Njengoko iifoto ziqhubekela phambili, ukusebenza kuyahla? (2010)

Eli nqaku libhalwe umhla. Ngolwazi oluthe kratya ngoku, jonga okubanzi kakhulu Iphonografi kunye ne-ED icandelo, kwaye uqale QALISA LAPHO: Ukunyanzeliswa kwezesondo ezithintekayo. Kuninzi okwenzekileyo ukusukela ngo-2010.


KUFUNDO: Ngaba kukho unxibelelwano olungalindelekanga phakathi koononophala kwanamhlanje?

Ukuxhatshazwa koonobungozi kungakhokelela ekusebenziseni i-erectileNgokusebenzisa i ukuphuma kwexesha elizayo, iwebhusayithi yam ibe yi-hangout kubantu abathile abamangalisa, kuquka amadoda azimisele ukuzondla kwi-pornography. Iimvavanyo zabo zandifundisa ngaphezu kokuba ndandifuna ukungazi malunga nale ngongoma. Kwiminyaka embalwa edluleyo omnye wabhala,

Ndiqinisekile ukuba ukuba isifundo senziwe ngokwenene namadoda athembekileyo, siya kubona ukulungelelaniswa phakathi kokubukwa koononophelo kunye nokungasebenzi kwe-erectile. Icandelo lezonyango lizama ukuxhamla uluntu olungabhaliweyo kwaye lenza amabhiliyoni. Emva koko iinkampani zonyango zizithengisa ngexabiso elibizayo lezobisi zonyango ukuphatha imiphumo emibi-kwaye yenza izigidigidi.

Uphendle ukuba wayengekho ngaphandle.

Ndijonge iphonografi kwi-Intanethi okoko ndaqala ikholeji kwiminyaka eyi-13 eyadlulayo. Malunga nobudala be-24, ndabona ubunzima bokuvuka nabasetyhini bokwenyani. I-generic Viagra ekwi-Intanethi indivumele ukuba ndibenobudlelwane bokwenyani kunye neengxaki ezimbalwa kude kube kubudala be-29. Emva koko, kwaba nzima ukuba neentlobano zesini zokwenyani, nditsho neepilisi.

Xa ndiqonda ingxaki yam, ndazama amanyathelo amaninzi ukuba ndilahle i-pornography. Elide kunene ndihlala ngaphandle kweeyure ze-3. Ngeli xesha, andizange ndivuke ukucinga ngesondo ngokuqhelekileyo, ngoko ukukhungatheka kwakhiwe. Ukuphunyuka kwam kuphela kukubuyela kumnye kuphela oya kundivusa. Emva koko ubuyele kwi-pornography. Ndifuna ukuphiliswa kwesi.

Njengoko i-intanethi isondele, ibuye ihlaziye kwividiyo. Zifinyeleleka lula, zikhula ngokugqithiseleyo-kwaye zininzi ezikhuthazayo kunokuba Playboys zexesha elidlulileyo. Hayi, uninzi lweengcali alucingi ngokwe "iqondo izinto ezikhuthazayo ezichaphazela ubuchopho be-chemistry balance / wiring. ” Basacinga ngayo yonke into engamanyala njengokuthi "akukho nto ngaphandle koncedo lokuphulula amalungu esini," kwaye ngenxa yoko ayinabungozi, okanye iluncedo. Kuba iividiyo ze-Intanethi ziqhelekile, kunokwenzeka ukuba indlela yokucinga esemgangathweni ayinalo ixesha lokufumana inyani ye-porn yanamhlanje kunye neengozi zayo.

Ukuxhatshazwa koonografi kunokunyusa usebenziso lwe-erectileUnxibelelwano lwe-porn / potency luyakhohlisa ngokumangalisayo. Uninzi lwamandla amadoda ayikho ochaphazelekayo yi-porn ... de kube kunjalo. Ke ingxaki ikhangeleka ingekho ngqiqweni de ibambe umntu-ngeloxesha uthambekele ekwenzeni impazamo kwi-porn eshushu njenge unyango. Izinto ezigqithiseleyo ziphinde zonakalise ingqondo yakhe. Ngaloo ndlela, amadoda amaninzi ayabamba nantoni na ingcaciso ngaphandle kokusetyenziswa kwezonyango kwiimpawu zabo, ngenxa yokuxhomekeka kwabo.

Rhoqo iingcali zicinga ukuba ihlazo lingunobangela weengxaki ezinje, kodwa kumadoda amaninzi kusenokwenzeka ukuba ubuchwephesha bobuchwephesha bokungafunisi amandla kukhuthazo olunzima ngoyena nobangela. Abazange nje basebenzise i-porn ngokwanelisayo iminyaka, kodwa kwakhona, ukuba ihlazo lingunobangela, iingxaki ziya kuthi zibonise kwakamsinya. Amadoda amaninzi awafumani ngxaki de kudlule iminyaka yokusebenzisa kakubi i-porn. Ke kukho okunye ukuhla njengoko ukukhangela kwabo izinto ezigabadeleyo kusanda. (Ihlazo alisoloko lingabalulekanga, kunjalo. Ingenza isenzo sesondo ngokuvusa kakhulu, ngokukhawulezisa umjikelezo wokutshutshisa.)

Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba i-erectile dysfunction eyenziwa ngokusetyenziswa kakubi kwezilwanyana ezibonakalayo kubonakala ngokutsha. Inxalenye ebuhlungu kukuba umntu ogulayo kufuneka anikezele ukusetyenziswa kwakhe koonwabo-umnikelo kumangalisi.

Nantsi into eyabelwe amadoda:

Emva kweminyaka yoononophala, ndandinenkathazo ngeendlela zokumisa. Kwakulokhu kuqhubeka nokubi kakhulu iminyaka emibini. Kufuneka iintlobo ezongezelelweyo zeentlobo zeentlobo ze-porn stimulation, kwaye kwakungenakunceda. Ndandikhathazeke ngokwenene, kodwa ukuxhalaba kwakungandichukumisa kakhulu kwi-pornography. Kunzima ukukholelwa, kunikwe ukuqhubela phambili. Mhlawumbi ndasebenzisa zonke iintlobo zezithombe zoononografi kwaye ndaphuma ngaphandle ngaphandle kwesinye: i-child pornography. Yintoni endiyikisayo, Ngaba ndingahamba naloo ndlela, kwakhona, ngolunye usuku?

Xa ndihamba ngaphaya koononophala, i-masturbation, i-fantasy kunye ne-orgasm, kunzima ngakumbi hayi fumana ulungiso. INDLELA YOKUBONISA UKUHLEKA. Azikho iingxaki ze-ED okanye i-ejaculations ephosakeleyo njengokuba ndineenyanga ezimbalwa ezedlulileyo. Umzimba wam uphilile. Ngoko ke, ukuba uhlala kude noononophala kunye nokukhenkceza umnqweno wakho wesondo uya kunyuka. Kuya kunyuka ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ukunikezela ngoku nje ixesha elifutshane eli lixesha elide liye linyathelo elikhulu ekuphulukeleni umonakalo endawenzela kum. Ngoku umngeni ukufumana umlingane, okanye ixesha lokusebenzisa i-masturbation esebenzayo. -
Emva kwexesha leentsuku ezingama-90 zokuziyeka kwi-pornography / i-masturbation, ndaqaphela ukuba ndandinomdla ngakumbi kunaphambili; Andizange ndifune nayiphi na into evuselelayo ukuze ndenze i-horny. Ukuphuma kwamadlozi kuyekisiwe. Ngoku ukuba ndibuyile ekuphulula amalungu esini, ndiye ndabona ukuba ndingoyena unomdla kakhulu kubafazi (kwaye ndiye ndaphela ndilala nabo) ngexesha lokulinga kwam nge-masturbation ephantsi. -
Ngelixa ndandidla iphonografi kwaye ndibetha, ndandinexhala lokusebenza xa kufikwa kwisini sokwenene. Iphelile. Andinangxaki. Kumnandi ukuvuswa zizinto ezincinci: iblawuzi etyhilayo, ukucoca okumsulwa, ilokhwe yasehlotyeni, okanye ibhinqa elibalekayo, iinwele ezikhazimlayo kunye nevumba elimnandi, endaweni yeeklip zevidiyo ze "Cum Gurgling".
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Ndonwabile ukuba lo mbandela we-porn-ED uya usaziwa ngakumbi. Kuya kunceda ukuthintela iingxaki ezininzi. Ndizifundile izinto malunga nabantu abakwaziyo ukubukela iphonografi ngamanye amaxesha kwaye baqhubeke nokwenza enye ebalulekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba bahamba ixesha elide ngaphandle kolunye ulwabelana ngesondo, kwaye babukela ezininzi zoononophala kunye nokuphulula amalungu esini, ke babenobunzima-ubunzima ababengenabo ngaphambili.

Ngokwe-psychiatrist Norman Doidge, umsebenzisi onobunono obuninzi obuthathekayo akafani

likhoboka leziyobisi elingasakwaziyo ukuphakama kwimifanekiso eyakhe yamvula. Kwaye ingozi kukuba okunyamezelana kuya kudlulela kubudlelwane, njengoko kwenzekile kwizigulana endandizibona, kukhokelela kwiingxaki zamandla kunye nokutsha, ngamanye amaxesha okungafunekiyo, ukuthanda. Xa oonografi beqhayisa ukuba bayayityhala imvulophu ngokuzisa imixholo emitsha, enzima, abangayithethiyo kukuba kufuneka, kuba abathengi babo bakha ukunyamezelana nomxholo. Amaphepha angasemva amaphephancwadi abonisa ubungozi kumadoda kunye neendawo ze-Intanethi ezizaliswe ziintengiso zeViagra-uhlobo lwamayeza-amayeza enzelwe amadoda amadala aneengxaki ze-erectile ezinxulumene nokwaluphala kunye nemithambo yegazi evaliweyo kwilungu lobudoda. Namhlanje, abafana abancinci abatyhutyha iphonografi boyika kakhulu ukungabinamandla, okanye "ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile" njengoko kubizwa njalo. Ixesha elahlekisayo lithetha ukuba la madoda anengxaki kwiipipi zawo, kodwa ingxaki isezintlokweni zawo. … Ayifane yenzeke kubo into yokuba kunokubakho ubudlelwane phakathi kwamanyala abawasebenzisayo kunye nokungabi namandla kwabo.

