Zaka 20 - Kuzindikira bwino momwe ungathanirane ndi zowawa ndikukanidwa osataya mtima

Ulendowu wakhala wabwino kwambiri. Ndidayamba zovuta pang'onopang'ono koma ndikupitilizabe mpaka ndidazindikira kuti ndikufunika kusintha gawo lililonse la moyo wanga osati PMO yekha.

Momwe ndidali ndi epiphany iyi ndidazindikira kuti ndiyenera kuchitapo kanthu kuti ndikwaniritse cholinga changa. Ndinali nditawerenga la Charles Duhigg Mphamvu ya chizolowezi ndipo adazindikira kuti njira yokhayo yothetsera chizoloweziyi ndiyosinthana ndi china. Chifukwa chake ndidasinthiratu ndi kusinkhasinkha ndi kukakamiza theka lanyimbo zolimbitsa thupi tsiku lililonse.

Ngakhale zinali zovuta kwambiri pachiyambi komabe ndinayamba kusangalala ndi njira yatsopanoyi yamoyo wanga. Gawo labwino kwambiri ndikuti ndikupanga thupi latsopano panthawiyi. Wakhala moyo wabwino kwambiri. Ndinazindikira kuti PMO anali chizindikiro chachikulu chifukwa chachikulu cha kukhumudwa mkati mwanga. Ndinali ndi malingaliro ambiri ofuna kudzipha. Apa ndipamene ndinazindikira kuti moyo womwe ndimakhala sunali wopanda pake. Ndinafunika kukula komanso moipa kwambiri. Nthawi zonse ndimaganiza kuti zosintha zazikulu zimachitika nthawi yomweyo koma ndikakumana ndi zovuta zambiri ndidaphunzira kuti kusintha kulikonse kwakukulu pamoyo pazabwino kumafuna kulimbikira komanso kuyesetsa tsiku lililonse.

Tsopano kwa okwera.

Ndakopeka kwambiri ndi amayi miyezi itatu yapitayi. Ndinakondana ndi msungwana wodabwitsa koma zinthu sizinayende chifukwa sanakhale ndi malingaliro omwewo kwa ine. Komabe ndife abwenzi abwino tsopano. Ngakhale ndikufunabe chidwi chatsopano chatsopano komabe ndimakhala wodekha chifukwa cha ubale wanga. Zinasiya kundisowetsa mtendere ngati sindili pabanja kapena ndili pachibwenzi chifukwa chozindikira kuti chimwemwe chimachokera mwa ine osati chinthu chapadera chomwe maanja amakumana nacho.

Ndine mwana wazaka 20 wazaka. : D. Ndipo ndili ndi liwu lomveka bwino komanso lingaliro labwino kwambiri la momwe ndingathanirane ndi zopweteka komanso kukanidwa popanda kutaya kulimba mtima.

Ndinatseka mawebusayiti ambiri ndikusakatula pa intaneti kawirikawiri. Ndidachotsa akaunti yanga ya facebook ndipo ndidakhala ndi nthawi yabwino ndi abwenzi enieni m'moyo wanga weniweni. Ndapanga maulumikizidwe ambiri komanso ndakhala pafupi ndi banja langa.

Ngakhale ndinkayang'ana sabata iliyonse zamakalata a nofap ndipo amandithandiza kwambiri. Ndimakumbukira makamaka imelo imodzi pomwe mnyamatayo amayesa kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi komanso kugwira ntchito yolumikizana ndipo samapambana kwambiri ndi azimayi. Mmenemo alexander akuwonetsa kuti ayenera kugwira ntchito pazifukwa zomwe amafunikira chiphaso cha mkazi m'moyo wake komanso chifukwa chake akukakamiza kuti athetse gawolo. Malangizo amenewo adanditsegulira kwambiri. Zinapangitsa kuti chisankho changa cha nofap chikhale cholimba kwambiri ndikundipangitsa kuzindikira, sizomwe zidandipangitsa kukhala wokondwa koma kuyesetsa kukhala munthu wabwino. 🙂

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