Ndemanga: Amuna ku Japan akukumana ndi vuto lakukula kwakugonana ndi anzawo enieni. Zolemba zam'mbuyomu sizinatchulepo chifukwa chenicheni, koma izi sizikutanthauza chabe.
Pofika pa ROGER PULVERS, Lamlungu, April 29, 2012
“Ngati chidani cha achinyamata chakuwonjezeka pakuchulukirachulukira, vuto la kuchepa kwa chonde ku Japan komanso kukalamba mwachangu kudzaipiraipira. … Chuma cha Japan chidzataya mphamvu zake kuposa tsopano. Izi zikachitika, dziko lino likhoza kuwonongedwa. ”
Kuneneratu kodabwitsa kumeneku kunapangidwa ndi Kunio Kitamura m'buku lofalitsidwa chaka chatha ndi Media Factory. Dr. Kitamura, katswiri wochotsa matenda azachipatala yemwe amayang'anira chipatala chake cha kulera ku Tokyo, ndiye wolemba mabuku opitilira khumi ndi awiri onena za kubereka ndi zaumoyo. Tsopano, ndi "Sekkusugirai na Wakamonotachi" ("Achinyamata Oletsa Kugonana"), awonetsa kuti achinyamata aku Japan akuletsa zachiwerewere ndipo izi zikuyenera kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zoyipa kudziko lino.
Tiyeni tifike mpaka pazoyambira.
Zaka ziwiri zilizonse kafukufuku akuchitidwa, pansi pa ntchito ya Ministry of Health, Labor and Social Welfare, pa ubale wa amuna ndi akazi ku Japan. Nazi zina mwa zotsatira zokhudzana ndi kugonana zozikidwa ndi mayankho ochokera kwa anthu ena a 1,500 omwe anafunsidwa zaka zonse zomwe tanena.
Amuna azaka 16-19 mu 2008 omwe "alibe chidwi chogonana kapena amadana nacho": 17.5% (poyerekeza ndi 36.1% mu 2010). Amuna azaka 20-24 mu 2008 omwe "alibe chidwi kapena sakugonana": 11.8% (poyerekeza ndi 21.5% mu 2010).
Ndipotu, kwa zaka zonse za amuna kupatula anthu okalamba 30-34, mlingowu unakula kwambiri zaka ziwiri kuchokera ku 2008.
Chikhalidwe chomwecho chikuwoneka mwa akazi.
Mu 2008, 46.9% ya akazi azaka 16-19 adati "alibe chidwi" kapena "amadana ndi kugonana" (poyerekeza ndi 58.5% mu 2010). Mwa akazi azaka 20-24 mu 2008, 25% adati "alibe chidwi" kapena "amadana ndi zogonana" (poyerekeza ndi 35% mu 2010).
Kuwonjezeka kwapakati pakati pa 2008 ndi 2010 kunapezedwanso m'badwo uliwonse mpaka 49, akazi achikulire omwe anafunsidwa.
Mwa kuyankhula kwina, osachepera mmodzi mwa achinyamata atatu alibe chidwi ndi kugonana.
Kitamura akufufuza bwinobwino chifukwa chake izi zili choncho. Buku lake limaphatikizansopo malipoti okhudza mayankho ambiri a achinyamata omwe abwera ku chipatala chake.
Mnyamata wina adati ali ndi chilakolako chogonana koma kuti kugonana ndi wina "ndizovuta kwambiri." Ena amati amakonda atsikana ngati otchulidwa kapena ngati zidole zenizeni osati zenizeni - zotchedwa akwatibwi azithunzi ziwiri. "Mwina sangakutaye," wofunsidwa wina adayankha.
Panthawiyi, Kitamura akunena kuti anyamata ena amabwera ku chipatala chake akudandaula za kuwonongeka kwa erectile. Ena amafotokoza kuti kuyang'ana kwambiri kugonana pa intaneti kwawasiya kukhala ndi vuto loipa m'kamwa mwawo chifukwa cha kugonana kwaumunthu. Ambiri amavomereza kuti nthawi zambiri amatsata maliseche, motero amakwaniritsa zosowa zawo zonse za kugonana okha.
Kitamura auza anyamatawa kuti kuseweretsa maliseche si kwabwino; Ndiponso, “palibe njira iliyonse yodziseweretsa maliseche yomwe imapangitsa munthu kudana ndi kugonana ndi ena.”
Koma akutsutsa Intaneti, kulembera kuti, ndi kuwonongeka kwakukulu ndi zolaula, ndi kuchuluka kwa kuyankhulana komwe kuli pa intaneti m'malo mwa kulankhulana kwenikweni kwa umunthu, “Masiku ano, anthu amene amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito Intaneti ali ndi vuto lalikulu kwa achinyamata pankhani imeneyi.”
Akuwonetsanso zinthu zomwe anthu aku Japan akuchulukitsa izi. Nazi zina mwa zifukwa zosagonana zomwe odwala amuna a Kitamura apereka.
"Sindichita zogonana chifukwa pamapeto pake sindidzakwatiwa" - chifukwa chosakhala ndi ntchito yabwino.
"Zimatenga ndalama kuchita zogonana" - kugula njira zolera, kukhala ndi nyumba yanu kapena galimoto, ndi zina zambiri.
