Ngati mwakhala mukuwonera makanema a Gary ndikusakatula YBOP tsiku lililonse kuti musinthe moyo wanu koma nthawi yomweyo mumalephera kupitilizabe kuyambiranso, ndiye kuti mukusowa vuto.
Mwinanso mumadzimenya nthawi zambiri ndipo mumatha kugona pabedi panu mukumva kuti ndinu wopanda pake ndikudzifunsa kuti ndidzagonjetsanso liti chizolowezi ichi (pambuyo poti mwakhala mukudya kwa nthawi yayitali ndi maliseche angapo). Mutha kuganiza kuti ndinu m'modzi chabe mwa anyamata omwe sangathe kumenya izi ndipo mumakhala ndi "temberero lobwerezabwereza" makamaka mukawerenga maakaunti obwezeretsanso pomwe anyamata onsewa amayambiranso masiku 90, masiku 120, kapena miyezi 6, ndi zina zambiri. …
Mukudziwa? Mwayi ndikuti ndinu ochepera zaka 30. Osadzimenya wekha, njira yobwezeretsayi ndi 50X yovuta kuposa anthu amenewo. Ndiloleni ndikuuzeni chifukwa chake.
Choyamba ndichakuti ambiri omwe ali ndi chizolowezi chokhala ndi akazi amakhala ndi akazi kapena atsikana. Amakakamizidwa kuyambiranso chifukwa palibe chochita china kwa iwo akakhala ndi mkazi kapena bwenzi. Sindikufuna kuwatsitsa anthuwo koma zomwe ndikukumana nazo ndikuti muyenera kutenga mphindi zovuta komanso zoyipa mukayambiranso kukhala zovuta.
Chachiwiri ndichakuti mwina mudakali azaka zaunyamata kapena mwangomaliza kumene. Kutanthauza kuti mahomoni anu akukwiyitsa ndipo izi zimapangitsa kuti kuyambiranso kwanu kukhale kovuta kuposa kuyambiranso kwa ena ambiri. Muyenera kutenga izi ngati zovuta osati china koma chovuta. Koma ukuwona, vutoli lili pamaso pako .. Ndipomwepo amakuseka kwambiri uku uli pansi ndikudzipha. Mumawonera makanema awa mobwerezabwereza koma mumadzikayikirabe ndipo mukukayikira kuti mudzachokeranso kuzolowera ziwandazi. Mukayambiranso mumayesetsa kuchita chilichonse chaching'ono molondola kuti musabwerere pomwe mukusowa vuto lalikulu lomwe popanda ilo mudzachira bwino ndikupambana.
Chinthu chokha chomwe chidzakulepheretsani kukwaniritsa cholinga chachikulu ichi ndi nthawi yomwe mumadzipepula, mukuganiza za chithunzi chomwe mumawona pa tsamba limodzi. Apa ndi pamene zonse zimatsikira, LIMODZI LIMODZI. Ndipo chinthucho ndi chakuti simudzatha kuchotsa chizolowezi chanu ngati mukupitirizabe kubwerera. Inu mumangopitirira kuyenda mozungulirana komweko mobwereza bwereza ..
Zokwanira, wakwanira, ndipo uyenera kusiya kulephera mobwerezabwereza monga chonchi. Mukudziwa komwe kuli vuto ndipo mutha kuthetsa vutoli. Ndangoyamba kumene, ndili ndi zaka 17 ndipo ndakhala ndikuyesera kuyambiranso kuyambira Januware 2nd chaka chino (cholembedwa pa Ogasiti 1st). Ndinabwereranso nthawi 50 ndipo ndimakhala wopanda chiyembekezo kambiri monga ena mwina mumamvera.
Tsopano ndili tsiku la 12 ndipo ndikudziwa komwe kuli vuto, Zachidziwikire kuti tonsefe timadziwa kuti vutoli ndi, koma timangonyalanyaza nthawi yobwereranso ikafika. Koma nkhani ndiyakuti muyenera kumangodziwuza nokha kuti kubwerera m'mbuyo sikungathetse mavuto anu. Ndiye nali malangizo omwe andigwira ntchito kwa miyezi 7 iyi yoyeserera.
