Kungakanani ukuphulula amalungu esini kulungile kuwe? Qwalasela iinyani kwaye wenze owakho ulingelo.
Ngaba ufundiswe ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini kubantu abadala kusempilweni kangangokuba kuyitonic? Ngaba zonke ii-orgasms ziluncedo ngokulinganayo? Ukuba akukho nto ebizwa ngokuba yi-ejaculation eninzi? Kwaye ukuba kukho iziphumo ezibi ukusuka hayi ukuphulula amaphambili rhoqo?
Ukuba kunjalo, uya kothuka kukufunda ukuba ezi nkolelo zisasazekileyo zisekelwe kuburheletya. Azisoloko zixhaswa yinzululwazi. Enyanisweni, iqela lophando liyabajongela phantsi. Umphandi uRui Miguel Costa ushwankathele uphando (oluxelwe ngezantsi) kwi Uvimba wokuziphatha ngokwesondo: "Ukuhlaziya i-Masturbation kuhambelana ne-Psychopathology kunye ne-Prostate Dysfunction.” Kwaye kwi-2017 iqela le Abaphandi baseSwitzerland bathi, "Ukuphulula amalungu esini kuye kwadibaniswa-ingakumbi phakathi kwamadoda-kunye nomsebenzi omncinci wesondo kunye neqabane, ukwaneliseka okuncinci ngokwesondo kunye nobudlelwane, ukungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo, kunye nokwaneliseka okuphantsi ngempilo yengqondo kunye nobomi ngokubanzi (Costa, 2012; Gerressu, Mercer, Graham, Wellings & Johnson, 2008).
Ulwazi oluluqilima ngokuphulula amaphambili lubaluleke ngokukhethekileyo namhlanje. Ngokufika kwesantya esiphezulu kunye nokungenasiphelo okungaqhelekanga kokucofa, kulula kubasebenzisi ukuba bagqithise imiqondiso yomzimba yokuba yanele. Ngapha koko, kumashumi amabini anento yanamhlanje yokuphulula amalungu esini kunye nokusetyenziswa koonografi kwi-Intanethi kuyafana kakhulu. Ke ukuba ukuphulula amaphambili "kulungile kuwe," ukusebenzisa iphonografi kwi-Intanethi ukuze uphulule amaphambili nangakumbi kuya kukugcina. extra esempilweni. Ingqiqo yolutsha kangangoko!
Oku akuthethi ukuba nabani na kufuneka azive kakubi ngokubandakanyeka kwisini sodwa. Kukuthetha nje ukuba unokubona iingenelo ngokubuyisela umnqweno wakho wesini. Okwangoku, nantsi i-skinny kwiintsomi ezintlanu ezithandwayo zokuphulula amalungu esini:
Intsomi #1 – “Awunakuyeka ukuphulula amalungu esini ngaphandle kokuzenzakalisa”
Amawaka abafana (kwaye abanye gals) bafumanisa ukuba ukusika i-masturbation kwi-porn, kunye okwethutyana Ukuzikhwebula / ukunciphisa kakhulu i-masturbation ngokwenene kubangela ukuchasana nomonakalo okanye impendulo yesondo ecinezelweyo-oko kukuthi, iinzuzo ezimangalisayo.
Ungafumana iingxelo zabo kwiiforam ezifana Le, nto leyo ebangela ucelomngeni lweentsuku ezingama-90. Nazi iingxelo ezi-3 ezivela kwezinye iisayithi (ngaphezulu self-iingxelo):
Ndingu Umntu oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala kwaye ... bendikade ndingahoyanga ubudlelwane obuninzi ngenxa [yokusebenzisa amanyala]; Bendicaphuka msinya, ndigxeke kakhulu, ndineentloni kwaye ndingakhuselekanga – uluhlu luyaqhubeka. Ndazinqanda kwi-porn / i-masturbation ehlotyeni edlulileyo ndingazi ukuba ngokwenene ndinengxaki ezandleni zam (i-pun ihloselwe) kodwa i-MAN ndive ndihluke! Ndaye ndaqaphela ngakumbi, ndonwaba, ndahlala nabantu, ndinethemba kwaye ndazinza. Amava am ayevuselela oko ndinokukuchaza kuphela njengobudoda obunamandla nokuzola kwangaphakathi; yayibubomi obufanele bube yiyo. Bendikrelekrele kakhulu, ndithetha, ndidlamkile kwaye ndiyile. Namhlanje (ngaphambi kokuba ndiyeke) andikhuselekanga ngandlel’ ithile, ndineentloni, ndifuna imvume, kwaye akukho ndawo ikufuphi nokuzimela ngokweemvakalelo.
