I-intanethi ye-intanethi ibonakala ngathi "ayinayo isondo" kubasebenzisi abaninzi, ukunciphisa ukusebenza.
Inani elikhulayo labasebenzisi abancinci be-intanethi be-intanethi be-intanethi bayakhononda ngokukhawuleza ukunyuka, ukungakwazi ukuguqulwa ngamaqabane oqobo, kwaye ekhethiweyo.
Uninzi lwabafana, i-20s okanye njalo, abanakuyifumana kwakhona kunye nentombazana yokwenyani, kwaye bonke bayabalisa ngokuba ne-porn / umkhwa wokuziphatha gwenxa. Abafana abanakuze baxoxe ngokuphandle ngale nto nabahlobo okanye abantu abasebenza nabo, ngenxa yokoyika ukuhlekwa ngaphandle kwedolophu. Kodwa xa umntu ebalisa ibali lakhe kwiforum yezempilo, kwaye kukho iimpendulo ezingama-50-100 ezivela kwabanye abantu abasokolayo yinto efanayo, oku kuyinyani.
Imiba enxulumene nale ngxaki ivela kwiWebhsayithi yokwakha umzimba, uncedo lwezonyango kunye neelayimu zokuthabatha izakhono, ubuncinane kumazwe angamashumi amabini. Isaziso esivela kuso enye inkundla:
Ngenxa yee-imeyile ezinqabileyo kunye nezicelo esizifumene ngokubhekiselele ekugqithiseni i-pornography kunye ne-erectile dysfunction, sinqume ukudala intambo eyahlukileyo. I-ED ngenxa yezonxeba ihamba ngokukhawuleza, ngakumbi kubafana abaselula.
Ukuphelelwa lithemba kwabafana abasuka kwiinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo, benamanqanaba ahlukeneyo emfundo, inkolo, izimo zengqondo, amaxabiso, ukutya, ukusetyenziswa kwentsangu kunye nabantu abafuna uncedo. Banezinto ezimbini kuphela ezifanayo: ukusebenzisa kakhulu i-intanethi yanamhlanje kunye nokwanda kwesidingo sezinto ezigwenxa.
Uninzi ngaphambili lwalukhe lwaya koogqirha, lwenziwa iimvavanyo ezahlukeneyo, kwathiwa "balungile" ngokwasemzimbeni. Akunabo okanye ababoneleli babo bezempilo abaqaphela ukusetyenziswa koononophelo okugqithisileyo njengesizathu esinokubangela ukuba baqhubeke nokusebenza kweengxaki. Uninzi lwaqinisekiswa ukuba "ukuphulula amalungu esini akunakubangela ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile." Ukuxilongwa okokugqibela “yayilixhala lokusebenza.”
Ngaba ukhathazeka ngokwenene bangela? Nalu uvavanyo olulula: Zama ukuphulula amalungu esini (uwedwa) ngaphandle kokusebenzisa iphonografi kwaye akukho fantasy-kuphela kukuthinta inkanuko. Sebenzisa isantya esifanayo noxinzelelo njengoko ubuya kwenza ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Imile njani ipenisi yakho ngaphandle kwe-porn? Ukuba ilungu lakho lobudoda alimi nkqo ngokupheleleyo, okanye kuthatha umgudu ukuze ume nkqo, amathuba okuba unxunguphalo alungonobangela weengxaki zakho. Ukuqhubeka kokusebenza kweengxaki ngokuqinisekileyo kunokuba njalo qhubelela kwi , kodwa. Njengomntu omnye uthe emva kokuba abuye abuye emva kweenyanga ezintathu ngaphandle kokukrexeza okanye i-pornography,
Kunzima ukuxelela apho umlutha uphela khona kunye noxinzelelo luqala. Ndicinga ukuba indibaniselwano yezi zimbini iyabandakanyeka kwiimeko ezininzi.
