Kusadziletsa kapena Kuvomereza? Mndandanda Wazomwe Amakumana Nazo Amuna Ali Ndi Njira Zowunikira Zoyeserera Zolaula Zoyeserera (2019)

Sniewski, Luke, ndi Panteá Farvid.

 Kugonana & Kukakamira (2019): 1-20.

Kudalirika

Kugwiritsa ntchito mwazovuta zolaula (SPPPU) posachedwa kwakhala malo ofunikira kwambiri pakukhudzana ndi zachiwerewere. Amuna achiwerewere omwe ali ndi SPPPU anena zakusowa kwa chithandizo chothandizira kapena chomwe chilipo. Munkhaniyi, tanena za milandu isanu ndi umodzi ya amuna omwe ali ndi SPPPU pomwe adayang'aniridwa ndi dongosolo lodziletsa. Cholinga cha nkhaniyo ndikuwunikira zazomwe amunawo amachita, zomwe amachita, komanso zowunikira zomwe zimawachitikira. Kafukufukuyu adagwiritsa ntchito njira zosakanikirana zamafukufuku zomwe zimagwiritsa ntchito zoyankhulana, kutsatsa masamba kumapeto, zolemba, komanso kusinkhasinkha koyambira. Zotsatira zikuwonetsa kuti kapangidwe kazinthu ndi kasungidwe kazomwe zimayambitsa kukhudzika kwa njira zomwe zingathandize kuthana ndi SPPPU, mosadalira kuchitapo kanthu kogwiritsidwa ntchito. Zotsatira zikuonetsa kuti kudzivomera ndi kuvomereza kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kungayimire zolinga zomwe zingachitike, ndizothandiza, komanso zomwe zingatheke kuposa kudziletsa. Zowonjezera zakonzedwa. Nkhaniyi imathandizira kudzaza kusiyana pakati pofufuza komanso kukambirana zinthu zosiyanasiyana zokhudzana ndi zomwe zimayimira njira zopambana zothandizira ndi zotsatira za abambo omwe ali ndi SPPPU, komanso zovuta zomwe abambo amakumana nazo akamagwira ntchito kudzera pa SPPPU.


Zowonjezera kuchokera ku phunziro lonse

NKHANI: Ofufuzawo adagwiritsa ntchito kusinkhasinkha, mitengo ya tsiku ndi tsiku komanso cheke. Maphunziro onse a 6 adawoneka kuti akuwona kuti kusinkhasinkha ndikothandiza kwambiri. Komabe, powerenga nkhani zomwe timazindikira kuti 2 idachita zolaula za ED (osanenapo za kuthetsa kwa PIED). Milandu yaying'ono imawoneka kuti ikukwera. Mmodzi amafotokoza zizindikiro za kusiya.

Preston (34, M_aori) - mphamvu yowerengera

Preston adadziwika yekha ndi SPPPU chifukwa anali ndi nkhawa ndi kuchuluka kwa nthawi yomwe amakhala ndikuwonera komanso kuyang'ana zolaula. Kwa iye, zolaula zinali zitakulirakulira kuposa zokonda zake ndikufika pamlingo pomwe zolaula ndizofunika kwambiri pamoyo wake. Adanenanso kuti amaonera zolaula kwa maola angapo patsiku, kupanga ndikukhazikitsa miyambo inayake yowonera pamadongosolo ake owonera (mwachitsanzo, kukonza chipinda chake, kuyatsa, ndi mpando wake m'njira yofananira asanayang'ane, kukonza mbiri ya asakatuli atawona, ndikuyeretsa atatha kuwona momwemo) , ndikuwononga ndalama zochulukirapo kuti asungitse nthawi yake pa intaneti pagulu lodziwika bwino pa zolaula pa PornHub, tsamba lalikulu kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi lolaula

Patrick (40, P_akeh_a) —kuletsa kudziletsa

Patrick adadzipereka kuchita kafukufukuyu pompano chifukwa anali ndi chidwi ndi kutalika kwa nthawi yake yoonera zolaula, komanso momwe anawonera. Patrick pafupipafupi ankawonera zolaula kwa maola angapo nthawi kusiya mwana wake wakhanda osayang'aniridwa mchipinda chochezera kusewera ndi / kapena kuonera TV.

Pedro (35, P_akeh_a) - cholowa m'malo mwaubwenzi

Pedro adadzinenera kuti anali namwali. Pedro adalankhula za zamanyazi zomwe adakumana nazo poyesa kugonana ndi akazi. Kugonana komwe adakumana nako komwe adatha pomwe mantha ndi nkhawa zidamulepheretsa kupanga chibwenzi. Anatinso kuti anali ndi vuto logonana chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula ……… ..