ndingu 21 iminyaka ubudala, kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndinezinto ezininzi zokulungisa yonke le minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo ubukhulu becala ingenamveliso. Ukutsho ukuba ndingenangqondo ukuba ndingena kwi-PMO yinto ephantsi kakhulu. Ndiba neemvakalelo kakhulu, ndingazithembi, andicacelwa, andikwazi ukucinga kakuhle. Kwaye ngoku serious ndihambile IMINYAKA ndiphila ngoluhlobo. Ngoku ndilawulwa, ndizinzile, ndigxile, ndizithembile kakhulu, kwaye ndinengqondo ebukhali kakhulu. Kwaye oku ziintsuku ezingama-22 kuphela. Xa ugcina amandla akho phezulu, ufumana loo ntando ingenakoyiswa apho bekuya kuba ziindonga ezinkulu kwixesha lakho elidlulileyo zibe ziingcingo ezincinci ezifika emadolweni kufuneka unqumle.
Olunye usuku, ndifumene amakhadi engxelo ahlukeneyo kunye neemvavanyo zikatitshala kwangaphambi kokuba ndiqale ngokuziphulula amalungu esini nasemva koko. Bekukho umahluko obonakalayo kwindlela endisebenza ngayo (akukho ngqiqweni) kunye nendlela ootitshala bam abandivavanya ngayo. Izifundiswa zam zomelele ngokucacileyo ngaphambi kokuba ndiqalise ukuyibhuqa izihlandlo ezininzi ngemini. Ewe, inokuba yinto eyenzeka ngengozi kodwa ngokunyanisekileyo andicingi njalo emva kokuqaphela ukuba ndivelisa kangakanani kwaye ndigxile kangakanani xa ndiphumla okwethutyana.
Kwenzeka ntoni kwidlozi elingakhutshwanga? Ngoku ka Iqonga laseYunivesithi yaseCambridge le "NakedScientist",
I-Sperm eyafikelela kwi-their-day-date yayo yaphulwa ngendlela efanayo, masithi, amaseli egazi aphukile. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo nayiphi na izondlo kunye neziqhamo kwi-sperm kuphela zibuyisela kwakhona ngaphakathi emzimbeni.
Intsomi #2 – “Ayikho into efana nokuphulula amalungu esini kakhulu”
Abafana babika ukuba i-masturbation kakhulu nakanjani inokwenzeka nge-porn ekhawulezayo yanamhlanje. Nazi ezinye izalathiso (ezithathwe kwi ukuzibika yabasebenzisi abaninzi be-intanethi ye-porn):
- Ukuphulula amalungu esini ukuya kwinqanaba lokukhupha i-ejaculation eyomileyo okanye uvuthondaba olubuhlungu
- Izilonda, amadyungudyungu, ukudumba, amanxeba okugruzuka okanye amanxeba kumalungu obuni ngenxa yokukhuhlana kakhulu.
- Ukungakwazi “ukuziva” ukwabelana ngesondo okanye ngesondo ngomlomo
- Ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kwisondo sokwenyani kunye namaqabane okwenene, ukuthanda okungathandekiyo ngokwesondo
- Ukuhlela iiyure ukurhoxisa uvuthondaba, rhoqo ngenxa yokuba kuya kusiba mnandi kangako
- Ezinye iimpawu ezinxulumene nokukhotyokiswa okungapheliyo, ezifana nokuxhalaba okungafanelekanga kwentlalo, inkungu yengqondo, ukudakumba, iingxaki zesondo zolutsha kunye nobunzima iimpawu zokuhoxiswa xa beyeka, njl.
