When I’m sober, I feel amazing. Our relationship gets better, sex life gets better, writing gets better.

My wife has known about my porn addiction for years, but during periods of relapse it always seems to fade from our collective awareness, which of course feeds the relapse. My most recent awakening came as a result of me confessing that I had gone back to porn yet again. I’ve confessed before, and I’ve […]

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Age 25 – Doing NoFap has taught me that my attitude towards sex and women has been really, really fucked up for some time

I thought I would write down what I have learned about myself – and specifically about how my brain has developed its conceptions about sex and sexuality – through my experiences of NoFap. This isn’t supposed to be in any way scientific, just some observations and what I think I have discovered through this process. […]

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