Iimpawu zokunxila: I-300 Vaginas = I-Lot of Dopamine (2010)

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Phantse inyanga nenyanga, uphando olutsha luqinisekisa ukuba umlutha wokutya unokubangela utshintsho kwengqondo olinganisa abo bafumaneka kwikhoboka leziyobisi. Ukutya kunye nokwabelana ngesondo kuyaziwa ngokuba "ngabaqinisi bendalo." Oko kukuthi, azizizo iziyobisi, kodwa iingqondo zethu ziyazikhanyisela ukuze sifikelele okuninzi ngaphandle kokucinga.

Sekunjalo, ingcamango yokuba “ukutya kunokubangela ukutyeba kuba kufana nesiyobisi” iyadida. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ookhokho bethu ababedla ngokutya kakhulu, kwaye ngokucacileyo babenomdla ngesondo. Nangona kunjalo ukuba ngumngcipheko oyingozi akubonakali ngathi kuyingozi enkulu. Ayenzanga zabo ubuchopho bukhanyisela ukutya kunye nesondo? Ewe kunjalo. Umahluko kukuba babengajikelezwanga ukugqithisa, ukuguqulelwa kokutya kunye nesondo. Siyiyo, kwaye yingozi enkulu yakutshanje.

Ycinge. Bangaphi okhokho bakho babekwazi ukufikelela lula kwiminchies ekhethiweyo eyayisilungele ukutya, ikhona ngexabiso elincinci, kwaye ilandelelwe ngenyameko ngamanqatha, iswekile kunye netyuwa ukuze zibuye zibuyele ezinye izinto? Bangaphi iiikhompyutheni apho baqakraza kumjelo ongapheliyo wevidiyo ezivuselelekayo ezinomdlavuza, ezibandakanya amanyathelo abanobuqili, abanoveli, kunye nomnqweno (obonwe yingxenye yokuqala yengqondo njengamathuba omzimba) -nokuba, i-cornucopia yamavidiyo anyinikiki?

Iphonografi? Yindlela entsha ye-synaptic. Uvuka kusasa, uvule i-thumbnail iphepha, kwaye likhokelela kwibhokisi yePandora yezinto ezibonakalayo. Kukho iintsuku ezithile apho ndabona khona ii-vaginas ezingama-300 ngaphambi kokuba ndiphume ebhedini.-UJohn Mayer, umculi

Ukuvuselelwa okugabadeleyo kwezihendo zanamhlanje kunokubambisa ubuchopho bethu. Akukho ndlela uJohn Mayer anokuyijonga ngayo enye amaxesha e-300 ngaphambi kokunyuka ukuba, uthi, wayenomaphephancwadi we-porn, okanye nokuba ngumfazi. Ixesha eliqhelekileyo-plus-erotica likhwaza. Ingqondo yakhe ikhulula i-dopamine ngaphezulu nomfanekiso omtsha ngamnye, njengoko inqumla phantsi i-receptors ye-cell nerves (ukuba imqhube i-binge). Ukhohliselwe ekuxabiseni i-pussy panorama ngaphezu kwe-3-D.

I-PLAYBOY: Ungathanda ukubaleka uye kwi-ex-girlfriend kunokuba udibane nomntu omtsha? MAYER: Ewe…. Imifanekiso engamanyala kwi-Intanethi itshintshe ngokupheleleyo ukulindela kwam isizukulwana sam. Ungahlala njani uhlanganisa i-orgasm esekwe kudubulo oluninzi? Ufuna enye… kwezikhulu ufunge ukuba izakuba yile uyigqibayo, kwaye awukagqibi. Kwimizuzwana engama-100 eyadlulayo ubucinga ukuba leyofoto yayiyeyona nto ishushu ukhe wayibona, kodwa uyiphosa umva kwaye uqhubeke nokuzingela kwakho kwaye uqhubeke uzenza mva emsebenzini. Ayichaphazeli njani isayikholoji yokuba nolwalamano nomntu othile? Kunyanzelekile.

Yile ndlela ukutya kunye nobulili, okuyiyo yonke into yokuziphendukela kwemvelo ngokuqhelekileyo Negalelo kwimpilo yethu kwaye sikhokelwe ngokwendalo kwiimvakalelo ezifudumeleyo zokuhlutha, morph kwizinto ezinje ngeziyobisi kunye neziyobisi ezingalunganga. Xa siziphosa, siwela kwizilingo ezingabalulekanga, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ziyingozi. Ayisiyi kuba nje kuphela eyeba ingqalelo yethu kuyo ukudibanisa kunye nabantu bokwenene (kunye nokutya okunomsoco), banako usibambe.

