funso: Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa kuyerekezera zolaula ndikuonera zolaula?
Yankho: Mphindi
Ndimakokomeza, koma kungoganiza za zolaula kapena kuwerenga nkhani "zolaula" kumapangitsa kuti zolaula zizikhala zovuta komanso mwina zazitali. Kuganizira zolaula zomwe mumawona zikuyambitsa kuwonetsa njira zowonongeka, zomwe zimayambitsa ma spike mu dopamine, omwe amawoneka kuti akugwirizana ndi zolakalaka komanso kupuma kopumira. Izi zimawonjezera mwayi wobwereranso ndipo zimapangitsa kuti njira zosokoneza bongo zizikhala bwino. Ganizirani kanemayu ndi mpingo wa Noah - Kodi ndi bwino kuganiza mozama pamene mukuchira mowa PIED / PMO?
Kafufuzidwe pamaganizo amasonyeza kuti kuganiza kapena kulingalira zochitika kumayambitsa zambiri maulendo amodzi a neural monga kuchita izo. Mwanjira ina, kulakalaka zolaula kumalimbitsa njira zanu zosokoneza. Kuchokera pa kafukufuku - Zomwe amaganiza ndikuzichita zimagwirizana ndi substrate yomweyo? - ofufuza anamaliza kuti:
"Magulu atatuwa a deta amapereka chitsimikiziro chothandizira maganizo omwe amaganiza ndi kuchita zomwe amagawana nazo, pang'onopang'ono, ndizofanana."
Kumbali ina, kuchokera kwa anthu omwe ali pamsonkhanopo, kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro anu owona enieni angakhale okhutiritsa kuposa kupitiliza kudziyendetsa yekha ndi kusalola zolaula / kukumbukira zolaula kuchita ntchito yonse. Mutu: Iye Sangokhala Wina Aliyense: Mmene Zimakhudzira Kugonana pa Chiwonetsero (2017) - Gawo limodzi ndi maphunziro atatu a labu akuwonetsa kuti kulingalira zakugonana kumabweretsa kutsika kwachikondi komwe kumapangitsa kuti anthu azikhala pachibwenzi popeza izi zimafuna khama kwambiri.
funso: Nanga bwanji kuganizira za ntchito yeniyeni panthawi yobwezeretsa ntchito?
Yankho: Angadziwe ndani?
Amuna ambiri amanena kuti kuganizira za kugonana kwenikweni, kapena kutsimikizira akazi / amuna nthawi zambiri kumakhala kopindulitsa panthawi yoyambiranso. Ambiri amawona kupeŵa zopeka zonse monga maphunziro aubongo, ndipo amafotokoza zosintha pamalingaliro, monga kuwona anthu enieni m'malo mwa 'zinthu zogonana'. Kumbali inayi, anthu akhala akuganiza za maon. Kumbali ina yabwino, zingakhale zomveka kuti muthe kugwiranso ntchito ngati simudziwa zambiri zogonana. Chinsinsi chake chingakhale osati gwiritsani ntchito zochitika zolaula zomwe mumazikonda. Mwinanso muzisunga vanila, ngati muyenera.
Ndimakonda malingaliro amunthuyu:
Ndazilingalira, fellas. Usiku watha, ndinali nditakhala pansi nditamaliza masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndikupuma, osatanganidwa (mukudziwa momwe zimachitikira) ndipo ndimaganiza zogonana. Kenako zinandigunda: Ndimasangalala kwambiri kuganizira za akazi okongola. Ndikutanthauza kuti zimandipangitsa kukhala WOSANGALALA. Kukhala wamanyazi kunali kosangalatsa komanso kutsimikizira moyo usiku watha chifukwa kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanga sindinawone ngati vuto lomwe liyenera kukonzedwa. Ndinazindikira kuti ndi chikhalidwe changa ngati mwamuna ndipo ndikofunikira kuti ndikhale bambo wowona.
