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- Mwamuna amatha kukwaniritsa ma erections ndi orgasms ndi zolaula, koma amalimbana ndi m'modzi kapena onse awiri ngati ali ndi mnzake wapadziko lapansi.
- Mwamuna amatha kugona ndikuchita bwino ndi abwenzi enieni padziko lapansi, koma kufikira orgasm kumatenga nthawi yayitali ndipo abwenzi ake amadandaula kuti akuwoneka kuti wakhumudwitsidwa.
- Mwamuna amatha kukhalabe ndi ubale ndi enieni apadziko lapansi, koma amatha kungopanga ma orgasm mwa kubwezeretsa zolaula m'mutu mwake.
- Mwamuna amakula amakonda zolaula kuposa kugonana kwadzikoli, kuti amazipeza kuti ndizokonda kwambiri.
A kafukufuku lolembedwera ndi Aline Wéry ndi Joel Billieux, onse a ku Université Catholique de Louvain, omwe adalembedwako. Makompyuta Makhalidwe Aumunthu, imawunikira za machitidwe, mawonekedwe ogwiritsira ntchito, zolinga, ndi zotsatirapo zogonana zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pazogonana pa intaneti.
Wéry ndi Billieux adachita kafukufuku wopezeka kwambiri pa intaneti wa abambo olankhula Chifalansa omwe adalemba nawo ntchito yothandizira ma yunivesite, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, malo ochezera, ndi ma forum okhudzana ndi kugonana. Kusadziwika kwa omwe adatenga nawo gawo kudatsimikizika kuti athe kupeza mayankho owona. Mapeto ake, panali akatswiri oyenerera a 434 - amuna azaka za 18 kapena akulu (amatanthauza zaka 29.5) omwe adachita zachiwerewere pa intaneti miyezi itatu yapitayo.
Wophunzira aliyense adamaliza kuyesa zinthu za 91 zomwe zidagawika m'magawo asanu ndi limodzi.
- Zosiyanasiyana za chikhalidwe cha anthu (zolembedwa za 14), kuphatikiza zaka, maphunziro / malo, ubale, malingaliro ogonana, kuchuluka kwa omwe adagonana naye chaka chatha, komanso mtundu wa omwe akugonana nawo (zachikondi zomwe zikupitilizidwa, bwenzi logonana, wogonana ndi ena, etc.)
- Zochita pa intaneti ndi machitidwe okhudzana nawo (zinthu za 25), kuphatikiza sabata sabata iliyonse yochitira zachiwerewere pa intaneti, mitundu ya zochitika zogonana pa intaneti, ndalama zogwiritsidwa ntchito, kuchuluka kwa maliseche panthawi yogonana pa intaneti, kuwona zolaula zomwe m'mbuyomu zimawoneka ngati zopanda chidwi komanso zonyansa, komanso manyazi zokhudzana ndi zochitika zogonana pa intaneti.
- Kugwiritsa ntchito zovuta pazochitika zogonana pa intaneti, zoyesedwa pogwiritsa ntchito a Kuyesa kwa zinthu za 12 pa intaneti, makamaka ndikuyang'ana pamachitidwe owonetsa ogwiritsa ntchito, kulephera kuwongolera, komanso kusokoneza moyo watsiku ndi tsiku.
- Zimapangitsa kuchita zachiwerewere pa intaneti (zinthu za 23), kuphatikizapo kukhutitsidwa pogonana, chidwi / chidziwitso, malingaliro amachitidwe, malingaliro osaganizira, kucheza pagulu, kukonza kugonana mwakugonana, zina ndi zina.
- Zoipa zogonana, zoyesedwa pogwiritsa ntchito chinthu cha 15 International Index of Erectile Function (IIEF), yomwe imawerengera ntchito ya erectile, ntchito ya orgasmic, chikhumbo chakugonana, kukhutitsidwa kwa kugonana, komanso kukhutitsidwa kwathunthu pakugonana.
- Kudziona kovuta kochita zachiwerewere pa intaneti, kuphatikiza ngati omwe anali nawo phunziroli adawona kuti zochitika zawo zogonana pa intaneti ndizovuta, ndipo ngati ndi choncho, ngati aganiza zofunsa thandizo la akatswiri.