Ngubani osemngciphekweni wokuba likhoboka lezixhasi zendalo?

Uninzi lophando lweziyobisi lujolise ekusetyenzisweni gwenxa kweziyobisi, hayi ukuba likhoboka leziqinisi zendalo. Ityhila ukuba bambalwa kuthi ("abafunayo"Kwaye"impulsivesImfuza ichaphazeleka kukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi, ngenxa yokufumana i-dopamine receptors kwimimandla eyahlukeneyo yomjikelezo wobuchopho. (Dopamine yi "Uyifumene!" Neurochemical, kwaye zesekethe zomvuzo yindlela yengqondo eqhuba zonke izifiso nokukhuthaza.)

Ke, ngaba abanye bethu bakhuselekile kumlutha? Xa kuziwa ekusetyenzisweni gwenxa kweziyobisi, mhlawumbi ewe. Nangona kunjalo xa kufikwa kufikelelo olungathintelwanga ekuqinisekiseni indalo yokuqinisa, impendulo isenokuba nguhayi, nangona ngokuqinisekileyo ayinguye wonke umntu obambekayo. Isizathu sokuba iinguqu zokutya kunye nesondo zisikhuthaze-nokuba asinakuchukunyiswa ngumlutha-kukuba umvuzo wethu wesekethe yaguqulwa ukuba isithumelele ekudleni kunye nasezesini, kungekhona iziyobisi.

Thatha ukutya. Ukuba utywala kwizinto zokutya ezixhasayo (zithi, i-fat concentrated and sugar) efanelekileyo ingenza ukuba utshintsho olufana nengqondo yenguqu ebonwa ngabaxhaphazi beziyobisi. Oku kwenzeka nakwiinkwenkwe, kwaye, kungekhona nje ekufuneni kwintshukumo, esincinci. Phantse bonke izilwanyana ezazinikwa ukufikelela okungasikelwanga mda kwizinto ezimnandi ezifana nebhekoni, isoseji, itshizi, ikhekhe leponti, ii-Ding Dongs kunye neqabaka azinakuyeka ukubhuza kwaye zityebe.

Ngokukhawuleza, i-dopamine receptors yehla ebuchosheni babo, eyayiqhuba iigundane ukuba zixakeke, kwaye yaqinisekisa ukuba emva koko iza kuba nefuthe elincinane kwi-chow evamile. Ezinye iinguqu, ezifana ne impendulo enomdla, buhlungu ngaphezu kwexesha. Iiveki ezimbini emva kokuba izazinzulu zibabuyisele kwi-chow chow, iingqondo zeempuku zazingekafumani. Ngapha koko, xa bejamelene nokutya kwe-chow yesiqhelo, bakhethe ukulamba ixesha kunokuba bakutye. (Ukufunda ngokupheleleyo)

Kucacisa ukuba izilwanyana zineendlela ezakhelwe ngayo ukugqithisa iimvakalelo zokuzondla. Kuya kufuneka "bayifumane ngelixa kulunge": ukugcina iikhalori xa iziqhamo zivuthiwe, igorha ngaphambi kokulala, ukuginya ukubulala ngaphambi kokuba ukhuphiswano lubonakale, njalo njalo.

“Ayifumaneki kwindalo”

Into yokuzinkcinkca ngotywala, nangona kunjalo, ayibonisi ngaphandle kokuba izilwanyana ezincancisayo, kubandakanya nabantu, batshintshele kwizidlo ezingekhoyo kwindalo: isitatshi esingathintelwanga kunye neswekile.

Nangona ukutyeba kakhulu kuye kwanda phakathi kwabo bonke abantu baseMelika kumashumi eminyaka akutshanje, kuye kwanda kakhulu kwiindawo zaseIndiya ukusukela ngeminyaka yoo-1960. Ukutya [okunesitatshi) kunye nokutya okukhawulezileyo kukuchasene noko amaIndiya ayekutya kude kube zizizukulwana zakutshanje:… [Ngokwahlukileyo,] iiprotheyini eziphezulu kunye nokutya okunamafutha amaninzi [i-bison, ielk, i-antelope, ixhama, kunye namajikijolo, amandongomane neengcambu] kubonakala ngathi ukukhonza isizwe kakuhle.

AmaMelika aseMelika ayisiyiyo yodwa ekhulayo, nangona kunjalo. Phantse ezibini kwisithathu uninzi BaseNtshona baxineke, kwaye i-30 + iphesenti yabantu baseMerika banzima. Oku kuthetha ngokukhethekileyo kuba, ngokungafani neengcongolo, sinenkathalo ngamacandelo ethu, egcina abanye bethu bekhangela nakwiimeko ezinzima zesilingo.