Ganizirani izi: ngati mumagwidwa ndi PMO tsiku ndi tsiku, mumawona kugonana kwanu ngati vuto losowa kukonza. Timaopa kuchita mantha chifukwa nthawi zonse tikayamba kulakalaka timayamba kudzigwedeza mpaka zitatha. N'CHIFUKWA CHIYANI? Dzulo usiku ndidapeza kuti ngati simukuthamangira kuzimitsa moto, zikuwoneka kuti moto womwewo ndiye moto womwe uyenera kuyaka mwa anthu onse, kutikankhira kudziko lapansi kuti tidzagonjetse ndikupambana. Baskani mu kutentha. Mumafunikira kuti muchite bwino. Ndife odala kwambiri kukhala amuna, athanzi, komanso amoyo.
Mnyamata wina:
Ndikuzindikira tsopano kuti ndikuyang'ana mmbuyo, ndinasiya kugonana ndi malingaliro okhudzana ndi atsikana enieni ndi zaka 13. Zolingalira za atsikana enieni ndi, malingaliro anga, a M wathanzi ndi wamwamuna wachikulire omwe mwinamwake akhalapo kwa zaka zikwi. Mavuto amayamba pamene malingaliro anu amasintha ku M nthawi zonse ndi zachilendo ndi akazi abodza mu mawonekedwe a pixel. Pakatikati-sekondale ndinapeza VHS yanga yoyamba ya zolaula yomwe inali ndi masewero osiyanasiyana. Posachedwa ine anafunika kuti M ndi O. Ndili ndi mwayi chifukwa sindinali ndi intaneti yothamanga kwambiri mpaka nditakhala 18.
Kenaka ndinakumana ndi mtsikana amene ndiyenera kuti ndinamuthamangitsa kwa zaka 2 (zina zambiri zomwe ndinkakonda kuyenda ndi ED, koma ndinkafunitsitsa nditakhala ndi msungwana uyu) Kotero nthawi imeneyo ndimaganiza kuti zolaula zingakhale zikuthandizira ED wanga kotero ndinasiya kuyang'ana Kwa masabata a 3 pomwe ndidayamba chibwenzi ndi mtsikana uyu, ndipo itakwana nthawi yoti tichite chikalatacho, a Dick adagwira ntchito usiku wonse, koma sindinathe Orgasm. Patatha pafupifupi sabata limodzi ndikugonana ndi mtsikana uyu ndidakwaniritsa O yanga yoyamba kuchokera kukazi kokwanira (zaka 23), ndipo ndikuuzeni anyamata nonse, ndikumverera kodabwitsa izi zikachitika ndi mtsikana yemwe mungamuuze kwathunthu mwa inu pamene mukugonana naye.
Izi ndi zomwe amuna ena amanenanso zongoganiza pokonzanso:
(Nkhani yamunthuyu idachokera pagulu lina. Akuti apewe malingaliro onse, ngakhale kuyang'ana azimayi, pomwe mukuyambiranso. Zikuwoneka kuti akuti akuyambiranso masabata atatu, koma amafunikira masiku awiri osiyana masiku 3.)
Pepani positi yayitali pasadakhale, koma ndikukhulupirira ndili ndi china chake chomwe chingathandize. Njira yothandiza kwambiri yomenyera ichi chomwe ndapeza ndi ichi: Muyenera kusiya kuyerekezera kwakanthawi. Ndikanena kuti siyani kuyerekezera, ndikutanthauza, "Lekani kuyang'ana chilichonse chokhudzana ndi kugonana." Lekani kuyang'ana azimayi ngati mukuyenera kutero. Chifukwa chiyani mungafunse? Kukhala chizolowezi cha zolaula ndimakhala ngati osokoneza bongo, mowa kapena kusuta. Mukayamba chizolowezi china chake, dopamine yanu yaubongo imatha. Izi ndizomwe zimayambitsa mavuto poyamba. Tasankha kusiya zolaula ndi MB. Ndiye chiyambi chachikulu.
