Porn zimasintha khalidwe la kugonana; ndichitanso zinthu zina
Kafukufuku watsopano wa ku Dutch (“ Kodi Kuonera Kumafotokoza Kuchita? Kuwunika Mgwirizano Pakati pa Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zinthu Zogonana ndi Makhalidwe Ogonana mu Chitsanzo Chachikulu cha Achinyamata ndi Achinyamata aku Dutch ”) apeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumagwirizana ndi khalidwe loopsa la kugonana mwa achinyamata azaka zapakati pa 15 ndi 25…ndipo zinthu zina zimachitanso chimodzimodzi. Ndithudi izi sizodabwitsa, sizosiyana ndipo siziyenera kulengezedwa ndi anthu ambiri.
Komabe, wowerenga wamba akuyang'ana mitu yankhani yodzaza phokoso ndi mawu ofanana nawo amapeza lingaliro lakuti aliyense ayenera kunyalanyaza zotsatira za kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti ngati zosasangalatsa konse, ndikungopitirira. Izi zinalidi zomwe olemba a AVN ® Media Network, Inc (“gwero lenileni la zosangalatsa zonse za akuluakulu.”): Zotsatira za Kafukufuku Wotsitsa Mphamvu ya Zolaula pa Khalidwe la Achinyamata , Nthawi : Kafukufuku: Zolaula Sizingakhale Chikoka Choipa Kwambiri pa Khalidwe Logonana , ndi Huffpo : Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zolaula Kumakhudza Khalidwe Logonana Mochepa Kuposa Momwe Mungaganizire, Akutero Kafukufuku.
Wolemba mabuku wotsogolera Gert Martin Hald, katswiri wa zamaganizo ku chipatala cha Copenhagen, anati:
"Zithunzi zolaula sizili nkhandwe zazikulu komanso zoyipa monga momwe timaganizira, ndipo mwina tiyenera kuganizira zina. Limalongosola gawo lina lachiwerewere, koma ndilodzichepetsa, ”
Ndipotu, zolaula ndi "nkhandwe yayikulu komanso yoipa" ngati ndi chifukwa chake kukhazikika kwanu sikukuchitika (posachedwa). Mulimonsemo, mfundo zenizeni za kafukufukuyu sizoyenera kwenikweni;
"Kafukufukuyu akuwonetsa kuti, pakuwongolera pazinthu zina zofunika, zakumwa zoledzera zimakhudza machitidwe ogonana. Mayanjano ang'onoang'ono mpaka pakati omwe amapezeka pakati pa kumwa kwa SEM ndi machitidwe ogonana atatha kuwongolera zinthu zina akusonyeza kuti SEM ndichimodzi mwazinthu zambiri zomwe zingakhudze mchitidwe wogonana wachinyamata. ”
Mfundo yofunika kuiganizira: Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kungayambitse makhalidwe ena oopsa okhudzana ndi kugonana, komanso zinthu zina zingalimbikitsenso. Kupeza kumeneku sikutiuza chilichonse chokhudza kugonana kwa achinyamata, monga kukhutira ndi ubale wawo, kugonana kapena chisangalalo chogonana. Chofunika kwambiri, zomwe zapezekazi sizikunena chilichonse chokhudza zizindikiro zambiri zoyipa zomwe achinyamata ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula amafotokoza, kapena zabwino zambiri zomwe amanena akachotsa zolaula.
Kutsika kwambiri
Kufuna kudziwa momwe kupeza koteroko kungakhalire nkhani zotsatila zoterezi, tinayang'anitsitsa. Phunziroli liri ndipang'ono kuposa kulimbikitsa izo kuposa momwe ife tinayambira poyamba. Choyamba, phunziro silinayimire, monga momwe ofufuza amazindikire. Zinadalira odzipereka pa intaneti, omwe 70% anali azimayi (omwe ndi 5% okha omwe ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula kamodzi pa sabata kapena kuposa).
Ofufuzawo adangofufuza anthu omwe adachita zachiwerewere. Izi zitha kuoneka ngati mfundo yofunika kwambiri popeza kafukufukuyu anali kufufuza "khalidwe la kugonana." Komabe, "khalidwe la kugonana" lomwe achinyamata ambiri (amuna) amagwiritsa ntchito masiku ano amadandaula nalo ndi kulephera kuchita zachiwerewere. Ndicho chifukwa chake akuyesera kusiya zolaula pa intaneti.
