Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pofuna kusiya kuyenera kuima? Maganizo anga atatha masiku 45.
Nchifukwa chiyani zikuwoneka kuti anthu ena amalephera kupambana nthawi zambiri pamene ena akumenyana ndi kubwereza kambiri ndi kubwezeretsa? Funso limeneli lakhala likugwiritsidwa ntchito posachedwapa. Nkhani yoziziritsa palibe nambala ya fap komanso nkhani zonse zomvetsa chisoni zokhudzana ndi kubwereranso zandichititsa mantha kuti ineyo sindingathe kukhala ndi PMO mwaulere. Kenaka anandigunda ngati mphezi .... Pali ambiri a Fapstronguts kuno omwe moona mtima amafunitsitsa kuswa mankhwala awo a PMO. Koma ndikudziwa ndi chikhazikitso cha umunthu wanga kuti NDIFUNIKA kuswa wanga. Kusiyana kumeneku ndikofunikira; Kusiyanitsa kwachinsinsi pakati pa KUKHALA kukwaniritsa chinachake kuphatikizapo KUYENERA kukwaniritsa chinthu chomwe chakhala chikuwoneka ngati chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa zofuna zathu.
Ngati mwakhala mukuyesetsa kwambiri kuti muteteze zofuna zanu kuti mubwererenso kapena ngati mwabwezetsa nthawi imodzi kapena zina ndipo mukufooka, ndikukulimbikitsani kuti muphunzire kusonyeza kusiyana kwakukulu kwa mphamvu pakati pa CHIFUKWA NDI CHOFUNIKA. Ndiloleni ndikhale omveka, mosasamala kanthu zomwe poyamba munabweretsa kuno, musagwiritse ntchito mphamvu ya ubongo wanu kukhazikitsa zofuna zanu kuti muime PMO. Kutentha kofunikira kuyimitsa PMO kudzakhala kopambana kwambiri kuposa "chilakolako" chokwaniritsira cholinga chanu cha 90 (kapena chirichonse) (chikhumbo chiri chofanana ndi WANT).
Sitikukayikira kuti tonse tinamva za mphunzitsi wothamanga wa masewera omwe panthawi ya kuyankhulana kwa masewera a masewerowa adafotokozera gulu lopambana ngati akulifuna tsiku lomwelo "Iwo ankafuna kwambiri kuposa momwe tinalili". Komabe, masewero a masewera asonyeza kuti pamene gulu liri ndi misana yawo pakhomopo pamtambo wovuta kapena malo ovuta omwe amafunikira kuti apambane, nthawi zambiri kusiyana ndi ayi, gulu lomwe likufuna kutentha kwambiri lidzawoneka ngati wopambana. Ophunzila ndi atsogoleri omwe amapindula amaphunzira mofulumizitsa kusiyana kwakukulu kumeneku kuti awathandize kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo nthawi zonse.
Pano pali chitsanzo china cha zomwe ndikukamba. Akuti anthu a ku America okwana makumi asanu ndi awiri mphambu asanu ndi asanu amanena kuti amafuna KUTHANDIZA kulemera. Kulemera kwa kulemera kwa America kwakhala bizinesi ya mabiliyoni makumi asanu pachaka ndipo ikupitirizabe kukula ngakhale kuti chuma chikuchepa. Komabe ngakhale kuti anthu onsewa adanena kuti CHIFUKWA chofuna kulemera, ife monga dziko tsopano tiri oposa kuposa kale lonse. Nchifukwa chiyani ichi? Chifukwa CHIFUKWA NDI KUKHALA (chilakolako chimatanthawuza kuti ndikufuna) sichimasuliridwa kuti chikhale ndi cholinga chokhazikika. Titha kusankha kuti tidye chakudya chifukwa tinkafuna kutaya mapaundi angapo tchuthi tchuthi tisanafike kapena chifukwa tinkafuna kuti zovala zathu zikhale bwinoko ndi zina zotero koma nthawi zambiri timayambiranso kutentha sundae kapena pizza komanso mbiya mowa chifukwa adakali gawo la ife omwe amakonda "chakudya" kapena "zokonda" zomwe zimakhutitsidwa ndi mimba yonse (monga ena amodzimodzi ndi mawu WANT). Tikulimbana ndi zofuna zathu zomwe zimagwirizana ndi zofuna zathu. Komabe, maphunziro angapo okhudza kuperewera kwa kulemera kwawonetsetsanso kuti omwe ayamba kudya nthawi yomweyo akalangizidwa ndi dokotala kapena ena olemekezeka akuwonetsa kuti akuyenera kulemera kwake nthawi zambiri zimapindula kwambiri. Kusiyana kokha kunali ophunzila omwe ali ndi malingaliro okhudzidwa pamayambiriro a zakudya. Iwo ankaganiza kuti iwo akufunikiradi kutayika kapena padzakhala zotsatira zowawa, kotero iwo anali ndi cholinga chachikulu kuti apambane ndi iwo omwe anayamba ndi CHIFUKWA kapena DESIRE okha.
Kotero, ngati muli pano chifukwa palibe kusiyana ngati kuyesera kuyesa ndiye chonde musataye mtima ngati mutabwerera m'mbuyo ndikupitirizabe kulimbana nthawi ndi nthawi. Ndizovuta kuti muthe kutsutsana ndikutsutsidwa ngati mukufuna KUDZAKHALA ndi KUKHALA KUTI MUSAKHALAPEZE. Koma ngati mudziwadi kuti mukufunikira kusiya PMO ngati mukufuna kuti muthe kukwanitsa, ndiye kuti mukhoza kuphunzira kulimbitsa mtima wamkati, kuyambitsa kuyatsa koyenera kusiya ndi kusayambiranso mpaka kuyesedwa kubwereza nthawi zonse izi zimachitika.
Mungathe kugwiritsa ntchito mosavuta mphamvu yaikulu ya ubongo wanu kuti mutembenuzire zosafuna ZIMENE MUDZAKHALA kapena KUCHITA mu CHIFUKWA chowotcha kuti muwonjezere mwayi wosapambana. Njira imodzi yophweka yokwaniritsira izi ndiyo kuyendetsa mphamvu yodabwitsa ya mantha (ngakhale ipangidwa mwanzeru) kukuthandizani. Pitani ku laibulale ndikugwiritsire ntchito buku la Power Power ndi Tony Robbins kapena mabuku omwe akuthandizani kuti mukhale othandizira ngati momwe mungachitire zimenezi mwatsatanetsatane.
Pano pali chitsanzo chofunikira kwambiri, onetsetsani kuti panopo mukuvutika kwambiri ndi mavuto, maganizo ndi maganizo. Koma mofanana ndi anthu ambiri, mwinamwake mukuwopa kuti mukugwira ntchito ya PMO ndi abwenzi, banja, kapena alendo. Kotero mutha kugwiritsira ntchito mantha anu kuti muthandizidwe mwa kusuntha makompyuta anu m'chipinda chamagulu, ndikuika fyuluta monga k9 ndi mnzanu kapena makolo omwe ali ndi makiyi a nkhuni, khalani ndi bafa kapena malo osambira ndi khomo lachimbudzi losatsegulidwa, pitani kugona ndi chipinda chanu cha chipinda chosatsegulidwa ndipo mawindo anu atseguka. Mwa kulenga, ngakhale munthu wokhala ndi chilakolako chokha kapena akufuna kuti asamalize zonsezi akhoza kukhala ndi maganizo omwe akukakamiza kuti azipambana kuti atsimikizire kuti apambane!
Zopindulitsa zabwino kwa onse.
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