Komabe, zomwe ndapeza ndikapitiliza kuyang'ana azimayi ndikuganiza kuti zimachedwetsa ntchitoyi modabwitsa. Mukawerenga zolemba za sayansi mupeza kuti dopamine wocheperako amatulutsidwa kungoyembekezera zolimbikitsa (mwachitsanzo, kufuna keke ya chokoleti, kapena pankhaniyi zolaula kapena kugonana). Izi zimatha kuchedwetsa kupita patsogolo.
Ikani motere: Mukasiya kusuta kapena kumwa mowa mutha kukhala tsiku lonse mukuyang'ana m'makontena awo? Mwina ayi, chifukwa zimayambitsa mayesero. Zimapanga kuthamanga komweko muubongo wathu. Mwawona? Mukasiya P ndi MB, ngati mukuyang'anabe azimayi wamba ndikuwayang'ana pazithunzi zolaula, sikuti ndikusiya lingaliro langa. Ndiye ndikupeza chiyani? Pafupifupi chaka chapitacho ndinawerenga zolemba zofananira "zolaula zambiri" kutayika kwathunthu kwa libido. " Ogwiritsa ntchito angapo anali ndi vuto lathu ndipo njira yawo inali yopewa kwathunthu kwa milungu ingapo; Pewani zongopeka, kuyang'ana zithunzi za akazi, kungodziletsa kwathunthu. Kwa iwo, imagwira ntchito m'masabata awiri kapena atatu okha.
Kenako ndinaziyesa ndekha, ndipo ndinasangalala kwambiri kuti zinagwira ntchito. Komabe, ndinabwereranso ku zolaula chifukwa ndimaganiza kuti "ndachiritsidwa" ndipo zinali bwino kuti ndiyang'anenso. Tsopano ndikubwerera ku njirayi. Zomwe ndidachita? Kwa masiku osachepera 14-21 sindinayang'ane kalikonse: palibe zongopeka, palibe zithunzi za akazi. Ndinayesetsa osayang'ana ngakhale akazi enieni. Ndidachita izi chifukwa ndimafuna kupatsa ubongo wanga mwayi wochira popanda chosangalatsa chakunja. Mwamtheradi! Zovuta kwambiri kuti tipewe milungu ingapo, koma zinali zoyenera. Ndinamva kuti zandithandiza kuchira. Ndinawona kuti zimalola kuti zolaula zisiye pamutu panga.
Kungosiya P ndi MB, kwa ine, sikunali 100 peresenti kusiya. Zinali zozizwitsa zomwe zimapangitsa kuti ubongo wosafunikira ukhale wamoyo.
Kodi mumadziwa bwanji kuti zonse zakubwerera?
Nthawi ziwiri zonsezi ndinkangokhala ngati njira yanga yonyamulira, ndipo mwadzidzidzi imadzikonzanso. Popanda pomwepo. Ndinasangalala kwambiri.
Kodi izi zidzagwira ntchito kwa wina aliyense?
Sindikudziwa kwenikweni. Ndikungonena zomwe ndinawerenga mu ulusi wina ndikudziyesa ndekha.
Ulusi ndi omwe adayambanso kuyambiranso kukambirana zaubwino ndi zoyipa zosasangalatsa zilizonse - The "Ayi Kukwera”Njira - Kusakwatira kwa Thupi NDI Malingaliro
Re: Maliseche opanda zolaula? Zinthu zochepa zomwe zimafunikira kufotokozedwa (kumbukirani kuti sindine dokotala kapena wolamulira aliyense, munthu wamba):
1. Inde, anthu akhala akuchita maliseche kwanthawi yayitali ndipo ndi kuyambira pomwe zolaula zapaintaneti zalowa kwambiri pomwe milandu ya ED yaphulika. Zikuwoneka kuti pali kulumikizana pakati pa zolaula ndi ED, osati kulumikizana kwakukulu pakati pa maliseche ndi ED. Zomwe tiyenera kuganizira tisanatenge chilichonse ndi kusiyana kwa zizolowezi zobweretsa maliseche nthawi imeneyo komanso pano.