M'mayesero anga ambiri obwezeretsanso, ndimakhala ndikuganiza kuti ndikupita ndi PMO masiku 5, masiku 7, kapena masiku 10. Ngati mukuchita izi siyani izi pompano chifukwa ndichinthu chachikulu. Anthu ambiri amanena kuti abwezeretsanso miyezi itatu kapena miyezi isanu kwa anyamatawo.
Choyambirira musalole manambalawa kukuopsezani konse. Ino ndi nthawi yomwe mudzabwerere nokha ndikuyamba kusangalala ndi moyo kwambiri. Sikuti mumangopita kumoto miyezi yonseyi. Mukuyamba kuwona zotsatira m'masabata awiri koma muyenera kukhala oleza mtima.
SZomwe ndimapeza ndimayenera kudziyesa nokha osachita maliseche, zolaula, kapena zolaula kwa miyezi 9. Tsiku lililonse lopambana lomwe mumatsiriza mumadziuza nokha kuti amenewo ndi masiku 7 mwa 90 kapena amenewo ndi masiku 5 mwa 90. Mwanjira imeneyi mumadziwa komwe muli ndipo koposa zonse mumadziwa komwe mukupita. Ngakhale zitatenga miyezi isanu, yambani kumaliza masiku anu 5 (omwe mwina mwayambiranso) ndiye kuti mutha kukhazikitsa cholinga cha mwezi wa 90-1.
Chachiwiri, musalole kuti kuyerekezera zolaula kapena malingaliro abodza amoyo akupusitseni kukhulupirira kuti muyenera kuwachita maliseche. Zowonadi, masiku ano zilimbikitsozo sizingatheke chifukwa mukutanthauza kuti mukuyenda m'njira yoyenera, zikutanthauza kuti muli pampando wothana ndi zizolowezi zanu, ndi nthawi chabe.
Malangizo anga achitatu ndikuti musamawerenge nkhani zambiri zotsatila pa YBOP. Sindikudziwa ngati zingakuthandizeni koma ndimawona kuti mukawerenga nkhani yoti wina wayamba kuchita bwino, simukuganizira za inu nokha. ZOIPA. Munthawi imeneyi yoyambiranso muyenera kuganizira za inu nokha ndi kupita patsogolo kwanu. Pangani mbiri yanu yopambana m'malingaliro mwanu ndikupanga nkhanizo posayang'ananso zolaula. Mukudziwa kuti mukayambiranso miyezi 9 moyo wanu udzakhala wabwino ndipo chikondi chanu kwa akazi chiyambanso kulimba. Simuyenera kuchita kuwerenga nkhani kuti mukhulupirire kuti chinthuchi chimagwira ntchito.
Chachinayi ndipo pomaliza ndipamene mphindi yowopsa kwambiri pantchito yonseyo ibwera. Iyi ndiye mphindi yofunika kwambiri yomwe muyenera kudziwuza nokha kuti kubwerera sikukuyankha. Chokhacho chomwe mumapeza mukayambiranso ngati mukumva bwino pafupifupi 5 mpaka 20 mphindi ndikuseweretsa maliseche. Pambuyo pake mumazindikira kuti mwachita chinthu cholakwika chomwe sichingakuthandizeni. Dziuzeni nokha kuti kubwerera m'mbuyo ndiye chinthu choyipitsitsa chomwe mungachite ndikuti mwakhala mukusiya masiku a 15 ndikuti musalole kuti ntchito yonseyi ichoke pachabe.
Musalole kuti ubongo wanu ukuuzeni zoyenera kuchita, mumauza ubongo wanu choti muchite. Chisankho chiri mmanja mwanu, mumasankha nthawi yomwe mukufuna kukonza moyo wanu.
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