyu akugwiritsidwabe ntchito ndi anthu monga a Prause ndi ilk. Pali zolemba zomwe zimapezeka pa YouTube zotchedwa "Ana a Gawo la 34" za nkhanza zomwe ana adazunzidwa chifukwa cha Kinsey. Kinsey adachita zambiri kuti asinthane ndi pedophilia kuposa wina aliyense m'mbuyomu kapena pambuyo pake koma pali anthu omwe amadziona kuti ndi osankhidwa kuti amalize sukulu yomwe ili ndi dzina lake. Zikuwonekeratu kuti Prause saona vuto lililonse ndi kuphatikizira ana mu maphunziro okhudza zakugonana.
(Chithunzithunzi cha Twitter)
"Mukalankhula zakugonana kwa achinyamata, anthu adzanena kuti mukulimbikitsa kuwonetsa ana zolaula," adalemba. "Zachitika kwa ine komanso anzanga ambiri. Ndizoyipa, zonyoza, komanso zowopsa. Ichi ndichifukwa chake pali maphunziro ochepa okhudzana ndi kugonana kwa achinyamata. Kuwopseza kwenikweni. ”
Ndinafikira a Prause ndikumufunsa kuti afotokozere momwe angaphunzirire "zachinyamata zogonana" osaphwanya malamulo apano okhudza kuwononga ana ndi kuphwanya zaka zovomerezeka ndipo sanayankhidwe. Kodi asayansi achikulire angafufuze bwanji za kugonana kwa ana pomwe ana sangathe kuvomereza zogonana? Kodi kafukufukuyu amagwira ntchito bwanji? Ndizosangalatsanso kuti ochita zachiwerewere akung'ung'udza chifukwa chosowa mwayi kwa ana pazaka zakugonana sakudziwa momwe zimawonekera zonyansa kwa anthu wamba omwe saganizira za ana omwe amagonana.
Khalidwe la a Prause pa intaneti ku mabungwe omwe amalimbana ndi zolaula ndi Rhode amalembedwa bwino komanso ndizosangalatsa. Brain yanu pa Porn yaphatikizira zojambula zambiri pamakhalidwe ake ochezera a pa intaneti omwe amaphatikizapo kuzunzidwa kwa okamba nkhani a Ted omwe amalankhula za zolaula komanso zovulaza zolaula. Zikuwoneka kuti ng'ombe yayikulu ya Prause yomwe ili ndi vuto losokoneza bongo imathandiza anthu ndikuti amakhulupirira kuti zolaula ndi zabwino kwa anthu osati kuzolowera. Chikhulupiriro ichi mwachionekere chamutsogolera kunkhondo kuti ayipitse aliyense amene sakugwirizana naye.
Pembedzero sakonda kulumikizidwa ndi malonda azolaula ndikunena kuti ndiwodzipatula kwathunthu komanso wasayansi. Koma amapita kumakampani opanga zolaula ndipo amajambulidwa ndi akatswiri olaula ndipo amalowerera pagulu ndi mabungwe azamalonda kuti aletse malamulo omwe sakonda. Ndiye iye mu pinki kumanja kwenikweni.
(Zithunzi kuchokera pa Twitter)
(Zithunzi kuchokera pa Twitter)
California Proposition 60 inali malamulo ofuna ma kondomu munjira zolaula kuti muchepetse kufalikira kwa HIV. Prause kwambiri adatsutsa lamuloli pamodzi ndi olimbikitsa kuchita zolaula. Amatha kuwonekera pa Twitter amalumikizana pafupipafupi komanso kuteteza makampani ojambula zolaula komanso ochita zogonana.
Khothi la Rhode likuti a Prause adamuimba kuti ndi "wankhanza, wachiwerewere, wankhanza, wolimbikitsa zachiwawa kwa azimayi, ogwiritsira ntchito intaneti, atalamulidwa / osagwirizana ndi anthu ochita zachiwerewere [h] adadya ndikuwopseza kugwiriridwa." Pali umboni wa chimodzi mwazinthuzi kukhala bodza lowonekera.
Atatumiza a Prause pa Twitter kuti wapanga madandaulo a FBI okhudza Rhodes, adafunafuna malipotiwo kudzera mu Ufulu wa Zidziwitso. Zomwe adapeza adatsimikiza kuti adapanga.
