Sniewski, Luke, ndi Panteá Farvid.
Chizolowezi Chogonana ndi Kukakamiza (2019): 1-20.
Kudalirika
Kugwiritsa ntchito mwazovuta zolaula (SPPPU) posachedwa kwakhala malo ofunikira kwambiri pakukhudzana ndi zachiwerewere. Amuna achiwerewere omwe ali ndi SPPPU anena zakusowa kwa chithandizo chothandizira kapena chomwe chilipo. Munkhaniyi, tanena za milandu isanu ndi umodzi ya amuna omwe ali ndi SPPPU pomwe adayang'aniridwa ndi dongosolo lodziletsa. Cholinga cha nkhaniyo ndikuwunikira zazomwe amunawo amachita, zomwe amachita, komanso zowunikira zomwe zimawachitikira. Kafukufukuyu adagwiritsa ntchito njira zosakanikirana zamafukufuku zomwe zimagwiritsa ntchito zoyankhulana, kutsatsa masamba kumapeto, zolemba, komanso kusinkhasinkha koyambira. Zotsatira zikuwonetsa kuti kapangidwe kazinthu ndi kasungidwe kazomwe zimayambitsa kukhudzika kwa njira zomwe zingathandize kuthana ndi SPPPU, mosadalira kuchitapo kanthu kogwiritsidwa ntchito. Zotsatira zikuonetsa kuti kudzivomera ndi kuvomereza kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kungayimire zolinga zomwe zingachitike, ndizothandiza, komanso zomwe zingatheke kuposa kudziletsa. Zowonjezera zakonzedwa. Nkhaniyi imathandizira kudzaza kusiyana pakati pofufuza komanso kukambirana zinthu zosiyanasiyana zokhudzana ndi zomwe zimayimira njira zopambana zothandizira ndi zotsatira za abambo omwe ali ndi SPPPU, komanso zovuta zomwe abambo amakumana nazo akamagwira ntchito kudzera pa SPPPU.
Zowonjezera kuchokera ku phunziro lonse
NKHANI: Ofufuzawo adagwiritsa ntchito kusinkhasinkha, mitengo ya tsiku ndi tsiku komanso cheke. Maphunziro onse a 6 adawoneka kuti akuwona kuti kusinkhasinkha ndikothandiza kwambiri. Komabe, powerenga nkhani zomwe timazindikira kuti 2 idachita zolaula za ED (osanenapo za kuthetsa kwa PIED). Milandu yaying'ono imawoneka kuti ikukwera. Mmodzi amafotokoza zizindikiro za kusiya.
Preston (34, M_aori) - mphamvu yowerengera
Preston anadzizindikiritsa yekha ndi SPPPU chifukwa ankada nkhawa ndi nthawi yomwe amathera akuonera ndi kuganizira za zolaula. Kwa iye, zolaula zinali zitakula kwambiri kuposa zomwe amakonda kwambiri ndipo zinafika pamlingo womwe zithunzi zolaula zinali zofunika kwambiri pa moyo wake. Ananena kuti amaonera zolaula kwa maola ambiri patsiku , kupanga ndi kukhazikitsa miyambo yeniyeni yowonera nthawi yake yowonera (monga, kukonza chipinda chake, magetsi, ndi mpando mwanjira inayake komanso mwadongosolo asanawonere, kuchotsa mbiri ya msakatuli wake atawonera, ndikuyeretsa atawonera mwanjira yofanana), ndikuwononga nthawi yambiri kuti asunge umunthu wake pa intaneti m'gulu lodziwika bwino la zolaula pa intaneti pa PornHub, tsamba lalikulu kwambiri la zolaula pa intaneti padziko lonse lapansi.
Patrick (40, P_akeh_a) —kuletsa kudziletsa
Patrick anadzipereka pa kafukufukuyu chifukwa anali ndi nkhawa ndi nthawi yomwe ankaonera zolaula, komanso momwe ankaonera. Patrick nthawi zonse ankaonera zolaula kwa maola angapo nthawi imodzi uku akusiya mwana wake wamng'ono wosamuyang'aniridwa m'chipinda chochezera kuti azisewera kapena kuonera wailesi yakanema.
Pedro (35, P_akeh_a) - cholowa m'malo mwaubwenzi
Pedro anadzinenera yekha kuti anali namwali. Pedro analankhula za manyazi omwe anakumana nawo poyesa kugonana ndi akazi m'mbuyomu. Kugonana kwake kwaposachedwa kunatha pamene mantha ndi nkhawa zake zinamulepheretsa kupeza mbewa. Anati vuto lake logonana linabwera chifukwa cha kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula.........
