Izixhobo zokulinganisa iziphumo ze-porn kwingqondo zilapha.
Ingxoxo malunga nokusetyenziswa ngokubanzi kwe-porn ye-Intanethi ithande ukujikeleza kwiinkxalabo zentlalo kunye nophando oluphikisanayo. Ngaba iphonografi yanamhlanje iyayiphucula imitshato? Unobangela I-erectile dysfunction okukhokelela kwisini esingakhuselekanga? Ukwenza ukuba abantu bahlangabezane neemfuno zesondo eziqhelekileyo ngokulula ngakumbi? Ukufunxa iinkanuko kwizinto ezintsha kunye nokuziphatha okugqithisileyo kwezesondo? Yingxaki kuphela yokungawamkeli amaqabane? Ukunciphisa ababukeli abaselula umtsalane kumaqabane okwenene kwaye ukwandisa ixhala loluntu?
Wonke umntu uqinisekile ngembono yakhe—kwaye unokusalatha kuphando ukuze ‘ayingqine’. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba ingxoxo ye-porn inokuhanjiswa kwelinye ibala lokudlala kwaye isombululwe kusetyenziswa isayensi enzima?
Iindaba ezimnandi. Izixhobo ezingahlaseliyo ngoku zikhona zokujonga kwiingqondo zabasebenzisi be-Intanethi. Ubuchwephesha sele busetyenziswe kakhulu ukuphonononga ubuchopho babangcakazo be-pathological, abatya kakhulu, Izilwanyana ze-Intanethi, kunye nabasebenzisi beziyobisi.
Ukuba ukusebenzisa iphonografi kwi-Intanethi ngenene akunabungozi, olo phando luya kuwulungisa umcimbi ngokuqinisekileyo. Kwelinye icala, ukuba iphonografi ye-Intanethi ibangela utshintsho olunxulumene nobuchopho kwabanye abasebenzisi abasempilweni, olo lwazi lubaluleke ngokufanayo. Abasebenzisi banokufunda ukuba zeziphi iimpawu eziyingxaki kwaye benze ukhetho olunolwazi. Uluntu lunokubakhusela ngcono luze lufundise ulutsha. Ngoko,
- Yintoni kanye kanye abaya kukhangelwa ngabaphandi bobuchopho kwiingqondo zabasebenzisi be-porn?
- Kutheni olu phando belungakenziwa?
- Kwaye kutheni iilebhile zokuxilonga zibalulekile?
Yintoni esinokuyifunda kuphando lobuchopho?
Abaphandi bachithe iminyaka esibhozo edlulileyo beqhuba uvavanyo oluninzi kwiingqondo zabangcakazi bezifo. Bafumanisa ukuba ukungcakaza ngokugqithiseleyo kubangela ingqondo enye iguquka as ukukhotyokiswa ziziyobisi. Ngokufanelekileyo, oogqirha bengqondo baphinda bahlula-hlula ungcakazo lwe-pathological ukusuka 'kwi-disorder' ukuya 'kumlutha' kwixesha elizayo. I-Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Disabilities of Mind, I-DSM-5.
Ukuxilongwa kokungcakaza njengomlutha kuyabadida abo banxulumanisa umlutha kunye neenaliti ze-heroin okanye imibhobho yokuqhekeka. Nangona kunjalo, imichiza kunye neziyobisi zokuziphatha ziyafana kakhulu ngokwasemzimbeni. Ngapha koko, imichiza ayinayo ukudala iinkqubo ezinoveli emzimbeni; zandisa okanye zinciphisa iinkqubo ezikhoyo.