Kutheni le nto inkcubeko yethu ingaphandanga ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuphulula amalungu esini kakhulu? Mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba-kude kube ngoku-bambalwa abantu ababebethelela udonga lokuphulula amalungu esini ngokugqithiseleyo. Baye bayeka xa bonele.
Umtyholi namhlanje kukufikelela ngaphandle komgudu Ivuselela inkanuko yesini ishushu ngokwaneleyo ukuba ingagqithanga yethu ukuhlutha ngokwesondo, bade baphose abanye ingqondo ibe likhoboka. Le yinto entsha kangangokuba uphando alukayibambi inyaniso. Amabali amaninzi achukumisa intliziyo, kwaye indima yesantya esiphezulu ibonakala:
Ndandingumakhi womzimba. Ndihambe ukusuka kwi-220 ukuya kwi-180, nditsho ngokuzilolonga kunye nokutya okuninzi kokutya okuphilayo kunye neekhalori ezingaphezulu. Bendimosha ndingekho. Ndaqala ukufumana lonke olu loyiko lungaqhelekanga lungekho ngqiqweni phakathi kwabantu. Ndaziva ndingcangcazela kwaye ndiphelelwa ngamandla. Ilizwi lam liyavakala ngakumbi, ukuba iyavakala. Ndilahlekelwe mna. Ndandisoloko ndidandathekile. Ndayeka ukuyishiya indlu yam; Iitshomi zam zathi chu ziphela. Ke ngoku ndingumntu obhitye obhityileyo ongemhle, lol, apho bendikade ndiyiKumkani kwikhampasi yam… wtf! Andizange nditshintshe LUNYE LUHLUKILEYO KUBOMI BAM ngaphandle kokufumana umlutha wephonografi kunye nokufafaza rhoqo. Yiyo leyo. Bendisacinga kakuhle, ndiphuma ndiye kwiindawo zokusela, ndisitya impilo, ndizilolonga, yonke loo jazz. Ekuphela kwento eyaye yanda yayikukuthandana kwam namantombazana omgunyathi kwiscreen sepixelated. Ndiziva ngathi andikwazi kugxila kakhulu okanye ndiqonde kakhulu emva kokuzinkcinkca, ngezinye iintsuku ndikhe ndihlale ebhedini kuba imeko yam imbi kakhulu….
Kuphononongo olunomxholo othi “Iimpawu zesigulana ngohlobo lwe-hypersexuality,” abaphandi baxela ukuba phakathi kwamadoda aphulula amaphambili iyure enye okanye ngaphezulu ngosuku okanye ngaphezulu kweeyure ezisi-7 ngeveki, i-71% ichaze iingxaki zokusebenza ngokwesondo, kunye ne-33% echaza ubunzima bokufikelela kuvuthondaba namaqabane.
Cinga ngomntu osebenza naye ohluphekayo:
Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo inkampani yanikezela ngee-smart phone ezintsha zokukhangela abasebenzi ababengekabinayo. Kwakuphela umcimbi wexesha ngaphambi kokuba umlingane wam endisebenza naye afumane umhlaba omlingo wephonografi. Ngenye imini wayeqhuba ngemoto yenkampani kwaye ephulula amaphambili kuhola wendlela NOmnye asebenza naye emotweni. Kukwatshabalalisa ubudlelwane bakhe nenkosikazi yakhe kuba ukhetha ukuya ekhaya ayokubukela iphonografi kunokuba alale ngesondo.