Kwa ine, a katswiri wovomerezeka wa mankhwala osokoneza bongo wokhala ndi zaka zopitilira 20 m'munda, zomwe zapezeka phunziroli ndizabwino monga momwe zimayembekezeredwa. Mwachidule, gulu lofufuzira linapeza kuti maphunziro a mayeso amakhala maola pafupifupi atatu pa sabata akuchita zachiwerewere pa intaneti, mayankho kuyambira mphindi 5 pa sabata mpaka maola a 33 pa sabata. Zomwe zimachitika kwambiri pa zolaula pa intaneti ndikuwona zolaula, zochitidwa ndi 99% ya omwe atenga nawo mbali, nkhani yomwe imachokera ku "vanilla" mpaka hardcore, kuphatikiza ma kink.
Zotsatira zomwe zatchulidwa pamwambapa sizikusintha kwenikweni padziko lapansi, popeza kafukufuku wina watulutsa zofanana. Komwe kafukufukuyu amasangalatsidwa ndi pamene amawona zomwe amuna angachite kuti achite zachiwerewere pa intaneti komanso zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pamavuto.
Ponena za chidwi, kugwiritsa ntchito kukhutira pogonana, (94.4%), kumva kuti ndinu wosangalatsa (87.2%), ndikukwaniritsa mndandanda (86.5%) kudakulitsa mndandandandawo. Izi sizodabwitsa. Komabe, kuyesera kuwongolera momwe mukumvera ndikumverera kunalimbikitsanso amphamvu, ndi maphunziro oyesa omwe amalemba kuti apumule / kuchepa kupsinjika (73.8%), kuthetsa nkhawa (70.8%), kuiwala mavuto a tsiku ndi tsiku (53%), kuthetsa kusungulumwa (44.9%), ndi kuthana ndi kupsinjika / chisoni (38.1%) ngati zifukwa zofala zamakhalidwe awo ogonana pa intaneti, zikuwonetseratu kuti kufuna kuthawa ndi kudzipatula ku kupsinjika ndi mitundu ina ya kusasangalala kwamalingaliro nthawi zambiri kumayendetsa zochitika zogonana pa intaneti. Kuphatikiza apo, kusanthula kwakanema kunawonetsa kuti kulumikizana kolimba kwambiri pakati pazifukwa zopitira pa intaneti ndikugwiritsa ntchito zovuta kunali kusintha kwalamulo. Mwanjira ina, amuna omwe amachita zachiwerewere pa intaneti kuti adzipetse ndikusintha malingaliro awo anali othekera kwambiri kukumana ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi moyo wawo wogonana pa intaneti kuposa abambo omwe adapita pa intaneti kuti akhutiritse zogonana, okondwerera, komanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi.
Zotsatira izi zikugwirizana kwambiri ndi zomwe tikudziwa zizolowezi zina, kumene osokoneza bongo sachita chidwi ndi zochitika zosangalatsa komanso amakonda kuthawa ndi kudzipatula. Mwanjira ina, zokonda sizokhudza kumva bwino, zimakhala za kumverera pang'ono.
Pozindikira kuti ambiri mwa oyeserera amagwiritsa ntchito zachiwerewere pa intaneti pothawa, ndikudziwa kuti chidwi chothawa chilipo ngati woyendetsa mumitundu yonse yamankhwala, titha kuyembekezera kuti peresenti yofananira ya oyeserera afotokozere zovuta zake komanso - onaninso zochitika zawo zapa intaneti ngati zovuta. Ndipo ndizomwe zinachitika.
- 61.7% adanena kuti nthawi zina amakhala ndi manyazi kapena nkhawa ngati zomwe amachita pa intaneti.
- 49% idanenanso kuti nthawi zina amafufuza za kugonana ndi / kapena zochitika zomwe sizinali zosangalatsa kwa iwo kale, kapena akuwona ngati zonyansa.
- 27.6% adadziyesa okha machitidwe ogonana pa intaneti ngati ovuta.
- Mwa abambo omwe adayesa kugwiritsa ntchito kwawo zogonana pa intaneti ngati zovuta, 33.9% adaganizapo zopempha thandizo kwa akatswiri.
