Qonda umceli mngeni weqabane lakho kunye nendlela onokunceda ngayo
Awunaso isikhalazo esithile kwi-porn, kodwa uyalithanda iqabane lakho kwaye he uthathe isigqibo sokuyeka i-intanethi kwi-Intanethi emva kokusebenzisa kakhulu iminyaka. Nazi iindlela ze-5 onokuthi uxhase umzamo wakhe:
1. Qonda ukuba kutheni eyeka
Kumlingane wakho, iphonografi ayisiyiyo eyadlulayo yexesha elidlulileyo. Ukuba ufuna ukuqonda, jonga kwiindidi ze Iingxaki zabasebenzisi ziyaxela, ezinje ngemicimbi yokusebenza ngokwesondo, ukulahleka komtsalane kumaqabane okwenyani, i-morphing ukuthanda ukuthanda kwezesondo, iingxaki zokuxinzezeleka, uxinzelelo lwentlalo, imo yomoya, njalo njalo.
Yatsho enye intokazi,
Ukufunda ngenkqubo yobuchopho kumlutha kwandinceda ukuba ndiqonde ukuba ukusebenzisa kwakhe iphonografi kwakungeyonto endithuka ngayo kwaye kuyinyani. Kukuphakama kwakhe awayekulandela kunokuba abekho abanye abafazi.
Imifanekiso engamanyala, incwadi encinci efundisayo ngumsebenzisi we-porn yangaphambili, ichaza ukuba yintoni ebangela ezi mpawu, njengoko kusenza oku Intetho yeTEDx. The Brain yakho Kwi-porn slideshow uthotho inika iinkcukacha ezithe kratya. (Bona oku, ividiyo emfutshane, esebenziseka lula kwisayensi yezakhobisi.
Ngokuqinisekileyo iqabane lakho linethamsanqa lokuba nawe-kodwa ukuyeka ukulungiswa kwemihla ngemihla kunokuba yenye yezinto ezinzima kakhulu azenzayo ebomini bakhe. Kwaye kufuneka azenzele isigqibo. Nantsi ingcebiso yomntu omnye kumaqabane:
Ukuba nalo mkhwa wokuphinda ubuye umva kuyintuthuzelo enkulu kuye, njengayo nayiphi na into ayisebenzisayo. Ke nokuba uthi uyayiqonda ukuba ayibuncedi ubudlelwane, uya kuhlala evakalelwa kukuba loo ntuthuzelo iyathathwa kuye, kwaye uya kuzithethelela izizathu zokuba ayimbi kangako, izizathu zokuqhubeka uyenza. Zama ukuza kuye ngendlela apho anokuziva esoyikiswa.
Unokubakho omnye umba. Nabelana ngesondo kangakanani nobabini? Ngaba zikhona izinto ezixhonyiweyo kwigumbi lokulala, ngaba zikhona izinto ozaziyo ezinokubangela ukuba axhalabe okanye enze uxinzelelo? Amaxesha amaninzi abantu fap kuba bacinga ukuba kufuneka bagcine izixhobo zabo "besebenzisa" kwaye besempilweni. Ngamanye amaxesha bayayenza ngaphambi kwesondo ukuze bangachaphazeli ngokukhawuleza. Ndiza kuzama ukuthetha naye kwinqanaba elinzulu malunga nendlela avakalelwa ngayo kubudlelwane kunye nokusondelelana kwakho. Ukuba akanaloyiko malunga nokusebenza kunye nezinto ezinxulumene noko, uya kuba nokuzimisela ngakumbi ukuyeka umkhwa kwaye anikele onke amandla akhe kubomi bakho bobulili.
Hlonipha isibindi nokuzimisela kwakhe. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba iziyobisi zichazwe ngokufanelekileyo njengezikhohlisayo, ezothusayo kwaye ezinamandla. Nantsi into eyathethwa ngomnye umntu:
Ndifumene ezona zinto anokundenzela zona zezi:
- Ndixole xa ndisilela.
- Soloko ulindele okungakumbi kum.
- Ndicule xa ndiphumelele.
- Ndiphazamise xa ndinosuku olubi.
- Ndikhumbuze ukuba Sifanele, kwaye ucinga ukuba ndinomdla kakhulu.
Ezi zinto ziyanceda ukukhulisa ukuzithemba kwam kwaye kundikhumbuza ukuba ndenze eyona nto ndinokuyenza ngowona mfazi ubalaseleyo endikhe ndadibana naye.
2. Zazi izibonelelo onokuzilindela njengesibini
Funda okwenzekayo ngokwamadoda malunga nendlela abaye baba ngabathandi abangcono emva kokuyeka iphonografi, indlela abafumana ngayo amaqabane abo enomtsalane, ngakumbi ukuba bonwabele ukusondelelana, kunye nokuba baziva ngcono njani isondo: Abafana Abanikela Ngamanyala: KwiSondo kunye noThando Funda izithuba ezingaphantsi kwenqaku, nazo. Uya kumangaliswa. Nazi izimvo ngomzekelo:
- Andizange ndifake ukususela ngeveki edlulileyo (ngesondo-ngokwenene, kathathu ukususela ngoko). - Impendulo yokuqala-INGCWELE SHIT le iziva ingcono kakhulu ngoku. Isandla sakho sinokukwenza ukuba ube ngu-O, kodwa ayisiyiyo 'inkanuko' kwaye ayiziva ilungile njengento enokuba ngathi iyathandana, [neentlobano zesini] Ndixelele i-SO yam ukuba wayemhle (ukuphuma ngokukhawuleza) ngexesha lokuhlangana kwangoko. Ukusuka ekuphenduleni kwakhe, kubonakala ngathi andizenzanga izinto ezinje rhoqo. Ndiziva ndisondele kuye ngokusondeleyo.
- Ndinezabelo zam ezingenanto kwiikholeji. Ukunyanzelwa, ukungoneliseki, kugxile kwi-orgasm. [Uhlobo lwasebusuku] uhlobo lwesisa aluqhelekanga kum, ukanti luziva lukhuni inxalenye yendalo yam andizange ndiyihlolisise.
