Mbiri yayifupi (Epulo 13, 2012)
Ndinayamba kuchita zogonana ndili ndi zaka 15. Ndinkatha kuyimilira nthawi iliyonse kwa aliyense. Ndinali ndi chibwenzi kwa nthawi yayitali ndili wachinyamata ndipo tonse tinali okondwa kwambiri ndi moyo wathu wogonana; mpaka lero zogonana zabwino kwambiri zomwe ndakhalapo. Pambuyo pake zinthu zidatha ndi ife ndipo zidandipweteka. Pakadali pano (mwina chaka chimodzi m'mbuyomu) njira zapa zolaula zidayamba.
Ndiyenera kuloza china chosangalatsa. Sindikuganiza kuti ndine wosuta chifukwa ndimakhala nthawi yayitali ndikuyang'ana zolaula, sindinachite izi. Kwambiri ndimatha mphindi 30 - 45, koma sizinali kawirikawiri. Zomwe ndikuganiza kuti zidapha kugonana kwanga ndikuti ndimadalira zolaula. Ndimakonda PMO pafupifupi 5 pa sabata, nthawi zina kawiri patsiku, ndikungoyang'ana makanema kuti ndipeze yoyenera, kwa ~ 30 mphindi nthawi. Chifukwa chake ngakhale sili owopsa monga ena, ndikukhulupirirabe kuti izi ndizomwe zandithandizira kuti ndizisowa zogonana.
Ndinali ndi zaka 20 komanso ku koleji pomwe ndidakumana ndi ED ndi mtsikana. Ndinkamwa tsiku lonse (linali tsiku langa lobadwa) ndipo ndidayitanitsa izi (zomwe zidawonjezerapo). Kutacha m'mawa adayesanso koma osachita chilichonse, makamaka chifukwa ndinkachita mantha ndi zomwe zidachitika usiku wathawu. Monga momwe nkhaniyi imanenera, zaka zinayi zotsatira zanga zogonana zinali zopanda pake. Nditha kuzipezera atsikana koma ndimayenera kuthamangira kuvala kondomu, komanso osamva kwenikweni ndikakumana ndi mtsikana watsopano kapena kugona naye. Ndinapitiliza ku PMO 4 - 5 nthawi pasabata osaganizira kawiri. Ndinanena kuti kusowa kwanga pakugonana ndikumwa (zomwe sizimathandiza, sindimwanso kwambiri), pa zakudya, kusachita masewera olimbitsa thupi, komanso kupsinjika. Ndasintha zinthu zonsezi, ndipo inde ndaona kusintha koma osati pafupi. Nditapeza zambiri zakubwezeretsanso ndidaganiza zoyesa, ndipo ndikuwona zotsatira zosangalatsa.
Kotero apa ndi pamene ulendo wanga ukuyamba
Ndili tsiku la 10 ndipo zanga zogonana zakhala zikukwera komanso kutsika. Sindinganene kuti ndili munthawi yochepa, koma masiku ena zimamveka choncho. Ndikumva kukhala wolimba mtima, komanso wosakhazikika. Kumva manic pang'ono nthawi zina, koma kumachepa ndikulimbitsa thupi. Usiku watha ndinali ndi maloto oyamba ogonana omwe ndakhala nawo zaka zambiri pomwe ndidayamba kucheza ndi msungwana. Ndinali nditakhala pafupi naye ndikuwonera kanema ndipo ndinali nditaledzera ndi chilakolako ndipo ndinangoyang'ana, zomwe sindinamvepo kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 20. Zomwe ndikutanthauza ndikuti, ndinadzuka ndi nkhuni zazikulu. O, ndipo msungwanayo anali Tina Fey.
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Ndikumva ngati zinthu zabwerera komwe ndidasiya pafupifupi sabata yapitayo. Ndili pa tsiku la 33, koma ndidadutsa pang'ono (masiku angapo) nditatulutsidwa "sabata" sabata yatha, chifukwa chake ndizingowerenga sabata yatha ngati nthawi yoti ndibwererenso kuthamanga.
