Masiku makumi asanu ndi anayi zapitazo ndinayamba ulendowu kuchokera pachokopa. Inali pambuyo powonera Kuyesa Kwabwino Kwambiri pa Youtube. Zizolowezi zanga zolaula zinali, mwina ndikuganiza, zinali pafupifupi. Kamodzi patsiku, ndipo m'malo osowa zero kapena kawiri patsiku.
Ngakhale sizinali mwadala, zidakhala gawo loti ndizisintha. Kukhala ochezeka komanso ochezeka. Ndipatula nkhani yaulendo wanga ndi zochita zanga, chifukwa chophweka. Koma choyamba ndilemba malangizo anga poyambira, chifukwa aliyense akuyenera kugunda masiku makumi asanu ndi anayi.
Malangizo oyambira
Mwayamba lero? Zabwino. Tayani zolaula zanu tsopano. Inde, zonsezi. Ngati mukufunitsitsa kuchita izi, simukugonjera. Mukazichita mtsogolo, zimakhala zovuta.
Dzifufuzeni nokha mu zonse. Ndi magawo ati a moyo wanu omwe mumasangalatsidwa nawo? Kodi simuli magawo ati? Gwiritsani ntchito zovuta zina kuti musinthe, koma samalani kuti musaluma kwambiri kuposa kutafuna.
Lembani mndandanda. Itha kukhala mndandanda wazofunikira kuchita tsiku lililonse, mndandanda wazolinga zapachaka, kapena mndandanda wazomwe muyenera kuchita. Zikuthandizani kuti mulingalire za zinthu, ndipo ngati mutatupa mutha kuyang'anitsitsa. Mukufuna malingaliro? Pano.
- Masewera tsiku lililonse (kuthamanga, kulimbitsa thupi, kusambira, kuyendetsa njinga ndi zina)
- Phunzirani kuvina kwatsopano (salsa, tango, c-walk, shuffle etc.)
- Sankhani chilankhulo chatsopano (Spanish, Swahili, French, Russian, Vietnamese, Hungary, Farsi etc.)
- Onani tawuni yomwe simunapiteko kale! (kapena paki yachilengedwe, nyanja, malo osungira nyama, malo osungirako zinthu zakale ndi zina).
- Lankhulani ndi mlendo tsiku lililonse (atha kukhala ku uni, metro, paki, shopu, kulikonse komwe ungapite!)
- Pitani kumsonkhano wa anthu ochezeka! (chilichonse chomwe mungasangalale nacho, ndi ndale, utoto, zakale, masamu, zovala zamtambo, masewera)
- Pezani ntchito / ntchito
- Phunzirani luso latsopano (kukonza, kupaka utoto, kuwombera mivi, kujambula ma skate, zamagetsi, kuluka)
Ndayesera kupanga zitsanzo zosiyanasiyana, chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti zingakhale zovuta kulingalira za zinthu wekha nthawi zina.
Onetsetsani kuti mwayambiranso. Ndi catagory. Lembani tsiku lomwe munayambiranso, ndipo bwanji. Mupeza chithunzi chabwino cha kupita patsogolo kwanu komanso zovuta zanu.
Ngati muli nayo nthawi, khalani pansi ndikuwunika tsiku lanu. Makamaka ngati mukuyang'ana pakusintha chikhalidwe chanu chitha kukhala chida chothandiza.
Pomaliza, nayi maulalo ndi magawo omwe adandithandiza m'masiku anga a 90.
- Moyo weniweni ngati masewera ungakhale wabwino kwambiri
- Lipoti la tsiku la 90 lolemba ndi NotVeryLogical
- Kuyamikira kumwetulira kwa mtsikana
- Lekani kuthamangitsa agulugufe, kusamalira dimba lanu
- Momwe ndimapezera abwenzi
- Mutha kuwona litsiro lonse pakuwala
Sikuti mumangogwetsa, kaya mukagalamuke. ”
"Ngati wagwa dzulo, imirira lero." - HG Wells
"Moyo ndi mpikisano, bwanji osayesetsa kuti upambane?" - Aaron McIntosh
"Pali nthawi zina pamene tiyenera kumira pansi pa mavuto athu kuti timvetse choonadi, monganso tiyenera kutsikira pansi pachitsime kuti tiwone nyenyezi masana." - Vaclav Havel
Ulendowu
Masabata awiri oyambilira anali ovuta kwambiri. Ndinali kusiya chizolowezi, osalola ngakhale pang'ono kuyang'ana atsikana okhala ndi zovala zowonekera pa intaneti poyamba. (zomwe sizinathandize kuti tisabwererenso!)