Nantsi into engaziwa ngamadoda amaninzi. Ixesha lokungonwabi okanye ukuphakama okukhulu ngexesha le iintsuku zokubuyiselwa emva kovuselelo olunzulu kubonakala ngathi sisizathu esivakalayo sokuzinyanga ngokwakho kunye nokuzonwabisa. Kodwa ukwenza njalo kuyenza mandundu ingxaki. Ukuba umntu uvuthondaba ngaphambi kokuba ingqondo yakhe ibuye ibhalansise, kunokwenzeka ukuba afune ishushu neshushu. Ngoba? Inxalenye yokuqala yengqondo yakhe ayiphenduli okwethutyana. Yiyo loo nto isini / iphonografi rhoqo "ingamenzeli yona."

Amaqabane ebhakeni eshushu

Ishushu esikhuthazayo sivelisa ukuvusa inkanuko, kodwa ngakumbi ukuhambisa amanqanaba e-dopamine kwindawo ephambili yengqondo yakhe. Njengokuba iminqweno yakhe kunye nokunqwenela kwakhe ukukhululeka kushushu zilawula ubomi bakhe, umsebenzisi angakulibala ukuba umlinganiso uziva njani. Rhoqo uhlangabezana uncharacteristic uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo-Ayizukunxibelelana notshintsho kwingqondo yakhe oluziswa kukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-porn. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba ingxaki ikhula kwifayile ye- Iingcingo zengqondoUkulungiswa kwethutyana kweViagra ngekhe kumise ukonakala. (Idibanisa kuphela ukuhamba kwegazi ukuya kulwakhiwo.)

Njengoko iindwendwe zam zifumene, isisombululo kubonakala ngathi siyeke ukuphulula amaphambili kwi-porn. Ngapha koko, ukukhankanya iphambili ngokuphulula amalungu esini ngokupheleleyo kangangeenyanga ezimbini ukukhawulezisa "ukungavuki" komanyano olufunyenweyo phakathi kovuselelo kunye nokugqithileyo, i-erotica yokwenziwa. Oku kubonelela ngesiqalo esitsha, ukuthetha ngesondo (nangona ingqondo inokuthi ihlale ibuthathaka kakhulu kwizikhombisi ezinxulumene ne-porn ngokungapheliyo).

Oku kude, kaninzi kunzima, Inkqubo "yokuqalisa kwakhona" no ku koyika. Amanye amadoda ayesaba ukuba i-libido iyakuphela ngokupheleleyo. Oku akunjalo. Njengoko ubuchopho buyabuyela ukulinganisela kubonakala kuba nobuthathaka kunye nokuphendula, kungabi ngaphantsi. Ekuqaleni, nangona kunjalo, amava athile ngexesha elimnyama, ngelixesha apho akukho nto iguquka ngenxa yokuba ubuchopho babo bunqweno.

Njengoko ingqondo iyathintela ekuphandeleni imibutho efunyanwe noononophelo, ekugqibeleni ikhangelelene nezinye iindawo zokuzonwabisa. Iphinda ibuye ibuye iguqule ukufumana: ukusebenzisana ngobuhlobo, abalingani bokwenene, ixesha kwimvelo, ukuzivocavoca, ukufezekisa, njalonjalo. Enyanisweni, amadoda amaninzi afumana uvavanyo oluthile luncedo. Iphucula umzobo kwaye iyanciphisa uxhalabo kunye nokuxinezeleka xa ubuchopho bubuyela ekhaya.

Kucacile ukuba, ezininzi izinto zingabasebenzi emsebenzini wokuxhalabisa. Nangona abantu befunda ukulawula ukuphendula kwabo ngokwesondo kubaxhamli bezinto ezibonakalayo bangasebenzisa utshintsho ekuziphatheni kwabo, banokwenza ngokuthe ngqo ukuthetha nayiphi na imiba echaphazela ukuxhalaba komsebenzi.


[Bona kwakhona: "Indlela endiyifumana ngayo kwi-Erectile Dysfunction ehlobene ne-Porn"]

Ngolwazi oluthe kratya malunga nokuqonda impilo ye-erectile, bona uGary's I-Erectile Dysfunction kunye noTyhutho slide.

Oko sabhala le PT post kuye kwavela imeko ephazamisayo. Abafana abasebenzisa i-intanethi kwi-intanethi ngexesha lokufikisa kwabo bahlala befuna ixesha elide ukubuyisa impilo yabo ye-erectile, yabona- Abaselula abasebenzisa izilwanyana badinga ixesha elide ukuze bafumane iMojo yabo

Uphononongo malunga nokulala phakathi kwezesondo kunye neziyobisi kwiingqondo