Popeza amatha kupeza zolaula zopanda malire, zomwe zimadzutsa chidwi kwambiri, kodi munthu angatani kuti azichita maliseche poyerekeza ndi munthu yemwe ayenera kufinya ubongo wake kuti aganizire za mkazi wamoyo weniweni? Chinthu china chomwe ambiri omwe amagwiritsa ntchito pamsonkhanowu amakhulupirira kuti popanda zolaula, moyo wathu wogonana ukadakhala wathanzi komanso wochezeka kwambiri, wophatikizira abwenzi enieni m'malo moyerekeza.
Izi zikunenedwa, bwanji makolo athu (zaka 20 zapitazo ndi kupitirira) adachita maliseche monga momwe timachitira tsopano? Popeza analibe zolaula zambiri, tiyenera kuganiza (chifukwa kungakhale kwachinyengo kukhulupirira mawu omwe ali pamwambapa), kuti moyo wawo wogonana unali wathanzi ndipo zizolowezi zawo zogonana sizinasinthe kwenikweni kuchokera pamenepo. Chokhacho chomwe ndingatchule ndikuti kuseweretsa maliseche, ngakhale ndi malingaliro ena, sikuyenera kuwonedwa ngati koyipa ndipo si chifukwa cha ED!
2. Komabe, pankhani ya maliseche, mowa wambiri umakhala wochuluka. Vuto linanso ndiloti, titha kuchita maliseche kuyambira pano, koma zowona, tikangoyamba, timayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, kuti tipeze ziwonetsero zachangu komanso zamphamvu kwambiri. Makamaka pakukhazikitsanso, izi zitha kutitsutsa. Ichi ndichifukwa chake kuseweretsa maliseche kuyenera kupewedwa mpaka mutadzimva kuti thupi ndi malingaliro anu zakhazikika bwino, kwanthawi yayitali! Kulimbitsa thupi kumatha kukhala kovuta ndipo munthu sayenera kufulumira! Pambuyo pake, ndi chisankho cha aliyense kuchita zizolowezi zilizonse zomwe akufuna, podziwa zolaula komanso kuseweretsa maliseche zomwe zingayambitse.
3. Zopeka zimawoneka ngati zowopsa poyamba chifukwa pachiyambi (miyezi ingapo yoyambirira), zokonda zathu sizina koma zolaula zomwe timapeza m'mitu mwathu. Chowonadi chakuti ubongo wanu umachita dzanzi kusangalala ndi luso, zimakupangitsani kuti mutenge njira yosavuta mukamagwiritsa ntchito chida ngati chida. Simungathe kulingalira momveka bwino momwe msungwana wowotayo amawonekera maliseche. Simungaganize zogonana mwachikondi, ndi msungwana wabwino. Yankho? "Ingokumbukirani zomwe zolaula zomwe zidatipangitsa kuti tisinthe maola ambiri", umatero ubongo wanu.
Apa pali ngozi; sikuti mumangodziyerekeza nokha. Munthu wathanzi amene ali ndi malingaliro achilengedwe pa wina sangadzitengere yekha, koma wodwala zolaula yemwe amasunga malingaliro ake pogwiritsa ntchito zolaula zake, amangowonjezera zinthu. Lingaliro langa ndikuti mukayamba kuchira, ngati malingaliro anu ayamba kungoganiza zaokha, osakhala owonjezera kapena osakwanira, muyenera kulola. Osati kwenikweni kulimbikitsa malingaliro, koma mulole kuti akhale. Mukandifunsa, kunyalanyaza kapena kupondereza malingaliro amtunduwu kumatha kukhudza libido nthawi yayitali. Kupatula apo, ngati simukanakhala kuti mukuyenda panjira yabwino, malingaliro anu amakakamizidwa ndikukhala achilengedwe, sichoncho?