Pa masabata awiri ndidagunda chokhazikika, yomwe idatha mpaka sabata eyiti. Izi zinali zovuta chifukwa panabwera mantha - sindinapeze nkhuni zam'mawa kwa nthawi yayitali zomwe zimandidetsa nkhawa. Mwamwayi ndinali ndi mnzanga yemwe amandithandiza kwambiri, ndipo anandiuza kuti zonse zikhala bwino. Gawo labwino kwambiri mwina ndikudzuka ndi matabwa ammawa ndikuganiza 'Yessss! Ikugwirabe ntchito! ' kenako ndikuyamba tsiku langa ndikumwetulira pankhope panga.
Kuyambira sabata eyiti mpaka pano zakhala zovuta, koma zosalamulirika. Makamaka mukafika pafupi ndi masiku a 90 simudzasiya chifukwa mwakwaniritsa cholingacho. Kudutsa masiku makumi asanu ndi anayi, sindikudziwa zomwe zimachitika. Sindikudziwa kuti ndipitilirabe, koma pakadali pano nditero. Mwinanso chifukwa ndimaopa kuti ndikudandaula kuti ndayambiranso, komanso pang'ono kuti ndiziuza anthu kuti 'Chabwino, sindinapite ku 2014 KONSE!', Haha.
Kusamala
Ngakhale sindikutsimikiza kuti NoFap wa wether angatamandidwe pazonse zomwe zachitika, ndidasintha.
Kusintha kwachindunji ndikuwonera kwanga. Kwenikweni. Ndimamva ngati dziko layamba kuwoneka bwino. Maso anga akuwoneka kuti akufalikira. (kachiwiri: zenizeni) Nditha kuwona zonse zikuchitika mozungulira ine ndikulabadira mwachidwi, m'malo mongolingalira zinthu molunjika patsogolo panga.
Kuyang'ana m'maso, amuna ndi akazi, kwakhala kosavuta kwambiri kwa ine. Ngati mukufuna titha kukhala ndi mpikisano woyang'anitsitsa. Sindiopanso maso. Ndisanakhale womasuka kutseka maso ndi mnzanga kwa mphindi zopitilira zitatu, koma tsopano ndimakhala wokondwa komanso wokondwa ngakhale nditangokumana ndi munthuyo.
M'masabata awiri oyambilira ndidalimbikiranso kufunsa mtsikana kuti apite ndikamwe kwinakwake. Anati alibe nthawi, komabe ndimamva bwino. Ine anayesedwa kufunsa mtsikana! Tsoka! Sanachitepo izi m'mbuyomu.
Kukhudzana kwa akazi kwakhala bwino. Akazi ndi omwe amakhala pachibwenzi komanso anzawo pano kuposa abwenzi. Kukhumudwa ndi chidwi chofuna kupeza chibwenzi posachedwa zatha kuyambira pa kuyamba kwa NoFap.
Chidaliro changa chakwera. Zambiri chifukwa chakuwona dziko lapansi bwino, komanso chifukwa ndimakhala womasuka kulikonse komwe ine ndinali.
Tsopano kwa gawo losasangalatsa; mphamvu imodzi yomwe ikuwoneka kuti yazimiririka. Pakuyamba kwa NoFap ndinali ndi mphamvu. Izi adaziwongolera kuti athe kudzikonza okha. Ndidayamba kusinkhasinkha, ndikuyang'ana kukonzekera maphunziro anga, kupita kumisonkhano komanso kukumana ndi anthu atsopano.
Pambuyo pa chizindikiro cha masiku makumi asanu ndi atatu izi zatsala pang'ono kuzimiririka. Ndimachitabe zinthu zofananira, ndipo kuwerenga kwanga kumayandikira kale, koma mphamvu yanga yolimbitsa thupi ikuchepa. Ngati wina aliyense ali ndi malangizo amomwe ndingakhalire ndekha ndikusintha momwe zingakhalire zabwino kwambiri.
Mafunso ndiolandilidwa.
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