Kungekudala, ii-urologists zase-Itali ziqinisekisile i-erectile disysction-usetyenziso lwe-porn ngokusebenzisa uphando olukhulu. Xa udliwano-ndlebe ngolu vavanyo, urologist uCarl Foresta (intloko ye-Italiano Society of Andrology kunye noTyhulo lwezoSondo kunye noProfesa kwiYunivesithi yasePadua) ichaza ukuba i-70 ipesenti yamadoda asetsheni ekliniki eyayiphathwa ngayo ngenxa yeengxaki zentsebenzo yesondo yayisetyenzisileyo. (Okwangoku kubonakala ngoku waqhuba isifundo.)
AmaTaliyane ayedwa. Ezinye iiprofesionals zezokwelapha ziqala ukuphatha amadoda asempilweni abancinci abaye bahlakulela ukunyanzelisa i-sex-induced unemployment:
- Ukuninzi kakhulu? nguRobert Taibbi, uLCSW
- I-Urologist: Iifoto zoonografi zingabangela ukungasebenzi kwe-erectile kubafana abaselula
- Ubunono obangela ukuwa kwemitshato yaseMumbai
- Ngaba Iidemon Ziba negalelo kwi-ED?
- Isifundo sichaza umhlaba ofihlakeleyo wezilonda zobisi
- Ngaba ubulili beliphoyisa liphazamise ngonaphakade? (Salon.com)
Ukubuyiselwa kubonakala kuthatha iiveki ze-6-12, kwaye zihlala ngokuyinxalenye yento enye: ukuphepha ukukhushulwa okukhulu kwe-Internet. (Abaninzi banokuphepha ukuhlaziya i-masturbation ngexesha, mhlawumbi kuba ekuqaleni abanakukwazi ukuhlambalaza ngaphandle kwefantasy, okanye ngenxa yokuba i-climax yenza i-binging.)
Phakathi kwabo baphilayo, ukuqhubela phambili kuyamangalisa ngendlela efanayo. Amadoda ngesiqhelo axela ukuba emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa zomnqweno wesini onamandla, i-libido plummets kunye nelungu labo lobudoda libonakala ngathi "aliphili," "lishwabene," okanye "liyabanda". Ezi mpawu "zithe tyaba" zihlala ziqhubeka ukuya kuthi ga iiveki ezintandathu ngokomyinge, kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yobudala kunye nokunyaniseka kokusetyenziswa kwezilwanyana.
Kancinci, ukubuyiswa kwamanzi kusasa, kulandelwa yi-libido kunye, mhlawumbi, ukulungiswa kwamanye amaxesha. Ekugqibeleni, kukho ukubuyiswa ngokupheleleyo kwezempilo erectile, umnqweno wezesondo olwalamano oluchanileyo, isondo siba mnandi kakhulu, kwaye ukusetyenziswa kwekhondom akusekho nkathazo.
- Ndiyindoda eneminyaka eyi-25 ubudala, ndiphulula amalungu esini kakhulu ukusuka kwi-13 kwaye ndisebenzisa iphonografi ukusuka kwi-14.Ngokuthe ngcembe, kuthathe okungakumbi ukundiguqula: iingcinga ezinkulu okanye iphonografi enzima, kwaye ndayeka ukuba nzima ngaphandle kokuchukumisa. Ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ndiza kuba nzima ukufumana i-erection okanye ndiyigcine, ngakumbi xa usabelana ngesondo. Kule minyaka i-7 idlulileyo andikhange ndibambe ubudlelwane. Esona sizathu siphambili sam yile ngxaki. Ngoku ziindaba ezimnandi: Xa ndakuqonda unobangela, ndayeka ngoko nangoko iphonografi. Ngaphezulu kweeveki zokugqibela ze-6 ndiye ndayeka ukuphulula amaphambili kangangoko ndinako. (Eyona rekhodi yam ibiyiintsuku ezili-9!) Konke kwahlawulwa. Ndandihamba nje nentombazana ngeveki kwaye kwakuyeyona nto ibhetele. Nangona kunjalo, andicingi ukuba ndiphuma ehlathini okwangoku. Ndisakhathazeka kakhulu kuwo onke amava amabi kule minyaka idlulileyo. Kodwa ndifuna ukukuxelela yonke into enokusebenza, kwaye kufanelekile!