Pedro adanena kuti chiwerengero cha anthu oonera zolaula chinali chochepa kwambiri pofika kumapeto kwa kafukufukuyu komanso kusintha kwakukulu kwa malingaliro ndi zizindikiro za thanzi la maganizo. Ngakhale kuti adawonjezera mlingo wa imodzi mwa mankhwala ake oletsa nkhawa panthawi ya kafukufukuyu chifukwa cha kupsinjika pantchito, adati apitiliza kusinkhasinkha chifukwa cha ubwino womwe adapeza wokhala chete, woganizira, komanso wopumula womwe adakumana nawo pambuyo pa gawo lililonse.
Peter (29, P_akeh_a) - mphamvu yowonetsera yolingalira
Peter ankada nkhawa ndi mtundu wa zithunzi zolaula zomwe ankaonera. Anakopeka ndi zithunzi zolaula zomwe zinkaoneka ngati zogwiririra . Pamene ankaonetsa zochitikazo moona mtima komanso moona mtima, ankanena kuti ankasangalala kwambiri akamazionera. Peter ankaona kuti zomwe amakonda pa zithunzi zolaula zinali kuphwanya miyezo ya makhalidwe abwino komanso ya makhalidwe abwino yomwe anali nayo…..
Peter atayamba kusinkhasinkha, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kunatha. Patatha milungu ingapo akusinkhasinkha, adazindikira kuti kukhazikika, mtendere, komanso kusangalala zomwe adakumana nazo posinkhasinkha ndizomwe zinali malingaliro omwe anali kufunafuna, komanso kufikira kwakanthawi, ataonera zolaula.
Perry (22, P_akeh_a) - kudzipereka kovomerezeka
Perry ankaona kuti alibe mphamvu pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndipo kuonera zolaula ndiyo njira yokhayo yomwe angathanirane ndi kulamulira malingaliro, makamaka mkwiyo . Ananena kuti anakwiyira anzake ndi abale ake ngati atasiya zolaula kwa nthawi yayitali, zomwe adazitcha kuti nthawi ya sabata imodzi kapena ziwiri. Kuphatikiza apo, Perry ankamva manyazi komanso kudzimva wolakwa akakumana ndi akazi m'malo ochezera chifukwa cha malingaliro okhudzana ndi kugonana komanso kusasamala za kugonana komwe adakumana nako nthawi yomweyo akamayandikira kwa iwo……
Pakutha kwa kafukufukuyu, Perry adanenanso kuti akuvomereza kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwake, ngakhale kuchuluka kwa kuchuluka komanso kuchuluka kwa nthawi kumatsika pang'ono. Anati zomwe zinamuchitikirazi zinamupangitsa kuti azikhala ndi chidwi komanso azindikire kuti, bwanji, komanso momwe amagwiritsira ntchito zolaula. Ngakhale a Perry adapitilizabe kuonera zolaula, sanamvekenso kuti zinali zovuta ndipo adanenanso kuti amawononga nthawi yambiri ndikuwona zolaula ndikudziweruza yekha mwankhanza.
Pablo (29, P_akeh_a) -kutha kwa mphekesera
Pablo ankaona kuti analibe mphamvu pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Pablo ankatha maola angapo tsiku lililonse akuganizira za zolaula, kaya pamene anali kuonera zolaula kapena poganizira zowonera zolaula nthawi ina iliyonse akamatanganidwa ndi kuchita zinazake. Pablo anapita kwa dokotala ndi nkhawa za mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana omwe anali nawo, ndipo ngakhale adaulula nkhawa zake zokhudza kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa dokotala wake, Pablo adatumizidwa kwa katswiri wa kubereka wamwamuna komwe adapatsidwa jekeseni wa testosterone. Pablo adanena kuti kulowererapo kwa testosterone kunalibe phindu kapena phindu pa vuto lake logonana, ndipo zomwe zidamuchitikirazi zidamulepheretsa kupeza thandizo lina lililonse pankhani yogwiritsa ntchito zolaula . Kuyankhulana asanaphunzire kunali koyamba kuti Pablo alankhule momasuka ndi aliyense pankhani yogwiritsa ntchito zolaula zake…
Pamene phunziroli linayamba, kuonera zolaula kunali kutasiya kusangalala ndi chisangalalo chake chonse, ndipo ankangoyang'ana chifukwa cha chizolowezi komanso kutopa. Pofika kumapeto kwa phunziroli, Pablo anatha kuonera zolaula popanda kuziona mwanjira yovutitsa. Ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri zomwe Pablo ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula zinali zitachepa pang'ono, nthawi yake yonse inachepa kwambiri chifukwa sankagwiritsanso ntchito nthawi yambiri akuganizira za zolaula kapena kufunafuna zolaula.