Kwakhona, kubonakala ngathi i-masturbation kwi-sensation (ngaphandle kwe-porn okanye i-porn fantasy) inokuba yinto encinci kwaye ikhuphe i-masturbation kwi-porn, kunye ne-streaming yayo engapheliyo yamaqabane anoveli. Izazinzulu ziye zafunda ukuba ukuziphulula amaphambili kwi noveli star star ukwandisa umthamo we-ejaculate kunye ne-sperm motile (xa kuthelekiswa nokuphulula amaphambili kumdlali oqhelekileyo). Kwakhona, ixesha elithathwayo ukukhupha i-ejaculate liyancipha kakhulu. Ngamafutshane, ubutsha bezesondo buguqulela kwisidoda esichumileyo kunye nokuphuma ngokukhawuleza. Oku kwenza nakuphi na “ukudityaniswa kwezibini ezongezelelweyo”(nangona iithagethi ziyi-dimensional-dimensional) zisebenze ngakumbi, kwaye zibiza kakhulu. Uphando lukwabonisa umsebenzi omkhulu wesekethe yomvuzo kwingqondo xa evezwe kwinoveli iqabane ngokwesondo.
Ukusikelwa umda kungokwemvelo kubo bonke omnye imisebenzi yomzimba. Umzekelo, ukusela amanzi, ukutya, umthambo, ixesha elangeni, ukuphakamisa iintsimbi, ukuhlala uthe qwa okanye ukuhlala ebhedini. Ngaphezu koko, ezinye izilwanyana ezincancisayo zinemida ekuziphatheni kwazo ngokwesini. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba iigundane zikhupha i-ejaculate ngaphambi kokuba zibuyele kwi-satiety yesondo, zibonisa iimpawu eziphawulweyo. Kwakhona abantu banemida. Xa kuthelekiswa nezinye iintlobo zezilwanyana, umzekelo, amadlozi omntu anokufumaneka ngandlel’ ithile iphele ngokulula.
Okwangoku, nangona kunjalo, inkolelo yokuba ukuziyolisa akubotshwanga ngumgaqo wokumodareyitha ihleli yomelele. Le ngcinga inokuvela ngokuyinxenye kuba, njengoko abantu betyibilika ekubeni likhoboka (enkosi ukuvuselela okungavamile ye-highspeed porn), bayavutha ngempazamo nqwenela ye i-monster libido. Umntu oneminyaka engama-30 ubudala wathi,
Ndivelana kakhulu nabafana abancinci abaqala ngesantya esiphezulu ukusuka ekuqaleni kokufikisa. Kufana nokudubula i-heroin ngaphambi kokuba ube nebhiya yakho yokuqala.
Akukho bungakanani bencopho okanye isiphelo siya kwanelisa ingqondo ekhobokileyo, ngoko abo babanjiswayo bazive ngathi abanako ngokwaneleyo. Kwakhona, xa abafana abanomlutha kakhulu beyeka, bahlala befumana okwethutyana, kodwa okothusayo, ukuhla kwi-libido kunye ne-penile sensitivity— singasathethi ke ngezinye iintlungu iimpawu zokuhoxiswa-enokuthi ibenze babuyele kwi-porn ekhawulezayo ngokuphakuzela, kwaye bangene nzulu kwikhoboka labo.
Intsomi #3 - "I-Orgasm yi-orgasm"
Ukususela kwixesha likaKinsey kuye kwaqinisekiswa, kodwa akuzange kuxhaswe bubungqina, ukuba konke ukuziphatha ngokwesondo kuyalingana. Oko kuye kwaba yingcinga engakumbi yeengcamango kunenyaniso. —UStuart Brody, isazi ngengqondo yophando
Ukwabelana ngesondo (PVI) kunxulumene nempilo engcono ngokwasengqondweni nasemzimbeni, ukusebenza ngcono ngokwesondo kunye nomgangatho wobudlelwane obusondeleyo-xa kuthelekiswa nokuphulula amalungu esini kunye nezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ngokwesondo. Wathi omnye umfazi:
Khange ndibenoxinzelelo lwasekuseni emva kwe-orgasm ngexesha leshumi leminyaka bendine-orgasms nomyeni wam. Lonke uthando oluzalise uthando lwethu lwagudiswa kwaye lwagubungela ifuthe elibi le-orgasm ibonakala inalo kum njengomhlolokazi. I-climaxing kunye nomntu othandekayo ihluke kakhulu ekuphakameni kunye nemilebe engenanto kunye nesini.