- Iveki ye-12, iminyaka eyi-36-ndiyichukumisile ngokupheleleyo indlela endifumana ngayo. Kuye kwaba nzima ukungahoyi. Ndiyathetha, ukulungiswa kwam yiROCK HARD kunye NOKUQALA. Ndikhumbula ndibuza abanye abantu abahamba phambi kwam malunga nokuba baqwalasele nini ukubuya kwabo. Ewe, ndicinga ukuba ndibuyile.
Njani ukuba iphonografi kunokubangela ingxaki ekusebenzeni ngokwesondo?
Isizathu sibonakala sikhona zenyama, Ayisiyokwengqondo, inikwe ukuba amadoda ahlukeneyo atshintshe into enye kuphela (ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn), kodwa anike ingxelo yokufumana kwakhona. Kula madoda, uxinzelelo lusezantsi. (Qaphela - umkhwa ophazamisayo uyavela. Abafana abasebenzisa i-Intanethi ngexa lokufikisa bafuna ixesha elide ukubuyisela impilo yabo ye-erectile, jonga- Abaselula abasebenzisa izilwanyana badinga ixesha elide ukuze bafumane iMojo yabo)
Uphando lwakutshanje lokuziphatha gwenxa lubonisa ukuba ilahleko ye-libido kunye nokusebenza kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba abasebenzisi abanzima bekhathaza impendulo yesiqhelo yengqondo kulonwabo. Iminyaka yokugqitha kwimida yendalo ye-libido ngokukhuthaza okukhulu ukuphendula impendulo yomsebenzisi kwi-neurochemical called dopamine.
I-Dopamine isemva kwenkuthazo, "ukufuna" kunye nazo zonke iziyobisi. Iqhuba ukukhangela imivuzo. Sifumana amaqhekeza amancinci ngalo lonke ixesha siqubisana nayo nayiphi na into enokuba nomvuzo, inoveli, ukumangalisa, okanye ukuvelisa uxinzelelo.
Iimodeli zezilwanyana zisungule ukuba zombini umnqweno wesini kunye nolungiso oluvela kwiimpawu zedopamine. Ngokwesiqhelo, iiseli zemithambo-luvo ezivelisa isekethe yomvuzo kusebenze iziko lesini (libido) lehypothalamus. Oku kuya kuthi kusebenze amaziko okwakha kwintambo yomqolo, othumela iimpembelelo zemithambo-luvo kwilungu lobufazi. Ukuhamba okungagungqiyo kwemithambo-luvo, ekhupha i-nitric oxide kwilungu lobudoda kunye nemithambo yegazi, kugcina ukwakhiwa.
I-oxide ye-nitric ivulela i-dilator ye-blood dilator cGMP, i-off / off switch for engorgement kunye nokulungiswa. I-cGMP ethe xaxa iyatholakala xa iqhubeka iyakhiwa. Ngoko, indlela esuka ebuchosheni ukuya kwi-erection yile:
Ukujikelezwa komvuzo (dopamine)> hypothalamus> intambo yomqolo> imithambo> ipenisi
Iziphumo ziqala nge-dopamine kwaye ziphele nge-cGMP. Ukuphucula iziyobisi kusebenza ngokuthintela ukonakala kwe-cGMP, ngaloo ndlela ivumela ukuba iqokelele kwilungu lobudoda. Kodwa ukuba ingqondo yesigulana ayivelisi miqondiso yaneleyo kwindawo yokuqala, iziyobisi ze-ED azizukunyusa i-libido okanye ulonwabo nokuba (ngamanye amaxesha) zivelisa ulwakhiwo.
I-ED yam ngokuqinisekileyo inxulumene ne-porn kuba neepilisi zokwakha azenzi nto kodwa ngamanye amaxesha zinceda ngokwaneleyo ukungena okanye ukufumana ulwakhiwo. KODWA ALUKHO uluvo olumnandi… kuba andiva kwanto. Ndilahlekelwe kakhulu, ukuba ayilulo lonke uvakalelo lwam.
