Kwa ambiri a inu omwe mumawerenga izi, masiku a 90 akuwoneka ngati nthawi yayitali. Ndiyenera kuvomereza kuti kwa masiku ambiri munthawi yonseyi zimamvadi.
Ndafikira gawo ili m'mbuyomu paulendo wanga ndipo ndidakwanitsabe kuterereka mwanjira ina koma nthawi ino zimamveka mosiyana. Ndikuganiza kuti chinthu chachikulu ndichowona mtima. Kukhala woonamtima kwa ine ndekha ndikamagwiritsa ntchito zachiwerewere komanso zongopeka podzipatsa mankhwala ndikuphimba zina ndi zokhumba. Uwu ndiye mzere woyamba pomwe sindinaganizire zokonzekera- ndipo zasintha kwambiri.
Ndakwanitsa zambiri pamoyo wanga kuyambira pomwe ndidayamba ndikukwaniritsa cholinga changa chopanga semesita yanga yomaliza ku koleji yabwino kwambiri kuposa zonse. Ndapeza nthawi komanso nthawi yolumikizirana ndi anthu omwe ndimawakonda ndikusangalala nawo. Ndakhala wofunitsitsa ndikufufuza malo anga kuposa kale. Ndakhala wathanzi ndikumverera ndikulumikizana ndi thupi langa komanso inenso monga munthu. Ndakhazika mtima pansi ndikutha kuyang'ana kwambiri zofunikira ndipo moyo wanga nditamaliza maphunziro kumawoneka ngati ukuwoneka ngati rockstar. O ndipo ngati mumakhala mukuganiza za moyo wanga wogonana - zikuwoneka bwino. Ndakhala ndikugonana 3-4 pa sabata pamwezi watha, komanso malo ovuta kwambiri. Pafupifupi nthawi iliyonse ndikatuluka ndimatha kumpsompsona mtsikana wina. Zotsatira zonsezi ndizizindikiro osati zotsatira za NoFap.
Kukhala woona mtima kwa ine ndekha kumandithandiza kuti ndizichita moona mtima kwa ena. Musandichititse chiwerewere cholakwika ndichabwino ndipo zonse koma sizotheka ngati sizinagwiritsidwe ntchito chimodzimodzi momwe timagwiritsira ntchito zolaula komanso maliseche kale. Osagwiritsa ntchito chilichonse kuthawa zenizeni.
Zowona kwa inu tsiku limodzi, masiku 1 atha kuwoneka ngati opambana koma kwenikweni tsiku lililonse ndi mwayi wopita kapena kuchita bwino ndikukhala moyo womwe mukuyenera kukhala nawo. Ndi lero lokha lomwe limawerengedwa, palibe chilichonse patsogolo komanso pambuyo pake.
Ndili ndi moyo wanga wonse kuti ndipite ulendowu ndipo sindikupita kulikonse pakali pano. Ndidawerenga zolemba zamasiku 90 ndi ulemu monga momwe zidakhalira tsiku limodzi. Khalani amuna / akazi omwe mumayenera kukhala ndipo musadikire nthawi yayitali.
Zikomo nonse chifukwa chothandizachi. Mawa zimayambiranso.
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ZOCHITIKA - Chaka chopanda zolaula..koma sizomwe mukuganiza
Ndazindikira m'mawa uno kuti lero ndi tsiku lokumbukira tsiku lomwe ndidasankha kusiya kuonera zolaula. Koma atayimitsidwa pamenepo sichingakhale chowonadi chonse.
Sikunali koyamba kuti ndiyambe kuchita No Fap. Ndayesera kuyambira 2012. Ndabwereranso kambirimbiri ngakhale pambuyo pa kuphulika kwa miyezi 4. Zinali zopondereza nthawi zonse ndipo nthawi zina ndimatha kusankha kukhalabe mdzenjemo chifukwa ndimaganiza kuti palibe chifukwa chofuna kutulukiranso. Ngakhale sindinayang'ane zolaula zenizeni ngakhale pambuyo pake ndinabwereranso nthawi zina ndimawerenganso zolemba zolaula ndi cholinga chomwecho chomwe ndimakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Ubongo wanga udandipusitsa ndikuganiza kuti sizinali chinthu chomwecho- sikuti ndimangoyang'ana kuthawa mavuto okhala mdziko lenileni. Nditangochokapo, ndidaganiza zosiya zenizeni ndikusiya zifukwa ndipo tsopano ndatsala pang'ono kukhala miyezi 7 ngati mawa.
Inde ndikumva bwino kuposa momwe ndakhalira opanda zolaula ndikusankha kuti ndisiye PMO ndichinthu chimodzi chomwe ndingathe kunena chomwe chapangitsa moyo wanga kukhala wabwinoko. Koma Ayi, sizinali zophweka ndipo pafupifupi miyezi 7 mmenemo sizovuta. Lero ndinali ndi zolimbikitsa kwambiri zomwe ndakhala nazo m'masabata koma zokumana nazo paulendowu zimandithandiza kuti ndisiye zikhumbo zanga zolakwika.
Izi zandiphunzitsa kukhala womasuka ndi zovuta- ndipo ndiye nzeru yomwe ndimatenga ndikamachita zinthu zina zomwe ndimayesetsa kuchita pamoyo wanga. Ndikakumana ndi zovuta zanga zamkati kuti ndibwererenso kapena ayi, ndimayesetsa nthawi zonse kukumbukira kuti dziko lomwe lili kunja kwa khomo lanu ndi lalikulu kuposa dziko lina lililonse lomwe mungaganizire. Ingopita kunja uko, ndipo ena onse adzadziwonekera okha.
Khalani omasuka pakusakhala omasuka. Ndizomwezo.
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