Imimandla yengqondo eguqukayo ekuphenduleni kukutya okungaphaya kokulawula ikwalawula inkanuko yesini. Ke, ngaba ii-superstimuli zesini sanamhlanje, njengokutya okungafunekiyo kwanamhlanje, okubangela utshintsho olufana neziyobisi kumjikelezo womvuzo wokujikeleza kwengqondo? Ngokuqinisekileyo zenza ukutya ngokwesondo okungafumaneki kwindalo.

uhlaziyo: ekubeni eli nqaku libhalwa, Uvavanyo lweBrain Studies kubasebenzisi beSono, Ndifumene ubungqina bokungafuneki, ukunyuka kokusetyenziswa, kunye nokuvuselela okuncinci kwisistim esiqhelekileyo sesini, kunye nokukhuthaza kunye notshintsho kwi-cortex yangaphambili. Njengoko besichazile, iimpawu ezinzima zabasebenzisi be-porn ezinokukhalaza zinokuchazwa ngokufanelekileyo ngengqondo efanayo eguqulweyo kwiigundane ezinokufikelela okungathintelwanga kwii-super-goodies. (Ngesiqhelo, iigundane kunye nabantu zizalamane ezikude, kwaye babelana ngendlela efanayo yobuchopho yokutya kunye nokulutha.)

Kanye nje neenkizi zixhamla ukutya okuthakazelisayo, abasebenzisi bezentsimi bahlala bexhala kwi-pornography. Abasebenzisi abaninzi babika ukuba abakwazi ukuyeka okanye ukulawula ukubukela kwabo, kungekhona Ihagu yeginea, ngubani "owayifumana ngelixa ulunge" xa waqhekeza ikheyiji ezele ngabantu ababhinqileyo.

Abasebenzisi nabo baqaphela rhoqo uvelwano olunomxholo kumnandi (mhlawumbi ukusuka i-dopamine receptors ephantsi), ebonisa ngokukhawuleza kwe-libido, oko kukuthi, imfuneko yokuvuselela ngokuphindaphindiweyo (ngakumbi i-dopamine) kwi-self-medication restlessness okanye ixhala. Ngokuqhelekileyo bafuna izinto ezigqithiseleyo ukuze bafezekise, bahlakulele I-erectile dysfunction, okanye ukufumanisa ukuba isondo kunye neqabane elizimiseleyo alikonelisi (kukhokelela ekubuyiseleni, okanye mhlawumbi ngokukodwa) ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn.

Abasebenzisi abanamandla ngamanye amaxesha bavakalisa ukuziphatha okunyanzelekileyo, ukuxinezeleka, uxinzelelo olunzulu kwingcamango yokuhlalisana kunye neengxaki zokuxininisa. Kwaye nabasebenzisi abazama ukuyeka ukujonga ingxelo ye-porn iimpawu zokuyeka ukuyeka. Ezi mpawu zibonisa ukuba ubuchopho babo ngokwenene butsala nzima notshintsho lwengqondo eziqhelekileyo ukuxhatshazwa. Iziza zokubuyiselwa kwama-Porn ziphuma kwiWebhu yonke.

Nantsi ingongoma ephambili: Uninzi lwabantu aluzisebenzisi gwenxa izinto kuba aluzizamanga, alufumani buzz lukhulu, okanye lufumanise ukuba izinto ziyaphindeka. Kodwa Ngubani ongazithandi iilekese okanye inkanuko yesini? Kwaye ngubani ongakuthandiyo ukuhendwa okuhendayo okanye ukubonwa okuvuselelayo-ngakumbi ukuba impendulo yengqondo yakhe iyindinisa ngenxa yovuselelo olugqithisileyo? Iingqondo zethu zisengozini ngakumbi kunokuba sikholelwa ngoku.

Ixesha lini i-stimulus ibeka esichengeni sokungena ngokweqile?

Ingozi iguquka xa kukho into:

  • irejista njengenguqulelo "exabisekileyo" yento ookhokho bethu (kwaye) eyavela ngayo ukuze ifumaneke ingenakuphikiswa,
  • iyafumaneka ngokukhawuleza kunikezelo olungenamkhawulo (alufumaneki kwindalo),
  • iza kwiintlobo ezininzi (ubuqili), kwaye
  • sidla ngaphandle kokuba siqaphele ukuba kubangela ukutshintsha kwengqondo.