- Ukubuya kwam kwinkomfa yayizolo bendidiniwe emzimbeni nasengqondweni. Kodwa ngeli xesha ndafumanisa indawo yokugcina amandla endingalindelanga ukuwafumana. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwakumangalisa, kunomdla, kwaye kungakholeki. Ndaziva ngathi ndineminyaka engama-20 ubudala kwakhona. Emva kweminyaka eyi-5 yokuba "ndidiniwe kakhulu" ukuba ndilale ngesondo ngamaxesha anje ngoku ndiyazi ukuba ingxaki ayisiyiyo yokuphela kwekhemistri kodwa ngokuchitha amandla am esini aphela ngalo lonke ixesha.
- Kuphela yimeko yeeveki ezidlulileyo ndaphantse ndayeka ukuba ndingaze ndikwazi ukufezekisa uvuthondaba ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Ngobusuku bokugqibela ndalala ngesondo kunye neqabane lam kabini ndaza ndafikelela kuvuthondaba ngawo omabini la maxesha! Emva kokuba siqale ukumanga kunye nokuthintana, andizange ndibambe umnqweno wokungena kuye. Yayivakala iyindalo, ubuntununtunu kwilungu lobudoda bam buye babuyela, kwaye ndiziva ngathi kuninzi okuzayo.
- Namhlanje (usuku lwe-45 hayi i-PMO) salala ngesondo. Uyamangalisa, uyathandeka, yena ujonge kum emehlweni ezesondo. Ayimdaka. Entle. Uye wathi ekugqibeleni wahlala ekhona phantse lonke ixesha. Ndiyazi ukuba oku kuvela kuye ukuqala ukuseta kwakhona. Wavuya kakhulu. Sobabini sikulungele kwaye sonwabile ukuqala usuku 1. Kunzima ukuba yinkqubo yenkxaso… kodwa kufanelekile. Ndininika bonke abantu ikhredithi emhlabeni. Unamandla. Ningabalweli. Uya kuphumelela.
3. Funda ixesha kunye "nemephu" yokubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo
Kungathatha iinyanga kumsebenzisi-phambili ukuguqula utshintsho kubuchopho obunxulumene nokusebenzisa kakhulu i-Intanethi. Abo babuyayo bawela kumaqela amabini: abo bayekayo ngenxa yeengxaki zomsebenzi wokwabelana ngesondo (ukungasebenzi kakuhle, ukungasebenzi kakuhle, ukumiswa komzimba, ukungabikho komzimba ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo) kunye nabo bayekayo ngenxa yesinye isizathu (ukukhuphuka kukuthanda ukuphazamisa, umnqweno wokuziva unomdla ngakumbi kwiqabane langoku, uxinzelelo lwentlalo. , inkungu yobuchopho).
Ngokumangalisayo, abafana abancinci abane-porn-ehambelana no-ED bathanda hlamba kancinci kunabafana abadala. Kungenzeka ukuba lo ngumsebenzi wokuba iphonografi ephezulu ibikwimpompo ngexesha lokufikisa kwabo (okanye hayi).
Umzekelo oqhelekileyo wokufumana kwakhona (kwabo bane-ED, i-DE) iqala ngeveki okanye ezimbini ze-libido ephambeneyo (ephezulu kunangaphambi kokuyeka), elandelwa okwethutyana "umgca. ” Abafana bachaza umgca othe tyaba "njengokungakhathali okupheleleyo ngesondo kunye nezinto ezishushu, amalungu esini angenabomi, kwaye akukho mthi wakusasa" -ngamanye amaxesha ahamba noxinzelelo. I-flatline inokuqhubeka iinyanga ezimbalwa, kwaye iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde yenzeke. Nantsi guy echaza ukubuyiselwa kwe9-inyanga. Uyacacisa ukuba zeziphi iindlela zokuziphatha ezenza ukuba ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo kuphole. Lindela ixesha lokufumana kwakhona i-2-6 kwiinyanga okanye ngaphezulu.
Omnye umntu,
I-GF yam kwaye andizange ndilale ngesondo kwiinyanga ezi-2-3. Ulwalamano lwalusondele ekufeni. Izinto zazingelula. Xa ndayeka, bekukho ixesha lokuqala lokuvuselela umdla wam ngokwesondo, kodwa emva koko kwalandela ixesha elithe tyaba, ebelililide kum. Ndiyigqibile ngoku, kwaye ubomi bezesondo kunye ne-GF busempilweni kakhulu, kwaye buphucula lonke ixesha.
Ayingabo bonke abantu abanamava okufota, kodwa phantse bonke banike ingxelo ezinye iimpawu zokurhoxisa ezingathandekiyo. Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zibandakanya: ukungalali, ukungakhathali, inkungu yobuchopho, intloko ebuhlungu, ixhala, ukungazinzi, uxinzelelo, umnqweno wokuzibandakanya, kunye neminqweno yesifundo. Unokufunda ezininzi Iingxelo zokuziyeka kweempawu zokurhoxa. Iiveki ezimbini zokuqala zibonakala njengezona zinkulu, kodwa zinokuthatha iinyanga ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu ukuba imeko yakhe izinzile.
Guys ngaphandle kokunxibelelana ngesondo okungahambelani ngesondo ngamanye amaxesha kunokuqhubeka nokuba nothando ngesondo ngexesha lokuphola. Abanye bayifumana inciphisa. Abafana abancinci abane-ED phantse bahlala bephulukana ngokukhawuleza ukuba bayayiphepha i-orgasm de ibe libido yabo ibuye kwakhona ngokwemvelo.
Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, ukululama akuhambelani, oko kuthetha ukuba usenokwenza kakuhle ngenye imini kwaye azive ebolile ngokulandelayo, nangona imeko iyonke inethemba. Linda.
4. Hlala uzithembile ngomtsalane wakho kwaye ungamlukuhli (ngaphambi kwexesha)
Njengoko ubonile, i-libido yakhe inokuyeka ngokuothusayo iiveki ngexesha lokuchacha kwakhe. Oku akunanto yakwenza nawe. Inxulumene notshintsho olwenzekayo kwiziko lezesondo / lokutya kwengqondo yakhe. Akukho sidingo sokuthandabuza umtsalane wakho. Lindela ngokuzithemba.
Ngokwesiko, abesilisa nabasetyhini bacinga ukuba ukunyusa ubushushu bezesondo sisisombululo kubuvila besini. Nangona kunjalo, kwimeko yokuba uninzi lwabafana luyeka ukubukela iphonografi ingxaki iphindaphindekile: Bahlala bediniwe kukuzonwabisa kwemihla ngemihla ngokwesondo ngenxa yokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyolo. Kufuneka benze njalo qalisa kwakhona, simahla kwimfuno zesondo.
