Ndipangitsa tsamba loyambali kukhala lalifupi. Ndili ndi zaka 20, ndipo mpaka miyezi ingapo yapitayo, ndinali ndi moyo wosagonana. Ndimangoyamba nkhunda ndikuyamba kudzisintha nditawona kuti ndinali wokonda PMO ndipo ndakhala zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri zapitazi.
Nditatha kusinkhasinkha kwambiri pamitundu yanga yomwe ndimafuna kusintha, ndinayamba kugwira ntchito. Ndinaphunzira zambiri momwe ndikanakhoza m'makalasi anga aku koleji, ndinawonanso zolemba zambiri kutsutsa zikhulupiriro zanga zosasinthika, kusintha ntchito, ndimeza chuma chambiri pa chidaliro, chibwenzi, ndi kukopa.
Ulendo wanga udayamba miyezi isanu ndi inayi yapitayo. Cholinga changa chinali choti ndikhale munthu wabwino, komanso koposa zonse, kugonana komanso ubale wabwino ndi akazi okongola. Ndine wokondwa kunena kuti ndadumphadumpha kwambiri.
Chiyambireni zolaula (ndikugwiritsanso ntchito zomwe ndakhala ndikuphunzira), ndakhala ndi masiku ambiri, ndipsompsona, kugonana kwambiri, komanso azimayi ambiri omwe amafunsa kuti ndizikhala ndekha kuposa zaka 20 zam'mbuyomu pamoyo wanga 2 Sindinadziwe chilichonse chokhudza kugonana ndikukhala ndi chidaliro mu chidziwitso changa komanso kuthekera kwanga.
Kuphatikiza pa azibwenzi azimayi ochokera ku koleji yanga, ndidasaina pa OkCupid kuti ndiyese kufulumizitsa zinthu. Amayi okhawo omwe ndidakumana nawo kumeneko sanali ubale wabwino kwambiri. M'malo mwake, anali zinthu za FWB zokha. Apa ndi pomwe zinthu zimakhala zovuta ...
Muyenera kutenga chimodzi mwazinthu ziwiri zotsatirazi:
A: FWB ndiyabwino kwambiri! Kugonana nthawi zonse ndipo osadandaula za sewero laubwenzi.
B: Kugonana kopanda tanthauzo kulibe tanthauzo ndipo kumangoyika anthu kuti avulazidwe ndi kusokonekera. Dzipulumutseni nokha kwa munthu amene mumamukonda.
Ndapeza kuti onsewa ndi malingaliro olondola pankhani yanga. Kugonana kunali kosangalatsa komanso kosangalatsa. Zinali zabwino kumva china osati dzanja langa kuti ndisinthe. Izi zinali zokumana nazo zamtengo wapatali kwa ine chifukwa anali mwayi wabwino kwambiri wophunzirira zakugonana m'malo opanikizika. Kukwanitsa kusangalatsa wokondedwa wanu kumatha kukusiyanitsani ndi gulu.
Ndipo, ngakhale zinali zosangalatsa, ndimadzimva wopanda kanthu. Opanda kanthu monga kale. Zinali zokhumudwitsa kwambiri chifukwa ndimaganiza kuti kugonana kwakukulu pano ndi komweko kudzandipatsa chimwemwe, koma sizinatero. Ndikufuna winawake KUKONDA. Zikumveka zokoma koma kugonana sikokwanira; Ndikufuna kumva kulumikizana, kulumikizana, kucheza, chisangalalo chokondweretsa wina amene ndimamukondadi. Ndikuganiza kuti ndichepetsa kuchuluka kwa azimayi omwe ndili nawo pachibwenzi ndikuyang'ana kwambiri zaulemu. Ndikufuna MATCH ndekha, osati chidutswa cha bulu.
Tenga nkhani yanga kuti ndi chiyani. Sikuti ndi upangiri kapena china chilichonse, kufotokozera mwachidule zokumana nazo pamoyo wanga nthawi yamtunduwu. Mwina ndi malingaliro omwe mungawathandize m'moyo wanu.
LINK - Kugonana & Kukhala Zolaula - Zomwe Ndimachita
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