Njengoko sele sibonile, ukutya okungenamsoco kuyahambelana nale modeli. Kukwanjalo ke i-intanethi ye-intanethi. Nangona kunjalo i-porn ibeka iingozi ezizodwa. Ukutya kubeka umda ekusebenziseni: isisu kunye nokuchasana kwendalo okukhaba xa singenakukwazi ukujongana nenye into. Kodwa zikho hayi imida yomzimba ekusebenziseni i-Intanethi, ngaphandle kwesidingo sokulala kunye nekhefu lokuhlambela. Umntu unako "ukujikela" kwi-porno iiyure ngaphandle kovuthondaba kwaye ngaphandle kokuhlutha okanye ukuphika ukukhaba kwi… iiyure zokuvuselela amandla e-neurochemical yeendlela zokutya kwengqondo. Unqakrazo ngalunye kwividiyo yenoveli “liphule lethu ulindelo”Ngento entsha nenomdla, ikhupha ngakumbi nangakumbi i-dopamine kwingqondo.

Ukuvuseleleka okunzulu kuvelisa into ebangela umdla ngakumbi yee-neurochemicals kune-cheesecake-leyo ke yomeleza ngakumbi. Oko kukuthi, iingqondo zibambe ngocoselelo zonke iindlela ezinxulumene noko, ukwenza ukuphindwaphindwa kwamava kwixesha elizayo ngokuzenzekelayo. Ngaphaya koko, ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-porn ngamanye amaxesha kuyamdimaza umsebenzisi ekuphandeleni ukusebenzisana ngobuhlobo nabanye, ezinokukunceda ukulawula ingqondo ngokwendalo. Kukwakhona izinto ebezikhusela ookhokho bethu ekuvuseleleni kakhulu. Akukho bantu betshatileyo banomona, abadala abalumkileyo, okanye i-taboos zentlalo, kwaye bahlala bengenawo amaqabane ezesondo anezimvo zabo. Ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kubonakala ngathi akukho mngcipheko kuba kuyimfihlo kwaye kuyinyani.

Awu, ayisiyiyo kuphela uninzi lwethu olungazi ukuba into evuselela inkanuko yesini namhlanje ingabeka ubuchopho bethu emngciphekweni wotshintsho olunxulunyaniswa nokulutha, sikwachasene nememe enamandla kwinkcubeko yanamhlanje. Iyabhengeza ukuba, "Naluphi na uhlobo lokunyusa isimilo luyimpilo ngokwemvelo kangangokuba kufuneka sibukhanyele ngamandla ubungqina obukhulayo bemingcipheko yokufikelela ngokungenamda kwimigqaliselo yesini yanamhlanje."

Ngaba oku kusengqiqweni? Ukuba ubuchopho bethu buguqukele ukusiqhubela kukutya nakwabelana ngesondo, akufuneki na ukuba silumke ngakumbi malunga nokuzifaka kwiinguqulelo ezivuselelayo ze-hyper? Sele kunjalo, malunga ne-17% yabantu abajonga iphonografi kwi-Intanethi bayazifezekisa iindlela zokunyanzelwa ukuba babelane ngesondo. Oko kuguqulela kubantu abaninzi, ekubeni malunga ne-12% yabo bonke abantu abahamba nge-Intanethi bangamanyala kwaye phantse i-90% yamadoda amancinci (malunga ne-30% yabasetyhini abancinci) babukela iphonografi, utshilo. UProfesa Steven C. Hayes.

Ubunjengebuntongo obuneminyaka engama-10 bubambisana noThishino lwe-intanethi ephakamileyo (2013) (isigqibo seyure kwiimeko zesondo kunye nengqondo yobutsha)

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Ngokuqinisekileyo andiyifaki into eninzi kwaye ndingaya kwiiveki ezimbalwa ngaphandle kokucinga ngayo. Andinangxaki nabasetyhini, okanye ndinengxaki yoxinzelelo, kodwa eyona nto indibethileyo yayiyimpembelelo kwi-libido yam kunye nomngcipheko we-ED. Ngokuqinisekileyo ndinqwenela ukuba "noononophala" ... kwinqanaba lokuba ndineengxaki zokuchaza. yintoni iphonografi? Ndiyayazi ividiyo yayo kodwa ngaba imifanekiso isabala? akukho mzimba oye wafakela kwimifanekiso ukusuka kwi-1993. Ndiyaphepha i-nudes, ubuciko okanye enye indlela, kwi-reddit ne-tumblr njenga-imeyili eninzi.

ngoko ndiyicinga ukuba umbuzo wam ukwenza ukungafuneki okulula kumbono / izenzo zesondo zibulala i-libido yakho? okanye usebenzisa ezo zinto imihla ngemihla njengendlela yokutya izibongozo zakho kukulahlekelwa ngumdla kwinto yangempela? Nokuba yeyiphi indlela ndicinge ukuba ndiza kuthatha umpu kwinyanga engekho fap kwaye ndibone ukuba kuhamba njani ..

