Ndi Megan Fox – Novembala 21, 2019.
Alex Rhodes ndi munthu wosangalatsa. Ali ndi zaka 11, akuti adayamba chizolowezi choonera zolaula chomwe chidasintha moyo wake. Ataganiza zochitapo kanthu, adapeza gulu la anthu pa intaneti omwe anali ndi mavuto omwewo. Anayambitsa kampani yake, No Fap , mu 2011 ngati malo ochezera anthu kuti akambirane za zotsatira za kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mopitirira muyeso, khalidwe logonana mokakamiza, komanso kuchira. "Fap" ndi mawu achilankhulo ofotokozera maliseche. Njira ya Rhodes yopezera kuchira inayamba ndi kusiya maliseche ndikupewa zolaula.
Madera omwe adakhazikitsa adakula kukhala anthu ambiri ochokera kosiyanasiyana omwe adapindula ndi kulimbikitsidwa kwa No Fap. Tsambali likuti, "tili pano kuti tikuthandizireni kusiya zolaula, kukonza maubale anu, komanso kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu zogonana." Rhode akuti sakukakamira kuletsa zolaula kapena kuletsa mwanjira iliyonse, koma akufuna gulu pomwe anthu omwe adakhudzidwa ndi izi akhoza kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake kuti athetse izi. Palibe Fap sanakhazikike pachipembedzo, chifukwa Rhode si munthu wokhulupirira zilizonse, zomwe zimapangitsa tsamba lake ndi ntchito zake kukhala zowopsa kwambiri kwa makampani opanga zolaula chifukwa sangathe kumenyedwa ngati wachangu wachipembedzo.
Ngakhale kuti chizolowezi chogonana ndi anthu okonda zolaula sichinalembedwe mu Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, ndi vuto lenileni lomwe anthu ambiri amakumana nalo. Malinga ndi Psych Guides, "chizolowezi chogonana ndi anthu okonda zolaula, chomwe ndi gawo la chizolowezi chogonana , chingatanthauze makhalidwe osiyanasiyana omwe amachitidwa mopitirira muyeso ndipo amakhudza moyo wa munthu."
Pali zambirimbiri zokhudza momwe kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumakhudzira ana, kuphatikizapo kuwonjezeka kwa milandu yokhudza kugonana monga momwe zanenedwera ku UK , komwe "ziwerengero zochokera ku [magwero] 30 zikusonyeza kuti malipoti okhudza milandu yokhudza kugonana ndi ana azaka 10 ndi pansi awonjezeka kawiri kuchoka pa 204 mu 2013-14 kufika pa 456 mu 2016-17. Akatswiri ku UK akunena kuti kuwonjezeka kwa ana omwe amaonera zolaula ndi chifukwa chake.
Kusuta zolaula ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu zomwe zimayambitsa kusweka kwa maukwati ndi maubwenzi. Psychology Today inanena kuti maukwati 500,000 omwe amatha chaka chilichonse amatchula chizolowezi cha zolaula ngati chifukwa chake.
Ndi malingaliro amenewo, bungwe ngati No Fap likuwoneka ngati lingakhale yankho losagawanika kwa iwo omwe amasankha kuti athe kuwongolera moyo wawo m'njira yabwino. Koma anthu ena si mafani. Akatswiri azakugonana ndi mafakitale a zolaula amadana ndi Alex Rhodes mwachidwi chomwe amakonda kusungira zoseweretsa zawo.
Rhodes yasumira mlandu wokhudza kuipitsa wophunzirira wa Kinsey Institute, Nicole Prause, wasayansi yemwe amaphunzira za kugonana. Rhode amakhulupirira kuti a Prause adamufuna kuti awononge bizinesi yake ndikunyoza dzina lake. Akatswiri azakugonana ngati Prause ali ndi malingaliro odabwitsa pankhani yokhudza kugonana kwa anthu. Patsamba lake la Twitter, a Prause amadandaula chifukwa cholephera kuphunzira zakugonana kwa ana osatchedwa kuti pedophile.
