Zaka 23 - (ED) Mnyamata ndi bwenzi lake onse amafotokoza kuyambiranso kwawo kwa masiku 130

Ndakhala ndikuwerenga nkhani zopambana pano ndipo ndimakhala wokhumudwa nthawi zonse (palibe cholakwira kwa iwo) chifukwa 90% anali okhudza anthu omwe analibe (enieni) PIED ndipo 'amangomva' ngati malingaliro awo kapena malingaliro awo kapena chilichonse chomwe chasintha atasiya zolaula.

Pa chifukwa chimenechi ndinaganiza zolemba pano chifukwa ndikuganiza kuti ndondomeko yanga yobwezeretsa ntchito idzakhala yolimbikitsa kwambiri kwa iwo omwe akulimbana ndi kulimbana nazo.

Komanso ndidaganiza zopempha bwenzi langa (yemwe amadziwa bwino kwambiri zavuto langa) kuti alembe malingaliro ake masiku onse a 130 kuphatikiza pa anga. Ndine wotsimikiza kuti zingakhale zosangalatsa kwa ogwiritsa ntchito ambiri pano komanso mkangano waukulu pouza msungwana wanu.

Ndiyamba ...

Ine & nkhani yanga isanachitike YBR & YBOP

Ndine wophunzira wazaka 23 waku Germany. Ndinayamba kuseweretsa maliseche ndili ndi zaka 12. Ndidawonetsedwa ndi abwenzi ena ndipo monga aliyense amene ndimamukonda kuyambira mphindi yoyamba. Poyamba, kutengeka kunagwira ntchitoyi koma patapita nthawi ndinayamba zolaula. Kuchokera pakumverera mpaka pamalingaliro, zomwe zidapangitsa kuti azisewera anyamata, zomwe zidapangitsa kuti zolaula zikhale zolaula, zomwe zidapangitsa kuti azikhala ndi zithunzi zolimba ndipo pamapeto pake zimawonetsa zolaula. Ndikakumbukira molondola ndinayamba kuwonera zolaula pa ~ 14-15 zaka.

Kumayambiriro kanema iliyonse inali sh * t, ndiye ndidatopa ndi zinthu zina ndikupita kuzinthu zoopsa kwambiri. Sindinayambe kuchita zolaula, komabe ndinkangonena zinthu zina zomwe sindimayenera kuziwona. Sindikunena zambiri tho. Ndikuganiza kuti anyamata ambiri amadziwa zomwe zachitika.

At17, ndinagonana koyamba ndi chibwenzi changa ndipo zonse zinayenda bwino. Ndidabwera mwachangu pafupipafupi koma ndikuganiza sizachilendo kuyambitsa chinthu chochititsa chidwi chotere. Kwa zaka zotsatira ndinali ndi zibwenzi zingapo ndipo zogonana nthawi zonse zimagwira ntchito bwino. Pamenepo ndinkadabwabe kwambiri ndikuloledwa kukhudza akazi. Koposa kangapo ndimalakalaka nditakhala nthawi yayitali pabedi koma siwo mutu wankhani wa ulusiwu. Chofunika kwambiri ndikuti ndimatha kukhala ndikukhazikika nthawi zonse ndikafunika. ;)

Ndiyenera kuwonjezera kuti ndimakumana ndi mantha nthawi zina. Nthawi zingapo sindinathe kuyankhulana ndi mtsikana pachiyambi pomwe, komabe, zinali chifukwa chokhala wokondwa komanso wamanjenje. Chimenecho chinali chifukwa chachikulu. Zowona zolaula sizinathandize panthawiyo. Popeza wina amapeza PIED osati usiku, koma kwa zaka zambiri, payenera kukhala zofunikira zina muubongo wanga kale.

Ndinkakonda zolaula ndili mbeta NDIPO ndinkakhala pachibwenzi. Mwachiwonekere nthawi zambiri pamene sindinali kugonana kwenikweni. Sindinkaledzera. Masiku ambiri ndimakonda kujambula zolaula ndisanagone. Osapitirira mphindi 20 ndinganene. Sikuti ndimakhumbira kwenikweni, koma ndimakhalapo nthawi zonse. Chizolowezi, ndikuganiza…
Zachidziwikire kuti panali masiku omwe sindinachite ndipo panali masiku ena omwe ndimakolola kangapo.