Pedro adanenanso kuchepa kwakukulu kwa kuwonera zolaula pofika kumapeto kwa kafukufukuyu komanso kuwongolera kwakukulu kwamalingaliro amthupi ndi malingaliro amisala. Ngakhale akuwonjezera kuchuluka kwa imodzi mwamankhwala ake odana ndi nkhawa panthawi yophunzira chifukwa chapanikizika pantchito, adati apitilabe kusinkhasinkha chifukwa chazabwino zomwe adapeza chifukwa chokhala chete, kuganizira, komanso kupumula komwe adakumana nako gawo lililonse.

Peter (29, P_akeh_a) - mphamvu yowonetsera yolingalira

Peter anali ndi nkhawa ndi mtundu wa zolaula zomwe amadya. Anakopeka ndi zolaula zomwe zimapangidwa kuti zikufanane ndi machitidwe akugwiriridwa. Tadawonetsa zochitika zenizeni komanso zodziwikiratu, zomwe zidamuwonetsa zomwe adakumana nazo powonera. Peter adawona kuti zomwe amakonda muma zolaula ndizosemphana ndi malamulo omwe amakhazikitsako ...

Peter atayamba kusinkhasinkha, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kunatha. Patatha milungu ingapo akusinkhasinkha, adazindikira kuti kukhazikika, mtendere, komanso kusangalala zomwe adakumana nazo posinkhasinkha ndizomwe zinali malingaliro omwe anali kufunafuna, komanso kufikira kwakanthawi, ataonera zolaula.

Perry (22, P_akeh_a) - kudzipereka kovomerezeka

Perry adadziona kuti sangathe kuyendetsa bwino zolaula komanso kuti kuonera zolaula ndi njira yokhayo yomwe angathe kuthana ndi kudziwongolera zakukhosi, makamaka mkwiyo. Adanenanso zakupsa kwa abwenzi komanso abale ake ngati atapewa zolaula kwakanthawi, zomwe adanenanso kuti ndi nthawi ya masabata a 1 kapena 2. Kuphatikiza apo, Perry adakhala ndi manyazi komanso kudziimba mlandu akakumana ndi azimayi pazinthu chifukwa zamaganizidwe ogonana komanso kudziletsa komwe adakumana nako atafika kwa iwo ………

Pakutha kwa kafukufukuyu, Perry adanenanso kuti akuvomereza kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwake, ngakhale kuchuluka kwa kuchuluka komanso kuchuluka kwa nthawi kumatsika pang'ono. Anati zomwe zinamuchitikirazi zinamupangitsa kuti azikhala ndi chidwi komanso azindikire kuti, bwanji, komanso momwe amagwiritsira ntchito zolaula. Ngakhale a Perry adapitilizabe kuonera zolaula, sanamvekenso kuti zinali zovuta ndipo adanenanso kuti amawononga nthawi yambiri ndikuwona zolaula ndikudziweruza yekha mwankhanza.

Pablo (29, P_akeh_a) -kutha kwa mphekesera

Pablo ankaona kuti sangathe kuletsa zolaula zake. Pablo ankakhala maola angapo tsiku lililonse akuchita zolaula, mwina poonera zolaula kapena poganiza zolaonera nthawi ina. Pablo adapita kwa dotolo ali ndi nkhawa zokhudzana ndi kugonana komwe adakumana nako, ndipo ngakhale adafotokozera nkhawa zake pakugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa adotolo, Pablo m'malo mwake adatumizidwa kwa katswiri wazachonde wamwamuna komwe adapatsidwa kuwombera kwa testosterone. Pablo adanena kuti kulowererapo kwa testosterone kukhala kopanda phindu kapena wothandiza pakukonzekera kugona kwake, ndipo zovuta zomwezo zimamulepheretsa kupeza thandizo lina lililonse lokhudza zolaula.. Mafunso omwe adachitika asadapange nthawi yoyamba Pablo adatha kuyankhulana momasuka ndi aliyense zokhudzana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ...

Phunzirolo litayamba, kuonera zolaula sikunasangalatsidwe ndi chisangalalo, ndipo anali kungoyang'ana panja ndi kusungulumwa. Pakutha kwa phunziroli, Pablo adatha kuwona zolaula popanda kuziona mwanjira yovuta. Pablo'Nthawi zambiri zolaula zimangokhala zochepa, nthawi yake yonse inachepa kwambiri chifukwa sanathenso kuwonera zolaula kapena kufunafuna zolaula.