Ndikuganiza kuti kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pathu ndi mibadwo yapitayi ndikuti tili ndi mwayi wowonera zolaula. Achikulire amatha kuyerekezera koyambirira ndikuyesera kuti atenge msungwanayo pamabedi awo, pamapeto pake osaganiziranso (kapena osatinso). M'kupita kwanthawi, kuyerekezera za munthu wina kungakhale lingaliro loti mukhale pachibwenzi, popeza mphothoyo ingakhale kugonana kwenikweni! Kumbali inayi, ife timangoganizira, kuposa kupita kunyumba ndikudya mtedza ndikuganiza kuti zikadakhala zabwino bwanji kuthana ndi msungwana yemwe timakhala tikumuganizira uja.
Ine ndikuganiza izo zimadalira kwathunthu pa lingaliro la mtundu wanji lomwe liri. Ngati izo zikufanana kwambiri ndi P, ziyenera kukhala patebulo. Zifukwa ziwiri:
1) Zithunzi zolaula zingayambitse kubwezeretsa
2) Amatha kulimbikitsa zolimbitsa ma neural zomwe timayesa kuzikonzanso pobwezeretsanso. Ubongo wanu sumapanga kusiyanitsa pakati pazithunzi zomwe zimachokera pakompyuta kapena mkati mwanu, chifukwa chake zithunzi ngati P kudzera muubongo wanu sizosiyana kwenikweni ndi kuwona P.
Tsopano izo zati, ine sindikuganiza izo onse zongoyerekeza ndizabwino komanso zopanda phindu. Ndapeza kuti pakubwezeretsanso, kokwanira kwambiri koyamba m'moyo wanga, ndayamba kukhala ndi malingaliro ena amtundu wina omwe amaphatikizapo kukondana koma osati kugonana. Zolakalaka izi zimaphatikizapo zinthu monga kusinthana kumwetulira, kugwirana manja, kubwerera mmbuyo kapena phazi. Ndikudziwa kuti izi zitha kumveka bwino, koma malingaliro awa ndiwowoneka bwino kwambiri komanso osangalatsa. Sindikuganiza kuti ndi malingaliro ofooka azakugonana popeza amasiyana mosiyanasiyana. Zosangalatsa zamtundu wina sizovomerezeka kokha koma ndazipeza zili ndi zotsatira zabwino. Btw, sindinapiteko kapena MO pamalingaliro otere (ngati ndikadakhala kuti atha kukhala ogonana), ndimakonda kukhala ndi malingaliro awa ndikamalingalira.
Kwa ine, malingaliro ovomerezeka amatsatira malamulo angapo:
1) Sizimakhudza nyenyezi zilizonse za P kapena akazi (kapena anyamata) omwe simunakumanepo nawo (ngakhale atha kuphatikizira anthu ongoganiza)
2) Sizimakhudzana ndi zachiwerewere (mwachitsanzo, palibe maliseche kapena ziwalo zogonana kwambiri)
3) Sichimayang'ana kwambiri ziwalo zina za thupi (makamaka ziwalo zogonana)
3) Sikuti imangotengera zowonera, imaphatikizaponso mphamvu zina monga kukhudza, kununkhiza komanso phokoso
Mukufunsa ngati kuli kovuta kupitiriza kukhala PMO masiku ano. Ayi - ndizosavuta, zosavuta. Ubongo wanga umadziwa kuti atsikana aja [m'malo ake akale oonera zolaula] apita. Yavomereza izi ndipo yasiya kuyesa kundipangitsa kubwerera kwa iwo. Yapitirira. Tsopano ndikakhala kunyumba, ubongo wanga umadziwa kuti palibe zogonana komweko. Ndikamatuluka, ubongo wanga umadziwa kuti pali akazi abwino oyandikana nawo omwe angafune kukhala nawo, koma kuti njira yokhayo yomwe chilichonse chogonana chingachitike ndikugonana nawo, chifukwa M ndikulakalaka kunyumba kulibenso , salinso ndi chosankha.
Koma zidatenga masabata 8 kuti zifike pamenepo. Pakadali pano ubongo wanga umafuula kupha kwamwazi. Ndipo nthawi zina imasiya kufuula, koma ndimangoti ndinazolowera osafuula, kuti izitha kundisokoneza ndikayambiranso kukuwa. Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndikuti dulani TV. Ngati muli pakhomo, ndipo mkazi wabwino amabwera pa TV, ubongo wanu umati “Hei! Pali mtsikana wochokera kwa mayi anga! Ndikulingalira azimayi anga sanasowekenso! Hummana-hummana-hummana. ” Ndipo inu nonse mumasangalalanso.