Enye indoda ichaze inkxaso yenkazana yakhe:
Uye wamangalisa kakhulu kwaye ngekhe ndiphumelele ngaphandle kwakhe. Ndamxelela ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ndizokusebenzisa iifoto zoononophala ukuhlala nzima, kwaye wandixelela ukuba kungcono ndiye ndathamba kunokuba ndisebenzise iphonografi. Ukwazi oko kwenza ukuba kube lula, kwaye khange ndicinge nangamanyala kuba besine-convo kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo. Wayenqabile ukundivumela ndithathe naluphi na uhlobo lweziyobisi ze-ED, njengoko wayefuna ukuba ndikulungise ngokwendalo. Nantsi ingcebiso yam:
1. Thetha nomlingane wakho. Ngona kunceda kakhulu kunene.
2. Thatha ixesha lakho uhambe ngesantya ukhululekile.
3. Izibonelelo azizange zithintele oko-njalo.
4. Musa ukuwela kumgibe wokujonga iphonografi nokuba awucwangcisi ukuzinkcinkca ngotywala.
Ngokonwaba ngokwaneleyo, intombi yam yadlula kwinqanaba elifanayo okomzuzwana wokubukela kakhulu iphonografi kwaye iphelela ekufumaneni ukuba kuphela kwentombazana engatshatanga eyokwenza ukuba inyangwe yize ingezizozesini kwaphela. Ke kuye kwafuneka ayeke I porn. Ndicinga ukuba le ndlela ibindilungele, kuba wayekuqonda kakuhle oko bendinako.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, siye sancipha. Uneemvakalelo zokungazithembi. Ndibe nobusuku obubi bokuziva ndingonelisekanga kwaye ndingenamsebenzi, kodwa ekugqibeleni sathetha ngomzuzu ngamnye kwaye saphuma somelele. Ke kule veki iphelileyo ndikwazile ukufumana kwaye ndihlala nzima ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndabelana ngesondo. Eli linyathelo elikhulu eliya kum. Kwaye ndiyathetha ukuba YINKULU. Esi sisiqalo se-adventure entsha yesondo kum kwaye intle kakhulu. Ndiqinisekile ukuba izakuba ngcono kuphela. Ukuzithemba kwam sele kunamandla kakhulu.
Ngelixa esaphila, ukuba i-orgasm iseti iphawuleka Imithambo-luvo okanye nokuba umthumele buyela ukuluma, sukumtyhala agqibe. Gcina isenzo sesondo sithambile kwaye siphantsi, oko kukuthi, simahla kulo lonke uxinzelelo lwentsebenzo ngelixa ingqondo yakhe ibuyela kukonyusa ubuntununtunu ngokwendalo. (Kwisayensi emva kwengqondo eguqukayo eyenzeka ngokunxulumene ne-ED enxulumene ne-porn, jonga Ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-Erectile kunye neMidlalo yeVidiyo yeVidiyo). Ingabonakala ngathi iyaphikisana, kodwa kuhlala kungcono ukumshiya efuna okungaphezulu kokuzama ukuphelisa umnqweno wakhe wesini. (Kwanamadoda aphilileyo anokuxhamla hayi ukugqithisa.)
Ngamafutshane, ungadlali inkwenkwezi ye-porn kumzamo wokumfudumeza ngaphambi kwexesha. Nangona i-foreplay yakho eqaqambileyo kunye nezakhono zamaphupha ezinokuthi zivelise iziqhushumbisi ezinqwenelekayo kwixesha elifutshane, zinokuphazamisa ukuphilisa kwakhe. Unokwenza ixesha elilahlekileyo xa sele ebuyile kuye. Okwangoku, hlala ujonge le miqondiso ukuba uyinyani buyela umkhondo.
5. Qonda amandla okuziphatha okuhle
Nangona isondo eliqhutywa kukusebenza alinakukhawulezisa ukubuyisela iqabane lakho, uthando oluqhelekileyo lunokunceda kakhulu. Yonke imihla ziphatha inokugcina nobabini ngokuqaqamba ngelixa ulinde ukuba ingqondo yakhe ibuyele kwimvakalelo eqhelekileyo. Bathethe kabini abasebenzisi bobuze be-porn:
Umntu wokuqala: Into endincedayo kukuthinta ithenda nokuncancisa kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ndinengxaki yokuxhalaba kakhulu, kwaye ukuchukumisa kuye okanye indlela achukumise ngayo kuye kuyaphola.
Umntu wesibini: Ndandisoloko ndihlala ndikhululekile nabasetyhini, i-kinda yentlalo, kunye nomntu owonwabileyo, kodwa ibali lam lothando kunye noononophala lwaludala kakhulu kwaye lomelele kakhulu ukuba lindenze umntu 'oqhelekileyo'. Ukuphulula amalungu esini mihla le, ngamanye amaxesha ukuya kuthi ga kumaxesha e-5, iithebhu ezininzi, ukujikeleza iiyure de u-dick wam azive engekho kwaye nengqondo yam itshiswe ngathi iphambene. Ngaba ndandingatshatanga? Hayi! Intombi yam yayihlala icela ukulala ngesondo, kodwa ndiza kwenza i-orgasms yokukhohlisa ukuze ndifumane "ukukhawuleza" kunye ne-porn xa ihambile. Ngesinye isikhathi ndandinomdla kunye naye, ndoneliseka ngokupheleleyo, kodwa andinakukwazi ukumelana noononophala emva kokushiya indlu njengeyure emva. Kwenzekile: intombi yam ibingathi iyanyamalala. Ebhedini wayebonakala ngathi yinkungu. Ingqondo yam yayigcwele eminye imifanekiso. Ndiza kuba ndicinga ngemifanekiso engamanyala ngelixa [ndisabelana ngesondo], ndiziva ndibuthuntu, ndisozela, ndingekho, njengentombazana yam ibiziimayile ezilishumi ukusuka kum, ke ngokwemvelo, i-ED ibetha.