Kutheni i-intanethi yeziyobisi ezingamanyala zimbi kakhulu kunokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi okanye iziyobisi-ybrainrebalanced.com

Eli tyala lenziwe ngaphambili kwiintlanganiso zesenethi nakwiiforamu zamaKristu kwaye zihlala zidityaniswa njengeyona ndlela yothusayo. Ingxoxo ephambili endiyivileyo malunga nokuba kutheni i-intanethi ibi kakhulu kuneziyobisi kunye notywala kukuba ngokungafaniyo nezinto ezinokuhlanjululwa emzimbeni wakho, imifanekiso engamanyala ayishiyi ingqondo yakho. Nangona kunjalo, ndiyakholelwa ukuba i-intanethi ye-intanethi imbi kakhulu ngenxa yezizathu ezingcono kunokuba "ikunika iinkumbulo ezimbi". Ke ngaphandle kokuqhubela phambili ezinye zezi zizathu zam zokuba ndicinga ukuba i-intanethi ibi kakhulu kunamachiza okanye utywala.

1. LONKE UNONYMITY. Xa umlutha weziyobisi ehlaselwa ngumnqweno ongenakunqandeka kukho izinto ezininzi ekufuneka ezenzile ukuze alungiselele ukuba umlutha we-intanethi akufuneki ayenze. Umlutha weziyobisi kufuneka ashiye indawo yokuhlala aze athenge iziyobisi okanye utywala kumthengisi. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukuze kulungiswe umntu kufuneka ambone esiya esidlangalaleni.
Kukho umngcipheko wokubhengeza esidlangalaleni ukuba umntu onxila kunye neziyobisi akajonganga nalo. Qaphela ndathi umlutha we-intanethi. Iphonografi kwiVHS okanye kwiDVD okanye kwiimagazini ayifani ne-porn yanamhlanje kuba kusafuneka uphume uye kuluntu uyokuyithenga. Xa umlutha ekulungele ukukhaba umkhwa wakhe, ukumatsha okulihlazo kumthengisi, umngcipheko wokuvezwa esidlangalaleni uba yinto ekhuselekileyo. Nokuba uthenga iphonografi ngekhadi letyala unengozi yokuvezwa esidlangalaleni ukuba namhlanje i-intanethi ye-intanethi ayinayo.

2. IMALI. Ukuthetha ngokuthenga, umkhwa wakho umbi kakhulu njengoko umvuzo wakho ulungile xa kuziwa kwiziyobisi okanye utywala. Kwiimeko ezigqithileyo amakhoboka eziyobisi aziwa ngokuthengisa iintsapho zawo ebukhobokeni ukuze nje afumane loo nto. I-intanethi ye-intanethi kodwa i-100% ikhululekile. Ngokuqinisekileyo kukho iindawo ezithile ezihlawulwayo phaya, kodwa ngazo zonke iisayithi zeetyhubhu kunye nemilambo kuphela idiot eya kuhlawula imali yokubukela iphonografi kwezi ntsuku. Abanye bethu banokuziva ngathi sinokuzibamba ngakumbi kwimikhwa yethu kunakwikhoboka leziyobisi kuba asenzi zenzo zolwaphulo-mthetho ukuze silunge. Kodwa, khawufane ucinge ukuba ngaba urhulumente wenze amanyala ngokungekho mthethweni, kwaye wagxotha yonke iphonografi kwi-intanethi. Bangaphi kuthi abanokuthengisa oomama ifanitshala ukuze babone indawo enye kuphela xa unqwenela ukuba uthi hayi kukubetha?

3. I-ACCES. Ayisiyo kuphela ukuba likhoboka leziyobisi okanye elinxilisayo ekufuneka libubone ubuso ngobuso ukuze lilungiswe, linenani eliqingqiweyo labathengisi. Uhlala eqhekeza amapolisa, okanye ukuhambisa iilori kude ne-huffing glue, okanye ukusela i-bath bath. Umlutha we-intanethi kodwa unonikezelo olungenamkhawulo lweziyobisi ezikhethiweyo ngenxa yobume be-intanethi ngokwayo. I-intanethi ye-intanethi ayithengisi ngaphandle, ayifuni i-ID (ukujonga u-ewe okanye cha ukuba uneminyaka engaphezu kwe-18 ihlaya), kwaye akufuneki uhambe endlwini ukuze uyifumane. Ngokungafaniyo nomlutha we-meth, i-intanethi ikhoboka umthengisi weziyobisi uhlala endlwini yakhe kwaye unonikezelo olungenamda, lwasimahla lweziyobisi, oh kwaye akabonakali. Kwaye uyazibuza ukuba kutheni uhlala ubuyela umva.