Kunyumba kuyenera kukhala kukufa kwa akazi kwa inu. Palibe pamenepo. Palibe zowonera, palibe nkhope, matupi, osaganizira, osatinso kanthu. Padziko lonse lapansi: azimayi. Kunyumba kwanu: kotopetsa ngati f * ck.Ndiyi njira yokhayo yomwe ubongo wanu umalandirira uthenga womwe umafunikira, ndikuti azimayi kulibenso. Atapita.
Mlungu watha kapena apo, pamene ndikuyeretsa malingaliro a kugonana kuchokera m'maganizo mwanga ndikuchita zinthu zogonjera, ndikudzimva ndili wotayika, ndili wosungulumwa, wosokonezeka, ndikukhala osokonezeka, ndikudandaula, ndikuda nkhaŵa komanso ndikuvutika maganizo. Chinthu chokha chimene chinali kundisunga chinali chikhulupiriro mwa Mlengi wanga, chilengedwe komanso pulogalamu yoyambiranso. Kupeza malingaliro kunja kwa dongosolo lanu kumayambira ngati ntchito yovuta. Zimayamba kukhala zosavuta pakapita kanthawi. Ndiye muwona kuti libido yanu imayamba kuchoka kwa inu, ngakhale mu malingaliro anu. Mukuyamba kutaya chikhumbo chonse chogonana. Panthawi imeneyo, ndinayamba kuchita mantha, ndinayesa kukakamiza malingaliro opanda phindu pa mbolo. Kawirikawiri ndimayesa kuganiza ndipo ndinkakhala kovuta kuti ndipange malingaliro konse. Zinali ngati luso limene ndinali kutaya.
Nthawi ina ndimangosiya. Ndinaganiza ngati zongopeka zikanakhala zovuta kuzimvetsa, ndikhozanso kumasuka ndikulola kuti zitheke. Izi zimabweretsa kutsetsereka kwa libido, onse mu mathalauza komanso muubongo (ndikuwopseza SH * T kutuluka mwa ine). Koma, monga ndidanenera positi yanga yomaliza, usiku ndi mdima wandiweyani kusanache ... Lero zinali zosangalatsa! Kwa nthawi yoyamba kuyambira ndikukumbukira, mwina ndili ndi 23 kapena apo, ndimangokhala ndimomwe ndimapangidwira pagulu popanda china koma kungokhala ndi akazi okongola. Ndimamva ngati nyama! Koma mwanjira yabwino! Chifukwa chake ndidachita bwino lero nditatha kuyesetsa kwambiri m'masabata angapo apitawa ndikulola malingaliro onse akugonana, ngakhale zenizeni.
Ndine 30 ndipo ndimamverera ngati ndinali 18 (wowopsya ngati helo tsiku lonse mwadzidzidzi kuchokera kwa akazi okhaokha omwe ndimakumana nawo) Ndinaganiza kuti malingaliro anga anali ochepera zolaula komanso zowona, koma ndinali woweruza wosauka. Ngakhale zowona zenizeni, malingaliro oyamba amayamba kukhala zolaula nthawi yomweyo. Sindingathe kusiya kuonera kanema, titero kunena kwake. Ngakhale ndikadakhala ine, ndimayang'anabe. Ngakhale nditayamba kuchita nawo zongopeka, sindinathe kuziletsa kuti ndisawonerere zolaula za 3.
Malingaliro ake okha, koma zikundigwirira ntchito. Sindine katswiri, koma mukandifunsa, kuyambiranso kwanu kumatha kukhala kukulirakulira chifukwa chotsatira malingaliro anu. Zosangalatsa zimakutulutsani munthawiyo ndipo mphindi ndi zonse zomwe muli nazo! Zosangalatsa ndizachilengedwe. Sindikuganiza kuti wina akhoza kutaya kwathunthu. Malingaliro okhudzana ndi kugonana mwina amakhala athanzi kwa munthu yemwe sakuchira vuto la PMO. Koma sindinu ndipo mukutsimikiza kuti gehena si ine!