Kwimeko ye-erectile i-dysfunction ehlobene neminyaka, iimeko zesifo senhliziyo okanye isifo sikashukela, isiqhelo esibuthakathaka esiluhlaza sinamava, imithwalo yegazi kunye ne-penis. Nangona kunjalo, kumadoda ane-erectile i-dysfunction eyenziwa ngoonobumba, i-link ebuthathaka ayiyona ipenisi, kodwa kunokuba isistim se-dopamine esifanelekileyo engqondweni.
Ukufaneleka kwenzululwazi yengqondo yesandul
Kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo okanye kunjalo, abaphandi abakhobileyo bafumanise ukuba ukuvuselela kakhulu i-dopamine kunefuthe lokuphazamiseka. Ingqondo iyanciphisa amandla ayo okuphendula kwimiqondiso ye-dopamine (ukungafuneki). Oku kwenzeka ngazo zonke iziyobisi, zombini ikhemikhali kunye nendalo. Kwabanye abasebenzisi be-porn, impendulo kwi-dopamine iyehla kakhulu kangangokuba abanakufezekisa ulwakhiwo ngaphandle kokubetha rhoqo kwe-dopamine nge-Intanethi.
Amagama e-erotic, imifanekiso kunye nevidiyo kudala zijikeleza, kodwa i-Intanethi yenza ukuba kungabikho mlambo ungapheliyo we-dopamine spikes. Abasebenzisi banamhlanje banokunyanzela ukukhutshwa kwayo ngokubukela iphonografi kwiifestile ezininzi, ukukhangela ngokungapheliyo, ukuhambisa ngokukhawuleza kwiibits abazifumanayo zishushu, ukutshintshela kwingxoxo yesini ephilayo, ukujonga ubutsha rhoqo, ukudubula isibuko sabo se-neurons ngesenzo sevidiyo kunye ne-cam-2-cam , okanye ukunyuka ukuya kuhlobo olugqithisileyo kunye nezinto ezivelisa ixhala. Yonke isimahla, ifikeleleka ngokulula, iyafumaneka ngemizuzwana, iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku, iintsuku ezisi-7 ngeveki. Ukugqwesa kwisekethe yomvuzo kwingqondo yinto enokwenzeka namhlanje.
Amadoda amaninzi awabuqondi ubuntununtunu bengqondo yabo buyehla kwisini esiqhelekileyo kuba i-intanethi erotica ihambisa ukubetha okungapheliyo kwe-dopamine-ukwenza ulwakhiwo kunye novuthondaba olunokwenzeka apho ukuhlangana okuqhelekileyo kungathandeki. Xa bezama ukuba neentlobano zesini kwaye abakwazi, bayaxhalaba.
Ingqondo iyatshintsha ibangele ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile ye-porn evela kwiinkqubo zokwenyani zomzimba. Phakathi kwazo kukuphelelwa yimpendulo yolonwabo kwengqondo. Ukuyeka ke kunokuba ngumceli mngeni omkhulu. Ukongeza ukwehla okwethutyana kwi-libido, amanye amadoda afumana iimpawu zokurhoxa: ukuqaqanjelwa bubuthongo, ukuba nochuku, ukothuka, ukuphelelwa lithemba, iingxaki zoxinzelelo, kunye neempawu ezinje ngomkhuhlane. Ukufumana umcebisi olungileyo oqondayo umlutha, kwaye kutheni iphonografi yanamhlanje ineempembelelo ezahlukeneyo ekubukeni playboy imagazini, kunokunceda kakhulu.
Ingqondo ifuna ithuba "lokuqalisa kwakhona," Oko kukuthi, ukubuyela kwimvakalelo yesiqhelo ye-dopamine. Oku kungathatha iinyanga ezimbalwa. Ingcaciso katitshala wesayensi malunga nesayensi engemva kokungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile, bona le ntetho yevidiyo: I-Erectile Dysfunction kunye noTyhutho.
