Moni akuluakulu,
Ndikugawana nanu malingaliro anga pazinthu 1: zolinga zachilendo zomwe enafe tafotokoza.
Ena a inu anyamata mudadzipatsa nokha cholinga chosatheka. Vuto ndi chiyani ndi cholinga chosatheka? Vuto ndiloti muli ndi mwayi woti mulephere 100% ndikuti mumangokhalira kukhumudwa chifukwa chazopusa.
Ndidzasiya MO / PMO mpaka nditataya unamwali wanga
Ndiloleni ndikuuzeni china chake: ngati zonse zomwe mumachita m'moyo ndikungoyesa kuyimitsa MO, simudzagwira msungwana. Kuletsa maliseche kumakupatsani mphamvu zogonana zothandiza kuthana ndi atsikana, koma ngati simukuchita chilichonse ndi mphamvu imeneyi ndipo mulibe moyo, atsikana sangagwere pamapazi anu chifukwa choti simuli ndi maliseche.
"Ndinu ndani ? Mumatani pa moyo wanu? ” "Sindichita maliseche!". Izi sizokwanira.
Pa dzanja lina: bwanji ngati mutakwaniritsa cholinga chanu mawa? Simuli namwali. Inu munakwaniritsa cholinga chanu. Congratz. Pano mumatani tsopano ? Kulakwitsa kanthawi ka 20 kamodzi pa sabata kachiwiri?
Kodi mungatani ngati mutaya unamwali wanu zaka ziwiri kapena zitatu? Kodi mungodikirira zaka zonsezi, kungokhala munthu yemwe amamenyananso kufunikira kodziseweretsa maliseche ndikudikirira kwamuyaya mtsikana kuti agwe kuchokera kumwamba? Kodi palibe chomwe mungachite m'moyo wanu?
Sindidzabweranso MO / PMO
Zovuta? Anyamata. Zolaula zili paliponse. Ndipo zolaula sizoyipa kwenikweni. Kuyang'ana zolaula kwambiri, kuseweretsa maliseche kwambiri, kukonza tsiku lililonse ... ndizoyipa. Zoyipa kamodzi kamodzi sizoyipa kwenikweni. Kuyang'ana zolaula ndi mtsikana mukumukonda kungakhale kosangalatsa kwambiri.
Kuchita maliseche ndibwino ngati simumatha maola ambiri, ngati simukuchita tsiku lililonse kawiri patsiku, ndi zina zambiri.
Ndizomveka bwanji kunena kuti simudzawoneranso zolaula kapena kuseweretsa maliseche? Zowona monga akuti sayin "Ndithamanga ma 500 ma sabata awiri" ngati simunathamangepo kale. Ndipo ndizopusa chabe.
Sindikulimbikitsa aliyense kuchita maliseche! Werengani pansipa.
Ndiye ?
Simuyenera kuyang'ana kuti musawonenso zolaula. Ngati muli pano, mukuyenera kuyima kwakanthawi. Ndizowona. Ndichifukwa chake ndili pano. Koma bwanji ungayime kwamuyaya?
Bwanji osangopeza moyo, kuphunzira kungozichita osakhala chidakwa, ndi zina zambiri? Ngati mutakhala otanganidwa komanso ozizira, simuyenera kulimbana ndi chilakolako chodziseweretsa maliseche, chifukwa simudzakhala ndi nthawi yoganizira izi!
Tangoganizirani munthu wonenepa. Ayenera kuleka kudya ma hamburger kwakanthawi. Koma ayenera kusiya moyo wake wonse? Kodi sizachilendo komanso zopusa kunena kuti simudzadyanso hamburger? Ngakhale tsopano muli wathanzi, ngakhale mutaphunzira kuphika ma hamburger athanzi komanso okoma?
Wowonongeka, cholinga chenicheni ndi chotheka
Simungakhazikitse cholinga popanda kutsatira malamulo ochepa. Ndimakondadi dongosolo la "SMART", kutanthauza kuti cholinga chiyenera kukhala:
Zenizeni, Zomwe Zingatheke, Zomwe Zingatheke, Zenizeni, Zithawikiratu.
Zosintha zambiri: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SMART_criteria
Buku lirilonse lodzilimbitsa lokha, kasamalidwe, masewera, kasamalidwe ka projekiti, NLP… lidzakuwuzani kuti mutsatire malamulowa mukakhazikitsa cholinga.
Ngati simukhazikitsa malire, simungakwanitse kukwaniritsa cholinga chanu. Ingoganizirani, cholinga changa ndi "Ndisiya kuonera zolaula". Ndasiya kuonera zolaula kwa zaka 3. Ndiye ndimayang'ana imodzi. Kodi izi zikutanthauza kuti ndalephera kukwaniritsa cholinga changa? Inde, chifukwa cholinga changa ndichopusa, chifukwa chake ndimva chisoni chifukwa ndalephera m'malo mokondwera ndi zomwe ndakwanitsa, aka osayang'ana zolaula kwa zaka 3.
Chifukwa chake, m'malo mongonena kuti simudzakhalanso ndi maliseche ndikumva chisoni mzaka za 3 chifukwa mwadziseweretsa maliseche kamodzi, khalani ndi cholinga chocheperako nthawi ndikunyadira kuti simunachite maliseche kwa zaka 3 ndipo mwachiritsidwa. M'malo mongoyang'ana kuti musakule lero kuti mupitilize kuyenda, yang'anani kukhala moyo wanu momwe mukufunira, osati zolaula zokha, koma zochititsa chidwi m'magawo onse.
Nchiyani chimabwera pambuyo?
Mukapanda kuzolowera, ingokhalani ndi moyo wabwinobwino. Musakhale "munthu yemwe akuyesera kuti asiye" kwamuyaya, ndikuchita maliseche ngati mukufuna, bola ngati sizikukhudzani moyo wanu.
Ndinkafunanso kulankhula momwe ndingagwiritsire ntchito koma Hei, ndatopa. 
Kodi chidwi chimenecho ndi winawake?