Moona mtima, sindikuganiza kuti mbiri yokhudza zolaula ya munthu imafunikira kwambiri. Mukakhala ndi PIED, muli nayo ndiyeno ndizosafunikira momwe mumakwanitsira. Malingaliro anga okha…

Chiyambi cha PIED yanga

Ndikulingalira ndili ndi 21-22, yomwe inali itatha zaka 9 ndikuwonera zolaula kwa zaka ~ 7, ndidayamba kuzindikira kuti nthawi yanga yotsutsa idakhala yayitali kwambiri. Nditakhala ndi chilakolako ndi chibwenzi changa sindinali wokondweretsedwa ndi maulendo ena kwa maola ambiri kapena tsiku lonse, ndipo pamene ndimayesera kugonana nthawi imeneyo nthawi zina ndimakhala ndi mpangidwe womwe nthawi zambiri unali wofooka ndipo umatha pambuyo pake mphindi zochepa zogonana. Nthawi zina sindinkatha kuzimvetsa nkomwe.

Ndinazindikira kusinthaku koma pazifukwa zina sindinadzifunse chifukwa.

Nditasokonezeka ndi chibwenzi changa ndinabwereranso kugonana ndikuchita maliseche ndifupipafupi. Ikuyerekeza ngati 5 masiku a 7 kapena sth. Nthawi zina zambiri, zina zochepa. Nthawi zambiri mumakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula!

Mu Meyi 2013 ndidakumana ndi bwenzi langa latsopano. Amaphunzira nane ndipo tidakumana ku uni. Sizinatenge nthawi kuti tikhale limodzi nthawi yayitali limodzi. Patatha milungu ingapo kupsompsonana koyamba. Patatha milungu ingapo kugonana koyamba. Sindinadzutse pachiyambi chifukwa ndinali wamanjenje koma anali wosasangalala nazo ndipo patapita nthawi zinagwira bwino ntchito.

Panthawiyo sindinathe kukhala ndi zogonana zogonana nditatha kukhala ndi vuto m'masiku angapo apitawa. Ndikuganiza kuti tinalibe gawo limodzi lachiwiri lomwe linali lochepera maola ochepa nditakhala ndi vuto. Poyamba silinali vuto lenileni popeza sitinayeserepo kawirikawiri chifukwa timangochita china tikangogonana.

Chiyambi chaubwenzi wanga ndi bwenzi langa lapano ndi 10th Novembala 2013. Kuyambira pamenepo takhala nthawi yayitali limodzi. Makamaka kugona kwa wina ndi mnzake kwakhala njira pafupipafupi. Ndikuganiza kuti ndichifukwa chake ndidazindikira vuto langa. Popeza tinali ndi nthawi yochuluka limodzi, tinayesa maulendo ena achiwiri omwe sanagwirepo ntchito kwenikweni. Mwina sindinali wokondweretsedwa kukhala nawo gawo lachiwiri lachiwiri kapena ndimadzuka ndikutaya msanga. Apa ndipamene ndidazindikira kuti ndiyeneradi kukhala ndi zolimba pafupipafupi pazaka zanga.

Kukhala wosakwanitsa kuzimvetsa nthawi zina kunabwera kumutu kwanga ndipo ndinayamba kupita njira yambiri, ndikuganiza zogonana zomwe zandichititsa mantha ndi PA komanso potsiriza ndikusiya zochitika zanga pa nthawi yoyamba ya kugonana. nthawi zonse. Iyi inali nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndinamva chisoni ndikukhumudwa. Nthawi zina ndinkakhala ndi horny koma ndikugonana ndinkachita mantha kwambiri kuti ndisamangokhalira kugonana.

Kuzindikira YBOP & YBR + mwezi woyamba wopanda PMO

Pambuyo pa 2nd kapena 3rd nthawi yomwe bwenzi langa linalira chifukwa amamva ngati sindinakopeke naye (popeza ndidataya erection) ndidaganiza zopeza vuto langa. Ndikuyenda mozungulira ndidapeza YBOP. Ndidawerenga zingapo ndipo ndalowa nawo nawo nawo tsiku lomwelo. Tsiku lotsatira, linali tsiku langa loyamba la PMO

Kwa mwezi woyamba sindinauze bwenzi langa. Sindinazindikire kusintha kulikonse mu ED, malingaliro, malingaliro ndi zina m'masiku oyamba a 30. Nthawi imeneyo ndinayang'aniridwa ndi urologist kuti ndiwone ngati ndichifukwa chake, chomwe sichinali. (Ndikuwonjezera kuti anandiuza kuti kwa achinyamata omwe amatha kukhala ndi zovuta ndikuyamba kukhala ndi ED, sizokayikitsa kukhala chifukwa chomvera…) Komabe, ndikumverera bwino kudziwa kuti palibe chomwe chasweka. Malangizo akulu!

