August 22, 2013,
do:10.1177/0146167213499614
Pers Soc Psychol Bull August 22, 2013 0146167213499614
- Natasha D. Tidwell, Texas A&M University, 4235 TAMU, 77843, TX 4235, USA. Imelo: [imelo ndiotetezedwa]
- Paul W. Eastwick, University of Texas ku Austin, 108 E Dean Keeton St., Stop A2702, Austin, TX 78712, USA. Imelo: [imelo ndiotetezedwa]
Kudalirika
Amuna amagonjetsedwa ndi mayesero ogonana (mwachitsanzo, kusakhulupirika, kupha amuna) kuposa amayi. Ndemanga za zotsatirazi zimasiyana; ochita kafukufuku ena amapereka kuti amuna ndi akazi amasiyana ndi mphamvu yogonana, pamene ena amachititsa kusiyana kugonana. Maphunzirowa ndi oyamba kuyesa njira zoterezi. Mu Phunziro 1, ophunzira akufotokoza zofuna zawo ndikuyesetsa mwachangu pamene anakumana ndi wokondedwa weniweni amene akuyesa koma wokanidwa. Phunzirani 2 kuti ophunzira athe kuchita ntchito yanthawi yomwe adalandira / kukana okondedwa awo, ndipo tinagwiritsa ntchito ndondomeko yotsutsana kuti tisiyanitse zotsatira za kupsinjika ndi kulamulira. Mu maphunziro onse awiriwa, amuna adagonjetsedwa ndi mayeso ogonana kusiyana ndi amayi, ndipo kusiyana pakati pa kugonana kunabuka chifukwa amuna anali ndi zikhumbo zolimba, osati chifukwa chochita zinthu zochepa. Zotsatira za kuphatikizidwa kwa zamoyo zosinthika ndi kudzidziletsa pazosiyana zogonana zimakambidwa.