NDEMANGA ZA YBOP: Kafukufukuyu adafotokoza zinthu ziwiri zomwe zikuwoneka zotsutsana pankhani yogwiritsa ntchito zolaula:
- Nthawi yambiri yogwiritsira ntchito zolaula zogwirizana ndi kuchepetsa kukhutitsidwa kwa kugonana
- Nthawi yambiri yogwiritsira ntchito zolaula zogwirizana ndi Zochepa kukanika kugonana
Kodi sizingakhale zomveka kuti kukhutitsidwa kosayenera pankhani ya kugonana kukhale kogwirizana ndi kusokonezeka kwa kugonana? Kodi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zambiri kungagwirizane bwanji ndi kukhutitsidwa kochepa pa kugonana komanso kusokonezeka kwa kugonana kochepa?
Yankho lotheka: Kafukufukuyu adagwiritsa ntchito ASEX poyesa momwe kugonana kumagwirira ntchito, osati muyezo wa IIEF . ASEX siisiyanitsa pakati pa kugonana komwe kumachitika panthawi yodziseweretsa maliseche (nthawi zambiri mpaka zolaula za digito) ndi kugonana ndi anthu okwatirana, pomwe IIEF ndi ya anthu ogonana okhaokha. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ambiri mwa anthuwa adayesa ubwino wa kugonana kwawo, chilakolako chawo komanso kugonana kwawo akamagonana - osati akamagonana. Ndipotu, ziwerengero za anthu zikusonyeza kuti ambiri anali kuyankha ngati kuti anali kudziseweretsa maliseche:
- Amsinkhu wa zaka anali 25
- 90% ya amuna nthawi zonse ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula
- Ndi 35% yokha yamaphunziro omwe anali akukhalira limodzi (33% anali osakwatira; 30% anali "pachibwenzi")
Anthu ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi chilakolako chogonana kwambiri komanso amagonana bwino akamagwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Nthawi zambiri amuna omwe amayamba kugonana chifukwa cha zolaula amataya mphamvu zawo zogonana akamagonana pogwiritsa ntchito zolaula za digito (ngakhale kuti ndizodabwitsa kuti ena amakhala osagwira ntchito). Anthu ambiri omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula sazindikira kuchepa kwa vuto lawo logonana chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula ngati akudzisangalatsa okha chifukwa ambiri amatha kudina chinthu chotentha kapena choopsa kwambiri mpaka atakwanitsa "kumaliza ntchitoyo."
Ndi kwa okondedwa omwe ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti nthawi zambiri amazindikira zovuta zawo zokhudzana ndi kugonana, ndipo izi zimachitika chifukwa chakuti asintha momwe amayankhira pa zowonetsera, zogonana, kufunafuna ndi kufunafuna nthawi zonse, komanso zinthu zatsopano zosatha. Osati kugonana ndi okondedwa. Mayeso a ASEX (omwe gulu lofufuzali linagwiritsa ntchito) sadzawona zovuta za kugonana ndi okondedwa - pokhapokha ofufuzawo atawauza kuti azizigwiritsa ntchito pa kugonana ndi okondedwa okha . Gulu lofufuzali silinachite zimenezo mu kafukufukuyu. (Tikudziwa chifukwa tinalemberana makalata ndi wolemba.)
Izi zikufotokozanso zachilendo zomwe zimawoneka kuti ndi "kukhutitsidwa kocheperako " - akapatsidwanso mafunso omwe adafotokoza za kugonana komwe kumachitika pakati pa anthu awiri. Anthu ambiri ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula masiku ano sangachite bwino kugonana ndi anzawo, kapena kugonana ndi anzawo, kapena amanena kuti akumva "kusanza" ndi anzawo - onse pakamwa komanso pogonana (koma alibe mavuto otere akamagwiritsa ntchito zolaula za digito zokha). Kafukufuku wambiri akugwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi mavuto ogonana komanso kuchepetsa kukhutitsidwa kogonana. Pakadali pano, maphunziro atatu mwa awa akuwonetsa kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumayambitsa vuto logonana - pamene ophunzirawo adachotsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndikuchiritsa mavuto ogonana osatha.
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Zomwe zimachitikira Grubbs CPUI
Kafukufukuyu adapezanso kuti chizolowezi choonera zolaula, monga momwe zimayesedwera ndi CPUI ya Grubbs, chinali chogwirizana kwambiri ndi kuchuluka kwa zolaula zomwe zimawonedwa. Nkhani zingapo zokhudza maphunziro a Joshua Grubbs ("maphunziro ozindikira za chizolowezi") zanena kuti kuchuluka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula sikunagwirizane ndi zigoli zomwe zili pa CPUI. Izi ndi zina zomwe zimanena za maphunziro odziwika kuti ndi chizolowezi zatsutsidwa ndi ndemanga yayikuluyi.