Izi sizodabwitsa chifukwa cha munthu amene anaphunzira ku Kinsey Institute. Alfred Kinsey anali chilombo. Kuyesera kwake kugonana ndi ana kuyenera kuti kunamuika m'ndende. Anafalitsa kafukufuku wokhudza ana ndi ana aang'ono osachepera 188 omwe anagwiritsidwa ntchito molakwika ndi anthu ogonana ndi ana omwe amadziwika ndi Kinsey kuti apangitse kugonana ndipo kugonana kwawo kunalembedwa nthawi yake ndi kulembedwa kuti aphunzire. Kafukufuku wake anapezeka kuti ndi wachinyengo komanso wolakwa, koma kafukufukuyu akugwiritsidwabe ntchito ndi anthu ngati Prause ndi anzake. Pali filimu yolembedwa pa YouTube yotchedwa "The Children of Table 34" yokhudza nkhanza zomwe ana adakumana nazo chifukwa cha Kinsey. Kinsey anachita zambiri kuti ana azigonana ndi ana kuposa wina aliyense amene analipo kale kapena pambuyo pake koma pali anthu omwe amadziona kuti ndi odziwika bwino kuti amalize sukulu yotchedwa dzina lake. N'zoonekeratu kuti Prause sakuona vuto lililonse poika ana m'maphunziro okhudza kugonana.
(Chithunzithunzi cha Twitter)
"Mukalankhula zakugonana kwa achinyamata, anthu adzanena kuti mukulimbikitsa kuwonetsa ana zolaula," adalemba. "Zachitika kwa ine komanso anzanga ambiri. Ndizoyipa, zonyoza, komanso zowopsa. Ichi ndichifukwa chake pali maphunziro ochepa okhudzana ndi kugonana kwa achinyamata. Kuwopseza kwenikweni. ”
Ndinafikira a Prause ndikumufunsa kuti afotokozere momwe angaphunzirire "zachinyamata zogonana" osaphwanya malamulo apano okhudza kuwononga ana ndi kuphwanya zaka zovomerezeka ndipo sanayankhidwe. Kodi asayansi achikulire angafufuze bwanji za kugonana kwa ana pomwe ana sangathe kuvomereza zogonana? Kodi kafukufukuyu amagwira ntchito bwanji? Ndizosangalatsanso kuti ochita zachiwerewere akung'ung'udza chifukwa chosowa mwayi kwa ana pazaka zakugonana sakudziwa momwe zimawonekera zonyansa kwa anthu wamba omwe saganizira za ana omwe amagonana.
Khalidwe la Prause pa intaneti ku mabungwe otsutsa zolaula ndi Rhodes lalembedwa bwino komanso lachilendo kwambiri. Your Brain on Porn yasonkhanitsa zithunzi zambiri za khalidwe lake pa intaneti zomwe zikuphatikizapo kuzunza okamba nkhani a Ted Talk omwe amalankhula za chizolowezi chogonana ndi zolaula. Zikuwoneka kuti Prause akuda nkhawa kwambiri ndi gulu lothandizira anthu omwe ali ndi chizolowezi chogonana ndi zolaula ndikuti amakhulupirira kuti zolaula ndi zabwino kwa anthu osati zoledzeretsa. Chikhulupiriro ichi chamupangitsa kuti ayambe nkhondo yonyoza aliyense amene sagwirizana naye.
Pembedzero sakonda kulumikizidwa ndi malonda azolaula ndikunena kuti ndiwodzipatula kwathunthu komanso wasayansi. Koma amapita kumakampani opanga zolaula ndipo amajambulidwa ndi akatswiri olaula ndipo amalowerera pagulu ndi mabungwe azamalonda kuti aletse malamulo omwe sakonda. Ndiye iye mu pinki kumanja kwenikweni.
(Zithunzi kuchokera pa Twitter)
(Zithunzi kuchokera pa Twitter)
California Proposition 60 inali malamulo ofuna ma kondomu munjira zolaula kuti muchepetse kufalikira kwa HIV. Prause kwambiri adatsutsa lamuloli pamodzi ndi olimbikitsa kuchita zolaula. Amatha kuwonekera pa Twitter amalumikizana pafupipafupi komanso kuteteza makampani ojambula zolaula komanso ochita zogonana.
Khothi la Rhode likuti a Prause adamuimba kuti ndi "wankhanza, wachiwerewere, wankhanza, wolimbikitsa zachiwawa kwa azimayi, ogwiritsira ntchito intaneti, atalamulidwa / osagwirizana ndi anthu ochita zachiwerewere [h] adadya ndikuwopseza kugwiriridwa." Pali umboni wa chimodzi mwazinthuzi kukhala bodza lowonekera.
Atatumiza a Prause pa Twitter kuti wapanga madandaulo a FBI okhudza Rhodes, adafunafuna malipotiwo kudzera mu Ufulu wa Zidziwitso. Zomwe adapeza adatsimikiza kuti adapanga.
“Wokondedwa Bambo Rhodes,” inatero kalata yochokera ku FBI poyankha FOIA. FBI yamaliza kufufuza zolemba zake mogwirizana ndi pempho lanu… Sitinathe kuzindikira pempho lililonse lalikulu la fayilo ndipo chifukwa chake pempho lanu likutsekedwa ndi oyang'anira.”
