Cyberpornography: Kugwiritsa Ntchito Nthawi, Kusokonezeka Kwachizolowezi, Kugonana, ndi Kukhutirana Pogonana (2016)

YBOP COMMENTS: Kafukufukuyu anafotokoza zochitika ziwiri zotsutsana zokhudzana ndi kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula:

  1. Nthawi yambiri yogwiritsira ntchito zolaula zogwirizana ndi kuchepetsa kukhutitsidwa kwa kugonana
  2. Nthawi yambiri yogwiritsira ntchito zolaula zogwirizana ndi Zochepa kukanika kugonana

Kodi sizingakhale zomveka kuti kukhutira ndi chiwerewere nthawi zonse kumakhala kokhudzana ndi zovuta zogonana? Zingatheke bwanji Zambiri Kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula kugwirizana ndi onse Zochepa kukhutira kugonana ndi Zochepa Kulephera kugonana?

Yankho lothandizira: Phunziroli linagwiritsa ntchito ASEX kuyesa ntchito yogonana, osati muyezo IIEF. ASEX siyimasiyanitsa pakati pakugonana panthawi yakuseweretsa maliseche (makamaka zolaula za digito) ndi kugonana kogonana, pamene IIEF ndi okha pa nkhani zogonana. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mitu yambiri inali kuyerekezera kuthekera kwa ziwombankhanga zawo, kukondweretsedwa ndi zosunthika pomwe akuchita maliseche zolaula - osagonana. M'malo mwake, kuchuluka kwa anthu kumawonetsa kuti ambiri anali kuyankha ngati kuti anali kuseweretsa maliseche:

  • Amsinkhu wa zaka anali 25
  • 90% ya amuna nthawi zonse ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula
  • Ndi 35% yokha yamaphunziro omwe anali akukhalira limodzi (33% anali osakwatira; 30% anali "pachibwenzi")

Owerenga pa Intaneti pafupipafupi nthawi zambiri amayamba kukondana komanso kugwiritsidwa ntchito pochita zinthu zolaula. Ambiri omwe amapezerera zolaula amachititsa kuti ED isayambe kugonana pa masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi zithunzi zolaula (ngakhale ndizodabwitsa kwambiri, ochepa amakhala osagwira ntchito). Ogwiritsa ntchito ambiri sawona kuchepa kwa kugonana chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula ngati ali osangalatsa chifukwa ambiri amatha kupitilirabe kuzinthu zotentha kapena zopitilira muyeso mpaka atatha "kumaliza ntchitoyo."

Ndili ndi zibwenzi kuti ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula zadijito amawona zolaula zawo zokhudzana ndi kugonana, ndipo izi zimachitika chifukwa adakwaniritsa zogonana zawo pazowonera, feteleza, kufunafuna kosakira ndi kufunafuna, komanso zachilendo zatsopano. Osati kugonana pakati pawo. Kuyesa kwa ASEX (komwe gulu lofufuzirali limagwiritsa ntchito) sikungatenge zovuta zogonana pakati pawo - pokhapokha ofufuza atawauza kuti agwiritse ntchito kugonana ndi amuna okhaokha. Gulu lofufuzirali silinachite izi phunziroli. (Tikudziwa chifukwa timalemberana ndi wolemba.)

Izi zikufotokozanso zooneka ngati zosayenerera, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti nkhanizi zikufotokoza otsika “Kukhutitsidwa pogonana” - akamapatsidwanso funso loti anachita Tchulani zogonana zogonana. Ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula masiku ano sangakhale ndi zibwenzi zogonana, kapena maliseche ndi anzawo, kapena akuti akumva kukhala "dzanzi" ndi anzawo - onse pakamwa komanso pogonana (koma alibe zovuta zotere akangogwiritsa ntchito zolaula za digito). Maphunziro ambiri Gwiritsani ntchito zolaula kugwiritsira ntchito zovuta zogonana komanso kuchepetsa kugonana. Pakalipano 3 ya maphunzirowa ikuwonetsa kuti zolaula ndizo kuchititsa Kulephera kugonana - pamene ophunzira adasiya kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndikuchiritsa zovuta zakugonana.

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Zomwe zimachitikira Grubbs CPUI

Kafukufukuyu adawonanso kuti zolaula, monga momwe zimayesedwa ndi Grubbs's CPUI, zinali zogwirizana kwambiri ndi kuchuluka kwa zolaula zomwe zimawonedwa. Zolemba zingapo zokhudzana ndi maphunziro a Joshua Grubbs ("maphunziro omwe amadziwika kuti ndi osokoneza bongo") akuti kuchuluka kwa zolaula kunali osagwirizana kwa zotsatira pa CPUI. Izi ndi zodzinso zina zotsutsana ndi maphunziro omwe amadziwika kuti ndi oledzeretsa awonetsedwa ndi ichi chachikulu critique.

