Tonsefe timadziwa malangizo onse; peŵani zolimbikitsa, khalani oona mtima ndi wina yemwe angakuthandizeni, khalani K9, khalani ogwira ntchito pa zolaula, ndi zina zotero.
Koma nazi malangizo omwe dotolo wanga wandipatsa omwe ndimawona kuti ndi othandiza, ndipo mwina inunso mudzatero.
Mukayesedwa, osasandutsa mkangano wamkati. - Izi zimangowonjezera chizolowezi kuti munthu apambane, chifukwa mukungodzikakamiza kuti muganizire mozama. M'malo mwake zindikirani kuti muli ndi chidwi chowonera zolaula, ndikusunthira kwina. Nenani mokweza "Ndikudziwa kuti ndikufuna kuwona zolaula, m'malo mwake ndipita [kuwerenga buku, kupita kokayenda, kusewera masewera, kuyimbira mnzanu, ndi zina zotero]" ndikutsatira.
Osayesa kupewa chizolowezi chomwa mankhwalawa - Kuzipewa kumangotanthauza kuti uyenera kuthana nazo mtsogolo. Chitani nawo mukangomva kuti chikubwera ndi njira yomwe ili pamwambayi kapena chilichonse chomwe chingakuthandizeni. Kuzinyalanyaza kapena kukhala otanganidwa kumangotanthauza kuti zikhala zovuta kwambiri mukamaliza zinthu zoti muchite, ndipo mudzakhala ndi chizolowezi chothana nacho.
Musaope kusungulumwa - Chimodzi mwazifukwa zomwe ndimamva zambiri kuti anthu amabwereranso chifukwa chotopa. Izi zitha kubweretsa kuopa kunyong'onyeka, zomwe zingapangitse kuti mupewe kunyong'onyeka ngakhale mutakhala otanganidwa ndi zina (monga tafotokozera pamwambapa). Mukakhumudwa, muvomereni. Khalani nawo. Phunzirani kusangalala ndi nthawi yomwe mulibe chochita. M'dziko lotanganidwa chonchi muyenera kukhala othokoza chifukwa cha nthawi yaulere yomwe mumakhala nayo.
Mukamakonzekera tsiku lanu, m'malo mongoganiza kuti "ndipewa zolaula," ganizirani "Ndikwaniritsa ___" - Kuganiza zopewa zolaula ndi njira ina yoganizira zolaula. M'malo mongoganiza kuti ndandanda yanu ndi chinthu choyipa chodzaza ndi zoyambitsa ndi ma landmine, khazikitsani cholinga - chomwe simungamve chisoni mukangomaliza kumene. China chake chomwe chimakupangitsani kumva bwino, m'malo mwake. Ganizirani za cholingacho m'malo moganiza zopewa zolaula. "Ndikutsuka bafa kudabwitsa mkazi / banja langa, chifukwa ndikudziwa lidzawapangitsa kukhala onyada ndipo inenso ndidziona kuti ndakwanitsa."
Ndiwonjezera zina ndikaganiza za iliyonse. Zabwino zonse kwa aliyense!
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