Pali zinthu zambiri zomwe zimapezeka pa intaneti zokhudzana ndi momwe mungagonjetsere chizolowezi chomwa mowa mwauchidakwa, ndipo zimatha kukhala zododometsa polankhula mosapita m'mbali kuti mudziwe momwe munthu amayamba kusuta, bla bla. Koma Pomaliza ndikukhulupirira kuti aliyense akuyenera kupanga ndondomeko yake yeniyeni, yothetsera izi. Miyezi yowerengeka mmbuyo ndidawerenga buku la THE SLIGHT EDGE. Imati "Moyo umangokhala kuchita zinthu zosavuta 5 tsiku lililonse, ndipo ukhoza kukhala wopambana.". Koma zinthu 5 izi ndizosavuta koma ndizovuta kuzitsatira zimangonena za nthawi yayitali osati 1,2 koma zaka 20-30 zomwe 99% ya anthu samazitsatira. Tiyeni titenge chitsanzo. Ndikunena poyera apa kuti ngati munthu achita izi 6 zinthu tsiku ndi tsiku (mwachitsanzo), mwayi woti apambane pomenya vutoli udzawonjezeka kwambiri.
1) Pezani chidwi. (Osapereka zifukwa sindikudziwa zomwe ndikufuna kuchita pamoyo. Ndizopanda pake, zopanda pake komanso chowiringula.) Dziperekeni nokha mwa inu chilakolako 24 * 7. Mwachitsanzo, chidwi changa ndikukhala manejala tsiku lina, chomwe ndikufuna kupita ku sukulu yapamwamba B.tsopano ndimachita izi nthawi zonse ngakhale m'basi, mchimbudzi, ndikusamba. Ganizirani za Mafunso a Quant, nthawi zonse. Tsopano pakakhala basi ndimayang'ana atsikana ndipo malingaliro oyipa amabwera, koma ndikatsitsa mutu wanga pansi, ndikuganiza za mafunso angapo pamutu, ndikhulupirireni anyamata malingaliro abwinowa amachepetsedwa kukhala pafupifupi 5% zomwe ndizosintha kwakukulu. Malingaliro abwinobwino ndi chifukwa chachikulu chomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kumenya chinthu chovuta ichi.Kufunsanso funso lililonse lolimba kuthetsedwa kumandipatsa chidaliro, ndipo sindimva wachisoni, wokhumudwa kapena malingaliro ena abwinobwino omwe amatsogolera kuukadaulo.
Pamapeto pa tsikulo m'malo mongoganiza zolaula za maola a 4-5 (ngakhale sindikuyang'ana zolaula kapena kusanja). Ndikuyesetsa kuyankha mafunso chifukwa cha chidwi changa. Uku ndikusintha koopsa. gwiritsani ntchito mbali yofunika kwambiri pomenya izi.
Kuganiza zofunsa mafunso kumalowa mu ubongo wanga, monga momwe mpaka pano ndimangoganizira m'maganizo mwanga.
2) Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi a 5-6 pa sabata, kwa mphindi atle ya 30. Khalani otopa kwambiri kuti ngati mutsegula malo olaula a zolaula, musakhale ndi mphamvu yogwedeza chinthu chimenecho. Pangitsani kutopa kwanu, zomwe siziyenera kusuntha thupi lanu. Ndikutanthauza izi. Mungamve ngati mungogwa nthawi iliyonse, koma mwamalingaliro mudzamva mwamtendere, mwamphamvu kwambiri, mutha kuyang'anira chiwonetsero chonse pa ziwanda panthawi yomwe chiwonetsero cha ziwanda zili pakuwonongeka kwake. Ngati mungachigonjetse pamenepo, khulupirirani kuti mudzamva kulimba mtima kwambiri.
3) Sangalalani ndikupanga anzanu kapena abwenzi atsikana (Zikumveka zopusa koma izi zimachepetsa nthawi yomwe timathera tikugwiritsa ntchito intaneti, ndipo intaneti imalumikizidwa ndi zolaula. Kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti zochepa, zolaula zochepa) ndimatha kuyang'ana zolaula, tsopano ndimacheza kwambiri. Panali masiku abwino akale pomwe moyo unali wosavuta, mpweya unali waukhondo, anthu anali ndi nthawi yolankhulana ndipo anthu anali osangalala. kuthamanga kofunikira kuti muchepetse, mwina kungoyenda makilomita 10 kuyenda / kuthamanga kenako ndikungosangalala tsiku lonse, osachita chilichonse !! Palibe nyimbo, palibe foni yam'manja, whatsapp, facebook, twitter, palibe makanema, sitcoms, palibe zokhwasula-khwasula, ma burger, ma pizza, osangoganizira chabe, opanda chilichonse. Inu nokha ndi mpweya ukuwomba, ndi bata lazungulira. Timaganiza kuti tikupuma, koma ndikukhulupirira kuti anthu aiwala momwe angapumulire. Kumangokhala Pumulani moyenera popanda kuthandizidwa ndi mwana aliyense. Phunzirani kukhala popanda kuyerekezera kwakunja, kudzikweza kwamtundu uliwonse.