Ukuphika, khange ufune ukuyeka elinye ibali lam lothando, owona mcimbi mde wam! Ke ndiye ndahlala ndicinga ngelixa ndizama ukuba nzima, kwaye intombi yam ethandekayo ayizange ibe sinye isixhobo sokuhlaziya amalungu esini. Ndaba lusizi, ndadandatheka, ndanomsindo, kwaye ndaziva ngathi ndihlala kuhlobo lwebhabhu. I-ED iye yaya isiba mandundu, nokuba neminqweno ayonelanga, ke ndakhangela isisombululo. Uthathe isigqibo sokuqalisa uhambo. Waziva u-horny kwiintsuku ezi-2, emva koko ubumkhulu obukhulu. Ndandilele imini yonke, ndifile, njl njl Kodwa ndathetha nentombazana yam injongo. Emva kweveki, intombi yam yaqala ukubonakala iyinyani kwakhona, yandinika imithambo enceda ukuphinda ubuye. Ndacinga ukuba ndifuna iiveki, kwaneenyanga. Kodwa izolo besisesofeni sibukele imovie, waqala ke ukundiphuza. Kwakunzima, kwaye ndandisazi ukuba yayilulungiso olwahlukileyo, ulwakhiwo oludala, olusempilweni, oluphaphileyo, kwaye ucinga ntoni? Senza uthando, ngaphandle kwe-ED, ngaphandle kokucinga, kwaye ndaziva ngathi ngumntu omtsha endimfumanayo. Nditsho ndaziva ndingumntu omtsha. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwakungekho nto, kwaye nangemva kwe-orgasm andizange ndive buhlungu, nje ukwaneliseka okunempilo.
Unxibelelwano kukwayindlela yokuziphatha enomdibaniso:
Umfazi wam uzenza afumaneke kum kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kwaye andithethi oku ngesondo. Ndiyathetha ukuba uzenza ukuba avule ukuthetha.
Omnye umyeni ubhale oku emva kokuthetha nenkosikazi yakhe malunga nomkhwa wakhe we-porn:
Wayifumana kwaye wayendixhasa kakhulu, sathetha kakhulu malunga nento endijongene nayo kunye noko ndikulindeleyo. Ndiyindoda enethamsanqa, njengoko eqonda kakhulu. Wayecinga ukuba ndibukele iphonografi kuba akathandeki ngokwaneleyo kum, kodwa emva koko ndambonisa Impembelelo yeCoolidge kwaye ukhumbule ngoHugh Grant okhohlise uLiz Hurley, kwaye ekugqibeleni wayiqonda into entsha. Emva kwentetho sobabini sizive ngathi sisondela kunakuqala. Kwaye awunakucinga ukuba kukhulu kangakanani ukukhululeka.
Wayifumana kwaye wayendixhasa kakhulu, sathetha kakhulu malunga nento endijongene nayo kunye noko ndikulindeleyo. Ndiyindoda enethamsanqa, njengoko eqonda kakhulu. Wayecinga ukuba ndibukele iphonografi kuba akathandeki ngokwaneleyo kum, kodwa emva koko ndambonisa Ukuziphatha ngokungcungcutheka okumenza azive ebukekile nako kuyanceda, kodwa gcina ukuthandwa kukudlala ngecala lokudlala lomnqweno.
Ingcebiso yebhonasi: Phonononga ulwalamano olungenanjongo
Endaweni yokuzama ukudambisa uxinzelelo lwakho ngokwesondo ngokwakho, okanye ngomlomo okanye ngokwedijithali, kutheni ungazami ukuqulatha amandla akho ezesondo kancinci? Abanye abantu basetyhini bafumanisa ukuba ixesha lokuphuma kwizinto zokudlala nezesini ezingapheliyo Yongeza ukonwaba kwabo kakhulu. Unqwenela kwakhona ukuzilinga ngeendlela ezithile zakudala zokuqhuba ukuhlakulela umnqweno wakho wesini ukomeleza amandla akho kunye nokuzinza kweemvakalelo zakho.
Ukuba nobabini niziva nesibindi, hlola i-karezza (i-non-oriented sex) okanye tantra ethambileyo kunye. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngokukhululekileyo kunokunceda iqabane lakho ukuba lichache ngokunikezela ngazo zonke izibonelelo zokusondelelana ngaphandle kwayo nayiphi na i-neurochemical ripples emva kovuthondaba. Nantsi ingxoxo phakathi kwabafana ababini abazama oku ngexesha lokufumana kwakhona:
Umntu wokuqala: Ndineentsuku ezingamashumi amabini, intombazana yam kwaye besisenza uhlengahlengiso lweKarezza (ugqibile, andenzi njalo), kwaye besinezesondo ezilungileyo kakhulu ebesinazo kulwalamano lwethu lonyaka. Ngelixa ngaphambi kokuba ndibenamandla obuthathaka kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndinengxaki yokugqiba, ngoku bendinokukhupha umngxunya kumngxunya wenqanawa engaphantsi kwamanzi, kwaye kufuneka nditshintshe izihlunu zomhlaba ukunqanda ukugqiba.
Umntu wesibini: Kwenzeka into efanayo kum kwaye ndothuka kakhulu kukuguqulwa. Bendihlala ndigqiba ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye esenza isiqingatha sexesha. Ngoku akukho mfuneko yokuba ndigqibe. Andicingi ukuba ndingakholelwa nokuba oko kunokwenzeka ngaphambi kokuba ndiqale kwakhona.
Unokufuna ukudlala ngokujikeleza ngokudlula kwi-orgasm ngokwakho ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Abanye abantu basetyhini bayifumana inceda emva ukuhamba kweemvakalelo.
Nokuba ukhetha ntoni na, ukubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo lixesha elikhethekileyo apho nobabini ninethuba elifanelekileyo lokuvavanya ulwalamano olungasebenziyo. Abanye abantu bathi sisixhobo esiluncedo kakhulu ekoyiseni umlutha we-porn.
Ekupheleni kosuku…
YNobabini ninokuvuya ukuba nidibene kunye ngala mava. Ukwabelana ngomceli mngeni njengokubuyiselwa kwakha ukuthembana kunye nobunyani. Cinga ngenkxaso osinika yona njengotyalo-mali oluya kubuyela kuwe xa nina funa uncedo okanye ukuqonda okongezelelekileyo. (Ngokucacileyo, abafazi banokuba ngabo bafuna ukunyamezelwa kunye nokuqonda ngelixa bona unhook kwizinto ezithandekayo zanamhlanje. Bafo, yiba nomonde!)