Njengoko kuchazwe kuyo Indlela Ekhohlakeleyo Yokuhlala Uthandweni, iindlela zokuziphatha ezithile zibhalisa kunye nenxalenye yakudala yengqondo njenge ziqhotyoshelweyo. Ezo mpawu zibophelela abantu kuba zithomalalisa ukhuseleko lwengqondo ngokukhupha ioxytocin kwi-amygdala. Ziyindlela yendalo yokuchasana nokuxhalaba. Ukuchukumisa rhoqo okufudumeleyo, umzekelo, kubonakaliswe ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lwegazi, ingakumbi emadodeni.
Ngaba iintlobano zesini ezithandanayo zibhalisa njengento yokuncamathela ngendlela engeyiyo isondo sodwa? Ngokuqinisekileyo iyantlukwano ibonakala nakwisignesha yehomoni yemisebenzi emibini. Ngokomzekelo, ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nokukhutshwa kwe-climax amaxesha amane prolactin yokuphulula amalungu esini, ukuncedisa ekubekeni iziqhoboshi kumnqweno wesini okwexeshana. Ngamanye amazwi, iincopho ezifunyenwe ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo azitshintshi ngokweziphumo.
Iyavakala into yokuba ukwabelana ngesondo kunika umvuzo omkhulu ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwengqondo kunezinye ii-jollies. Indaleko ithanda iindlela zokuziphatha ezinokuqhubela imizila yemfuza kwixesha elizayo. Utshintshiselwano lothando mhlawumbi lubhalisa njengomvuzo ngokuchanekileyo kuba lunceda abazali bond. Ngoko, inzala kunye Mbini abakhathaleli abazinikeleyo banamathuba angcono okuphila.
Ngapha koko, njengoko uBrody kunye nabanye betshilo, indaleko iya kukhetha iindlela zengqondo ezivuza i-PVI-kuba inkuthazo yokuphulula amaphambili endaweni yayo ibandakanya iindleko zempilo. Eneneni, impembelelo yanamhlanje yesini engaqhelekanga ibonakala ingaphezu kwamandla ukurhwebesha abanye abasebenzisi kude ukusuka kwiinzuzo ze-PVI (kunye nokungafi kofuzo).
Ngokucacileyo, ukuphulula amaphambili namhlanje kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwabo baba neentlobano zesini. Kodwa okuthakazelisayo, nangona kunjalo, i-masturbation ayikho i-icing kwikhekhe. Enyanisweni, amaxesha amaninzi okuphulula amaphambili anxulunyaniswa nokungoneliseki kwiinkalo ezininzi zobomi ngokuzimeleyo kwi-PVI frequency, kwaye ibonakala ngathi inciphisa ezinye izibonelelo ze-PVI.
Ukuba unako, thelekisa ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nokuphulula amalungu esini ngokwakho uze ubone oko ukuphawulayo kwiintsuku ezilandelayo.
Intsomi #4 - "Ukuphulula amalungu esini rhoqo kuluncedo kubomi bakho bokwabelana ngesondo"
Ngaba ubusazi ukuba amaxesha amaninzi okuphulula amaphambili anxulunyaniswa nokungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo kwi amadoda nabafazi? Ukuba inxulunyaniswa nokunganeliseki okukhulu kunye nobudlelwane kunye nothando oluncinci kumaqabane? Ukuphindaphinda ukuphulula amalungu esini kukwanxulunyaniswa neempawu ezidandathekisayo ngakumbi kunye nezinye izalathisi ezininzi zempilo ebuthathaka ngokwasemzimbeni nasengqondweni, kubandakanya ukuphinda usebenze ngakumbi uxinzelelo lwegazi kuxinzelelo, ukuncamathela okunexhala kunye neendlela zokuzikhusela ngokwasengqondweni.
Kucacile ukuba, olu phando ayibonisi ukuphulula amalungu esini oonobangela ezi ngxaki, kodwa ikwenza kube nzima ukutsho ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini yitoniki yezempilo. Ngamafutshane, ukuba unethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba ube neqabane, landela iBill Maher's ingcebiso emnandi kwaye ubuncinci wenze i-masturbation yakho Isibini kukhetha.