Nangona i-cocaine, inikotini kunye nokungcakaza ziziva zahluke kakhulu kumsebenzisi, zabelana ngendlela efanayo yobuchopho kunye neendlela. Umzekelo, zonke zonyusa i-dopamine kwi-hub yesekethe yomvuzo, i-nucleus accumbens. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukukhotyokiswa kweziyobisi kuhlala kuneziphumo eziyityhefu ezingenayo imivuzo yendalo. Kwaye ezinye, ezinje nge-cocaine kunye ne-meth, zibangela ukukhululwa ngequbuliso Kaninzi dopamine ngaphezu kokuziphatha okuvuzayo okunjengokungcakaza. Kodwa nokuba uyaqhuba okanye uyabaleka, zonke ezi ndlela unako kukhokelela eRoma.
Abanye abantu baphinda babhidanise "umlutha" kunye "nomnqweno," njengokuthanda igalufa okanye isondo. Bacinga ukuba nantoni na umntu ayifumanisa inyanzelekile “ikhobokisa,” nto leyo ethetha ukuba eli gama lingenantsingiselo hayi imisebenzi inokugqalwa njengekhoboka. Enyanisweni, 'ukukhotyokiswa' ayiseyiyo ingcamango ye-amorphous, ngenxa yenceba yengqiqo enjalo. Sele, ezintathu ukuchaza iimpawu zokukhobokisa ingayi kulinganiswa ngokufanelekileyo engqondweni. Ngaphezu koko, iimvavanyo zengqondo, nangona iimvavanyo zegazi, ziye zaphuhliswa ukujonga ukuba kukho utshintsho olunjalo lomzimba, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo.
Nazi iinkcazo ezenziwe lula zezi zitshixo zithathu, iimpawu zokukhobokisa ezinokulinganiswa:
Impendulo yokuzonwabisa Phakathi kolunye utshintsho, i-dopamine (i-D2) i-receptors yehla kumjikelezo womvuzo wengqondo, ishiya ikhoboka abajongene nokuzonwabisa, kwaye "ulambile" kwimisebenzi yokukhulisa i-dopamine / izinto zazo zonke iintlobo. Umlutha ngoko ithande ukutyeshela imidla, izivuseleli, kunye nokuziphatha ebezikade zibalulekile kumntu ngamnye.
Sensitization: I-Dopamine (i-"ifanele ndiyifumane!" i-neurochemical) iyanyuka ngokuphendula kwiimpawu ezinxulumene nokukhobokisa, okwenza ukuba umlutha unyanzelise ngakumbi kunezinye izinto zobomi bomntu. Kwakhona, ΔFosB, iprotheni ephakama ngomsebenzi wesondo kwaye inceda ukugcina iinkumbulo ezinzulu, ziqokelela kwiindawo eziphambili zengqondo.
Ubuthakathaka: Frontal-lobe umbandela kunye nokusebenza kuncipha, ukunciphisa zombini ulawulo lwempembelelo kunye nokukwazi ukubona iziphumo.
Nokuba bathanda kangakanani na abantu abangakhotyokiyo malunga nomsebenzi othile, olu tshintsho “lunocingo oluqinileyo” alwenzeki. Abangengawo amakhoboka banokuyeka ngokuthanda kwabo. Umlutha, ngokuchaseneyo, awulawuleki, ukuziphatha okunyanzelekileyo okuvela kwingqondo engasebenziyo okanye ukubhalisa ukwaneliseka ngokuqhelekileyo (kwaye ngoko ke ubandezeleka iimpawu, ezifana nokukhanga kunye nokungahambi kakuhle).
Isiganeko ngasinye kwezi zintathu sibonakalise ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwingqondo yabangcakazi bezifo. Kutshanje, izazinzulu ziqalise ukuhlolisisa ubuchopho babadlali bevidiyo abakhutheleyo. Baye bafumanisa ubungqina be Ukutshintsha kwengqondo okufana nokukhotyokiswa kweziyobisi kwaye ubuntununtunu kwizikhokelo, kwakhona ebonisa iinkqubo zokulutha emsebenzini. Iziganeko ezifanayo ziye zabonwa kwi abadliwayo.
Kutheni sifunda ukungcakaza hayi iphonografi?
