Ndine wophunzira, wazaka 21. Nthawi yoyamba ndinawona zolaula ndili ndi 11 ndikuganiza. Ndinali kusekondale ndipo ndimayenera kugawana kompyuta ndi mchimwene wanga wamkulu. Anali ndi ziwombankhanga zambiri pakompyuta ndipo nthawi zonse ndikafuna kugwiritsa ntchito kompyuta ndimayenera kutseka zolaula zonse zomwe amatsegula.
Patapita nthawi, nanenso ndinayamba kuonera. Chifukwa chake ndakhala ndikuledzera kuyambira 13, ndikuganiza. Ndidafunikira zaka 8 kuti ndimalimbana ndi izi, kuti ndikafike masiku 100. Chifukwa chake, musataye mtima. Chabwino, uku ndiye kutha kwa chiyambi. Sindikufotokozera moyo wanga wonse, chifukwa ndichabechabe.
Ndidachita bwanji? Ndi nkhani yayitali.
Sindinkafuna kuchita kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 14. Nditazindikira kuti ndayamba kusuta. Kuyambira nthawi imeneyo ndimayesetsa kuti ndizisiye, ndimakhala ndi sabata limodzi yopuma, nthawi zina awiri. Mbiri yanga inali masiku 30 isanafike yunivesite. Nthawi imeneyo sindinachite bwino kwenikweni, chifukwa sindimachita tsiku lililonse. Ku yunivesite ndidapeza NoFap ndipo ndidayamba kulimbana nayo mozama. Zachidziwikire, ndidataya nthawi zambiri, koma sindinachite kawirikawiri, tsiku lina ndidafikiranso masiku 7x. Tsopano, ndidakwanitsa bwanji masiku 100 amenewo?
- Ndinasintha chilengedwe. Ndinapita kunja kwa masiku 70 kupita kudziko lina kuti ndikaphunzire ntchito. Nthawi imeneyo ndidzakumbukira mpaka kumapeto kwa moyo wanga. Ndinakumana ndi anthu ambiri, ndaphunzira zinthu zambiri ndipo ndinali ndi phwando lolimba 😀 Tsopano ndili ndi abwenzi ambiri, ndikhulupilira kuti ndidzakumananso nawo mtsogolo. Ndi momwe ndidafikira masiku 70 oyamba. Ndinalibe nthawi yoganizira za kubzala kapena zolaula.
- Ndine membala wa bungwe, tili ndi zambiri zoti tichite. Ndimakhala ndi chidziwitso. Nthawi zina ndiyenera kukambirana ndi mabwana amakampani. Ndi chinthu chozizira. Ndipo ndili ndi abwenzi ambiri ochokera kubungwe lino.
- Ndinakumana ndi atsikana ambiri ndipo ndinali ndi masiku ochepa. Mnzanga wapamtima ndi msungwana, nthawi zina timakambirana za atsikana ndi anyamata omwe timakhala nawo pachibwenzi (Koma iye ndi bwenzi chabe, osalemba chilichonse chopusa mu ndemanga: d). Yesetsani kutuluka, kuti mukakumane ndi anthu ambiri 🙂
- Gwirani ntchito zolimba. Mu Meyi, nditha kuchita 100 kukankha.
- Khalani ndi zolinga. Chaka chamaphunziro chino ndili ndi zolinga za 36 kuti ndizikwaniritse. Lero ndazindikira 4th.
- Phwando molimba. Ndimakonda kuvina. Pafupifupi satana aliyense ndimapita kukapeza salsa disco kuti ndikavina salsa ndi masitayelo ena a Latin.
- Musaganize zam'mbuyo. M'mbuyomu ndimayang'ana mbiri ya FB ya mtsikana m'modzi nthawi zambiri. Ndinamugunda m'maganizo mwanga kulikonse komanso munjira iliyonse. M'masiku 100 awa ndidamuyang'ana FB pafupifupi kawiri. Kumbukirani zinthu zofunika chabe, zikumbukiro zabwino, kupambana, zolephera (kudziwa momwe mungadzapambanitsire nthawi ina).
- Osataya nthawi yochulukirapo pa FB ndi masamba ena. Makamaka pamasamba okhala ndi ma meme.
- Werengani zambiri. Idyani chidziwitso. Kwa buku loyamba ndikupangira buku lonena za moyo. Makochi ambiri a Lolemba amalemba mabuku amtunduwu, kotero ndizosavuta kupeza.
- Dzukani m'mawa. Ngati ndimagona nthawi yayitali m'mamawa, ndimatsutsana ndi mtsikana m'modzi.
- Thandizeni. Ndikuganiza kuti ndathandizira kwambiri masiku awa .. Ndipo ndimaperekanso magazi.
Awa ndiupangiri ochepa. Ndikuganiza kuti ndi tsiku langa lomaliza pa NoFap. Ndinali pano chifukwa ndimafuna kukwaniritsa cholinga chimodzi pamoyo wanga. Tsopano ndili ndi zina zomwe ndikufuna kuchita, chifukwa chake sindikhala ndi nthawi pano. Zikomo nofap pachilichonse, popanda inu, mwina ndikadataya. Ndipo kwa nonse omwe mukumenya nkhondo - musataye mtima. Mwina simungafikire masiku 100 otsatira. Ndidafunikira zaka 8, Mudzafunika zochepa, mwina zochulukirapo. Ndipo kumbukirani - sichimaliza mukafika masiku 90 kapena 100. Sizingathe, choncho tiyenera kumenya nkhondo mpaka kumapeto kwa moyo wathu. Ndikukhulupirira tsiku lina ndidzawuka ndikunena ndekha "o, ndiye lero ndi tsiku la 1000". Nthawi yoti tiwatsanzike, zabwino zonse komanso…
Lero ndikuganiza kuti ndi tsiku langa lomaliza pa nofap. Sindinalembe zolemba zambiri pamsonkhanowu, ochepa chabe, motero palibe amene angandidziwe. Koma ndikuganiza ndiyenera kulemba uthengawu, kungokuwonetsani m'mene ndinakwaniritsira chimodzi mwa zolinga zanga.
Bye.
LINK - Chifukwa chake, cholinga chotsatira chakwaniritsidwa - masiku 100 ... nthawi yoti tiphonye NoFap
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