Chiyambi pang'ono. Mu 2010 Grubbs adapanga mafunso ofufuza zolaula: CPUI. Mu 2013 Grubbs adafalitsa kafukufuku wonena kuti mafunso ake okhudzana ndi zolaula adasinthidwa kukhala mafunso "okonda zolaula" (zambiri pano). Palibe mayeso oti "kuyerekezera" - pazovuta zilizonse, kuphatikiza zolaula, ndipo mayeso ake sanatsimikizidwepo konse. Komabe, mafunso 1-6 a CPUI-9 amawunika zizindikilo zomwe zimapezeka pazovuta zonse, pomwe mafunso 7-9 (Kukhumudwa Kwamtima) amayesa kulakwa, manyazi ndi chisoni. Zotsatira zake, "leni zolaula "zimagwirizana kwambiri ndi mafunso 1-6 (Kukakamizidwa & Kuyeserera Kufikira).

Kukhwima:

  1. Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndimakonda kwambiri zolaula pa Intaneti.
  2. Ndikumva kuti sindingalepheretse kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa Intaneti.
  3. Ngakhale pamene sindikufuna kuona zithunzi zolaula pa intaneti, ndimamva kuti ndikuyandikira

Mayendedwe a Kupeza:

  1. Nthaŵi zina, ndimayesetsa kukonza ndondomeko yanga kuti ndikhale ndekha kuti ndione zolaula.
  2. Ndakana kukakhala ndi anzanga kapena kupita kuntchito zina kuti ndipeze zolaula.
  3. Ndaika zofunikira kwambiri kuti ndiziona zolaula.

Mavuto Akumtima:

  1. Ndimachita manyazi ndikaona zolaula pa intaneti.
  2. Ndimaona kuti ndikuvutika maganizo chifukwa choona zolaula pa intaneti.
  3. Ndimadwala kwambiri ndikaona zolaula pa intaneti.

Kafukufuku wapano adapeza kuti zolaula zomwe zidagwiritsidwa ntchito zinali zogwirizana kwambiri ndi mafunso 1-6, komabe sizokhudzana konse ndi mafunso 7-9. Izi zikutanthauza kuti kuchuluka kwa zolaula zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndichinthu champhamvu kwambiri pakukula kwa zolaula. Kumbali inayi, manyazi komanso kudziimba mlandu sizinkagwirizana ndi zolaula, ndipo sizigwirizana ndi zolaula. Mwachidule "chizolowezi chozindikira" ngati lingaliro siligwirizana pomwe munthu ayang'anitsitsa.

LINK KUPHUNZIRA

Cyberpsychol Behav Soc Netw. 2016 Nov;19(11):649-655.

Blais-Lecours S1, Vaillancourt-Morel MP1, Sabourin S1, Godbout N2.

Kudalirika

Kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula kudzera pa intaneti tsopano ndi ntchito yamba ngakhale kuti zotsatira zogonana zogwirizana, kuphatikizapo kukhutira ndi kugonana, zimasintha kwambiri. Kafukufukuyu akuyesera njira ziwiri zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito poyendetsa nthawi yomwe cyberpornography imagwiritsira ntchito kugwirizana ndi chiyanjano cha kugonana kudzera mu mgwirizano ndi, poyambirira, kudziletsa kwa cyberpornography (mwachitsanzo, kudzikakamiza, kuyesayesa kupeza, ndi kuwonetsa zolaula) ndi ndi, mu sitepe yachiwiri, mavuto ogwira ntchito za kugonana (mwachitsanzo, kugonana kosayenera, kukakamizidwa, ndi kupeŵa). Maubwenzi osiyanasiyanawa adayesedwanso pazomwe amagonana pogwiritsa ntchito njira zosasinthika za amuna ndi akazi. Chitsanzo cha anthu akuluakulu a 832 ochokera kumudzimo adatsiriza mayankho awo pa intaneti. Zotsatira zimasonyeza kuti peresenti ya 51 ya amayi ndi a 90 peresenti ya amuna amawonetsa kuti akuwona zolaula kudzera pa intaneti. Njira zowonongeka zimasonyeza mayina osagwirizana omwe nthawi yogwiritsira ntchito cyberpornography amagwirizanitsidwa ndi kusakhutira pa kugonana kudzera muzovuta ndi kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa kugonana. Misonkhoyi ya maubwenzi omwe amachitira amuna ndi akazi.

KUCHOKERA Phunziro LOPHUNZIRA:

Choyamba, ngakhale pamene akulamulira kuti mukhale ndi chizoloŵezi cha cyberpornography ndi ntchito yogonana, Ntchito yogwiritsira ntchito cyberpornography inagwirizana kwambiri ndi kusakhutira kugonana. Ngakhale kuti mgwirizanowu wachindunji unali wochepa, Nthawi yomwe yakhala ikuyang'ana cyberpornography ikuwoneka kuti ndi yamphamvu kwambiri yokhutira kugonana kochepa.

http://www.psy-world.com/asex_print.htm

MAFUNSO: chidutswa; chithunzi; chikhalidwe; kugonana; chikhutiro cha kugonana

PMID: 27831753

DOI: 10.1089 / cyber.2016.0364