4. AKUKHO VUMO. Ngelixa ivumba lesini esingahlanjwanga linokugcwala kwigumbi leziyobisi ezenziwa kwi-intanethi ukuba isinuka akusoloko sisalathiso sokusetyenziswa kwe-porn. Amakhoboka otywala, abasebenzisi abathile beziyobisi, kwanabo batshaya imidiza bakhupha ivumba elingaqondakaliyo elivela kwimveliso yabo. Oko kuthetha ukuba ukufumana ukubetha kwabo ngaphandle kokuqaphela ukuba bayayenza kunye nezinye iziyobisi ze-ilk yabo okanye bakhwele phantsi kwebhulorho okanye into. Abasebenzisi be-intanethi abasebenzisa i-intanethi bangasebenzisa kakubi iziyobisi zabo kwintuthuzelo yamakhaya abo ngaphandle kokukhathazeka malunga nokuxela kubo ngephunga. Unokuziva ngathi unengxaki enkulu yokufihla ukusebenzisa kwakho iphonografi.
Kodwa, umahluko kukuba xa ugqibile akufuneki wenze i-mint, fafaza umoya ohlaziyayo, okanye uhlambe ivumba lamanyala ezingubeni zakho. Akukho vumba lisetyenziselwa ukusetyenziswa kwe-intanethi evumela abantu ukuba bazi ngaphandle kwesithunzi sokuthandabuza ukuba uwe kwakhona enqwelweni. Bangaphi kuthi abahamba ngebhayisikile kwi-intanethi kwii-smartphones zethu ngelixa abafazi bethu okanye amantombazana elele kanye ecaleni kwethu ebhedini, engayiqapheli into ebesiyenza. Obo bubunewunewu iziyobisi notywala abusoze bube nabo.

5. AKUKHO ZILANDELWANO ZOKWENZIWA KOMZIMBA. Ngoku ndiyazi ukuba abanye benu abanengxaki yoononophala babangela ukuba u-ED akhwaze “ngentloko yakhe! ”Okwangoku kodwa ndive phandle. Ngokungafaniyo neziyobisi kunye notywala, iphonografi ayifumaneki egazini okanye kumchamo. Ngelixa umntu osebenzisa iziyobisi notywala enoloyiko lokuphulukana nomsebenzi okanye imoto ngenxa yesiqhelo sakhe, umsebenzisi we-intanethi, ngaphandle kokuba abanjwe ekuyibukeni ngexesha lomsebenzi, angaze abe nexhala ngale nto. Ukuqhuba ngokungafanelekanga kunokubangelwa naziphi na izizathu.
Umqhubi usenokuba udiniwe, okanye inqindi lilwa nomkhweli wakhe, okanye uzama ukuthumela imiyalezo xa eqhuba. Kodwa, xa amapolisa emtsala, amvavanya, kwaye abone ukuba une-BAC ngaphezulu komda osemthethweni. Unokubandezeleka kwi-porn ebangelwe ngu-ED, kodwa undixelele ukuba loluphi uvavanyo anokuluqhuba ugqirha wakho apho aya kubuya khona athi "kulungile nyana kubonakala ngathi unamanyala emzimbeni wakho". Ngokuqinisekileyo akunjalo. Khawufane ucinge ukuba ubomi bakho buya kuba njani ukuba iphonografi inokulandwa kumchamo wakho okanye ekuphefumlweni kwakho.

6. AKUKHO BONAKABI. Asingabo bonke abantu abaxhaphaza iziyobisi notywala abajongeka njengabaxhaphazi beziyobisi. Kodwa ukuba umdala oneminyaka engama-26 ubudala kunye namazinyo angekhoyo kunye namehlo atshonile ukuxelele ukuba wayengumlutha we-meth, amathuba awuyi kumangaliswa. Ukusetyenziswa kwexesha elide kweziyobisi notywala kuyaziwa ukutshintsha indlela umsebenzisi ajongeka ngayo. Bangaphi ookumkanikazi bethembisayo ababethe izihlwitha ozibonileyo ezothusayo ngendlela ezibi ngayo xa kuthelekiswa nendlela ababejongeka ngayo. Ngoku cinga malunga nokuba bangaphi abasebenzisi be-intanethi abanendaba efanayo. Ngaba unokukhetha umsebenzisi we-intanethi kwisihlwele? Ukuba nokubonakala kwakho okuhle kubiwe kuwe yenye indlela yokukhusela umsebenzisi weziyobisi ukuba amncede akhabe umkhwa wakhe ongasebenzisiyo kwi-intanethi.