Ngakhale umboni uwu ukusonyeza kuti Prause sanapereke lipoti lotere ku FBI, akupitirizabe kubwereza zomwe ananena poyera, zomwe mlandu wa Rhodes umanena kuti zikuwononga mbiri yake. Rhodes si munthu yekhayo amene amayesa kuipitsa malipoti abodza a apolisi. Prause adapitilizanso kufunafuna Gary Wilson, mphunzitsi wa physiology yemwe ali ndi chidwi ndi zomwe apeza posachedwapa pa neuroscience, yemwe adayambitsa Your Brain and Porn. Prause amadzudzula Wilson nthawi zonse kuti amamutsatira komanso kukhala ndi malipoti angapo apolisi chifukwa chomuzunza. Wilson akunena kuti palibe chomwe chili chowona ndipo ali ndi zikalata zotsimikizira izi. Wilson adalemba patsamba lake:
Ngakhale a Prause akupitilizabe kunamizira kuti ndi "wozunzidwayo," ndi a Prause omwe adayambitsa kulumikizana konse ndikuzunza anthu ndi mabungwe omwe atchulidwa patsamba lino. Palibe aliyense pamndandandandawu yemwe wazunza a Nicole Prause. Malingaliro ake onena za kukhala "wozembera" kapena wolakwitsa kwa "odana ndi zolaula" alibe chikalata chimodzi cholemba. Umboni wonse womwe amapereka umadzipangira wokha: chithunzi chimodzi, maimelo ochepa kuchokera kwa iye kupita kwa ena omwe amafotokoza kuzunzidwa, ndi asanu osakhulupirika omwe amaleka ndikusiya makalata okhala ndi zonama. Mudzawonanso umboni wazodandaula zingapo zomwe a Prause apereka ndi mabungwe osiyanasiyana olamula - omwe achotsedwa mwachidule kapena kufufuzidwa ndi kuchotsedwa ntchito. Akuwoneka kuti akupereka madandaulo abodzawa kuti apitilize kunena kuti zomwe akwaniritsa zonse "zikufufuzidwa."
Mwina chitsanzo chachikulu cha khalidwe la Prause mu nkhaniyi ndi mlandu wake wakuti Rhodes ndi Mnazi komanso wokonda azungu, monga momwe zafotokozedwera mu mlanduwu. Izi siziyenera kudabwitsa aliyense amene wakhala akumvetsera kuyambira 2016. Nthawi iliyonse SJW akamatsutsana ndi munthu wina, munthuyo amakhala Mnazi. Kodi mlandu wa Rhodes ndi uti? Analola wofotokozera nkhani zandale Gavin McInnes kuti amufunse mafunso pamene anali kugwira ntchito ku Vice . Ndipo popeza Prause adazindikira kuti Rhodes adalankhula ndi McInnes nthawi ina ndipo sanamupatse chakumwa, wakhala akumuneneza kuti akuthandiza a Proud Boys (omwe adakumana ndi mavuto ambiri chifukwa chokangana mumsewu ndi Antifa). Ndi nkhani yovuta, m'malingaliro mwanga, kutcha a Proud Boys chilichonse kupatula kalabu ya amuna yomwa mowa, koma Rhodes wakana a Proud Boys ngati "gulu lochita zinthu monyanyira" nthawi zingapo. Sanali membala, kapena wothandiza. Palibe Fap yemwe sanakhalepo wandale ndipo wadzipereka kupereka thandizo kwa aliyense amene akufunikira. Izi sizimaletsa Prause kupitiriza kumugwirizanitsa ndi "okonda kutchuka kwa azungu" kudzera mu mgwirizano wofooka wa kuyankhulana ndi McInnes, yemwenso si wokonda kutchuka kwa azungu.
Mlanduwo uyenera kukhala wosangalatsa kuwonera pamene akutsegulira zonena za Twitter kuti azitsutsidwa mwalamulo. Kodi a Prause adzaimbidwa mlandu wofalitsa milandu yabodza pa TV?
Megan Fox ndiye mlembi wa buku lakuti “Believe Evidence; The Death of Due Process from Salome to #MeToo.” Titsatireni pa Twitter @MeganFoxWriter
Chidziwitso: Nkhani yochokera ku malo ena owonetsera: “Nkhondo zolaula zimakhala zachinsinsi mu No Nut November” , lolembedwa ndi Diana Davison wa The Post Millennial . Davison adapanganso kanema wa mphindi 6 wonena za machitidwe oipa a Prause: “Kodi Zolaula Zimakhala Zosokoneza?” , ndi nthawi iyi ya Prause yozunza/zonena zabodza: VSS Academic War Timeline.