Malingaliro amagwiritsira ntchito kachigawo kakang'ono ka mphamvu kwinaku akulota komwe kumachita mukamachita zambiri pamoyo (mofanana ndi tulo). Kusiya kulota uli maso kuli ngati kuyamba kulimbitsa thupi la mafuta, ubongo wofooka. Zinali zovuta kwa ine kuposa zolaula. Ndinali ndimasabata awiri ndikudwala mutu komanso kulimba. Kusiya kulota uli maso kunatopetsa. Ndikuganiza kuti kupambana kwanga ndi PMO kukadakhala kocheperako ndikadapanda kusiya kulota.
Tsiku lake 60 ndipo sindinazizindikire!
Sindingathe kudikira kuti ndiwone bwino. Lero, ndimamva ngati ngakhale sindinakhale ndi PMO'd nkomwe, ndidayambirabe chifukwa ndidangolota, komanso ndikufufuza tsamba laulere la pa intaneti. Sindinazindikire patadutsa nthawi yayitali, machitidwe amenewo amayambitsa njira zomwezo muubongo zomwe zimayambitsa kusuta kwathu kwa PMO.
Tsopano popeza ndakhala ndikuyesetsa molimbika kuti ndisaganizire, kapena kuwononga nthawi pamalo ochezera & facebook, zinthu zikuyenda bwino kuposa kale. Ndimangoyesera kuti ndikhale otanganidwa NTHAWI ZONSE. Ngati ndili kunyumba ndekha pamaso pa kompyuta, ndimakhala ndi nthawi yoyipa haha. Ndawona kulumikizana kwachindunji pakati pa nthawi yomwe ndimakhala ndikuganiza kapena kugwiritsa ntchito malo owonongera nthawi, komanso momwe ndimamvera tsiku lotsatiralo potengera momwe ndimakhalira, kuthekera kwanga, komanso nkhawa yanga. Malinga ndi momwe ndimaonera, zikuwoneka kuti ndikamachita zochepa zinyalala zina zonse, ndimamva bwino, ndipo zimangodzipangira zokha.
Zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kupitilira masiku ochepa chabe popanda kukhala ndi malingaliro a chibwenzi, kapena kuganiza kuti Id imakonda kuchita chiyani ndi mtsikana ameneyo ndikumuwona ku masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndi zina zotero. Osaganizira za momwe angakonde kugonana atatha ngakhale kukhala ndi 0 kwa miyezi 2! Ndimayesa kuganiza za china chake pamene izi zimachitika.
Apa ndikuyembekeza kuti zipitilirabe bwino, ndipo ndikulimba mtima ndikudzidalira, ndikuyandikira cholinga changa chokwaniritsira ubale wapamtima.
Hei nonse, ndakhala ndikungoyendayenda pamisonkhano kwa nthawi yayitali koma sindinatumize zambiri. Ndikufuna kuthokoza aliyense chifukwa chotseguka momasuka pamavuto awo okhudzana ndi zolaula komanso kusowa pogonana, zandithandizanso kuti ndizilimbikitsidwa panthawiyi. Ndikufuna kugawana nkhani yanga komanso zinthu zina zomwe ndazindikira panthawi yoyesanso kuyambiranso.
Kotero ndakhala ndikuyang'ana zolaula kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 13-14, zinayamba ndi zochepa zochepa zomwe ndinatsitsa (kusuntha zolaula sikunapezekebe, mwamwayi). Pambuyo pake kuthamanga kwa intaneti kudakulirakulira ndidayamba kuwonera zolaula pafupipafupi. Pamene ndinali 21 ndinali ndi mwayi wotaya unamwali wanga, koma chifukwa cha nkhawa komanso mwina zolaula zinapangitsa kuti erectile iwonongeke sindinathe kuchita. Pafupifupi miyezi 3 zitachitika izi ndidakumana ndi mtsikana wina ndipo zomwezo zidachitika, sindimatha kuchita kangapo, ndimakhala ndi zovuta zina ndi zina ndipo ndidayamba kukhumudwa kwambiri komanso kuzolowera zolaula.