Amanena kuti sakonda anthu enieni, mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana ( ED , DE , kulephera kufika pachimake ndi wokondedwa wawo ), nkhawa yosokoneza anthu , ndi zina zotero. Popeza luso lawo logonana silinafike poipa, ochepa mwa anyamatawa ali ndi mwayi wochita zogonana zoopsa, zomwe nthawi zina zimapangitsa kuti azidalira kwambiri zolaula. Ena akadali anamwali—ndipo sakusangalala nazo. Akanachotsedwa mu kafukufukuyu konse.
Mwa kuyankhula kwina, mitu yopepuka yomwe imanena kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti sikungakhudze kwambiri khalidwe la kugonana kumapangitsa kuganiza kolakwika kuti chiwerewere sichingathe kuwonongeka kwambiri ndi kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula pa intaneti. Komabe, zokhudzana ndi kugonana kokha zomwe ofufuza adazilemba ndi izi:
- Adventurous Sex: (i) zodziwa ndi mankhwalawa; (ii) kugonana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi mnzanu; ndipo (iii) kugonana kwenikweni ndi mnzanu akumana pa intaneti;
- Zochitika Pagulu: (i) zaka poyamba kugonana (mu zaka); (ii) zochitika ndi maimidwe a usiku umodzi; ndipo (iii) chiwerengero cha moyo wa anthu ogonana (1 = 1 mzanga) 7 = 20 + anzawo).
- Zogonana Zogonana: (i) adalipidwa / kulipidwa kugonana (mwa ndalama kapena mtundu).
Ambiri mwa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti omwe nkhani zawo timawerenga pa intaneti angakonde kunena kuti "inde" ku khalidwe limodzi kapena angapo omwe atchulidwa pamwambapa, koma sali pamasewerawa chifukwa cha zizindikiro zazikulu zomwe zimachokera ku kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mopitirira muyeso. Zizindikirozi zikuphatikizapo kupeza kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mosavuta kuposa kufunafuna anzako enieni komanso ngakhale chizolowezi chokwanira, chomwe chimalepheretsa munthu kuchita chiwerewere.
Ogwiritsa ntchito ena amachita zinthu monyanyira, motsogozedwa ndi zolaula. Amaonekera m'mabwalo omwe timawatsatira chifukwa amada nkhawa kuti, pamene zinthu zomwe zimawapangitsa tsiku ndi tsiku kutaya mphamvu zoyambitsa chilakolako chawo chogonana, akuwonjezeka kufika pa zinthu zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala ndi khalidwe logonana lomwe “ si ine kwenikweni ,” kapena kuti sakufuna kuchita zinthuzo kuti angochoka. Mogwirizana ndi izi, ofufuza omwe ali mu kafukufukuyu adawona kuti kufunafuna chilakolako chogonana kukuwoneka kuti kukuyambitsa makhalidwe oopsa:
"Makamaka mwa amuna ndi akazi, magulu onse atatu ogonana anali okhudzana kwambiri ndi chidwi chofuna kugonana."
Anthu omwe amaoneka kuti ndi ochepa peresenti ya ogwiritsa ntchito akudandaula za mavuto opangitsa zolaula. Ogwiritsa ntchito ambiri amanena kuti kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula kumalepheretsa kuchita nawo zogonana.
Chithunzi cholakwika?
Kotero ngati pali ogwiritsa ntchito ambiri omwe akuchita zinthu mosiyana ndi ena ndipo ogwiritsa ntchito ena ali ndi zoletsa zachilendo, kodi chikuchitika ndi chiyani kwenikweni? Kodi zolaula za masiku ano zikupangitsa anthu ena kukhala ndi khalidwe loopsa, pomwe ena amaletsedwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula? Kodi magulu awiriwa akulekanitsa pang'ono chifukwa ali mbali zosiyana za belu mu zotsatira za kafukufukuyu? Ngati ndi choncho, kafukufukuyu angapereke chithunzi cholakwika cha zotsatira za zolaula pa intaneti pa khalidwe logonana.
Mwa njira, deta ya kafukufukuyu inasonkhanitsidwa mu 2008 ndi 2009. Zimenezi zinachitika kalekale m'dziko la zolaula komanso zochitika zogonana zomwe zimayambitsidwa ndi zolaula. Mwachitsanzo, Grindr , yemwe ndi mtsogoleri wa mapulogalamu ochezera pa intaneti, anayamba kugwira ntchito mu 2009 yokha.
Kalelo, mafoni a m'manja (ndi zithunzi zolaula) sizinali zofala kwambiri. Komanso kugwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa intaneti, omwe nthawi zambiri ogwiritsa ntchito amanena kuti ankawonjezera kugwiritsa ntchito kwawo zolaula . Sitikudziwa momwe zinthu zaposachedwapa zidzakhudzire kugwirizana pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi khalidwe logonana (lofooka).