Ngati mukufuna kuyamba kugwira ntchito, khalani olimbikitsidwa ndipo koposa zonse ndikufuna kuti boma lithe ndiye ndikukulimbikitsani kusiya kuseweretsa maliseche.
Kuyambira ndili mwana ndinali katswiri wofuna kuseweretsa maliseche. Monga anyamata ambiri ndimagwiritsa ntchito njira yochepetsera nkhawa komanso kuchepetsa nkhawa ndikakhala ndi vuto kusukulu kapena ndi ana ena.
Zabwino kwambiri pakadali pano mutha kunena. Koma si nkhani yonse. Ngakhale kuseweretsa maliseche, kufika pachimake ndikumverera kopumula pambuyo pake kunali koyenera kuthana ndi nthunzi kunandithandizanso kunyalanyaza mavuto anga, ndipo kunandipangitsa kukhala wosakhudzidwa kuti ndichite kena kake ndi moyo wanga.
Zinanditengera kufikira nditakwanitsa zaka 22, wopanda chisangalalo, wopanda bwenzi, wopanda abwenzi, kukhala ndi malingaliro oti sindinapeze chilichonse chofunikira m'moyo wanga.
Nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndikumverera kuti kumbuyo kwanga ndilibe chidwi chochita chilichonse ndi moyo wanga, nditakhala patsogolo pa pc tsiku lonse, kusewera xbox kunali vuto lina lakuya pamaganizidwe. Ndiloleni ndikuuzeni china chake: Vuto lomwe sindinapezepo mpaka lero, atha kukhala kuti awa akhoza kukhala omwewo. Ubwana, makolo, zovuta kusukulu, zochitika zowopsa, mungazitchule. Mwina zonsezi. Koma zomwe ndikudziwa ndimomwe zidawonekera. Itchule chizindikiro ngati mukufuna. Kunali kuseweretsa maliseche.
Nthawi zonse manyazi akamakhala enieni ndipo ine timayenera kudzuka ndi kutuluka kunja kuli bwino ndikhale kutsogolo kwa kompyuta yanga ndikutulutsa imodzi. Kundipatsa chisangalalo nthawi yomweyo, china chake chomwe sindimachipeza padziko lapansi.
Chifukwa chake tsiku lina ndimasankha kusiya zonsezi osachita maliseche. Ndinali 22 ndipo ndinali ndi zokwanira kuti ndilibe bwenzi, kuyamwa ku koleji, kusakhala ndi anzanga,… Nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndidapita masiku 4. Anali ovuta kwambiri masiku anayi m'moyo wanga. Koma china chake chinali chosiyana.
Kenako nditayesa kangapo, ndimatha kupita milungu iwiri osachita maliseche. Pambuyo tsiku 2 kapena 6 ndimamva ZOSANGALATSA, ZOPHUNZITSIDWA… HORNY. Koma ndidalephera patadutsa masiku 7. Ndabwereza izi kwa miyezi ingapo mpaka chilimwe ndidapita miyezi 14 popanda kuseweretsa maliseche. Ndipo inali nthawi yabwino kwambiri pa moyo wanga.
Ndinali wamantha tsiku lonse ndi usiku wonse, wokonzeka kugonjetsa dziko mu mphindi. Ndinkamva ngati ndingathe kuchita chilichonse. Nthawi zonse ndinali ndi chidwi chochita zinthu. Lankhulani ndi atsikana, masewera, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kupeza bwino, kuwerenga mabuku, kupitirira. Mavuto adakhala zopinga, zinthu zomwe ndimayenera kuchita zimakhala zofunika kwambiri. Sindinkafunikanso kuchita bwino kapena kuchita zinthu NDIKUFUNA kutero. Pambuyo pake ndinapeza chibwenzi. Ndinali paubwana wanga. Koma… ndinayambanso kukonza, nditangogonana. Tsopano sindikunena kuti Kugonana ndichinthu china choyipa. Mwina ndichimodzi mwazinthu zabwino kwambiri padziko lapansi. Koma sindinali wokonzeka kutero. Kotero nditangotaya umuna kachiwiri ndinkafuna zambiri ndikuyamba kuseweretsa maliseche.
Lekani ndikuuzeni: Kugonana ndi mtsikana ndikuseweretsa maliseche ndi chinthu chosiyana kwambiri. Ngakhale chinthu choyambirira ndichabwino kwa inu ndipo nthawi zambiri chilibe gawo pa momwe mumakulimbikitsira, maliseche amangokungitsani ndikumakupangitsani kukhala waulesi.
Chifukwa chake landirani upangiri wanga ndikuyesani kwa masiku 14. Kuyambira pamenepo mumazolowera ndipo zimakhala zosavuta. Yesetsani kupeza bwenzi logonana moyenera ndipo mukawona kusiyana mudzadziwa zomwe ndimanena.
Nkhani yayitali yaitali:
Sinthani: Funso lidabwera lomwe ndidasinthanitsa ndi dzenje, osadziseweretsa maliseche mmoyo wanga:
Ndinawusintha ndi moyo wosangalatsa. M'malo mongodzikhutiritsa ndikudzidzimutsa mdzanja langa ndimayenera kupita kukachita zinthu zosangalatsa kuti ndithamangire chimodzimodzi. Werengani maulalo omwe ndidakupatsani ndipo mudzamvetsetsa chifukwa chake mukamachita maliseche mokakamiza simumatha kusangalala ndi zinthu zamoyo.
Ndikulankhula za zovuta, masewera, amayi, kugwira ntchito kuti mukwaniritse cholinga, zinthu zonse zabwino zomwe munthu ayenera kusangalala nazo. Pambuyo poti masiku 10 osakupatsani umuna inu MUKUFUNA kugwira ntchito, kaya ndi ntchito yanu kapena thupi lanu kapena chilichonse.
Sindikudziwa momwe ndingalongosolere koma zili ngati thupi lanu likufuna kuti dopamine ichitike mwachangu kwambiri, koma popeza mumadzikana nokha, malingaliro anu amayenera kupeza njira zina zokuthandizani kumva izi.
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