Intsomi # 5 - "Ukuphulula amalungu esini rhoqo kuthintela umhlaza wesibeleko"
Ayicacanga. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba izibonelelo zezempilo ze-orgasm zi inxulumene ikakhulu ne isondo nomnye umntu, Ukwabelana ngesondo ngokuthe ngqo kwi-penile-vaginal (PVI) hayi ukuphulula amalungu esini. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lophando olukhoyo lomhlaza wedlala lobudoda ngokungaqondanga layifihla le nyaniso ngokubuza imibuzo ekhethwe kakubi. Abaphandi bacinga ukuba zonke ii-ejaculations ziya kuba nefuthe elilinganayo kumhlaza we-prostate (ukuba kukho), ngoko babala ukuphulula amalungu esini, i-PVI kunye nolunye uhlobo lokuziphatha oluvelisa i-orgasm nje ngokuba "yi-ejaculation." Kwakhona, kwakufuneka bathembele kwiinkumbulo zamadoda malunga neentlobano zesini kumashumi eminyaka ngaphambili.
Akumangalisi ukuba iziphumo azingqinelani. Njengabaphandi be isifundo kakhulu ekhankanywa rhoqo ukuxhasa iNtsomi yesi-5 yathi, “Izifundo ezilithoba ziye zabona unxulumano olulungileyo ngokwezibalo okanye olungabalulekanga; Izifundo ezi-3 zichazwe ukuba akukho mbutho; Izifundo ze-7 zifumene ubudlelwane obubalulekileyo ngokwezibalo okanye obungabalulekanga; kunye nesifundo esi-1 sifumene ubudlelwane obubunjwa ngu-U. Kolunye uphononongo, ukuphulula amalungu esini kukodwa kwakuphawula umngcipheko wokwanda komhlaza wesibeleko kwi-20s, 30s kunye 40s xa abaphandi ekugqibeleni bacinga ukuba yahlula umsebenzi wokuphulula amalungu esini kwi-PVI (ngo-2009). I-PVI ibonakalise ukuba khusela impilo ye-prostate kumadoda amadala kunye nokungathathi hlangothi kwinqanaba lamadoda aselula. A uphando olutshanje ifumene i-19% ngaphantsi komhlaza we-prostate kwii-ejaculators rhoqo. Nangona kunjalo, imibuzo emininzi ihlala ingaphendulwanga, njengenye into abaphandi abalawule ngayo.
Ukuba i-ejaculation yayikhusela ngokukhethekileyo kumhlaza wedlala lesinyi, umntu unokucinga ukuba abefundisi baya kuba semngciphekweni wamazinga aphezulu ngokungaqhelekanga. Kuyabonakala ukuba akunjalo. Ukhangelo olukhawulezileyo lukhuphe izifundo ezibini ezijonge abefundisi kunye nomhlaza wedlala lesinyi. Ukuphonononga iirekhodi zababingeleli abangama-6226, owokuqala wafumana “abantu abalishumi elinesibini ababhubhileyo ngenxa yomhlaza wesibeleko bajongwa ngelixa. 19.8 bekulindelekile” ngokusekelwe kumaxabiso amadoda anokuthelekiswa nawo. Olunye uphononongo lufunyenwe akukho mahluko ubalulekileyo ngokwezibalo kumazinga omhlaza wedlala lesinyi phakathi kwabefundisi be-1432 namanye amadoda.
- Hlola inzululwazi efumanekayo ihlanganisa yonke into eyaziwayo yengozi ye-prostate cancer Iziphumo zomngcipheko womhlaza weprostate by Research Cancer UK.
- Funda oku inqaku malunga nokuphononongwa koncwadi malunga ne-masturbation kunye nomhlaza we-prostate.