Okwangoku, asazi ukuba akukho zifundo malunga nobuchopho babasebenzisi be-porn abasebenzisa izixhobo zanamhlanje ezingabonakaliyo, ezingabizi kakhulu. Esinye isizathu sokuba izazinzulu zingajongi abasebenzisi be-intanethi be-intanethi ngenxa yobuchopho obungalawulekiyo kukuba i-intanethi ye-intanethi yinto entsha. I-porn engatshintshiyo sele ikhona ixesha elide, kodwa i-Intanethi enesantya esiphezulu ifumaneka ngokubanzi ngokuqhwanyaza kweliso ngokwemigaqo yemfundo. Uphando luhlala lusilela emva kokwenyani.
Esinye isizathu kukuba ngokubanzi kuthatha ukonyuka okugqithisileyo, okanye ukufumaneka okukhulu, ukuba abantu batyibilike kumlutha wemivuzo yendalo efana nephonografi okanye ukutya okungenamsoco. Kutshanje kutsha nje abasebenzisi bezonografi be-Intanethi abakwishumi elivisayo kunye namashumi amabini baqala ukukhalaza ngeempawu ezibonisa ukuba iinkqubo zokulutha zinokuba zisebenza ebuchotsheni obunempilo: iingxaki zoxinzelelo, ukonyuka koxinzelelo lwentlalo, utshintsho lweemvakalelo, ukunyuka kwizinto ezivelisa ixhala, ukwenza ukuthanda ngokwesondo, ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile njalo njalo. Uninzi lwasebenzisa i-erotica ye-Intanethi ishumi leminyaka okanye ngaphezulu-kwaye baye baqaphela iimpawu kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo.
Isizathu sesithathu sokuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kunzima ukufunda kukuba kunzima ukuseta amaqela olawulo, ngenxa yezizathu ezichazwe kuyo Uphando olungavunyelwe ngoTyhini: i-Orgasm Cycle.
Ekugqibeleni, kukho ukuchaswa kophando olunjalo oluvela kwiqela lezemfundo, kunye nezinye ezihlonishwa kakhulu, iingcali zesondo-ezona ngcali umntu unokulindela ukukhokelela ekufuneni, okanye ekuqhubeni, isayensi enzima efunekayo ngoku. Qwalasela la mazwi alandelayo esazi ngesondo esaziwayo. (Amagqabantshintshi akhe kwenye indawo ayenza icace into yokuba iingxelo zakhe zibandakanya ukusetyenziswa kwephonografi.)
Ingqikelelo "yomlutha wesondo" yiseti yeenkolelo zokuziphatha eziguqulwe njengesayensi. Phantse akukho mntu kwinkalo ye-sexology okholelwa kulo mbono.
Ayinguye yedwa kwiinkolelo zakhe. Unjingalwazi wophando, xa exelelwe ukuba uphando lwakutsha nje olugunyaziswe ngu Oogqirha baseTaliyane ibonise ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-intanethi ye-porn kubangela ukungabi namandla kubafana abancinci, wabuza:
Kutheni iindaba ezininzi ezingento zanto zenziwe ngalo mbandela? Hmm, ngaba imele inkxalabo egqithisileyo malunga nento engekhoyo, njengokuxhalaba okugqithisileyo malunga neeunicorns?
Izithethi ezinje ngoomatshini baqulunqa ingxoxo yamanyala kwi-Intanethi ngeenxa zonke uhlobo yokuvuselela ("isondo"), kwaye ibone njengengxabano malunga nenkululeko yesondo. Enyanisweni, nangona kunjalo, umba obaluleke kakhulu unokuba iqondo yokuvuselela i-neurochemical. I-Checkers yayingeyongozi; iiyure ze "World of Warcraft" zibonakalise ukufa. Ukutya komzingeli kwakungenakwenzeka ukuba kukhokelele ekutyebeni; Isikhukula sanamhlanje sokutya okungekho sikweni sele kuncedile ukwenza 79% yamaMerika amafutha angenampilo. Utata umile playboy wayengenatyala kakhulu; i-superstimulating, i-noveli ye-intanethi ye-intanethi ingaba njengeziyobisi kwimiphumo (Jonga i-Porn, Emva koko & Ngoku).