4) Pezani zokonda zanu ndikuwonongerani nthawi yawo. (Mabuku, maulendo apanjinga, kusambira, mndandanda ndiwosatha.
5) Idyani Chabwino, aliyense ali ndi mapaketi sikisi omwe amakhala pansi pa mafuta omwe atiphimba m'mimba mwathu chifukwa cha zoyipa zonse zomwe zikupezeka pamsika masiku ano. Ngati mumadya bwino simuyenera ngakhale kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ngati muli. zidzangobwera !! inde. Ndi nthano yoti munthu amafunika kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kuti atenge kwina. ndipo kusakhala m'mimba kumakupatsani chidaliro chosatha. Mofananamo thupi laling'ono, lopindika ndi minofu limatha kukupatsani chidaliro.
6) Chitani zomwe mukuopa.Chimodzi mwazomwe zidandilimbikitsazi ndichakuti kuyambira Batman, akamapita kuphanga kukakumana ndi BATS yonse, kuti athetse mantha ndipo kuchokera pomwepo amasintha. Mantha akuya kwambiri omwe amatipangitsa kuti tichotsedwe (mantha a umphawi, kutsika, kuopa kufunsa mtsikana, kudzimva kuti ndinu osakwanira kapena opanda nzeru kuposa ena, chilichonse) ndiye timakhala china. Ndimakhulupirira izi. Wina sayenera kuopa chilichonse, ngati akufuna kuchita bwino.
Mukamachita izi, mudzayamba kuchita zinthu zina zabwino, chifukwa cha mphamvu ya KULIMBIKITSA ZOPHUNZITSIRA. Kungokhala ngati mukulimbana ndi zolaula, mumamva bwino, komanso kuluma kwambiri, kufooka komweku kungagwiritsidwenso ntchito ngati mwayi. Mukayamba kuchita izi uzimva bwino, iwe ukuchita zinthu zambiri zabwino, zinthu zabwino zambiri kenaka mwadzidzidzi umazindikira kuti ndiwe munthu wosiyana ndi ena.
Tsopano zinthu izi za 5 ndizosavuta, sizokwera mtengo, aliyense ndipo aliyense atha kuchita izi, ndipo pochita izi pali mwayi waukulu wina akhoza kuthana ndi vuto. Funso ndiloti tingachite izi osati 1, osati 2, osati 3 koma zoseweretsa moyo nthawi zonse 
Chifukwa izi abwenzi anga funso lakusintha kwa moyo, kusintha kwakukulu pamakhalidwe athu komanso momwe timakhalira.
Zomwe ndidagawana ndi malingaliro anga, mwachidziwikire pakhoza kukhala njira ina yosiyana siyana yomwe mungagwiritsire ntchito vuto lanu. Ganizirani ngati Masewera omwe muyenera kupambana. Ndiye Game On !! Anyamata, Amodzi. Khalani aukali, Muthanireni musanakuukireni, mukamakonzekera tsatanetsatane wazakanthawi zonse zomwe mukuyembekezera kuti satana angakumenyeni. Ganizirani zakumwa kwanu monga CHIKHALIDWE CHAMOYO chomwe muyenera kumenya. Nthawi iliyonse mukamasula, dzifunseni nokha "Kodi ndiyenera kusintha china, kapena mi m'njira yoyenera, kulimbikira kwambiri ndikutsimikiza."
Khalani othandiza, osangokhala okhumudwa nthawi iliyonse mukabwereranso, palibe chifukwa, musawonetse kukhudzika mukabwereranso, kulibeko ayi. Mukayankha kuti musiye ndiye kuti mudzapitilirabe. Cholinga chake chinali kuphwando phwando usikuuno, ndipo mumangokhalira kudya, palibe vuto, pitani kukakhala nawo paphwandopo, ndipo pambuyo pake mutha kupanganso njira ina !!
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by Manish