Ubuhlobo buxabisekile. Phatha iqabane lakho ngendlela obuya kufuna ukuphathwa ngayo ukuba ibinguye umntu obabelana ngesondo naye okwethutyana. Ukuba ufuna ukuqhubekeka neemvakalelo zomsindo, zenze phandle ubudlelwane bakho nomcebisi othembekileyo. Ndiyathemba ukuba wenza konke okusemandleni akhe, kwaye nokuzikhethela kwakhe ngesibindi ukuyeka iphonografi kuya kukunceda. (Ukuba uziphethe kakubi, nangona kunjalo, ukulungele ukuqhubekeka. Ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo kufuneka kube kukukhetha kwakhe, kwaye ube likhoboka elininzi ucinga ufuna ukululama ngaphambi kokuba azimisele ukujongana nentlungu yokurhoxa.)
Okokugqibela, kwanaxa i-libido yakhe iphinde yakhaba kwakhona, inokuthatha ixesha ukumisela uthando. Thatha lula ekuqaleni. (Bona Ubudala 21 - Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nentombazana enokuthi icothise ukuqala kwakhona (ED).) Zombini i-ejaculation yangaphambi kwexesha kunye ne-ejaculation ebambezeleyo ayiqhelekanga xa ukulala kungena kumfanekiso. Guys iyaqhubeka nokubona ukuphucuka kweenyanga.
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Nantsi iakhawunti yesibini esitsha yokuqalisa kwakhona: Ubudala 23 - (ED): Umfana kunye nentombi yakhe bobabini bachaza ukuqala kwakhona, iintsuku ezingama-130
Nantsi emfutshane ngomfana: Ubudala 23 - ED: Njengoko iintsuku zihamba, ukusebenza kwam kudlula oko bekuye kwakho
Jonga kwakhona "Kutheni Kuyinto Efanelekileyo Abantu Abaye Bacinga Ngendlela Yokuhlaziya Isithombeni”(Inqaku ngumfazi).
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Yintoni ongamele uyenze…
Kulo mntu, ubuhlobo beyingxaki:
Intombi efunda kade kakhulu…
Ndine bf yam ndicima kwaye ndicimile iminyaka eyi-4 ngoku. Kutshanje sivuselelekile ngo-Agasti emva kokungathethi kancinci ngaphantsi konyaka. Sathetha nge-txt kwaye ngaxesha lithile kwabashushu kakhulu kwaye kunzima kwi-txt kwaye wandimema ukuba ndilale naye. Ndalile… olo yayingelilo uhlobo lokudityaniswa kwakhona endifuna ukukwenza.
Emva kokwehla, wathi wayivuyela into endiyenzileyo kuba waqala waziva enetyala ngayo. Watsho malunga neenyanga ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba athathe isigqibo sokuyeka iphonografi kunye nokuhambisa amalungu esini.
Ndenza ngathi ndiyonwabisa kwaye ndacinywa kancinci yiyo. Ndiyathanda, iiplagi zoluntu kwingqondo yethu yemihla ngemihla, bendihlala ndicinga nge-porn kunye ne-masturbation njengenxalenye yobomi bemihla ngemihla. Ndandihlala ndiyazi ukuba i-bf yam ijonge iphonografi rhoqo kwaye nangona ndingathandi ukuthelekiswa nalawo makhosikazi, bendicinga kum, noko ubuncinci akaphelelanga kwabanye abantu basetyhini kwaye ukopela! INDLELA ENGALunganga YOKUCINGA! Wacaphuka kakhulu ngenxa yokuba ndingazixhasi iinjongo zakhe kwaye ndaziva ndibi.
Ndiye ndathatha ixesha ndenza uphando ngayo ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba yeyona nto intle ukuyenza. yeyethu sobabini. Ke nam ke ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndinike i-masturbation ... andiyonyani, bendikade ndicinga nje ngokuphulula amalungu esini okanye ndigxile kwiimvakalelo. Kwaye bendiphulula amalungu esini kuphela xa ndinesithukuthezi okanye xa ndingakwazi ukumbona… uhlala iyure kwaye usebenza kakhulu. Iiyure ezingama-60 + ngeveki.
Ekuqaleni wayefuna ukuba singabelani ngesondo kwaphela, kwaye kum oko kwakubonakala ngathi akunakwenzeka kwaye akunakwenzeka. Ndandisoloko ndicinga ukuba inxalenye yokuba kubudlelwane yayikukulala ngesondo? Ke ndiyaphikisa ndisithi yindlela esidibanise ngayo. Wayenomsindo ngam, kodwa ndandihlala ndisithi yintoni injongo yokuba kubudlelwane? Yeyiphi, ngoku ndiyabona ukuba ayilunganga.
Anditsho ukuba andiziva ndinesibophelelo kuye kuba ndenza njalo. Ndiyamthanda ngenxa yengqondo yakhe, uburharha bakhe, indlela ebonakala ngathi uyandiqonda… yonke into. Kodwa andikaze ndibenobudlelwane obungajonganga kangako kwii-orgasms nakwezesondo. Ke ndicinga ukuba ibisoyikisa nje kum.
Emva kokumnyanzela nokumxelela ukuba ukulala nam kulungile, salala ngesondo. Amaxesha aliqela ngaphezulu kweenyanga. Ekuqaleni wayeya kuzama ukungabinayo i-orgasm kwaye ndaye ndacaphuka ngenxa yayo… .ndenze ndaziva ngathi ayifanelekanga okanye akafuni tu ukulala ngesondo. Ndicinga ukuba wenza nje ukundonwabisa kwaye anelise "iimfuno" zam.
