Ndinaganiza zoyamba chibwenzi changa ndipo tinasiyana miyezi inayi yapitayo. Anandisiyira munthu wina, motero mwachilengedwe ndinamva kuti ndine wosakwanira komanso wopanda nkhawa. Kujambula kunabwera mwachilengedwe, koma monga ambiri a inu kunja uko, ndinamva kuwawa pambuyo pake. Iwo nthawizonse zinkawoneka ngati lingaliro labwino panthawiyo; Ndikanazilungamitsa ndi malingaliro opanda pake omwewo omwe anthu ambiri kunjako amadziwuza okha. "Ndi zachirengedwe .. aliyense amachita izo .. Ine ndikungokhumudwitsa .." etc. Koma kuchita izo sikunasinthe kalikonse, izo zinangondisiya ine mu malo osasangalala kuposa ine kale. Ndikuganiza kuti ambiri a inu mungachitire umboni za izi. Ndipamene ndinapunthwa / r / nofap. Ndinawerenga zotsatira zodabwitsa zonsezi komanso za "mphamvu zazikulu" zomwe sizinapezeke. Ndinaganiza nthawi yomweyo ndikufunika kuwombera.
Ndikulakalaka ndikadakhala ndikulemba zolemba zambiri zatsatanetsatane ndikulimbana ndi izi. Kuchokera pazomwe ndikukumbukira komabe, masiku 1-10 anali ovuta kwambiri. Ndikhala wowona mtima ndi anthu atsopano pano, ndikuganiza kuti iyi inali nthawi yovuta kwambiri kwa ine. Ndinkafuna kubwereranso mphindi iliyonse pamasiku 10 oyambilira. Basi musati muchite izo .. sizofunika kwenikweni. Chilichonse chomwe ukudziwuza wekha kuti uchite izi ndicholakwika. Pambuyo pa tsiku 10 ndidapita mbali ina .. kwakanthawi kozungulira milungu iwiri. Kuyala mosabisa kunachitika .. Ndinatayanso ulemerero wanga wam'mawa. Ndi izi zidabwera kukhumudwa pang'ono, palibe chachikulu m'njira iliyonse, koma chowonekera. Mphamvu zambiri zomwe ndimamva sabata yoyamba ndi theka zidatha kumapeto kwa mwezi woyamba. Pambuyo pa mwezi woyamba zinthu zimawoneka ngati zachilendo. Ndinapitilizabe kupyola malire kwambiri, komanso nthawi zomwe sindinali konse, koma pafupipafupi ndimadzimva ngati inenso .. bwino kuposa ine. Panali kangapo pomwe ndimafuna kuti ndibwererenso, koma panthawiyo panalibe njira yoti ndidzilole ndekha kuti ndichite. Ndangotenga tsiku limodzi nthawi ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndiyo njira yabwino kwambiri yochitira zinthu.
Mphamvu Zapamwamba
Chifukwa chake ndikuganiza kuti ambiri a ife tili pano kuti tithandizidwe. Ndikukuuzani kale kuti ndimawakhulupirira moona mtima. Poyamba ndinali wamanyazi, sindinenso. Ndinkalimbana ndikuwunika, ndimachitabe koma osachepera kwenikweni. Poyamba ndinkasokoneza masewera olimbitsa thupi, tsopano ndili ndi chizolowezi. Poyamba ndinkakhala wopanda chidaliro chofunsira mtsikana, tsopano sinditero. Inenso anasangalala kukamba nkhani pamaso pa ophunzirawo, ndipo ndimadana ndi kuyankhula pagulu.
Upangiri Wanga Womwe Mungapezere Mphamvu Zapamwamba Izi
Ndikukhulupirira zowonadi kuti maubwino ndi enieni, koma ndikuganiza kuti anthu ambiri ali ndi malingaliro olakwika amomwe angazipezere. Ndikuganiza kuti onse amachokera pakudzidalira. Ine sindimakhulupirira kuti kusangokupatsani kungakupatseni izi. Ndi zomwe inu do m'malo osasefa. Ndikulimbikitsa aliyense wa inu kuti atenge a zopindulitsa zosangalatsa mmalo mosakula. Mukudzilimbitsa bwanji ngati zonse zomwe mumachita m'malo mwake mukukhala pakama mukusewera masewera apakanema usiku wonse? Simuli, ndipo mukudziyesanso nokha kuti mubwererenso ... ndizosavuta mukamakhala moyo wopanda phindu. Kudziwongolera kumakuthandizani kuti muzidziona bwino komanso kukupatsani mphamvu kuti muchite bwino. Malingaliro ofala kwambiri omwe ndawerenga pakadali pano ndi kuwerenga, kuwerenga, ndikuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Ndikuganiza kuti zolimbitsa thupi mwina ndizomwe ndimakonda kwambiri. Nditakhala ndi chilakolako chobwereranso ndimadzikakamiza kuti ndizikakamiza / kukoka / komanso ngakhale matupi amthupi. Zafika poti ndimakonda kupita kumalo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndipo ndimagwiritsa ntchito nthawi imeneyi kuti ndigwiritse ntchito mphamvu zanga. Ndikuganiza kuphatikiza kopanda kukula, ndipo zomwe mumachita ndi nthawiyo kuti mukhale bwino ndizo zomwe zimakupatsani chilimbikitso chodzidalira. Chidaliro cholankhula ndi munthu yemwe simunakhalepo wolimba mtima kuti mupite. Chidaliro chopita kunja, kukayankhula pamaso pa omvera ambiri, kukhala munthu yemwe mukufuna kukhala m'moyo wanu. Lowani nawo m'magulu atsopano, kambiranani ndi anthu atsopano, sangalalani! Mukamachita zambiri mudzazindikira momwe zimasangalalira, ndipo pamapeto pake simufuna kubwereranso.
Chiyambireni kutha kwa banja langa ndikuyamba kwa nofap ndalowa nawo tchalitchi chatsopano ndikukumana ndi anthu atsopano (ndikudziwa kuti owongolera ambiri siopembedza, ndikungokulimbikitsani kuti mupeze china chake) 144 ku 159lbs, Ndatsala pang'ono kumaliza maphunziro awo kukoleji kumapeto kwa chilimwe ndi madigiri awiri (Accounting & Finance), ndipo ndapita masiku ndi atsikana awiri ndikukhala ndi 3rd yomwe ndakonzekera posachedwa.
tl; dr Chitani china chake chopindulitsa ndi moyo wanu m'malo mongokula pang'ono. Zithandiza kwambiri molimba mtima, ndipo mudzafunika china choti muthawireko pomwe chilakolako chofuna kubwereranso chikadzafika, ndipo ndikhulupirireni.
Ngati izi zinali zosokoneza, kapena aliyense angafune kuti ndifotokoze / kuthandiza ndi chilichonse chomwe ndingakonde! Zabwino zonse kwa anzanga onse anzanga!
KULUMIKIZANA - Lipoti la tsiku la 100: kutenga kwanga "mphamvu zamphamvu" ndi upangiri wina. Pambuyo & Pambuyo chithunzi mkati.
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