Chopindulitsa, abambo omwe adayesa momwe amagwiritsira ntchito zogonana pa intaneti ngati vutoli adanenanso kuchepa kwa erectile ndikuchepetsa kukhutitsidwa pogonana ngati zotsatira wamba. Poyankha izi, olemba kafukufukuyu anena kuti abambo omwe ali ndi vuto la kugona akhoza kukhala opanda chidaliro pazakugonana kwawo motero sangathe kuchita komanso osakhutira ndi zomwe akuchita ndi enieni padziko lapansi.
Ine, komabe, ndimakhulupirira lingaliro lolondola kwambiri, lomwe linapangidwa nditatha kugwira ntchito ndi amuna ambiri (omwe ali ndi zolaula ndipo nthawi zina amangokhala ndi zolaula), ndikuti amuna omwe amakhala zaka zambiri zogonana amakhala akuyang'ana ndikugonana mpaka kalekale. zithunzi zodzutsa chidwi kwambiri, kumangosangalala pambuyo poti adrenaline adakumana ndi zoterezi, akhoza kupeza mnzake weniweni padziko lapansi yemwe samalimbikitsa kuposa zolaula, mwina mpaka kufika pakugonana. Mwanjira ina, ubongo wa munthu wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula umatha kupangika pakapita nthawi kuyembekezera kukopa kwake ngati gawo lokhala ndi chilimbikitso pakugonana pomwe mnzake wakugonana ndi thupi sangathe kukhwimitsa. Chifukwa chake, ndi enieni padziko lapansi ogwiritsa ntchito amatha kukumana ndi erectile dysfunction (ED), kuchedwa kwa orgasm (DE), ndi anorgasmia (kulephera kufikira orgasm).
Ndipo sindiko kuphunzira koyamba kogwirizanitsa kusinthasintha kwa chizolowezi chogonana ndi kusokonekera kwa erectile. A 2012 kafukufuku a 350 omwe adadzizolowetsa okha pazakugonana adapeza kuti 26.7% idafotokoza zovuta zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Zocheperako phunziro poyang'ana makina ogonana amuna ndi akazi a 23 adapeza kuti 16.7% idanenanso kusowa kwa erectile. Chaching'ono phunziro, uyu poyang'ana kwambiri osokoneza bongo a amuna a 19, adapeza kuti 58% idanenanso zovuta zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Chifukwa chake, mosasamala kanthu za phunziroli, tikuwona bwino lomwe mosagwirizana pakati pa zochitika zogonana pa intaneti, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mozikakamiza, komanso kukhumudwa.
Zizindikiro zina zakusokonekera kwa amuna komwe kumapangitsa kuti azichita zachiwerewere ndi monga:
- Mwamuna amatha kukwaniritsa ma erections ndi orgasms ndi zolaula, koma amalimbana ndi m'modzi kapena onse awiri ngati ali ndi mnzake wapadziko lapansi.
- Mwamuna amatha kugona ndikuchita bwino ndi abwenzi enieni padziko lapansi, koma kufikira orgasm kumatenga nthawi yayitali ndipo abwenzi ake amadandaula kuti akuwoneka kuti wakhumudwitsidwa.
- Mwamuna amatha kukhalabe ndi ubale ndi enieni apadziko lapansi, koma amatha kungopanga ma orgasm mwa kubwezeretsa zolaula m'mutu mwake.
- Mwamuna amakula amakonda zolaula kuposa kugonana kwadzikoli, kuti amazipeza kuti ndizokonda kwambiri.
Mosakayikira, kulumikiza kusokonekera kwa erectile kukakamiza kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndikofunikira kwambiri (komanso kochititsa chidwi kwambiri) pamaphunziro awa. Komabe, kupeza kuti abambo amachita zachiwerewere pa intaneti chifukwa chofunafuna magwiridwe antchito pafupipafupi momwe amasangalalira ndi kugonana ndikofunikanso, monganso kulumikizana komwe kumayesedwa pakulimbikitsa kukwiya komanso kugwiritsa ntchito zovuta. Kupatula apo, tikudziwa kuchokera ku kafukufuku wina kuti chikhumbo chodzilimbitsa mtima chilipo mu zosokoneza za mitundu yonse, kwambiri kotero kuti mitundu yothandiza kwambiri yamankhwala simalimbana ndi kusiya kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, koma pakulimbikitsa njira zopewera kuthana ndi mavuto omwe amaletsa. amatha kutembenuka mtima mukakhala ndi nkhawa, nkhawa, kusungulumwa, mantha, kusiyidwa, ndi zina zotere. Kuphunzira kuthana ndi kuvutika mtima mu njira zabwino (nthawi zambiri polumikizana ndi othandizira komanso kumvera ena chisoni) nthawi zambiri kumawonedwa ngati chinthu chofunikira chokhalitsa moyo wabwino.