Uninzi lweengcali zesondo zilinganisa i-masturbation (ukuvuselela okuqhelekileyo) kunye nokusetyenziswa kwe-intanethi ye-pornography (ukuvuselela okungaqhelekanga). Njengoko ukusetyenziswa koonografi kuye kwanda ngokugqithiseleyo kunye ne-hyperstimulating, baye bachaza ngokutsha 'okuqhelekileyo.' Kodwa kuthekani ukuba abasebenzisi bafuna uvuselelo olugqithisileyo ngenxa yokuba engavamile, iinkqubo ezikhobokisayo ziyaluphelisa ulwaneliseko lwabo ngenxa yolonwabo olungephi? Ijongeka njani 'inkululeko yokwabelana ngesondo' kwingqondo ebotshelelwe kuvuselelo oluhlala lusanda kuba, enyanisweni, lukhobokile?
Mhlawumbi ngenye imini kungekudala le kwayala enempembelelo yeengcali iya kuba semva komzamo wokutyhila kanye ukuba yintoni na, okanye engeyiyo, eqhubekayo kwiingqondo zabasebenzisi banamhlanje abangamanyala. Njengoko kunjalo, balahlekelwa yintembeko kunye nabo bazama ukuyeka i-porn, bahambe ngokuyeka, kwaye bafumane uphuculo olungathandabuzekiyo kwimo, ukugxila, ukusebenza ngokwesondo, ukukwazi ukuhlalisana, njalo njalo:
Ndaqinisekisa [ukuba ukusetyenziswa koonografi kubangele i-ED yam] ngokuyeka i-porn, kungekhona ngabasebenzi bezempilo abaqhelekileyo. Mhlawumbi abafuni kuvuma, okanye abazi, ukuba yingxaki yokwenyani. Ngokomzimba, bendifumana iinkuni zasekuseni ezinzulu. Kuyahlaziya ukwazi ukuba isasebenza.
Kuyadanisa kakhulu ukuva izinto ezithandwa nguGqr ______, Umnyangi wezocansi ______, kunye nomphandi waseKinsey ______ baqhubeka bebambelele [kwi-Intanethi ye-Intanethi], ethe yachaphazela ngqo ubomi bam kunye nempilo yengqondo kakubi. Ukubona iingcali ezinjalo ezivunyiweyo zikhusela ishishini elingazange lithabathe nawaphi na amanyathelo okukhusela abantu [abantwana] abasesichengeni kuyagulisa. Ndiyathemba ukuba ngenye imini aba bafana baya kuphenduliswa ngenxa yokungazi kwabo okanye ukunyaniseka kwabo [kubavelisi be-erotica], ukuba bakhona, ngokunjalo.
Iimvakalelo ze-pro-masturbation kuluntu lwezonyango kwiminyaka engama-40 edlulileyo okanye kunjalo zifikelela kwinqanaba lokungaphenduli kolwaphulo-mthetho. Izizukulwana zabantu abadala ziye zagqwethwa bubuvuvu obu. Emva kweminyaka yokwandisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn, kwandithatha iinyanga ukuba ndibuyele kwisiqhelo.
Yintoni umahluko eyenziwa ileyibhile yoxilongo?