Pa zaka zotsatira za 4 sindinathe kugonana moyenera, nthawi zina kukwera kwanga kumakhala kokwanira kuti alowe mkati koma sikunamve bwino kwambiri. Pamene ndinatembenuza 25 ndinayamba chibwenzi ndi mtsikana, ndinali ndi mavuto omwe ndimakhala nawo ndipo ndinayanjana nawo nkhawa (zomwe ndikukhulupilira zidakali zofunikira pa nkhaniyi kwa ambiri a ife), iye anali womvetsa bwino kwambiri, ine ndiri ndi mankhwala kwa chialisiti ndipo mwa kuleza mtima kwakukulu ndi mayeso ndi zolakwika ndinatha kugonana naye mwachibadwa. Ndikulongosola kuti izi zimadetsa nkhawa, zolaula zanga zimachepa kwambiri (zovuta kuona zolaula pamene mukukhala ndi mtsikana) ndipo mbolo yanga imakhala yolimbikitsidwa kumaliseche m'malo mwa dzanja langa. Zina zilizonse, tinasweka, ndinabwereranso ku zolaula ndipo mavuto omwewo adayamba.
Chaka chatha ndidapunthwa pamsonkhano uno komanso ubongo wanu pa zolaula ndipo ndidaganiza zoyambiranso. Ndidapanga masiku 35 ndikuwona kusintha kwakukulu, ndimatha kugonana moyenera… nthawi zambiri mothandizidwa ndi Cialis. Koma, ndidabwereranso ku PMO ndipo mavuto omwewo adabwereranso. Chifukwa chake ndimaganiza kuti ndisiyiratu zolaula, komabe ndimachita maliseche. Ndayang'ana zolaula kawiri m'miyezi yapitayi ya 7, koma mpaka posachedwapa ndimakhala ndikuseweretsa maliseche pafupipafupi.
Kwa ine, kuseweretsa maliseche kunayambitsa mavuto omwewo monga kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndipo ndikuganiza kuti pambuyo poti ndawonera zolaula zambiri nditha kupezanso zolaula bwino kotero ndimamva kuti zosangalatsa = zolaula mpaka mutalola malingaliro anu kubwerera Tsopano ndili ndi tsiku la 22 la PMO kapena zongopeka, ndikuwona kusintha ndipo ndikudzipereka kuti ndisawonenso zolaula, osachita maliseche masiku a 90 kenako ndikuwona komwe ndili. Ndiyesetsa kuti aliyense atumize.
Zikomo kachiwiri.CLIFF ZOYENERA: Pazochitika zanga zodzikongoletsa ndi maliseche zili ndi zotsatira zofanana ndi PMO.
LINK - Ndili pa tsiku langa la 69 pakadali pano, ndipo ndikukuwuzani kuti zimakhala zosavuta kunyalanyaza malingaliro patapita nthawi.
Ndakhala ndi zibwenzi zingapo m'mbuyomu, ndipo zoyambirirazo zatsala pang'ono kuchoka m'malingaliro mwanga ngati malingaliro omwe ndikadakhala. Zinanditengera kanthawi, ndakhala ndikulimbana ndi chilombo cha PMO kuyambira pakati pa Januware, koma zakhala zosavuta kuposa kale kuzisiya.
Upangiri wanga kwa inu sikuti "musaganizire za izi", chifukwa mwachidziwikire mungaganizire za izo, koma kuganizira china chake nthawi iliyonse malingaliro amenewo akabwera m'mutu mwanu.
Yesani kuganizira zachilengedwe makamaka - Dzuwa ndi lokongola bwanji, udzu wobiriwira, chakudya chokoma chomwe mudadya, ndi zina zambiri.
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