NoFap ndipo ndi ubale ndi zomwe makanema azama TV akuchita kwa anthu pano.
Ambiri a ife timabwera chifukwa tazindikira zomwe ukadaulo udakhudza ubongo wathu, komanso momwe zasokonezera mphotho zathu. Zomwe zimayambitsa zovuta zakuseweretsa maliseche ndizomwe zimayambitsidwa ndikupititsa patsogolo sayansi ndi ukadaulo m'zaka zapitazi, zomwe zidapanga njira zabwino zopangira, ndipo pamapeto pake zimatulutsa media. Kamera, foni, wailesi, wailesi yakanema, kompyuta, ndipo pamapeto pake intaneti. Tafika poti media ilibe masekondi pang'ono, okonzeka kuti tigwiritse ntchito. Ambiri aife pano tawona zomwe zingayambitse maliseche: kutontholetsa moyo. Nanga bwanji za njira zina momwe ukadaulo umapangira momwe timachitira komanso momwe timakhalira?
"Kudzisangalatsa Tokha mpaka Imfa" wolemba Neil Postman amayankha funsoli. Bukuli ndikutsutsa mwatsatanetsatane zomwe ukadaulo wazama TV ukuchita kwa anthu, komanso zotsatirapo zake pazandale, maphunziro, chipembedzo, komanso kuphedwa kwa madera ena m'miyoyo yathu. Linalembedwa zaka makumi awiri zapitazo choncho sing'anga wamkulu yemwe amatsutsidwa ndi TV, komabe imagwiritsabe ntchito media ambiri omwe amatizaza tsiku ndi tsiku. Ngati angawerengedwe limodzi ndi "The Shallows: What the Internet is doing to our Brains", aliyense akhoza kukhala osamala ndikudandaula ndi zovuta zomwe ukadaulo ungakhale nazo pakutha kwathu kutengera ndikusanthula chidziwitso. Zonsezi ndizowerengedwa mwachidule, ndipo ndimawapatsa ndi mtima wonse.
Munthawi yanga pano ndawonapo maumboni angapo a Matrix. Makamaka, kuti mutalowa mu NoFap kumamveka ngati kutulutsidwa ku Matrix. Izi sizinachitike mwangozi. Kulimbitsa kulumikizana pakati pazotsatira zoyipa zaukadaulo zomwe ndatchula pamwambapa, nayi mawu oyamba m'buku la "Amusing Ourself to Death", momwe wolemba amafanizira zolemba za George Orwell ndi Aldous Huxley:
"Tidali tcheru pa 1984. Chaka chitakwana ndipo ulosiwo sunatero, Amereka oganiza bwino adayimba modzitamandira. Mizu ya deomcracy yaufulu inali itagwira. Kulikonse komwe zigawengazi zidachitika, ife, osachepera, sitinayenderepo ndi maloto oopsa a Orwellian.
Tikadakhala kuti tayiwala kuti pambali pa masomphenya akuda a Orwell, panali wina wamkulu- pang'ono, wosadziwika pang'ono, wowopsa mofanana: Dziko Latsopano Lalimbika la Aldous Huxley. Mosiyana ndi zomwe ambiri amakhulupirira ngakhale pakati pa ophunzira, Huxley ndi Orwell sanalosere zomwezi. Orwell akuchenjeza kuti tidzagonjetsedwa ndi kuponderezedwa komwe kumachitika kunja. Koma m'masomphenya a Huxley, palibe Big Brother yemwe akuyenera kulanda anthu ufulu wodziyimira pawokha, kukhwima komanso mbiri. Monga adaziwonera, anthu adzayamba kukonda kuponderezedwa kwawo, kukondwerera maluso omwe amasintha luso lawo loganiza.
Zomwe Orwell amawopa ndi omwe angaletse mabuku. Chimene Huxley adawopa ndichakuti sipadzakhala chifukwa choletsera buku, chifukwa sipadzakhala wina wofuna kuliwerenga. Orwell adawopa omwe angatilande zambiri. Huxley adawopa omwe angatipatse zochuluka kwambiri kotero kuti titha kukhala opanda chidwi komanso odzikonda. Orwell anachita mantha kuti atibisira choonadi. Huxley adawopa kuti chowonadi chidzamira m'nyanja yopanda tanthauzo. Orwell adawopa kuti tidzakhala chikhalidwe cha akapolo. Huxley amawopa kuti tidzakhala achikhalidwe chochepa, otanganidwa ndi zina zofanana ndi za sensies, porgy porgy, ndi centrifugal bumblepuppy. Monga momwe Huxley ananenera mu Brave New World Revisited, omenyera ufulu wachibadwidwe komanso omvera omwe amakhala tcheru kutsutsa nkhanza 'adalephera kuganizira chidwi chamunthu chopanda malire cha zosokoneza.' Mu 1984 Huxley adawonjezera, anthu amawongoleredwa ndikupweteka. Mu Dziko Latsopano Lolimba Mtima, amalamulidwa ndikupanga zosangalatsa. Mwachidule, Orwell adawopa kuti zomwe timada zidzatiwononga. Huxley ankaopa kuti zomwe timakonda zidzatiwononga.
Bukuli likutanthauza kuti mwina Huxley, osati Orwell, anali kunena zoona. ”
Osangoyimilira kuseweretsa maliseche. Ndikukulimbikitsani kuti musakayikire momwe ukadaulo umakhudzira mbali zina za moyo wanu. Monga munthu yemwe ntchito yomwe ndimakonzekera imadalira zokolola zanga komanso momwe ndimayambira ndikusintha zidziwitso, ndimayenda mosamala ndisanavomereze kugwiritsa ntchito ukadaulo.
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