Ngaphezu koko, ngaphandle komhlaza wesibeleko, kumadoda ane-ED, ukuphulula amaphambili rhoqo kwakunxulunyaniswa nezinye iingxaki zeProstate, kubandakanywa amanqanaba aphezulu e-antigen e-prostate kunye ne-prostate edumbileyo okanye ethenda. Ngamanye amazwi, inzame yokuphulula amaphambili ngendlela yakho eya kwidlala lengqula elisempilweni isenokungasebenzi.
Inomdla ngowama-Julayi, ingxelo ye-2017 URichard Wassersug PhD, ingcali yomhlaza weprotate kunye noMsebenzi wezeMpilo weNzululwazi, iCandelo loPhilo kwiSebe leeUlologic kwiSunivesithi yaseBrithani Columbia:
"Akukho datha yenjongo ilungileyo endiyaziyo yokubonisa ikhonkco le-causal (elungileyo okanye engalunganga) phakathi kwe-ejaculation frequency kunye nomngcipheko womhlaza we-prostate.. Kutshanje siye saphonononga idatha ye-MtF, abanengxaki ye-androgen kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, banezehlo eziphantsi kakhulu zomhlaza we-prostate kunye nokudandatheka okuphindaphindiweyo kwe-orgasm. "
Ekubeni ngoku uphinde waqwalasela iintsomi ezithandwayo zokuphulula amalungu esini, zenzele olwakho ulingelo, njengoko wenzayo lo mfana: Yintoni eyenziwa yi-nofap kum. Cela umngeni ngokwakho kwiinyanga ezimbalwa kwaye ubone oko ukuqaphelayo. Ingqondo kunye nemikhwa yomntu wonke yahlukile. Ekugqibeleni, ziziphumo ezikwilabhoratri yakho ezibalulekileyo kuwe.
Ukusuka kwisifundo: “Ukubambana rhoqo kunye nokonwaba [kuhambelana] ngokufanelekileyo kunye nezenzo zesondo ezibambiseneyo, kodwa ngokungalunganga kunye nokwabelana ngesondo wedwa..” Ngamanye amazwi, okukhona umntu ephulula amalungu esini, kokukhona engaluthandi unxibelelwano. Akumangalisi ukuba, abaninzi abasebenzisi be-porn baxela ukuba ukumbamba kuya kumnandi ngakumbi ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Ukuphulula amalungu esini kuyanda. Ukuphulula amalungu esini ngakumbi kuhambelana nokungonwabi. Ulonwabo olungakumbi kubudlelwane luhambelana nokuphulula amaphambili okuncinci. Kwaye isimangaliso esikhulu (i-irony apha), ukuba abantu banesondo elininzi lomlingani, bavame ukuphulula i-masturbate encinci kakhulu. Izicatshulwa:
Kukho … isizathu sokukholelwa ukuba ukuphindaphinda kokuphulula amalungu esini kuyanda.
Nasi isizathu: idatha ye-NHLSS yaphawula ukuba i-29 ipesenti yamadoda aneminyaka eyi-18-24 ibike i-masturbating ubuncinane kanye ngeveki.
I-NFSS, okwangoku, ifumanisa ukuba i-35 ipesenti yamadoda aneminyaka eyi-18-24 ubudala ibika ukuba i-masturbated ngosuku oludlulileyo-mhlawumbi namhlanje okanye izolo. Xa landiswa ukuquka iintsuku ezintandathu ezidlulileyo, elo nani liyenyuka laya kutsho kuma-68 ekhulwini.
Nangona amanyathelo engathelekiseki ngokuthe ngqo—kwaye iinkxalabo ezinqweneleka ekuhlaleni zisenokuba ziye zehla ezinye kule minyaka ingama-20 idlulileyo—nangona kunjalo ayikucebisi nje ukuxhathisa ekuphululeni amalungu esini kodwa kunoko ukuxhaphaka okunokwenzeka phakathi kwamadoda.
Kwenzeka into efanayo nakumabhinqa.