7. Uloyiko lokufa ngenxa yokutya. Ngokungafaniyo neziyobisi okanye iziyobisi, ungazinkcinkca kwi-intanethi kwiintliziyo zakho kwaye ungaze ube nexhala lokufa ngenxa yokugqithisa. Ndiyathetha ukuba umntu osela amanzi amaninzi uya kufa ngokukhawuleza kunomlutha woononophala kuyo yonke imini. Ukwesaba ukufa kuyisikhuthazo esihle kakhulu sokukhaba umkhwa wokuba umntu osebenzisa iziyobisi kunye notywala angenakho ukuba nomsebenzisi we-porn. Ngokuqinisekileyo abanye baye bazibulala okanye abanye basweleke kwiingozi zemoto ekubukeni iphonografi xa beqhuba, kodwa ezo zizizathu ezingaphaya ezingqalileyo zokufa. Akukho mntu uya kuze athi “hee ubulapha malunga noJohnny? Usweleke ekubukeni amantombazana amaninzi ancancisayo kwikhompyuter yakhe. Lihlazo elinje ”.

8. AKAWO OYAZIWAYO OKUPHAKAMILEYO. Kuye kwathiwa ukuba i-dopamine ukukhawuleza ufumana kwi-intanethi ifaniswa ne-meth okanye i-cocaine. Kodwa i-meth okanye i-coke umlutha unethuba lexesha xa ngokucacileyo uhlawulelwe ekusebenziseni lakhe iziyobisi. Oko kuthetha ukuba umsebenzisi we-intanethi unokufumana phantse okanye ephakamileyo, kwaye uqhuba i-forklift, ufundise iklasi, okanye ube nencoko eqhelekileyo ngaphandle kokujonga ubuso obunzima. Ngokuqinisekileyo unokudandatheka okanye uhlaziyeke, kodwa ezo zinokuthi zibandakanyeke kuyo nayiphi na into yezinto. Indoda enxilayo ayinakuze ifune ukusela utywala ngenxa yokungafumani ukulala ngokwaneleyo, okanye ngenxa yokuba nento into edabukisayo.

Yiyo yonke into endinayo. Sithini isiphelo sayo yonke le nto? Yeka ukuba nzima kuwe. Ujongene nomlutha ongenazo naziphi na izikhuselo zokukunqanda ukuba ungadluli njengeziyobisi okanye utywala. Ngelixa unokufumana ukhuthazo kumlutha weziyobisi ngendlela yokubetha umlutha, gcinani engqondweni ukuba ujongana nendlela engaphezulu kunaleyo ebenayo. Njengamakhoboka e-intanethi akwi-intanethi kufuneka sisebenzise ezi ndlela zokuzikhusela zendalo. Kwaye nangona kunjalo ayifani. Ke qhubeka usilwa, qhubeka uzama, kwaye uyeke ukucinga ngokuzithoba.

Ukucaphuna kukaJohn Mayer kundenze ndabona ukuba kutheni ndingenabo ubudlelwane obunempilo. “… Kwabali-100 ufunga ukuba uzakuba ngulowo ugqibezelayo kuye, kwaye awukagqitywa.” (Isicatshulwa esipheleleyo ngaphakathi)

Xa ndifunda oku ndacinga… Owu thixo wam, yile nto ndiyenzayo, kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba oko kuchaza ukuba kutheni ubuchopho bam bujijelwe kangangokuba ndingafumani okanye ndigcine ubudlelwane obunempilo. Ndicinga ukuba ibha yam ibekwe ngokungaqhelekanga ngenxa yokuba ndiqhele ukubona AMANYAKA ahamba ze (kwaye uhlala enomtsalane) kwabasetyhini veki nganye! Ndingamfumana njani umfazi WOKWENene onempahla ukuba ngubani onokukhuphisana (kwingingqi yekhemistri yobuchopho) kunye nesiyobisi sam esingamanyala?!

GUY 2)

Esi sisicatshulwa esivela kuMayer. Ndiyakwazi ukudibana naloo nto. Kuyothusa ukuba ukhawuleze kangakanani ukukruquka yile ntombazana ishushu onokuyifumana kwi-Intanethi, kuphela ukuzama ukufumana eshushu ngakumbi. Mhlawumbi ndichithe iiveki okanye iinyanga zobomi bam ndikhangela intombazana eshushu elandelayo ukugqiba kuyo. Ndifike emva kwexesha emsebenzini, ndilibazisekile kwimihla, ndilibazisekile ekukhetheni abantu xa bebala kum… ngenxa yokuba ndifuna ukubona amantombazana ashushu ambalwa.