NgoDisemba wandixelela ukuba waqala ukuqaphela amantombazana ngakumbi. I-avareji yonke imihla amantombazana ayenomtsalane kuye kwaye wayecinga ngezo zonke iindlela. Uthe waqala ukuba namaphupha amanzi amanye amantombazana, ukuba amaphupha awazange abe ngam. Ndandikhathazwa yiyo kodwa ndafunda ukuba yinxalenye yokuphilisa kunye nohlobo lokuyicoca. Wayebonakala ngathi uziva enetyala kwaye enexhala. ngokungathi uza kuthatha inxaxheba kwiingcinga namaphupha. Ndathi, "ngamaphupha, kwaye onke amadoda abonakala eqaphela amanye amantombazana… .ukuba mna nawe sikunye, oko ndiyithethayo kuwe kufanele kukuyekise ukwenza ezo zinto kwaye le yinxalenye yakho yokufumana iminyaka yamanyala ubukele. ”
Uthe ufuna ezintsha, kwaye zinomdla… ke ndatsho kakuhle ukuba kukho izinto ofuna ukuzenza, kutheni ke singazenzi? Kutheni ungalali nam xa uneminqweno. Ndacinga ukuba oku kuyayinceda ingxaki, kodwa emva kokufumana indawo yakho, ndiyaqonda ukuba ayisiyiyo. Asikaze siyenze loo bhondi… yonke yayijolise kukonwaba nakwi-orgasm. Kodwa ndifumanise ukuba emva kwexesha kubonakala ngathi.
Mna naye saqhubeka ukuba neentlobano zesini emva kwaloo ntetho, kwaye isini saba ngakumbi ukuba sehla. Wayedlala ngezinto zakhe ezihle ngam. Kwakungekho sandla sibambayo, kwakungekho kungcungcutheka, kungekho luqhawulo mtshato. Kwakuyinto nje enomsindo, i-raunchy, isondo kinky. Emva kwam, ndaziva ndisoyika. Le nto iqhubeke iinyanga ezimbalwa kwaye ndakhankanya ukuba akayithandi. Emva koko waqalisa ukurhoxa ezinye.
Ngenye imini wathi ufuna ukuthetha nam. Ukuba amaphupha akhe kunye neminqweno yakhe yayiqhubeka kwaye yayixhaphakile. Waziva ukuba akasafumani "dopamine rush" kum. Kwandikhathaza kakhulu ukukuva oko, kodwa ndiziva ngathi ndinetyala lokukhuthaza isondo okanye ukuvumela ukuba isondo sibe yindlela yakhe yokudlala iminqweno yakhe.
Andazi ukuba ngaba le yakhe isabuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo okanye ukuba sisiporho esivela kuthi xa sisabelana ngesondo, okanye zonke ezi zinto zingasentla, okanye esingafanelanga ukuba zizo. Uhlala esithi ukuba uhlala nam uziva ukuba kuzokuvela kakubi, uzakuphela endikhohlisa ngenxa yamaphupha akhe abenawo. Uhlala esithi, "Ngokucacileyo ndinomdla kwamanye amantombazana."
Uthe okwangoku akafuni ukuwola, ufuna uchulumanco olutsha. yile nto ingqondo yakhe inqwenela ngayo. Kuvakala kum ngokungathi ubonakalisa nje ukuba likhoboka lakhe le-porn ngokucinga. Uhlala endixelela ukuba ungaphezulu kwesiyobisi.
Ndicinga ngaphambili, sasizobonana ngoMgqibelo, silale naye, agoduke, ajonge iphonografi ukuze ajongane ne-chaser effect / hangover ye-porn, kwaye kwimpelaveki elandelayo wayeza kundibona kwaye umjikelo uzakuphinda.
Ngoku, akukho manyala kwaye ngesikhundla sakhe esitsha emsebenzini, asizukubonana kakhulu. Ewe kunjalo endaweni yokujika ubukele iphonografi, umntu uyathandeka… nawuphina umntu.
Bendifuna ukuzama Karezza kodwa ngoku undiqumbele. Ekuqaleni waphikisana nam ukuba wayephethe iphonografi kunye neziyobisi zakhe, emva koko wathi ndimbuyisele umva kwaye ngoku usekwereni ngenxa yokuba ndimnyanzela ukuba ndilale naye. Ndiziva ndoyikeka. Ndimxelele ukuba singazama kwakhona, ukuba emva kokufumana le ndawo kunye nokufunda ngakumbi, ndiyaqonda ngakumbi kwaye ndizisola kangakanani. Uvutha ngumsindo nje kum. Andazi ukuba ndimyeke ahambe okanye ukuba kufanelekile ukuba alwe. Kuya kufuneka azimisele ndiyazi, kodwa okwangoku uphambene ingqondo. Akathathi "ukusilela" kakuhle.
Ndiza kuthi kwiminyaka eyadlulayo ndacinga kum, NDINqwenela ukuba kukho umntu ngaphandle owayengagxili kwizinto ezingenamsebenzi, owayengakhathalelwanga ngoononophala okanye ehlola amantombazana rhoqo… .kodwa ndiyayivumela ukuba yenzeke.
I-bf yam ngoku ingumfana omkhulu, inene. Ebesoloko enam, ebesoloko esenza nantoni na phantsi kwelanga kum… hes ebevumelana nam ixesha elide. Uhlala ebonakala eyinyani. Unamantombazana ambalwa kunye nentombazana enye awayenayo, naye waziva enetyala kakhulu emva koko. Undixelela ukuba uziva enetyala nje lokudibanisa kwaye ayisiyiyo le nto yesondo malunga nokuba ndifuna nje ukuba kususwe amatye am.
Okwangoku, ngoku uvakala ngathi uyinja eshushu elungele ukukhupha nantoni na. Kuyoyikisa, andizange ndimbone enje. Ndiziva ngathi ndilahlekelwa nguye. Ndacinga ukuba oku kuya kuba kuhle kuthi, kodwa kubangele umdlalo omninzi kubudlelwane bethu. Ndiphantsi kakhulu ngayo yonke into kwaye ndiziva ndingenamandla.
Mhlawumbi ibali lam liza kunceda omnye umntu.
UGuy uchaza ukubuyiswa kwakhe ngobuvila kunye nendima yentombi
Ubudala 21 - ED bonyango kwiinyanga ze-3, babenentombi
Thathwa yintombi yomfana oyekayo
ukusuka:
"Enkosi, uNoFap -Onyanisekileyo, intombi eyonelisekileyo"
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Iposi yangaphambili
Amagqabantshintshi omfazi
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Izimvo zithunyelwe kwi "Psychology Namhlanje" phantsi kweli nqaku
Nantsi indlela intombi yomnye umfana eyisingathe ngayo le meko
Ubudala 17 - (ED) buvukile ngakumbi, bukhululekile, buyaphuma kwaye bonwabile
I-PMO ye-BF ihambile
Umfazi kunye neqabane lakhe bajongana ne-porn kunye
Okokuqala-ndiyintombazana ke ukuba uchasene namantombazana athumela apha nceda ungafundi ngokuqhubekayo. Inokuqulatha izinto ezibangela ezinye.
