LINK- Maganizo onena za chidaliro (ndi kugonjetsa manyazi)
Ndinkafuna kupanga izi chifukwa anyamata ambiri amakhala ndi vuto lodzidalira komanso kudzidalira. Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zikuthandizani ndikukulimbikitsani kuti mukhale anthu omwe mukufuna kukhala. Ndingatchule kuti "zowona inu".
Ndili mwana komanso ndili wachinyamata (tsopano ndili 29) ndidazunzidwa kwambiri. Kudzidalira kwanga kunali kopanda tanthauzo, sindinali wosangalala, wamanyazi, ndinkachita mantha ndi mayanjidwe ndipo ndimaganiza kuti ndidzakhala womasuka nthawi zonse. Ndinali munthu wosatchuka (utha kuganiza za anyamata ena osakonda kusukulu kwako. Ndinali choncho). Ndinali ndi anzanga, ngakhale ochepa otchuka, olimba mtima koma sindinali ngati iwo.
Tsopano ndinganene kuti ndine wotsimikiza, kudzidalira komanso munthu wabwino. Maganizo anga ndekha ndi osiyana kwambiri ndi momwe ndinali achinyamata. Tsopano ndikusangalala kukhala m'malo ochezera.
Mutu woyamba: Manyazi. Ndinali wamanyazi mozungulira anthu atsopano ndipo sindimayankhula zambiri. Pafupifupi anzanga ndimakhala omasuka, komabe ndimakhala ochezeka ndipo ndimangoganiza zomwe ndinganene. Kwa ine manyazi analidi mawu ena amantha. Ndinkachita mantha kuti ndikauza anthu zomwe ndikuganiza kapena ndikalakwitsa, andiweruza kuti sangandikonde. Kwenikweni ndimakhala ndikudziyesa kuti sindine. Sindinali "wowona ine". Kuthetsa manyazi amtunduwu kumatenga njira ziwiri zokha (onani mndandanda # 1 ndi # 2).
Za malingaliro olakwika ndi kudzilankhulira koyipa. Amuna ambiri amachita izi ndipo simuyenera kuchita izi. Zomwe ndikutanthauza ndimaganizo olakwika: Ndine wonenepa kwambiri, ndine wamfupi kwambiri, wamanjenje, wamanyazi kwambiri, ndilibe ndalama etc.
Ngakhale zitakhala bwanji, simuyenera kuchita izi. M'malo mwake muyenera kuganizira za inu nokha: Ndine wabwino, ndili ndi ntchito yabwino, ndili ndi abwana abwino, azimayi onga ine, ndimatha X. Mumapeza lingaliro.
Kuyankhula koyipa: Tinene kuti mumasewera gitala ndipo wina wanena kuti mumasewera bwino ndipo mumayankha "zikomo koma sindine wabwino". Ndizolankhula zokha ndipo muyenera kuzipewa. M'malo mwake ingonena kuti "zikomo". Osanena nthabwala zodzinyazitsa. Komanso pewani zosiyana zomwe kudzitama.
Mndandanda wa zinthu zomwe zingathandize kukhala munthu wodalirika komanso wamanyazi kwambiri:
- Osasamala zomwe ena amaganiza za inu. Nenani zomwe mukufuna kunena ndi kufotokoza malingaliro anu momasuka.
- Dziwani kuti padzakhala anthu omwe angakonde "zenizeni inu" ndipo ena sadzakukondani. Ziribe kanthu zomwe mungachite.
- Lekani kuganiza molakwika ndi kudziyankhula nokha.
- Osazengereza. Ngati mukufuna kufikira amayi muyenera kutero. Ngati mwakanidwa mutha kukhala onyadwabe kuti mudachita zinthu molimba mtima poyesera.
- Ngati ndili mumkhalidwe watsopano. Ndiganiza zomwe munthu wodalirika angachite ndiyesere kuchita izi.
- Nthawi zonse khalani olimba komanso omasuka. Ndimayesa kuyerekezera malo ozungulira ine. Ndiganiza kuti ndikuwongolera zomwe zimachitika mkati mwa bwaloli (momwe ndimasunthira ndikukhala bwino). Izi zimandithandiza kuti ndizimasuka.
- Tengani zoopsa pagulu ndipo musamasewere mosamala kwambiri.
Chifukwa chiyani anyamata olimba mtima amakhala bwino ndi akazi. Kodi adzakanidwa? Yankho ndi inde koma sasamala kwambiri (ndi mayi m'modzi yekha ndipo pali akazi ambiri omwe sangawakane). Achinyamata olimba mtima amayandikira momasuka, mosasamala ndi mawonekedwe abwino. Amayandikira amayi ambiri ndipo amatenga chiopsezo chachikulu pagulu.
Mwachitsanzo zakutenga chiopsezo pagulu: Pafupifupi chaka chapitacho ndinali mu kalabu yausiku ndipo tsitsi lokongola ili pafupi ndi ine: Choyamba ndidamuuza momasuka komanso mosasamala chinali: "Uyandikire ndipo undipsompsone" ndipo amabwera kudzapereka kundipsompsona pang'ono. ndimayankha ndikunena "that was nice kiss but I think you can do better than that" ndiye amabwera ndikundipsompsona kwachifalansa.
Amuna ambiri amangosewera motetezeka kwambiri ndikumasula chilichonse. Ngati muli pachibwenzi ndipo mukufuna kumpsompsona mtsikanayo muyenera kumuuza kuti akupsopsoneni. Tengani zoopsa ndipo zikhala zofunikira. Osangokhala operewera, koma dziwani zomwe mukufuna ndikuzigwirira ntchito.
Malingaliro anga okhudza mabuku a pua ndi machitidwe: Maganizo anga ndikuti zimachokera pamaganizidwe kuti simuli bwino ndipo muyenera kusewera masewera kuti mumukonde. Ndinganene kuti zomwe mukusowa ndikuti ndinu "owona inu" ndipo asungwana ambiri azikonda. Simufunikanso kukhala china chilichonse.
Chitsanzo chimodzi chokhudza kukanidwa ndikupitilira: Ndinali mu kalabu yausiku ndikumwa mowa woyamba ndipo panali blonde wokongola uyu ndipo ndimadziwa kuti ndikufuna kumufikira. Chifukwa chake ndidatero ndipo posakhalitsa ndidanena nthabwala imodzi yayikulu yokhudza izi. Nthabwala imeneyo inali yayikulu pamlingo wanga (ndine wochenjera kwambiri). Amakhala ngati sizinachitike. Chifukwa chake ndidamuuza kuti azisangalala usiku. Ndinkadziwa kuti sindinali woyenera iye ndipo sanali woyenera ine. Ndikudziwa kuti pali atsikana mamiliyoni omwe angandiseketse. Chifukwa chake sindikufuna kukhala ndi mtsikana wamtunduwu yemwe samakonda nthabwala zanga.
Ngati mukufuna kuphunzira zambiri. Ndikulongosola momwe tingasunge momwe tingatetezere malemba amphamvu komanso mndandanda wa zizindikiro zomwe amayi amapereka: http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/19/one-good-dating-tip-her-approach-me-signals/
Ngati muli ndi mafunso ena omasuka kufunsa.
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