GUY 3)

Yinyani leyo. Kuyothusa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ndiza kumisa njani ukuba ndiphume kwaye ngesiquphe iyure okanye ezimbini zidlulile kwaye ndihleli apho ndicofa njengomntu ophambeneyo.

GUY 4)

Ndiyabulela le nkcazo. Ngomso kuya kuba yiveki kum kwaye ndivakalelwa kakhulu.

GUY 5)

Ndiyakwazi ukuthetha kuphela mna, kodwa ngeentsuku ze-18 kuphela kule ngxaki ndiyakwazi ukuthetha ukuba i-PMO inokukwazi kwaye iya kubonakalisa ubudlelwane xa uvumela. Ndiyinhlanhla ukuba nomfazi onobukrakra onjalo, nangona emva kweminyaka engaphezu kweminyaka elishumi yomtshato kunye neentsana ezimbini uye wagcina loo mzimba onobuhle, ubuntu, ingqondo ebukhali, nomoya onamandla wokuba ndiqala ukuthandana ngaphezu kweminyaka elishumi edlulileyo.

Kodwa ukuxhaphazwa kwam kwe-PMO kwakuqala ukundinceda ingxaki! Ndiye ndabonakala, ndibuqili, ndiyi-kranky, kwaye sinomxholo ongakumbi ngokukhululeka kwexesha langasese yedwa kunye ne-PMO kunokubeka umgudu kunye nengqwalasela yakhe kunye neentsapho zam.

Ngenhlanhla, ndifumene umthombo wengxaki YAM ngaphambi kokuba kwenziwe umonakalo omkhulu kubudlelwane bethu kwaye ngoku ndiqala ukwenza izilungiso ezifanelekileyo. Umzekelo kule mpelaveki izakuchithelwa uthabathe abantwana sisobabini kuhambo olufutshane lwedolophu ukuya kwiB&B yothando endiyifumeneyo.

TL; DR; Ndiqalise ukuthatha uxanduva kwi-MY shit kwaye ndikhuthele ukusebenza nzima ukuze ndilungise!

GUY 6)

Undichaze nje, mzalwana. Le nto yinto engafanelekiyo yokungaqiniseki okufunekayo ukuva: amadoda okwenene ethatha uxanduva malunga nenxaxheba kwiingxaki zabo kwaye abe ngumntu okwaneleyo ukwenza okuthile ngawo. I post post.

Ukuhlaziywa kwembuyekezo yesekethe akuyimfuneko ngokwesondo (akukho nto ilungileyo ngaphandle kwe-ED / isini sokwenene / inkolo)

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Ndifuna nje ukuthumela la mava. Ndibe ngu-nofap ixesha elingange-1/3 yonyaka (ngaphandle kokubuyela umva kwaye ukuba, ngoko ke, ngokubanzi). Emva koko ndiye ndafumana i-nofap kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ukusuka kwi-ted (x).

Ndifuna ukongeza kwingxoxo-mbono endiyibonileyo: Ndiqaphele ukuba isekethe yomvuzo (i-RC) nayo ikhutshiwe yifap. Ngokuvusa isondo kuyacaca, inkuthazo enzulu = uvakalelo oluncinci. Kodwa, ukuhlaziya i-masturbation yodwa (ukuba i-PMO, iyandiswa) (ukuba kaninzi iphinda iphindwe) imho inokuguqula i-circuit circuit. Njengokuba mhlawumbi ukungafuneki. Umzekelo kubomi bokwenyani: izinto eziqhelekileyo njengokumamela umculo wepiyano, ukutya iipesika okanye ukusela iti eluhlaza - bendihlala ndibathanda. Kodwa ndiqaphele, ukuba kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo iye yafika ngandlela thile ngakumbi.

Namhlanje sineepesika ezivela egadini yethu kwaye sizitya 'zazinjenge-orgasm' (ngokucacileyo ayinamandla) kodwa ihlala ixesha elide kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo yayiyizenzo ezingathandekiyo nje kodwa zinika into eyenziwa yi-orgasm. Okanye ukuthula ngexesha langokuhlwa-bendisoloko ndizixabisa ezo zinto, kodwa ngoku ndiziva ngathi le veeery ilungile ngexesha labo.

TL; DR I-Imho yeso sizathu ngaphandle kweentlanganiso zowesifazane / ED / inkolo ye-nofap ehlawulela ngokwenene.