Okwesibini-ndithumela le nto kuba ndiyakholelwa ukuba oku kunokunceda abanye abantu phaya. Isingesi asilolwimi lwam lokuqala, ke pls xolela naziphi na iimpazamo endiza kuzenza.
Naku kuhamba: Ndina26 yo. Ndinomfana othandekayo (32) kwaye sinobudlelwane obuhle ... kude kube malunga nonyaka odlulileyo into ethile yaqala ukungahambi kakuhle.
Ekuqaleni waqala ukuphepha ngesondo. Sasabelana ngesondo kuphela qho kwiiveki ze-4-6… kwaye KUPHELA kuba bendiyicela. Wayesoloko "ediniwe" kwaye engenamdla; sathetha ngo "xinzelelo emsebenzini", wandixelela ukuba "ndingadluli". "Ubomi abukho konke malunga nesondo uyazi" - wayedla ngokuthi… Ndiqale ukuzibuza, inkangeleko yam, ukubaluleka kwam. Kwaye kwakungekho nangokwesondo, ndandifuna ukusondelana. Ndandifuna ukuba abe nomdla kum njengowesifazane, ndandifuna ukuziva ndifuna. Kodwa oko kwakungekho. Oogxa bethu emsebenzini bancedisa kwindlela endijongeka ngayo, amanye amadoda ayesandibetha phaya, kodwa ekhaya, kwakungekho nto. Kwaye xa sasabelana ngesondo kwakungekho nto ibifana nayo. Ngokuzenzekelayo, erhabaxa, efana ne-porn. Akukho ukwangana emva koko. Akukho ukwanga. Akukho ngaphambili. Ukwabelana ngesondo - i-orgasm - unayo into oyifunayo, ngoku ndishiye kwiiveki ze-4.
Eminye imiba yolwalamano lwethu ibonakala ilungile, ndiye ndacinga ukuba eli lixesha elinzima esihamba ngalo kwaye ekugqibeleni liza kuba ngcono. Ndithathe isigqibo sokuba ndinyamezele kwaye ndiqonde. Ndiyekile ukubuza ngesondo.
Kungekudala emva kokuba ezo ngxaki ziqalile ndiqalile ukuqaphela ukuba isithandwa sam sasinokukhathazeka ngakumbi, sikude, sinzima kum. Wenza izimvo ezingenangqondo. Akukho kwanto imbi nyhani, kodwa wayengasandiphathi kakuhle…
Ngamanye amaxesha wayehlala apho kwaye kukhangeleka ngathi .. ..ngathi wayengenawo umphefumlo. Ndiyaxolisa ukuba olu thelekiso lubonakala lusoyikeka, kodwa yile ndlela kanye endiye ndamfumana ngayo. Ebebaphepha abanye abantu, ebethanda ukuba yedwa, engafuni ukuphuma… bendihlala ndenza amagqabantshintshi afana nokuthi “asikabi nama-70 okwangoku, masiyonwabele impilo hun”, ndizamile ukumenza abe nomdla kwizinto ezahlukileyo kodwa akunjalo Umsebenzi. Qho xa ndimnika ukuwola, ukumanga phezu kwentshontsho andizukufumana nayiphi na impendulo. Xa sasibukele imuvi kunye kwaye ndizama ukuthembela kuye ngobunono, ukuziva nje uhlobo oluthile lokudibana nomntu, wayedla ngokuthi "ungandibambi sithandwa, ndandizonwabele ndedwa, ndifuna nje ukubona imovie" .
Andizange ndiyazi into engalunganga. Mhlawumbi wayengelohlobo lomntu "ochukumisayo"? Mhlawumbi leyo yayiyindalo yakhe? Mhlawumbi ndifuna kakhulu? Mhlawumbi kwinyanga ezayo / kunyaka izakutshintsha…
Bendimonyanya umntu obandayo ebeya kuba nguye. Saqala ukuxabana ngakumbi nangakumbi. Kwaye ukuba neentlobano zesini kube kanye ngenyanga, qho emva kweenyanga ezimbini kwakundibulala. Ndandihlala ndilila (ngesiqhelo ngasese, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha phambi kwakhe ukumenza abone ukuba yintoni le ayenzayo kum. Khange incede).
Ndaguqukela kumkhwa wokuhlaziya amalungu esini. Bendingafuni ukumkhohlisa kwaye isondo lam lokuqhuba laliphezulu, ke oku kwakubonakala ngathi kukuhamba ngengqiqo. Kodwa ndandiziva ndinganqabisekanga kwaye ndingonwabanga. Bendisafuna ukuba "nendoda" ekhaya, ingabi ngumntu nje ozokwenza ivenkile kwaye andiqhubele emsebenzini.
Ndaqala ukucinga ngamanye amadoda. Ndingacinga ubomi nomnye umntu, umntu onothando, ofudumeleyo. Umntu ondibamba ngesandla, umntu oza kundanga ebusuku, umntu othanda isondo. Ndingacinga ngayo ebusuku, ndilele ecaleni kwesithandwa sam - ngelo xesha esasifana nerobhothi kunendoda yokwenene kum. Ngethuba lokuqala ngeenyanga ndaqala ukuqaphela abanye abantu abanomdla kum. Xa ndandonwabile andizange ndihoye inkqubela phambili yabo, kodwa ngoku amagama abo amnandi andincede ndaziva ndingumfazi. Andizange ndiphume kunye nabo bantu, andizange ndikhohlise. Babonakala nje benenkathalo kunye nothando ngokuthelekisa isithandwa sam.
Kunokuba, kwiveki ephelileyo, ndafumanisa ukuba umfana endithandana naye ulikhoboka lamanyala kunye ne-masturbation. Ndaboleka ilaptop yakhe ndazibona zonke ezo zinto… Kwaye kwacaca kum ukuba kuzo zonke ezo nyanga ndizama “ukudibanisa” naye… uchitha ejonge abanye abantu basetyhini. Abadlali be-porn. Wayebhalisiwe nakwenye indawo yabantu abadala "abathandanayo" kwaye wathumela imiyalezo kwabanye babafazi apho. Mncinci, mdala… Omnye wabo wayemdala njengomama wam. Wayengathandeki, wayengenguye umntu endandiziva ndimphatha nyhani ebomini… Kutheni eMhlabeni angayenza loo nto kum? Ubunzima endinabo ngelo xesha abunakuchazeka…: /// andizukuyinqwenela nakubani na.