Kukumana ndi matabwa am'mawa, mosiyanasiyana. Sabata yatha ndinali ndi nkhuni zolimba za m'mawa, pafupifupi 85%. Komanso, ndakhala ndikupeza semis kungoyenda mozungulira, ndikuganiza zimayambitsidwa chifukwa chotsutsana ndi kabudula wanga wamkati / thalauza, chomwe ndi chizindikiro chabwino kuti chidwi chabwerera. Lero m'mawa, ndakhala wolimba kwambiri, pafupi ndi 100% kuchokera kungoganiza za china chake chokhudzana ndi kugonana, ngati munthu wina amene akukamba zakuwombera patsamba lino, palibe zowoneka. Ndidayimirira ndipo idatuluka kunjaee, ndipo ndidakhala motere kwa mphindi. Kukwapula pang'ono kunapangitsa kuti zikhale zolimba pambuyo pake. Ndinali ndikumwa mowa usiku watha… zomwe zimandipangitsa kuti ndikhale wovuta m'mawa, kuti izi zitheke.
Zakhala zikuchitika pang'onopang'ono koma ndikuganiza kuti nkhuni zanga zikuyamba kutalikirapo chifukwa chotsitsimula pang'ono. Ndikulingalira kuti ndicho cholinga chachikulu pano, kukhala ndi nkhuni zosakondoweza pang'ono momwe zingathere (zamaganizidwe ndi thupi). Kodi tikoka pati? Payenera kukhala pamfundo pomwe mwachibadwa timafunikira kukondoweza. Ndipo timayeza bwanji ngati kuchuluka kwachitsitsimutso chomwe timafunikira ndichachilengedwe? Chofunika koposa, timadziwa liti kuti ED akuchiritsidwa? Ndikuganiza kuti ndili mwana ndimatha kukhala wolimba kwakanthawi, ndikulimbikitsidwa kwambiri koma sindikukumbukira nthawi yayitali bwanji. Ndikuganiza kuti ndikuleza mtima!
Ndikuyamba kuyambiranso izi mobwerezabwereza kuti ndiziika malingaliro anga pazinthu zonse momwe zingathere. Ngati chilichonse chachikulu chikuchitika, ndilemba za izo, ngakhale.
LINK - Chachiritsidwa ku ED, chidaliro chonse chonse. (Ogasiti 12, 2012)
by Nkhaniyama
Ndidayambanso zolemba mu Epulo koma ndidayipa pakuzilemba. Kuyambira Epulo 3rd sindinayang'ane zolaula koma ndakhala ndikuchita maliseche patatha mwezi umodzi ndikubwezeretsanso. Pambuyo pa miyezi ingapo ndikuyambiranso, ndinazindikira kuti chidaliro changa chikukula ndipo nkhawa inali yochepa (mbiri yayitali yokhala ndi nkhawa).
Ndakhala ndikuwona msungwana ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ndi nkhawa zogonana ndikukhala ndimavuto oyika makondomu kapena kuthamangira kuyika kuti ndisataye. Sabata yatha (mwina yotsogola?) Adandipatsa ntchito ziwiri zomwe ndimachita chidwi nazo, zomwe amayenera kuchita ndikuyandikira pafupi ndi dick wanga ndipo zimayankha kukhudza kwake. Tsopano, lero tidagonana koyamba ndipo sindinade nkhawa kuti ndipanga bwanji, ndimangodzidalira ndikudziwa kuti kuyambiranso kumagwira ntchito. Zachidziwikire, palibe vuto la kondomu, wopanda nkhawa komanso kugonana kwabwino. Adafunanso patadutsa maola ochepa ndipo STILL alibe zovuta.
Sindinganene kuti ndabwereranso ndipo ndawerenga malipoti ambiri pomwe zinthu zimapezabe bwino pakadutsa miyezi 5 mpaka 7 yobwezeretsanso. Ndikuyembekezera kuti zinthu zizikhala bwino, koma pano ndine wokondwa kwambiri.
Ndikuyembekeza izi zikuthandizani ena mwa inu, pitirizani kukonzanso.
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