Kwa masiku oyamba ~ 20 ndidagonana ndi chibwenzi changa chomwe chimagwira bwino (kapena choyipa) monga kale. Ena sanatero, nthawi zina amatero. Pambuyo posamuwona (osasokoneza) masiku 10 (tsiku 20-30) tinali ndi masiku 2 ogonana kwambiri. Ndinali wovuta kwambiri nthawi iliyonse yomwe timayesa kugonana ndipo tinalinso ndi zozungulira zachiwiri za 1-2. Ndikadangodziwa kuti iyi ndi mphatso yochokera kwa mulungu ndisanapite ku gehena….

Kuuza chibwenzi changa

Pambuyo masiku a 30, chibwenzi changa chinalira kwambiri pambuyo polephera kugonana. Zimapweteketsa kwambiri kuti ndiwone ndipo ndikudzimva kuti ndikumuuza. Alemba za zomwe kenako kenako ndikuzilemba. Icho chinali chisankho chachikulu. Anali womvetsa bwino, wothandizira, wokhutiritsa kuyambira tsiku loyamba komanso chifukwa chakuti ndimamukonda kwambiri!

Ndikupangira izi kwa aliyense. Ngati mtsikana wakusiyani chifukwa chaichi, kodi alidi woyenera? Sindinauze wina aliyense kupatula iye. Zinkakhala zosangalatsa nthawi zonse kusakhala nokha. Tinakambirana zambiri za izi. Ndimamusintha. Nthawi zonse anali wokonzeka kundithandiza komanso kundithandiza. Sindingaganize momwe zinthu zingakhalire lero ndikadakhala kuti ndasankha kuti zisakhale chinsinsi.

Moona mtima, zimayamwa kuti mupeze zifukwa zomwe dick wanu sakugwirira ntchito mobwerezabwereza. Otopa, ochulukirapo pamalingaliro anu ndi zina, ndi zina zambiri. Zikuwoneka ngati chowiringula kwa atsikana ambiri komabe zimangowapangitsa kukhala osatetezeka pachilichonse. Sizabwino kwa inu nokha komanso kwa mtsikana wanu.
Ngati mukudziwa kuti muli ndi bwenzi labwino ndibwino kuti ndikuwopsezeni.

Kuyenda ulendo uno ndi mnzanga wokondedwa kumbali yanu moyang'anizana ndi vuto lalikulu kale (PIED) ndikupeza zifukwa pambali
-> Ndi chisankho chanu!

Tsiku 30 mpaka tsopano (~ masiku 130)

Sindidzachita tsiku ndi tsiku kuyambira ndondomeko yanga inali soooo osati yeniyeni ndipo ndikufuna kutsimikiza kuti ngati ndingathe.

Tsiku 30-50: Titauza chibwenzi changa tidaganiza kuti kupewa kugonana ndi zisangalalo zingakhale zabwino kwa ine ndipo zinali. Zinali zovuta zambiri zikugwa m'mapewa mwanga. Nthawi imeneyi ndinali wosasangalala komanso wokhumudwa. Nthawi zonse ndimaganiza za Dick wanga, ndikuyembekeza matabwa ammawa, ndikufuna kukhala ndi moyo wabwinobwino wogonana. Sindinazindikire zosintha zazikulu zambiri kupatula zosintha zingapo usiku ndi m'mawa. Masiku ena (masiku ambiri makamaka) ndimakhala ndi libido yotsika kwambiri ndipo nthawi zina ndimamva kena kake.

Tsiku 50-90: Nthawi imeneyo ndimalowa ndikutuluka mosalala. Ine ndi bwenzi langa tidaganiza zogonananso nawo pokhapokha ngati ife (makamaka ine) timamvereradi. Nthawi zambiri ndimabwera mwachangu chifukwa sindinazolowere kumvanso, komabe zinali zabwino kubweretsanso mawonekedwe ndi chibwenzi changa. Kupindula ndikofunika!

Ngati sindingathe kuzimva timangochepera kapena ndimangopatsa chisangalalo popanda dick wanga. Musaiwale za izo! Munthawi imeneyo ndinali kutali kwambiri ndi libido yanthawi zonse ndipo ndimangomva.