Ndijongene naye. Yilapho waqhekeza kwaye wavuma ukuba wayengumlutha we-PMO. Lonke elo xesha ndandicinga ukuba akanamdla kwezokwabelana ngesondo… wachitha phantse yonke intsasa ukuphulula amaphambili kwigumbi lokuhlambela ebukele iphonografi. Ndiyakhumbula ukuba wayethanda ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kwigumbi lokuhlambela kodwa kuye kwenzeka kum ukuba esi sesona sizathu sokuba. Yothusa - yothuka ngokupheleleyo - kuba andizange ndicinge ukuba ingomnye wabo "bantu"… Uyabona, bendicinga ukuba ngabo kuphela abantu abaphulula amaphambili kwi-porn ngabo bangakwaziyo ukufumana “isini esiqhelekileyo”… Indoda, iphumelele Amadoda amahle awachithi iintsasa zabo echukumisa amalungu abo esini… Yiloo nto kanye endiyiyo. Kwakungekho ngqiqweni kum.
Ukunyaniseka kwakhe yayikukuphela kwesizathu sokuba ndingahambeli ngaphandle nangalapho. Ndalila ndalila kwezi ntsuku zilandelayo… andifuni kuya kwiinkcukacha zento endikhe ndadlula kuyo kodwa yayiyeyona nto imbi kakhulu ukuba nayo. Njengomfazi ndaziva ngathi umhlaba wam uwile. Ukwazi ukuba wavuswa "ngaba bafazi" kwaye wakhetha bona kum kwakubuhlungu nje.
Ndikhangele ulwazi malunga neziyobisi ezingamanyala kwaye ndafumanisa i-yourbrainonporn, le foram, ezinye iisayithi… Sathetha kakhulu. Okuninzi. Kwaye oku yeyona nto yasindisa iimvakalelo endandizishiyele yena. Undixelele ukuba uzimisele ukuyibetha. Kwacaca ukuba eli lixesha lokuqala aqonda ukuba UNENGXAKI ENZIMA. Khange ndiqonde ukuba kutheni engakhange ayiqaphele loo nto ngaphambili?! Oku bekumtyhalela kwindawo emnyama kakhulu… kude nam, usapho lwakhe kunye nobomi ngokubanzi. Ndacinga ngaphakathi kwam ukuba ukuba kungaze kufikelele kwinqanaba apho ukujonga iipenisi ezingenakubalwa kwi-Intanethi kuya kuba ngumsebenzi wam osele uqalile… ndiza kuqonda ukuba ndinengxaki, akunjalo? Ukuze ube yeyona minyaka intle yobomi bakho kwaye uyimoshe ngoluhlobo… Kuya kufuneka ukuba uyazi… Okanye ndicinga njalo. Okungakumbi kufundwa malunga nokongezwa kwe-porn ngakumbi ukuba andityi ...
Ngoku ndiyamkholelwa ukuba ngekhe abone apho amthathela khona iphonografi. Ngoba? Kuba nam-ndiqale ukuya kwelo cala kwaye khange ndiqaphele naziphi na iiflegi ezibomvu…: Ndandinobudlelwane kwaye ndandiphulula amalungu esini rhoqo kunokuba ndingatshatanga… ndandingonwabanga kodwa ndingazi ukuba kutheni…. Ndasola abanye. Ngubani owaziyo ukuba ungandithatha phi ..
Kude kube ngoMgqibelo odlulileyo andikaze ndibone iphonografi njengento engeyiyo. Ngapha koko, bendihlala "ndinengqondo evulekileyo" malunga nayo kwaye ndicinga ukuba ayinakukwenzakalisa ukuba uyazi ukuyisebenzisa. Le yi-B * S. Iya kukwenzakalisa ukuba uyayisebenzisa. Iya kukwenza ube lusizi, ube nesizungu, uhlale wedwa Andonwabanga. Akukho nto intle onokuyifumana kubudlelwane bakho ne-porn. Ndinqwenela ukuba abantu bathethe ngokungafihlisiyo ngento eyenziwe yi-PMO ebomini babo.
Siphantse saphulukana. Anditsho ukuba siza kuyifumana ngokuqinisekileyo-ibiyiveki kuphela kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ingxaki yakhe ibuyela umva. Wayeyifihla iminyaka. Alithandabuzeki elokuba uyakufumana olu hambo lukhuni. Kwaye kufuneka ndimthembe kwakhona, ndilale ngokwam, ndiyeke ukuzithelekisa nabanye abafazi… Kuya kuba nzima: / Kodwa intliziyo nengqondo yakhe zikwindawo elungileyo. Kwaye zam nazo.
Ke senza le mihla ye-90-no akukho mngeni we-PMO kunye. Ndiyathemba ukuba iya "kubuyisela" iingqondo kunye nemizimba yethu. Ngokunyanisekileyo andifuni ukuchitha ubomi bam ngolu hlobo. Ndiyazi ukuba uziva ngokufanayo.
Ndiyazi ukuba sinakho konke esikudingayo ukuze siphumelele. Ndiyazibuza ukuba ingamnceda na umntu ukuba ndibhale apha amaxesha ngamaxesha, ndixele amava ethu…
Ndiyathemba ukuba uyifumana kuwe kwaye uyaqonda ukuba ungcono kakhulu ukuba le sh * t. Ubomi bokwenyani bukulindile. Sukuchitha ixesha lakho elixabisekileyo ujonge abantu basetyhini abangaqhelekanga abasasaza imilenze kunye nabafana abangahambiyo phakathi kwabo…: /: /: /
Ndiyakubonga bonke ngenxa yokomelela, ngokuqhubeka olu luhambo kunye nokufuna ukutshintsha 🙂
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1o7mt9/how_my_bfs_pmo_uknowingly_pushed_me_into_a_dark/
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Umfo ucacisa ukuba ibaluleke kangakanani inkxaso yakhe ye-GF
Ubudala be-22 - ED yonyango: Zolile kwaye uthathe kancinci