Chabwino ndakwanitsa chaka chimodzi osakhala ndi zolaula kapena maliseche ndipo ndimaganiza kuti ndikanakhala ulemu kutumiza lipoti la zomwe ndakumana nazo. Pepani chifukwa cha kutalika kwake.
Asanafike kumayambiliro a Meyi chaka chatha ndimakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti ngati chothandizira kuseweretsa maliseche ndikakhala ndekha kunyumba. Zinangotsala pang'ono kuti ndipezeke ndipo cha pa 13 kapena 14 mkazi wanga adabwera kunyumba ndipo adandigwira. Zinali zochititsa manyazi KWAMBIRI ndipo anali wokwiya. Chifukwa chodziyika pachiwopsezo chotere ndinaganiza kuti ndibwino kuti ndithetse vutoli. Kutaya mkazi wanga ndi mwana kunali kwakukulu pamakhadi ndipo ngakhale ndidachita zomwezo ndimakondabe kwambiri (ndipo ndimamukondabe) mkazi wanga.
Mkazi wanga adadziwitsidwa ndi nkhani ya Ted "Kuyesera Kwakukulu Kwazolaula" pa intaneti. Ndipo kuchokera pamenepo ndinakupezani anyamata.
Chifukwa chake ndidayamba Nofap, ndipo ngakhale zinali zovuta poyamba ndidakumba zidendene ndipo pang'onopang'ono zinthu zidayamba kuyenda bwino. Ndidachita masiku anga oyamba a 90 kenako ndidaganiza zobwezeretsanso momwe poyamba ndinkalola kusintha ndipo ndimafuna kuzichita bwino. FYI ndizosavuta kwambiri ngati simutha.
Ndinaganizanso zopita kukawona katswiri wa zamankhwala ndikuyesa ndikusintha mfundo zina zomwe zidandithandiza kwambiri.
Kukhala pa subreddit iyi ndaphunzira pang'ono za kuwonongeka kwa zolaula pa intaneti komwe kukuchita pagulu. Komanso za kuwonongeka kwenikweni komwe kumakhudza anthu. Ndipo sindikuwakonda kwambiri makampaniwa.
Pali gulu lachikhulupiriro pa intaneti lotchedwa Pink Cross Foundation lotsogozedwa ndi wojambula zolaula wotchedwa Shelley Lubben. Sindine wachipembedzo ngakhale pang'ono koma ntchito yomwe mayiyu wagwira ndiyodabwitsa. Ndipo kwa inu omwe muli ndi chidwi ndizofunika kuyendera tsambali. Ngakhale ndiyenera kukuchenjezani zina mwa nkhani zomwe muwerenga sizosangalatsa.
Chifukwa chake kwa inu omwe mudayamba kuchita izi kuti mupeze "zopambana" izi zomwe zimatchulidwa kawirikawiri, nachi chifukwa chabwino kwambiri chopewa zolaula. Ngati mukuyang'ana zolaula pa intaneti ndiye kuti mumachita zankhanza, zakuthupi, komanso zogonana. Makampani omwewo amalumikizana ndi anthu omwe akuzembetsa, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, komanso kuzunza ana. Ndiponso ngati mungatsegule, ndiye kuti ndinu ovomerezeka.
Chifukwa chake kuzipereka zonse kwandipatsa chisangalalo chachikulu. Ine ndi mkazi wanga tili ndi moyo wogonana wokangalika komanso wokangalika. Nthawi zambiri ndimaganiza kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kumakhudza kugonana kwanga, komabe ndimadabwitsidwa ndi kuchuluka kwake. Ubale wathu wasinthanso kunja kwa chipinda chogona. Mwina chifukwa ndilibenso mthunzi wa zolaula zomwe zimandipachikanso.
Pafupifupi aliyense pano ali ndi kink yamtundu wina. Anthu ena ali ndi zokonda kwambiri koma ndikuganiza kuti aliyense ali ndi zokonda zawo zakugonana. Ndaphunzira kuti zolaula za pa intaneti zimayendetsa chidwi. Mukamatsata kwambiri atsikanawo momwe mumafunira. Amuna owongoka nthawi zambiri amalankhula kuti amakopeka ndi malo azolaula omwe amachita zolaula. Ngakhale sakupeza kuti amuna ndi okongola.
Ndinapeza kuti ndimakopeka ndi akazi achikulire. Mwamwayi sizinakhale za agogo aakazi, koma nditadzipeza ndekha ndili wachisoni, ndidaganiza zofufuza chifukwa chake zili zonse. Zimaganiziridwa kuti mutha kukhala ndi chilakolako chogonana ngati mumachigwiritsa ntchito nthawi zonse mukamakula. Magazini yanga yokhayo yolaula pa nthawi yotha msinkhu inkatchedwa "Playdames" ndipo munali azimayi achikulire okha. Ndikuganiza kuti ndipamene ndimakonda akazi achikulire.
Choncho ngati zolaula zomwe mumapeza muzaka za msinkhu wanu zimatanthauzira kukoma mtima kwanu m'tsogolo. Ndiye muyenera kudabwa ndi zotsatira za zolaula za intaneti m'maganizo a achinyamata lero. Zimanenedwa kuti zikuwonjezereka kwambiri komanso zosasangalatsa. Kodi achinyamata akuwona izi ngati zachizolowezi? Kodi ndizolaula zolaula pa intaneti zitipatsa ife?