I-DSM yangoku ayithethi ngokuthe ngqo ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn. I-DSM ezayo ibonisa ukusetyenziswa koonografi okunyanzelekileyo njenge isiphithiphithi, hayi ukuba likhoboka. Iileyibhile zineempembelelo kunyango, njengoko lo uneminyaka elishumi elinesibhozo ubudala wafumanisa:
Ndibe ngumsebenzisi we-porn onyanzelekileyo malunga nonyaka ngoku, kwaye ndinokuqinisekisa ukunyuka kobunzima, ngamanye amaxesha obunganyamezelekiyo, ukuxhalaba kwentlalo kunye neengxaki zokugxila. Yiyo loo nto ndiye ndaphambanisa i-Uni yam yokuqala yonyaka (ndisilele kakhulu kuzo zonke izifundo zam), kwaye ngoku ndingakwazi ukuhamba ngesitrato ngaphandle koxinzelelo. Ndisahlala ekhaya, abazali bam banexhala. Bandithatha bandisa kulo gqirha wengqondo owathi, emva kokundiphulaphula ngokoqobo 10 imizuzu (kunye ne-$ 280), wandifumanisa ukuba ndine-BIPOLAR TYPE 2, kwaye waqala ukuthetha ngeepilisi. Ndamxelela malunga nengxaki yam ye-porn / i-masturbation kodwa wagxininisa ukuba akuyi kuba nayiphi na impembelelo kum.
Kwimbalelwano yangasese, omnye weengqondo zengqondo emva kwe-DSM entsha wandixelela ukuba ukuba isigulane siqhelekile, asikwazi ukufumana umlutha we-porn kungakhathaliseki ukuba kukhulu kangakanani ukuvuselela okanye ukusetyenziswa kwayo rhoqo. Ke ngoko, ukuba umntu uyabanjwa, oko kuthetha ukuba uneminye imiba, eyile, imeko ebisele ikhona, enganxulumananga, efana ne-ADHD, ixhala loluntu, ukudakumba okanye iintloni.
Le ngcinga isetyhula. Ukuba ubuchopho besigulane obungatshintshiyo buhlala bungunobangela, akukho ndlela yimbi enokuthi ithathelwe ingqalelo. Isigulana sicingelwa ukuba besisendleleni eya kwiofisi kagqirha wengqondo ukusuka ekufikeni, kwaye iqondo lokuvuselela alinamsebenzi. Kodwa njengoko bechacha, abasebenzisi bayaqukumbela ukuba ukusetyenziswa kakhulu kwe-porn kuphela yaba ngunobangela ocacileyo woluhlu lweempawu ezibonisa iimeko ezidweliswe kumhlathi ongaphambili.
Okwangoku, uninzi lwababoneleli bezempilo banamhlanje babotshelelwa ziiprothokholi ezingqongqo. Kuze kube yilapho umlutha we-porn ukuxilongwa ngokusemthethweni, abanakekeli banokuba nokukhetha okuncinci ngaphandle kokuxilonga kunye nokuphatha iimpawu zayo ezininzi njengokuphazamiseka okungahambelaniyo (ukukhathazeka, ukudandatheka, iingxaki zoxinaniso, i-ED, njl.).
Nangona i-paradigm elawulayo, kukho iimpawu zokutshintsha kolwandle. Umzekelo, umphandi odumileyo wokukhobokisa U-Eric Nestler PhD uthi:
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba utshintsho olufanayo lobuchopho lwenzeka kwezinye iimeko ze-pathological ezibandakanya ukusetyenziswa ngokugqithisileyo kwemivuzo yendalo, iimeko ezinje ... umlutha wesondo, njalo njalo.
Ezinye izazinzulu eziyazi kakuhle i-neurobiology yokulutha zifuna ukusetyenziswa ngokugqithisileyo kwe-intanethi ye-porn / i-cyber sex ukuze iphandwe njengento enokubakho-kuzo zombini iFransi ("Ulwaphulo lwezesondo") kunye neZizwe ("Umlutha woTyhila: I-Neuroscience Perspective"). Kodwa ngokokwazi kwethu, inyathelo ekuphela kwalo kweli cala lithathwe ngu-a Iqela laseJamani. Iqela lisebenzise iimvavanyo zokuqonda ukulinganisa iziphumo ze-porn ye-Intanethi kwiingqondo zabasebenzisi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, bafumanise ukuba iingxaki zokusebenzisa iphonografi zihambelana nenqanaba lokuvuselela (kulinganiswa ngenani lezicelo ezenziwa ngumsebenzisi kunye nobunzulu bamava), ebonisa inkqubo yokulutha emsebenzini. Ayizange ihambelane neenkalo zobuntu, okanye kwanexesha elichithwe kubukelwa.