Anthu omwe ali ndi chizolowezi chochita zachiwerewere pa intaneti, makamaka zolaula. Ndipo lero ndikofunikira kuposa kale kuti azachipatala azindikire izi. Kupatula apo, zolaula zimakula kwambiri komanso zimapezeka mosavuta patsikulo, ndi anthu azaka zonse, padziko lonse lapansi, kupeza osadziwika, osasinthika, makamaka mwayi waulere wazomwe angaganizire. Ndipo anthu akutenga mwayi. Mwachitsanzo, imodzi yabwino phunziro pofufuza zakusaka pa intaneti adapeza kuti 13% ya kafukufuku yemwe adafufuzidwa miliyoni 400 miliyoni (ochokera kwa anthu pafupifupi 2 miliyoni) adafunafuna mtundu wazinthu zolaula. Olemba nawo kafukufukuyu, Ogi Ogas ndi Sai Gaddam, amafotokoza za momwe intaneti imagwirira ntchito mwatsatanetsatane mbuku lawo, A Bilion Wvil Thoughts, nthawi ina akulemba:
Mu 1991, chaka chomwe World Wide Web idapita pa intaneti, padali ma magazini achikulire osiyanasiyana a 90 omwe adasindikizidwa ku America, ndipo mukadakhala kuti mwapanikizika kuti mupeze uthenga womwe umanyamula zoposa khumi. Patangotha zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi, ku 1997, panali masamba azolaula a 900 pa intaneti. Masiku ano, mapulogalamu a kusefa CYBERsitter amatseka mawebusayiti akuluakulu a 2.5 miliyoni.
Chodabwitsa kwambiri ndi chakuti Ogas ndi Gaddam adachita kafukufuku wawo mu 2009 ndi 2010, kale "zisanachitike zolaula" zisanakhale chinthu. Masiku ano, ma selfies achigololo ali pafupi kuchuluka ngati zithunzi zolaula zomwe amapanga mwaukadaulo. Zithunzi ndi makanema awa amapezeka pama media azikhalidwe, malo ochezera, ndi masamba ena onse omwe sakuvomerezeka kukhala "achikulire." Kotero kuchuluka kwa zolaula za pa intaneti zomwe zikupezeka 24 / 7 / 365 ndizosasangalatsa . Zolaula zimapangidwa mwachangu kwambiri ndikuziyika m'malo ambiri kotero kuti palibe njira yoti ofufuza azitsatira molondola.
Zachisoni, iwo omwe amadalira zolaula nthawi zambiri amakhala osayang'ana kufunafuna thandizo chifukwa saona zomwe amachita atakhala achisangalalo ndipo samachititsa manyazi kapena / kapena amachita manyazi kwambiri. Ndipo akafunafuna thandizo, nthawi zambiri amafunafuna thandizo kuzinthu zokhudzana ndi izi: kukhumudwa, kusungulumwa, mavuto am'banja, kusokonezeka kwa zachiwerewere, ndi zina zotero, m'malo motengera vuto lokhala ndi zolaula zokha. Ambiri amatenga mankhwala ndipo / kapena amapita ku psychotherapy kwa nthawi yayitali osakambirana (kapenanso kufunsidwa) zolaula komanso maliseche. Mwakutero, vuto lawo lalikulu limakhalabe mobisalira komanso silinachitidwe, ndipo zizindikiro zake sizimatha.
Kuti mumve zambiri zokhudzana ndi zolaula (komanso zizolowezi zogonana), onani mabuku anga omwe atulutsidwa kumene, Nthawi Zonse Zimayatsidwa ndi Kugonjera Kwa Kugonana 101. Ngati mukuganiza kuti inu, kasitomala, kapena wina amene mukumudziwa angafunike thandizo lazachipatala, zolaula, kapena kukonda mankhwala osokoneza bongo, othandizira komanso othandizira Pano ndi Pano.
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