Amadoda amaninzi ayamangaliswa ukuba afunde ukuba ukusetyenziswa kweentlophu zoonografi kunokuba ngumthombo weengxaki zentsebenzo yesondo. Kunoko, abaninzi banokuqiniseka ukuba i-ED emashumi amabini-into eqhelekileyo. Bayamangaliswa kukuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn okunzima kunokubachaphazela kakubi, kungabikho mntu ubaxelele ukuba inokubachaphazela. Kwaye abantu baye baphulula amalungu esini ngaphandle kwe-porn. Kukho phantse ukungazi ngokupheleleyo ngokubaluleka kwabasebenzisi be-porn yakutshanje ukufunyanwa kwenzululwazi yesalathisi.
Ukuba unesifo esivela ku-ED, kwaye unqwenela ukubuyisela amandla akho, yibani nethemba. Njengomntu omnye uthe emva kokuphumelela kwinyanga ezimbini zokuphumelela:
Iimbalwa ezimbalwa:
1. Le 100% ikulungiselelwe.
2. Iya kuba yenye yezona zinto zinzima okhe wazenza.
3. Ukuba ukhe ufune ubomi obuqhelekileyo besini kwakhona, awunakukhetha
4. Ukuba uqale i-intanethi kwi-intanethi esemncinci inkqubo inokuthatha ixesha elide (jonga- Uqaliswe kwi-intanethi kunye nokuqalisa kwam (ED) kuthatha ixesha elide)
Ukufumana ulwazi kunye nokubuyisela iakhawunti, bona: Ngaba ukungasebenzi kwam erectile kuhlobene nokusetyenziswa kwam?
UPDATES
Ubu bungqina bonyuka ukuba i-porno yanamhlanje ingaphazamisa ukusebenza kwezesondo (ED, DE, PE). Tyelela I-Porn-Induced Dysfunctions yonke impahla ye-YBOP enxulumene nokusetyenziswa kwezilwanyana kunye neengxaki zesondo. Ukuqala ukubuyiswa kwakho kwi-erectile echaphazelekayo kunye ne-erectile ifunyenwe le ngcaciso - I-Porn-Yenza i-ED (PIED).
Funda isishwankathelo sophando olufanelekileyo Uphando luqinisekisa ubungqina obunzulu bokusasazeka ngokwesini, kunye neengxelo zeendaba ze-120 ngeengcali kunye nabanonophelo abanomkiso weempembelelo zoononophelo kwimisebenzi yesondo Iingcali ezithi ziqonde kwaye ziphathe i-ED.
Ngelishwa, ukungazi ukuxhatshazwa kwezesondo zoxhatshazo lwezesondo kufanekile. Yabona Ziziphi iingcali ezixelela i-PIED Abafayo (ezilungileyo kunye ezimbi).
Kuthiwani ngophando? Olu luhlu luqulethe Izifundo ze-27 ezidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koonwabo / ukuxhatshazwa koononophelo kwiingxaki zesini kunye nokwenyuka kokunciphisa isisombululo sezesondo. Izifundo ze-5 zokuqala eziluhlu zibonisa bangela, njengabathathi-nxaxheba baqhelise ukusetyenziswa koononophelo kunye nokuphulukisa izifo ezingasinikiyo zesondo.
Izifundo eziphantse ze-60 zidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koononophelo ukuya kwisini esincinci kunye nolwaneliseko lobuhlobo. Ngokuba sifuna zonke Izifundo ezibandakanya abesilisa ziye zaxela ukusetyenziswa koononophelo olunxulumene nalo zihlwempu zesini okanye ukwaneliseka kobudlelwano. Ngelixa zifundo ezimbalwa zibandakanya ukusetyenziswa koononophelo okugqithisileyo kubafazi ukuba banelisekile (okanye bangathathi hlangothi) ngokwaneliseko ngokwesondo, abaninzi banakho (bona uluhlu - Izifundo zoononongo ezibandakanya izifundo zabasetyhini: Imiphumo emibi ekuvukeni, ukwaneliseka ngokwesini kunye nobudlelwane).
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