Ngaphandle kwemiqobo ekhoyo, abaphandi ngoku banamandla okuphanda ukuba i-porn iyabuguqula na ubuchopho babasebenzisi. Nabani na omnye umntu ofuna ukubona isiphelo seNgxoxo yePorn?
UPDATES
- Ukuxilongwa ngokusemthethweni? Incwadi yokusetyenziswa kwezifo zonyango ngokubanzi, Ulwahlulo lwaMazwe ngamazwe (ICD-11), iqulethe uvavanyo olutsha ezifanele ukuxhatshazwa koonwabo: "Ukuxhatshazwa kwezesondo ngokunyanisekileyo. "(2018)
- Umlingo woTywala / wesondo? Eli phepha liluhlu Izifundo ze-39 ze-neuroscience (I-MRI, i-FMRI, i-EEG, i-neuropsychological, i-hormonal). Banikela ngenkxaso enamandla kwimodeli yoxilongo njengoko iziphumo zabo zibonakalisa iziphumo zeengqondo ezichazwe kwizifundo zokuxhatshaliswa kweziyobisi.
- Iingcamango zangempela zeengcali zoononongo / isondo? Olu luhlu luqulethe 16 Ukuphononongwa koncwadi kwangoku kunye neenkcazo ngenye yezinzulu zenzululwazi kwihlabathi. Yonke inkxaso ngenkxaso yomzobo.
- Iimpawu zokuxhatshazwa kunye nokunyuka kwamanqaku angaphezulu? Ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-30 zokunika ingxelo ezifunyenweyo ezihambelana nokwanda kokusetyenziswa kwe-porn (ukunyamezelana), ukuhlala kwi-porn, kunye neempawu zokurhoxa (zonke iimpawu kunye neempawu ezinxulumene nomlutha).
- Ukuxubusha ingongoma engathethiweyo yokuthetha "inqweno yesini ephakamileyo" ichaza ukuxhatshazwa koonobumba okanye ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini: Ubuncinci izifundo ze-25 zikhohlisa ibango lokuba isini kunye neziyobisi ezingamanyala "banomnqweno ophezulu wesondo"
- Iiduna kunye neengxaki zesondo? Olu luhlu luqukethe izifundo ze-26 ezidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koonwabo / ukuxhatshazwa koononophelo kwiingxaki zesini kunye nokwenyuka kokunciphisa isisombululo sezesondo. I fIzifundo ze-5 ziluhlu lubonisa bangela, njengabathathi-nxaxheba baqhelise ukusetyenziswa koononophelo kunye nokuphulukisa izifo ezingasinikiyo zesondo.
- Imiphumo yeSigxina kwimibutho? Izifundo eziphantse ze-60 zidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koononophelo ukuya kwisini esincinci kunye nolwaneliseko lobuhlobo. (Ngokuba sifuna zonke Izifundo ezibandakanya abesilisa ziye zaxela ukusetyenziswa koononophelo olunxulumene nalo zihlwempu zesini okanye ukwaneliseka kobudlelwane.)
- Ukusetyenziswa koonobumba kunokuchaphazela impilo yengqondo nengqondo? Ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-55 ezinxibelelanisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn nakwimpilo yengqondo-yeemvakalelo kunye neziphumo ezibi zokuqonda.
- Ukusetyenziswa koonobumba kunokuchaphazela iinkolelo, iingcinga kunye nokuziphatha? Hlola uphando lomntu ngamnye Izifundo ze-25 zidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koononophelo "kwiingcamango ezingafaniyo" malunga nabasetyhini kunye neengcamango zesondo - okanye isishwankathelo kule mvavanyo-meta ye-2016: Imidiya kunye nokuSondo: I-State of Research Empirical, 1995-2015.
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