"Abwana anga ndi akazi ndipo izi zandipangitsa kuti ndisamagonane."
Pali zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa zomwe ungachite. ”
“Ndatopa kwambiri ndikaweruka kuntchito ndipo sindingathe kuitanitsa chilakolako chogonana.”
Tanthauzo la "osagonana" lomwe linakhazikitsidwa mu 1994 ndi Japan Society of Sexual Science, bungwe la akatswiri lomwe limayang'ana mbali zonse za kubereka kwaumunthu, limanena kuti izi zimachitika pomwe wina "sanagonepo mwezi umodzi kapena kupitilira apo. ” Kugonana komweko kumaphatikizaponso zinthu zambiri, monga "kupsompsonana, kugonana m'kamwa, kugwiranagona komanso kugona limodzi maliseche."
Zofufuza pa kugwirizana pakati pa maola ambiri ogwira ntchito ndi khalidwe losachita zachiwerewere zasonyeza kuti anthu omwe amagwira ntchito 49 kapena maola ochuluka pa sabata amawonetseratu zochitika zogonana.
Pankhani yodana ndi akazi, zifukwa zotsatirazi ndi zina mwa zomwe zimaperekedwa ndi odwala achikazi zomwe Kitamura adatchulapo mu "Achinyamata Oletsa Kugonana."
Mtsikana wina anati, "Ndimakhulupirira chikondi chenicheni, ndichifukwa chake sindigonana." Wina amamuuza kuti amamva kuwawa pogonana ndipo amapewa. "Amuna ndiodetsedwa komanso opanduka, chifukwa chake ndimawapewa," anatero wina. Adanenanso za zonyansa zingapo komanso zopandukira zawo, monga "tsitsi lomwe laguluka ndikukhala paphewa pake, ndi mamina m'maso mwa ngodya yake, ndi ndevu zomwe sizimakula mosiyanasiyana ndikuwoneka ngati kuwala buluu… ndipo sindingathe kupirira nawo akapitirizabe kupukuta thukuta, ndiyeno amapita ndikukaika mpango wonyansa mthumba mwawo! ”
Mwinamwake mkwati wamodzi ndi awiri ndi woyenera kwambiri bwenzi la dona wamng'ono uyu.
Koma atsikana ena, monga anyamata, amati zokonda zawo zimawasangalatsa kuposa china chilichonse chogonana - pomwe ena amati alibe chidaliro chokwanira m'mayendedwe awo kutuluka ndikakumana ndi anyamata kapena atsikana.
Kitamura avomereza kuti kuchoka pamakhalidwe azakugonana mwina ndi vuto lomwe sali achinyamata okha ku Japan. "Magulu ambiri achijapani azaka zonse atha kukhala ndi zotere," akulemba.
Amalongosola mosapita m'mbali za maphunziro ake azakugonana komanso zaka zake zakubadwa, ndikuperekanso malingaliro amomwe angadzakonzedwere mtsogolo mtsogolo. Izi zikuphatikiza kupereka maphunziro opitilira muyeso ogonana okhudzana ndi zosowa za achinyamata amakono, ndikuwongolera maluso olumikizana ndi achinyamata. Iye anati: “Kupatula apo, kugonana ndi njira yolankhulirana pakati pa anthu.”
Komabe, ngakhale ndili ndi tsatanetsatane komanso zambiri, sindinkawerenga buku la Kitamura ndikumvetsetsa kuti ndichifukwa chiyani vuto loopsa lodana ndi chiwerewere lakhala likuukira achinyamata aku Japan.
Achinyamata padziko lonse lapansi amangolembetsedwa pazowonera, komabe ziwerengero zamayiko ambiri zonyansa zakugonana sizowopsa ngati za ku Japan. Kuphatikiza apo, anthu aku Japan m'nthawi zakale ankagwiranso ntchito molimbika, mwinanso kuposa pamenepo, kuposa masiku ano; ndipo ochepa mwa iwo anali ndi magalimoto kapena zipinda zawo zawo. Komabe adakwanitsa kupanga mabanja akulu pomwe, ngati zomwe Kitamura akunena ndizolondola, akusangalala ndi kugonana pafupipafupi.
Kupatula mkhalidwe wamunthu wamunthu kapena chilema chomwe chingachepetse chilakolako chake chogonana, vuto, m'malingaliro mwanga, ndichimodzi mwamphamvu.
Chifukwa chenichenicho chagona pakuchepa kwamphamvu komwe kukufala ku Japan masiku ano. Makhalidwe omwe amadziwika mmbadwo wa ma boomers omwe amapangitsa kuti dziko la Japan lipambane pambuyo pa nkhondo - dzuka ndikupita, mzimu wankhondo, chiyembekezo chamtsogolo cha ana anu - sichikupezeka pano pano.
Ndikukhulupirira kuti kunyansidwa pakati pa achinyamata amakono aku Japan, komanso kuchuluka kwakubadwa komwe ndi chimodzi mwazomwe zachitika, kungasinthidwe ngati anthu aku Japan azaka zonse atha kubweretsanso chiyembekezo cha iwo eni ndi ana awo, obadwa komanso osabadwabe.
Zingatenge ziwiri kupita ku tango, koma zimatengera fuko lonse kuti lipeze njira yake yobwereranso.
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