Ndinasankha fanizo la zipatso zabodza pofotokoza nkhani yaposachedwa ya Prause ndi Pfaus Kuwona Maganizo Ogonana Okhudzana ndi Kugonana Kwakukulu, Osati Erectile Dysfunction. Sindinachite izi chifukwa cha chizindikiro cha phallic ndi nthochi koma chifukwa olembawo ali ndi zifukwa zabodza. Idasindikizidwa mu magazini yotchedwa Sexual Medicine (04 / 2015; DOI: 10.1002 / sm2.58) iyi nkhani Zikuwoneka kuti zikupereka zomwe zapezedwa pazoyeserera za Prause pazakafukufuku wa zolaula. Mukayang'anitsitsa, nkhaniyo imasowa chilichonse.
Malingana ndi mayesero amenewa, olembawo amapereka zifukwa zosadziwika kuti zolaula ndizosavulaza ndipo ziyenera kuyamikiridwa ngati chakudya chogonana. Izi zikugwirizana ndi "chigamulo" chawo choyambirira chomwe chizoloŵezi cha kugonana sichinaliko, ndipo kuti anthu ena amafunikira zambiri zabwino.
Wolemba wotsogola wapangitsa kuti nkhondo yake isokoneze lingaliro loti zolaula komanso zikhalidwe zakugonana zitha kukhala zosokoneza bongo. M'malo ochezera a pa Intaneti adachita kukhala siginecha yake kuti azitchula zakugonana ngati "zopanda pake". Koma kafukufuku wake wonse amakhala ndi njira yofananira. Amatenga zambiri zokayikitsa potengera njira zofufuzira za lousy ndikulengeza za kugwedeza, ngati sikugwirizana, kupeza.
Ndimakhala ngati ndimamvetsetsa izi. Chowonadi chakuti kafukufuku woyipa amalephera kuwonetsa kulumikizana kwa zinthu ziwiri sizongokhala zopanda tanthauzo, ndizosangalatsa. Ngati mukufuna kutenga mitu yankhani, simunganene kuti "Palibe Mgwirizano Wodalirika Wopezeka Pakati pa Zithunzi Zakale za Anthu Ena Kuwona M'labu ndi Kudziona Kuti Mumakonda Kugonana!" Izi zitha kumveka zosangalatsa monga mutu wankhani ku Pan-Arabia Enquirer: "Zisangalalo zathamangira ku Expat Pambuyo pa Mapulani a Brunch!"
Choncho pakadali pano mutuwu umasokoneza "kupeza" kuti zolaula zimakhala zabwino kwa kugonana kwanu, zomwe sizothandiza ngati zimakhala zosangalatsa. Pakhala pali zifukwa zowonjezera komanso zochititsa chidwi za kafufuzidwe kameneka potsata zomwe deta izi zikuyimira komanso kuti palibe zifukwa za mtundu uliwonse zomwe zingachokere kwa iwo. Zero.
Kulengeza kuti izi ndi kafukufuku wasayansi ndi wofufuza wa UCLA zomwe zikutsimikizira chilichonse chokhudza zolaula ndizolakwika pamitundu yonse. Ndizolakwika kwambiri kuti tisatchulidwe asayansi momwe mudzawonere ngati mungayang'ane pamndandanda womwe watchulidwa pansipa. Siphunziro kwenikweni, koma kuyesayesa kwa meta-kusanthula magawo am'mbuyomu. Ndipo pali mafunso okhudza ngati izi zitha kuphatikizidwa mwanjira iliyonse; chifukwa chake amatchedwa "pepala loyera". Pomaliza, ngakhale kuti izi zimachokera kuntchito ya Dr. Prause ku UCLA, maubwenzi ake akale ndi bungweli akuwoneka kuti atha.
Izi zomwe zimatchedwa kuphunzira zawonongedwa ndi Dr. Rick Isenberg MD, Uro-Gynecology Interim Exec Director, American Foundation for Addiction Research, yemwe adalemba mwatsatanetsatane kwa olemba nyuzipepalayi ndipo adanena mwamseri kuti akudabwa kuti oyenerera Ofufuza anzawo angaganize kuti izi ndi zodalirika kufufuza koyenera kutulutsa. Phunziroli lasankhidwa pazinthu zoyambirira komanso zomveka bwino nkhani ndi Gabe Deem. Kafukufuku yemwe amathandizira kulumikizana ndi zolaula-ED kwakhala adatchulidwa mu ubongo wanu pa zolaula. Nkhani yaposachedwa ya Prause inatsatiranso m'nkhani yotsatira ya Rob Weiss LCSW ndi Dr. Stefanie Carnes. Palibe mmodzi wa otsutsawa amene ali ndi zifukwa zomveka, ngakhale kuti onse amakhulupirira, chifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa kafufuzidwe komanso kafukufuku wawo, kuti kugonana ndi zolaula zimatha kukhala osokoneza bongo komanso kuti zolaula za pa intaneti zili ndi zoopsa zodziwika.
Pali akatswiri ena omwe amati zolaula zitha kuthandiza odwala ena kuthana ndi vuto lawo logonana. Koma ngakhale zili choncho, zilibe kanthu kuti zolaula zitha kukhala zosokoneza komanso zovulaza. Malingaliro awiriwa akuyenera kufufuzidwa padera chifukwa chowonadi kapena chabodza cha chimodzi sichitsimikizira kapena kutsutsa china.
Ngati mwakhala mukutsutsana ndi mkangano wonsewu, mutha kuona kuti pali chinthu china chomwe chikuwopsya. Zithunzi zolaula zingakukhulupirire kuti madokotala ndi mabungwe omwe amagwira ntchito ndi kugonana ndi olaula amakhala mmenemo chifukwa cha ndalamazo. Koma ambiri a ife omwe timachita ntchitoyi sikuti ndife olemera.
amene is kukhala wolemera? Makampani oonera zolaula. Ndipo mwa njira yomwe makampani akuluakulu ndi maulendo a intaneti amagwiritsira ntchito mwaukali ofuna olemba ndi ochita kafukufuku amene angakhale okonzeka kulemba zinthu zofuna zawo. Ndikudziwa izi chifukwa ndadalitsidwa ndi machitidwe apamwamba pa intaneti ndikudziwa ngati ndingakonde kufotokozera zosangalatsa zawo polemba.
Kusemphana pakati pa kukula ndi mphamvu zamakampani opanga zolaula komanso chilolezo chogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo sikutsutsana. Ngati zolaula ndi nsomba ndiye kuti mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndi paramecium. Izi ndi zoona ngakhale kufunikira kwa kukonzanso zakugonana ndi upangiri zikupitilira kukula (onaninso wanga positi Chizolowezi Kugonana ndichowona: Ingofunsani Wogonana). Kodi ndikunena kuti mtundu wamankhwala omwe akatswiri ofufuza zolaula amatulutsa umagulidwa ndikulipidwa? Ayi. Sindikudziwa komwe ndalama zimachokera. Ndipo sindikudziwa momwe nkhaniyi idutsira opitilira mu magazini ina yotchuka. Koma pankhaniyi zotsatirazi ndizachinyengo komanso zovulaza mosasamala kanthu za zomwe zikuyambitsa.