Nangona iipesenti ezisithoba zabasetyhini abaneminyaka eyi-18-24 ubudala bachaza ukuphulula amaphambili kanye ngeveki kwi-NHSLS ye-1992, I-masturbation yeveki edlulileyo ichazwe yi-36 ekhulwini yabasetyhini abaneminyaka efanayo kwi-NFSS. Ngokuqinisekileyo, enye inxalenye yale nto inokuba ngenxa yokwanda kwentuthuzelo ekwamkeleni ukuphulula amalungu esini, kodwa ukubonisa ukuba ukunyuka kwama-300 ekhulwini kungenxa yokwamkelwa ngokulula kubonakala kungenakwenzeka, ngokukodwa kunikwe umbutho oqinileyo wokusetyenziswa koonografi okhoyo ngoku kuphawulwe kwiitafile zokubuyisela. Kwi-1992, kwakungekho mifanekiso yamanyala kwi-intanethi. Ngelixa imfuno eqinisekileyo yokuphulula amalungu esini ibinokonyuka kwiminyaka engama-20, uvuselelo lwetekhnoloji kunye nenkuthazo yentlalontle ngokuqinisekileyo iye yanda.
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Ukunika unxulumano oluchaseneyo olubhalwe apha nakwenye indawo phakathi kokuphulula amalungu esini kunye nempilo yeemvakalelo kunye nobudlelwane, ubungqina bokuxhaphazwa okuxhaphakileyo (kunokuba kube ngamanqam) kufuneka kusinike ikhefu. Ngelixa ukuphulula amaphambili kungabonakalisi bungozi kwimpilo yoluntu, akuvelisi nzuzo ixhaphakileyo ngokweemvakalelo nobudlelwane, kwaye kunokukhupha iindleko.
… Ngokwenene, uvuselelo oluphezulu lwephonografi kunye nokuphulula amalungu esini okuhambisanayo-zombini ezicacileyo kwi-NFSS-ziya ziqondwa ngokwandayo hayi nje njengenyaniso yentlalo yenkulungwane yama-21 kodwa njengemicelimngeni emitsha ekuchumeni kwabantu.
IsiHlomelo: Izigqibo ze Ibhinqa ii-orgasms zesini -Ukuphulula amalungu esini akuphuculi ukubaleka kwe-orgasm kwabasetyhini ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo.
IsiHlomelo: Iingxaki zengqondo ezibandakanyekayo kwiSifiso soSondo, Umsebenzi woSondo, kunye nokuXhotyiswa kwezesondo: I-Multi-factorial Perspective. Ngcaciso:
(a) abathathi-nxaxheba abane-dyadic ephezulu [abasebenzisanayo] nomnqweno wesondo kunye nomsebenzi yayiyeyona yaneliseke kakhulu ngokwesondo, yabonisa ukusebenza kakuhle kwengqondo, kwaye ibonakaliswe ngolungelelwaniso phakathi kotyekelo olukhuthazayo lokufuna umvuzo olungileyo kunye nobuchule bokuzibamba (indlela ephezulu yokukhuthaza, ukuncamathela okukhuselekileyo. , ukuzeyisa okuphezulu, ukuqonda okuphezulu); (b) abathathi-nxaxheba abanomnqweno ophakamileyo we-dyadic kunye nomnqweno wesondo wedwa kunye nomsebenzi boneliseka ngokuphakathi kwaye babonisa uhlobo lokusebenza kwengqondo ebonakaliswa ikakhulu kukungafuneki (inkuthazo ephezulu kakhulu yokufumana umvuzo kwabasetyhini, kunye nokuzeyisa okuphantsi emadodeni); (c) abathathi-nxaxheba abanomnqweno ophantsi we-dyadic wesondo kunye nomsebenzi babengowona banelisekile ngokwesondo kwaye babonakaliswe ngenkuthazo ephezulu yokuphepha iziphumo ezibi kunye nokuzithiba okuphantsi (inkuthazo ephezulu yokuphepha, ukuncamathela okungakhuselekanga, kunye nokungacingi kakuhle).
Ekugqibeleni, kwabo banomdla, Uphononongo malunga nokulala phakathi kwezesondo kunye neziyobisi kwiingqondo
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