Komanso, ndimaseweretsa maliseche monga nthawi 2-3 koma sindinagwiritse ntchito zithunzi zolaula panthawi yonse ya 130!

Tsiku 90-120: Ndinkayenda ndi mnzanga nthawi imeneyo ndipo ndinali wozizira kwambiri kuchokera kuzinthu zilizonse zogonana zomwe zimachitika kwa O'ing kamodzi kusamba. Ndikuganiza kuti zidangochitika mwangozi kuti ndikhale ndi tsiku lina la 30 no-O pambuyo pobwezeretsanso / kubwezeretsanso mwezi wa 3 kale.

TSOPANO

Nditamuwona chibwenzi changa koyamba patatha masiku pafupifupi 40 (palibe PMO ngati masiku 125) tinayesanso kugonana ndipo ndinali wopepuka ngati maola 2 osakhala maliseche ndikupita kwina. Pomaliza ndinatha kukhala ndi erection ndikubwera pambuyo pa masekondi 20 a masekondi. Zinkagwira ntchito, koma ndimayembekezera njira zambiri…

Tsiku limenelo ndi sabata la 1 lapitalo ndipo sabata ino ndakhala ndi zochitika zabwino zogonana zomwe ndimakumbukira.

Ndikufupikitsa. Kwa masiku otsiriza a 7 ndimangomva kuti ndine wabwinonso. Ndikapsompsona bwenzi langa. Ndine rockhard. Ndikamuwona ali maliseche. Ndimalimba mwamphamvu. Ndikamaganiza zogonana naye ndimakhala rockhard. Ndimaganiza kuti ndinali wovuta kwambiri komanso wowopsa nthawi zingapo ndikayambiranso / rewiring koma moona mtima sindinali. Kumverera kwa sabata yatha ndikungosiyana:

  • sanataye zovuta zilizonse
  • Nthawi zambiri pambuyo pa kugonana ndimatha kukanganso bwino pomwepo ndipo ngati titakhala nawo kuzungulira kachiwiri ndinasunga zovuta kwambiri
  • Ndinatha njira yotalikirapo kuposa nthawi zonse. Ndinkaona ngati ndili ndi mphamvu zowonjezera zowonjezera pamene ndikufuna kuwonetsa. Ndipo aliyense wa iwo anali wolimba kwambiri. Njira, njira, njira zoposa zomwe ndinkakonda
  • Ndimakopeka kwambiri ndi bwenzi langa. Inde, ndikudziwa adzawerenga izi, koma sizowona koma chowonadi. Nthawi zonse ndimadziwa kuti ndi wokongola, wokongola komanso wokongola koma tsopano ndimamva. Ndikamamuyang'ana ndimangomva thupi lonse. Ndikumverera kodabwitsa!
  • Ndili ndi matabwa am'mawa, matabwa ausiku, mitengo yamasana, nthawi iliyonse-ndikufuna-ndipo-ngakhale-pamene-sindikufuna-pompano nkhuni
  • Ndikumva kuti ndine wokonzeka kugonana nthawi zonse. Sikuti ndikulilakalaka, koma kupsompsona mwachangu kumasintha kukhala kwakukulu -> anzanga ang'onoang'ono amadzuka nthawi yomweyo

Sindingathe kudziwa momwe milungu ndi miyezi yotsatira idzakhalire koma malingaliro anga akundiuza kuti zinthu zipita m'njira yoyenera kuyambira pano. Mwina padzakhala flatline ina. Sindingakhale wokondwa koma tsopano, nditalawa kumwamba kwa sabata limodzi, ndikudziwa kuti ndiyofunika.

Ndikungofuna kunena kuti kusiya zolaula chinali chimodzi mwazisankho zabwino kwambiri m'moyo wanga. Sindinaphonye konse masiku 130 apitawa ndikumverera komwe ndinali nako masabata apitawa kunali koyenera kukayikira, misozi, kukhumudwa (inde, nditha kuzitcha choncho) komanso nkhawa zomwe ndidakumana nazo panthawiyi.