Ndinayamba kupeŵa kulingalira za zolaula za miyezi 2 muvuto langa chifukwa zimawoneka kuti mwina zingabwezeretse zabwino zomwe ndimafuna kupeza. Zotsatira zake ndapeza kuti ndikuganiza za masamba / azimayi omwe ndimakonda kuwachezera samandithandizanso. Ndikukhulupirira kuti ubongo wanga sukugwirizananso masamba ndi zithunzizi ndi chisangalalo chogonana. Zomwe ndizabwino kwambiri zomwe ndimayesera kuchita poyamba.
Sindikufuna kusintha zizolowezi zanga tsopano. Zikuwonekeratu kwa ine kuti ndine wokondwa kwambiri tsopano kuposa kale. Ngakhale ndikhala wosamala kuti ndisiye kukhala tcheru.
Anthu omwe ali patsamba lino akhala akudalitsa kwambiri. Kuchuluka kwa chithandizo ndi upangiri womwe ndawonapo chaka chathachi ndiwodabwitsa. Ndipo kuchuluka kwa kusaka ndi nkhawa kwakhalanso chinthu chotsegula maso. Makamaka anapatsidwa kuti anthu ambiri amawona zolaula ndi maliseche ngati zosokoneza zopanda vuto. Chikhalidwe chamakono sichitha kuzindikira vutoli. Mwina chifukwa cha anthu ambiri omwe amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pamlingo winawake.
Komabe ndikupepesa chifukwa cha epic post koma zakhala zikuyenda bwino kwambiri kwa ine.
Koma chifukwa cha thandizo la gulu la osadziwika kwathunthu tsopano nditha kusangalala ndi nthawi yanga ndi banja langa ndi mtima wonse, ndikuyang'ana kamtsikana kanga kakang'ono m'maso osachita manyazi.
Zikomo kwambiri nonse. Ndipo khalani anyamata amphamvu ndi atsikana 🙂
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Popeza ndidasokonekera m'banja mu Meyi 2013 chifukwa chokhudzidwa ndi zolaula zapaintaneti, ndidakhala wopanda manyazi kwambiri. Ndipo nditaganiza zondipatsa mpata woti ndidzisankhe ndekha mkazi wanga adandiuza kuti ndikambe nkhani ya Ted, "Kuyesa Kwakukulu Kwazolaula". Zomwe zinanditsogolera ku r / nofap.
Panthawiyi ndinali ndikumva bwino kwambiri panthawiyi ndipo ndinadabwa kwambiri ndi thandizo lomwe ndinalandira nditamaliza ntchito yanga yoyamba. Upangiri wambiri ndi mawu okoma mtima. Ndidanyamula kwenikweni nditamva kuti ndili ndi shiti.
Sindinakhale ndi PMO kuchokera pomwe mkazi wanga adazindikira. Komanso sindinayang'ane zolaula. Ndidaloleza kusintha masiku anga oyamba a 90 koma ndidaganiza zokonzanso ndikuyambiranso pambuyo pake.
Ubwenzi wathu wayandikira kwambiri mu zaka za 2 kuyambira. Osati zongokomera kugonana. Komanso mwa kuyandikira kwathu. Ndife abwenzi abwinoko kuposa kale. Ndikuganiza kuti kusabisira munthu wokonda zolaula kungakhale ndi zambiri pa izi.
Moyo wathu wogonana umakhala pafupipafupi komanso wokhutiritsa kuposa momwe unalili kale ndipo chidwi changa chowonera zolaula sichimandivutitsa. Ngati ndikumva kutentha ndiye ndimayesa mwayi ndi mkazi wanga. Amakonda kusewera ndipo ngati sichoncho ndimangodikirira mpaka atakhala.
Popeza ndakhala pano kwakanthawi ndakhala ndi mwayi wowerenga zamakampani ogonana mwanjira ina, ndikudziwa zomwe ndikudziwa tsopano sindingathe kufotokoza kuti ndizigwiritsanso ntchito. Chifukwa chake malingaliro aliwonse onena za zolaula amachotsedwa mwachangu masiku ano.
Ndawona zolemba zambiri pa r / zolaula posachedwa kuchokera kwa anthu omwe achoka ku nofap popeza sakwanitsa kulimbana ndi maliseche. Ndipo kwa anthu ena ndikutha kuwona momwe zingamvekere. Tinkachita izi tisanatsike pamitengo ndipo sizinayambitse zovuta mpaka zolaula zitayamba kuchuluka komanso kupezeka mosavuta. Koma ndi zolaula monga momwe ziliri tsopano, kuseweretsa maliseche kumatha kukhala chinthu chomwe chimatenga miyoyo ya anthu. Chifukwa chake ndingavomereze kuti zolaula ndiye muzu wamavuto. Koma paukwati wanga, kusowa maliseche kwapangitsa kuti kugonana kusangalatsenso. Chifukwa chake ndikumamatira.
Komabe ndidaganiza zotseka akaunti yanga ya Reddit chifukwa ngakhale kuti nofap yandithandiza kwambiri pandekha, yakhalanso chikumbutso cha nthawi yovuta kwambiri yomwe ndikufuna kusiya kumbuyo kwanga.
Kwa inu omwe mosakayikira muganiza, "zaka 2 sizimakupangitsani kuchira. Uyenera kungozembera kamodzi ndipo ubwerera kuno. ” Ndikumva. Ndipo ndikudziwa sizinathe konse. Ndikungofuna kuziyika kumbuyo kwanga tsopano. Ndipo ndidzakhala wosamala. Ndipo koposa zonse. Zikomo nonse kuchokera pansi pamtima! Sindingathe kunena kuti gululi lathandizira motani. Zapulumutsadi ukwati wanga. Ndikutha kuyang'ana mwana wanga wamkazi m'maso tsopano popanda kudziimba mlandu.
Muli zodabwitsa kwambiri !!!!
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