"Wokondedwa Mr. Rhodes," werengani kalata kuchokera ku FBI poyankha FOIA. FBI yatsiriza kusaka zolemba zomwe zingayankhe pempho lanu ... Sitinathe kuzindikira tanthauzo lililonse la mafayilo ndipo; chifukwa chake pempho lanu latsekedwa mwadongosolo. ”
Ngakhale pali umboni uwu kuti a Prause sanasankhe lipoti lotere ndi FBI, akupitilizabe kubwereza zomwe ananena pagulu, zomwe milandu yomwe a Rhodes akuti imamuwonongera ndiyopanda mbiri. Rhode si munthu yekhayo amene amafuna kumunamizira ndi malipoti abodza a apolisi. Prause adatsatiranso a Gary Wilson, mphunzitsi wazachilengedwe yemwe ali ndi chidwi ndi zomwe apeza posachedwa ma neuroscience, yemwe anayambitsa Ubongo Wanu ndi Zolaula. Adatelo mlandu a Wilson pafupipafupi akumangokhala ndi malipoti apolisi angapo omuzunza. Wilson akuti palibe zomwe zili zowona ndipo ali ndi zolemba kuti zithandizire kumbuyo. Wilson adalemba patsamba lake:
Ngakhale a Prause akupitilizabe kunamizira kuti ndi "wozunzidwayo," ndi a Prause omwe adayambitsa kulumikizana konse ndikuzunza anthu ndi mabungwe omwe atchulidwa patsamba lino. Palibe aliyense pamndandandandawu yemwe wazunza a Nicole Prause. Malingaliro ake onena za kukhala "wozembera" kapena wolakwitsa kwa "odana ndi zolaula" alibe chikalata chimodzi cholemba. Umboni wonse womwe amapereka umadzipangira wokha: chithunzi chimodzi, maimelo ochepa kuchokera kwa iye kupita kwa ena omwe amafotokoza kuzunzidwa, ndi asanu osakhulupirika omwe amaleka ndikusiya makalata okhala ndi zonama. Mudzawonanso umboni wazodandaula zingapo zomwe a Prause apereka ndi mabungwe osiyanasiyana olamula - omwe achotsedwa mwachidule kapena kufufuzidwa ndi kuchotsedwa ntchito. Akuwoneka kuti akupereka madandaulo abodzawa kuti apitilize kunena kuti zomwe akwaniritsa zonse "zikufufuzidwa."
Mwinanso chowonetsera kwambiri cha dzina la a Prause mu saga iyi ndi zomwe ananena kuti a Rhode ndi a Nazi komanso oyera akulu, monga momwe tsatanetsataneyu amafotokozera. Izi siziyenera kudabwitsa aliyense yemwe wakhala akumvetsera kuyambira 2016. Miniti yomwe SJW imatsutsana ndi munthu, munthu ameneyo amakhala wa Nazi. Upandu wa Rhode? Adalola wonena za ndale a Gavin McInnes kuti amufunse mafunso pomwe akuwagwirabe ntchito wotsatila. Ndipo kuyambira pomwe a Prause adazindikira kuti Rhode amalankhula ndi McInnes nthawi ina ndipo sanamwe chakumwa kumaso, akhala akumuneneza kuti amathandizira a Proud Boys (omwe adakumana ndi vuto lalikulu chifukwa chotsutsana mumsewu ndi Antifa). Ndidakali mwayi, kuganiza kwanga, kuitana a Proud Boys ngati kalabu yaimayi, koma Rhodes kwenikweni idasankha Proud Boys ngati "gulu lowonjezera" kangapo. Sanali membala, kapena wowathandizira. Palibe Fap yomwe sinakhalepo yandale ndipo adadzipereka kupereka chithandizo kwa omwe akuzifuna. Izi sizikulepheretsa Prause kupitiriza kumulumikiza iye "oyera akulu" kudzera mumayanjano ofooka omwe adangoyankhulana ndi McInnes, yemwe si mkulu wa azungu.
Mlanduwo uyenera kukhala wosangalatsa kuwonera pamene akutsegulira zonena za Twitter kuti azitsutsidwa mwalamulo. Kodi a Prause adzaimbidwa mlandu wofalitsa milandu yabodza pa TV?
Megan Fox ndi wolemba “Khulupirirani Umboni; Kufa kwa Njira Yoyambira kuchokera ku Salome kupita ku #MeToo. " Tsatirani pa Twitter @MeganFoxWriter
Zindikirani: Zomwe zinaperekedwa ndi malo ena ogulitsira: "Nkhondo zolaula sizimachitika mu Novembala Novembala", Wolemba Diana Davison wa The Post Zakachikwi. Davison adapanganso kanema kamphindi kakang'ono ka 6 kokhudzana ndi zamakhalidwe abwino a Prause: “Kodi Zolaula Zolaula?”, ndi mndandanda wamasiku ano a kuzunzidwa kwa Prause / milandu yabodza: Nthawi ya Nkhondo Yaphunziro ya VSS.
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