Mbiri yaying'ono. Mu 2010 Grubbs adapanga funso loti ayese chizolowezi cha zolaula: CPUI. Mu 2013 Grubbs adasindikiza kafukufuku yemwe adati mafunso ake enieni okhudzana ndi chizolowezi cha zolaula adasinthidwa mwamatsenga kukhala mafunso a "chizolowezi chodziwika bwino cha zolaula" ( zambiri apa ). Palibe mayeso ngati "chizolowezi chodziwika bwino" - pa chizolowezi chilichonse, kuphatikiza chizolowezi cha zolaula, ndipo mayeso ake sanatsimikizidwepo choncho. Komabe, mafunso 1-6 a CPUI-9 amawunika zizindikiro zomwe zimafala pa chizolowezi chilichonse, pomwe mafunso 7-9 (Kuvutika Maganizo) amawunika kudzimva kukhala ndi mlandu, manyazi ndi chisoni. Zotsatira zake, " chizolowezi chenicheni cha zolaula" chikugwirizana kwambiri ndi mafunso 1-6 (Kukakamizika & Kuyesera Kupeza).
Kukakamizika :
- Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndimakonda kwambiri zolaula pa Intaneti.
- Ndikumva kuti sindingalepheretse kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa Intaneti.
- Ngakhale pamene sindikufuna kuona zithunzi zolaula pa intaneti, ndimamva kuti ndikuyandikira
Kuyesetsa Kupeza :
- Nthaŵi zina, ndimayesetsa kukonza ndondomeko yanga kuti ndikhale ndekha kuti ndione zolaula.
- Ndakana kukakhala ndi anzanga kapena kupita kuntchito zina kuti ndipeze zolaula.
- Ndaika zofunikira kwambiri kuti ndiziona zolaula.
Kuvutika Maganizo :
- Ndimachita manyazi ndikaona zolaula pa intaneti.
- Ndimaona kuti ndikuvutika maganizo chifukwa choona zolaula pa intaneti.
- Ndimadwala kwambiri ndikaona zolaula pa intaneti.
Kafukufuku wapano adapeza kuti zolaula zomwe zidagwiritsidwa ntchito zinali zogwirizana kwambiri ndi mafunso 1-6, komabe sizokhudzana konse ndi mafunso 7-9. Izi zikutanthauza kuti kuchuluka kwa zolaula zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndichinthu champhamvu kwambiri pakukula kwa zolaula. Kumbali inayi, manyazi komanso kudziimba mlandu sizinkagwirizana ndi zolaula, ndipo sizigwirizana ndi zolaula. Mwachidule "chizolowezi chozindikira" ngati lingaliro siligwirizana pomwe munthu ayang'anitsitsa.
Cyberpsychol Behav Soc Netw. 2016 Novembala;19(11):649-655.
Blais-Lecours S 1 , Vaillancourt-Morel MP 1 , Sabourin S 1 , Godbout N 2.
Kudalirika
Kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula kudzera pa intaneti tsopano ndi ntchito yamba ngakhale kuti zotsatira zogonana zogwirizana, kuphatikizapo kukhutira ndi kugonana, zimasintha kwambiri. Kafukufukuyu akuyesera njira ziwiri zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito poyendetsa nthawi yomwe cyberpornography imagwiritsira ntchito kugwirizana ndi chiyanjano cha kugonana kudzera mu mgwirizano ndi, poyambirira, kudziletsa kwa cyberpornography (mwachitsanzo, kudzikakamiza, kuyesayesa kupeza, ndi kuwonetsa zolaula) ndi ndi, mu sitepe yachiwiri, mavuto ogwira ntchito za kugonana (mwachitsanzo, kugonana kosayenera, kukakamizidwa, ndi kupeŵa). Maubwenzi osiyanasiyanawa adayesedwanso pazomwe amagonana pogwiritsa ntchito njira zosasinthika za amuna ndi akazi. Chitsanzo cha anthu akuluakulu a 832 ochokera kumudzimo adatsiriza mayankho awo pa intaneti. Zotsatira zimasonyeza kuti peresenti ya 51 ya amayi ndi a 90 peresenti ya amuna amawonetsa kuti akuwona zolaula kudzera pa intaneti. Njira zowonongeka zimasonyeza mayina osagwirizana omwe nthawi yogwiritsira ntchito cyberpornography amagwirizanitsidwa ndi kusakhutira pa kugonana kudzera muzovuta ndi kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa kugonana. Misonkhoyi ya maubwenzi omwe amachitira amuna ndi akazi.
KUCHOKERA Phunziro LOPHUNZIRA:
Choyamba, ngakhale poyang'anira chizolowezi chowonera zolaula za pa intaneti komanso momwe zimagwirira ntchito pogonana, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula za pa intaneti kumagwirizana mwachindunji ndi kusakhutira ndi kugonana. Ngakhale kuti kugwirizana kumeneku kunali kochepa, nthawi yomwe imathera poonera zolaula za pa intaneti ikuwoneka kuti ndi chizindikiro champhamvu cha kukhutitsidwa pang'ono ndi kugonana.
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MAWU OFUNIKA: chizolowezi; zolaula za pa intaneti; jenda; kugonana; kukhutitsidwa pogonana
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