Makampani opanga zolaula pa intaneti amakhala pafupifupi $ 15 biliyoni, ndipo amafikira achinyamata ambiri chaka chilichonse. Mu 2016, anthu 64 miliyoni adapita ku Pornhub tsiku lililonse. Mu 2017, idadumphadumpha mpaka anthu miliyoni 81 omwe amawononga maola opitilira biliyoni anayi. Ndipo ndi azaka zikwizikwi omwe amawerengera 60% ya alendo a Pornhub.
Kuwonjezeka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumeneku kukupangitsa kuti ena azitcha mtundu watsopano wa chizolowezi , komwe kudalira kwambiri zinthu zobisika kumabweretsa mavuto kuti anthu omwe ali ndi vutoli azivutika kupanga ubale ndi anthu ena.
Dokotala wa zamaganizo Dr. Angela Gregory, wochokera ku chipatala cha amuna cha International Andrology London, akuuza Newsweek kuti kupezeka kwa zithunzi zolaula pa intaneti kumatanthauza kuti achinyamata amakumana ndi zithunzi zogonana ali aang'ono kwambiri kuposa kale.
"Mudayamba kudzuka pang'onopang'ono pokhudzana ndi kudziwa zambiri zakugonana komanso maubale ndi machitidwe ogonana chifukwa kunalibe chilichonse," adatero. “Tsopano simukuyenera kupita kuchipinda chochezera ndikudikirira kuti makolo azigona kapena kudikirira mpaka mutakhala nokha kuti mufike. Lero muli ndi mafoni am'manja ndipo mutha kupita kulikonse. ”
'Manyazi ndi zosangalatsa'
Erica Garza, yemwe kale anali wokonda zolaula komanso wolemba buku la Getting Off , anali ndi zaka 12 zokha pamene anadziseweretsa maliseche koyamba. "Ndinasangalala kwambiri koma ndinali ndi mantha kwambiri chifukwa sindinamvepo aliyense akulankhula za kudziseweretsa maliseche, sindinamvepo aliyense akulankhula za kugonana. Kotero zinkaoneka ngati chinsinsi ichi chomwe ndinachipeza koma ndimadziwa kuti ndimakonda," akuuza Newsweek.
Kuyambira pamenepo kupita mtsogolo, wokalambayo wazaka 35 tsopano amagwiritsa ntchito kugonana ngati njira yoti athawire ku zowawa zenizeni zenizeni, kuyambira kuzunzidwa kusukulu mpaka kusalandira chidwi kuchokera kwa makolo ake. “Sindinkafuna kudzimva kuti ndine wopanda chitetezo, sindinkafuna kusungulumwa, sindinkafuna kuti ndikanidwe tsiku lililonse. Chifukwa chake ndimangoseweretsa maliseche ndikungoonera zolaula ndipo zomwe ndimangomva zinali zosangalatsa pakati pa miyendo yanga. ”
Garza anabadwira m'banja laling'ono la ku Mexico ndipo adapita ku sukulu ya Chikatolika ku LA, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kwambiri kukambirana momasuka pa nkhani zoterezi. "Palibe amene analankhulapo za kugonana, ndipo chinthu chomwecho chinali kusukulu. Iwo adanena momveka bwino kuti kugonana ndi chinachake chimene chinachitika pakati pa anthu awiri okwatirana amene amakondana, chifukwa chimodzi chokha-kubala, "adatero Garza.
"Ndidakumana ndi zolaula pa TV yawayilesi ndipo ndidachitanso zomwezo, zomwe zinali zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa. Poyambirira kwambiri, chisangalalo ichi ndi chisangalalo chidakulungidwa ndikumva manyazi ndikumva kuti ndikulakwitsa. Manyazi ndi chisangalalo zidakhala gawo lofunika kwambiri pakugonana kwanga. ”
Panthawiyi, intaneti inali yotukuka kwambiri. "Ndikadakhala ndi malo ochezera atsopano oti ndiyang'ane," adatero Garza. “Ndikadatha kutsitsa zithunzi —ndipo mwadzidzidzi zithunzi zimatsitsidwa msanga. Kenako ndimatha kukhala ndi zotsatsira. Zonsezi zidakhala zokopa komanso zopatsa chidwi komanso zovuta kuzisiya. ”
'Palibe malire'
Kusadziwika, kupezeka, komanso kuthekera kwa zolaula pa intaneti kumawononga thanzi la abambo ndi amai kuposa kale, kuwabweretsera mavuto am'maganizo komanso amisala. "Zomwe tikuwona ndikukula kwa azimayi omwe sakukondwera ndi maliseche awo, komanso amuna omwe ali ndi nkhawa zakukula kwa mbolo," adatero Gregory. “Zisanachitike zolaula - momwe timadziwira masiku ano — ndi liti pamene munaonapo maliseche a mayi wina? Ndi liti, ngati mutagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, mudawona kukwera kwa munthu wina? Munalibe chilichonse chodziyerekeza nokha. Tsopano mutha, ”akuwonjezera.
Garza akunena kuti amadziwa kuti ali ndi chiyanjano cholakwika ndi kugonana ndi zolaula chifukwa khalidwe lake lachiwerewere limamulepheretsa kukhala pachibwenzi ndi anthu ena. "Kugonana ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndipo ndinayamba kumva ngati kuyenda kwachinsinsi ngati sindikuyendetsa zosangalatsa zambiri kuposa kungofika kumeneko."
Ndipo monga zizolowezi zina zilizonse, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pafupipafupi kumawonjezeka. M'malo mwake, ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula nthawi zambiri amafunikira kuchuluka kwakanthawi kwakanthawi kuti amve chisangalalo chomwecho. "Kwa anthu ena, sipangakhale zokakamiza zokha, amafuna kuti azingowonera komanso kuseweretsa maliseche pazomwe akuwona pa intaneti ndipo ndikuganiza kuti pakhoza kukhala kuchuluka pazomwe amawona," Gregory adatero.
"Akusowa zosangalatsa zambiri kapena zosiyana kapena zachabechabe kuti athe kupeza chiwerengero chofanana chogonana. Chifukwa kuti mutakhalabe malire, mukupita kuti? Ngati palibe malire, kodi mumapita kutali bwanji? "
Kuphulika kwaposachedwa pa zolaula pa intaneti kumatanthawuza kuti ndi kovuta kudziŵa chomwe chimagwedeza-chomwe chidzagwiritse ntchito pa kugonana kwa mibadwo yotsatira. Ndi 2019, pafupi 2.5 mabiliyoni padziko lonse adzakhala akugwiritsa ntchito mafoni a m'manja. Pamene zikuvuta kwambiri kulamulira achinyamata omwe ali ndi mwayi woonera zolaula, pali ngozi yeniyeni kuti chiwerengero chochuluka cha anthu chidzakhala ndi chilakolako chogonana komanso kugonana kosayenera ndi zolaula.