Mukakhala kuti zolaula zili muubongo wanu, simudziwa kuti kulumikizidwa ndi pulogalamu yanu yapa PC kumakusowetsani zomwe mumamva kwambiri. Ambiri ainu ndinu achichepere monga ine. Osataya masiku abwino kwambiri amoyo wanu kutengera nyenyezi zotsika mtengo. Mutasiya izi sh * t kwakanthawi mudzazindikira kuti kukhala ndi mkazi weniweni ndikwabwino kuposa nthawi yowonera anthu ena akugonana. Sizowona, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zonyansa, zimasokoneza mutu wanu, ndipo pamapeto pake zimakupangitsani kuti muzifuna zolaula kuposa akazi enieni omwe si achilengedwe.

Mawu ochepa pa asepct ya maganizo

Ndi anyamata olimba. Sindikukumbukira nthawi yomaliza yomwe ndinali wosasangalala kwanthawi yayitali. Kawirikawiri sindine munthu wotere koma zonse zomwe ndimaganiza kwa milungu ingakhale ngati ndikadatha kukhala 'wabwinobwino' kachiwiri. Ndikumva kuwawa kwambiri kuti munthu sangachite zogonana pomwe mukufuna. Ndi zamanyazi ndipo zowonadi zimadzutsa mafunso ambiri.

Yesetsani kuti musaganize za izi. Ndikudziwa… LOL! Bwanji? Ndinasiya kuyang'ana pamabwalo pafupipafupi patatha milungu ingapo ndikuwayendera ngati maulendo 10 patsiku. Ndinazindikira kuti ndimadziwa zonse zomwe ndimayenera kudziwa komanso kuti kuthera maola ambiri pa tsambali sizinandithandizire mulimonse. Yesetsani kucheza ndi anzanu, yang'anani pa uni, masewera, bwenzi lanu, ntchito, zosangalatsa zina. Patapita kanthawi ndizotheka kulingalira zazing'ono pamsonkhanowu. Ndinkabwera kuno kamodzi masiku angapo kudzawona ulusi wosangalatsa koma sindinathe maola ambiri patsamba lino. Ndikuganiza kuti ndi nyimbo yabwino koma mwachidziwikire aliyense akhoza kuyeserera yekha.

Ndine wofunsira mafunso amtundu uliwonse ndipo ndikhulupilira kuti nditha kulimbikitsa anyamata ena. Ndikudziwa kuti ndi TL kwambiri; DR koma ndidamva bwino ndikudutsanso m'malingaliro mwanga onse. Zabwino zonse!

Komanso, zikomo kwambiri kwa Gary Wilson chifukwa chochita bwino komanso kwa aliyense amene adathandizira kubweretsa YBR & YBOP! Ndizodabwitsa kuti anthu othandizira komanso ochezeka pamsonkhanowu. Chikondi chachikulu!


——— Maganizo a bwenzi langa ———

Hei! Ndikudziwa kuti chibwenzi changa chalemba kale zambiri pazomwe adakumana nazo ndi PIED, koma mwina nkhaniyo momwe ndingawonere ingathandizenso, chifukwa ndikukhulupirira kuti vutoli silimangokhudza anyamatawo, komanso atsikana awo.

Nditakumana ndi chibwenzi changa, tinayamba kugwirizana kuyambira pa mphindi yoyamba. Tidakhala nthawi yayitali limodzi, kusangalala ndikucheza ndipo chilichonse chinali chosavuta. Ichi ndichifukwa chake sizinandivute kuti sizinayende momwe timafunira, pomwe timayesa kugonana kwanthawi yoyamba. Komanso silinali vuto kuti samatha kuzilandira pafupipafupi mwezi wotsatira, chifukwa ndimamva kuti ndimanjenjemera kapena chifukwa amaganiza kwambiri.

Zinayamba kundivutitsa pomwe amataya zomwe amachitazo pafupipafupi kapena samatha kuzimanga poyamba. Vuto silinali loti sitinkagonana pafupipafupi. Zomwe zidandipweteka kwambiri, ndikuti sindimamva kuti amandifunadi. Nthawi zonse amandiuza momwe ndimawonekera komanso momwe amafunira kugona nane, koma ndimatha kumva kuti samandikonda. Ndikukhulupirira kuti akadakonda kundifuna (ndikutanthauza mwakuthupi), koma samazimva kwenikweni mkati mwake.

Komanso zikagwira ntchito ndikugonana, nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ndikumverera, kuti sanali kwenikweni. Adasokonezedwa kwambiri ndipo samasangalala momwe ndimasangalalira. Zinali zovuta kwambiri kuti ndizindikire kuti tinagonana mosiyana kotheratu: pomwe sindimatha kuganiza za china chilichonse kuposa iye tikamagona naye, anali kwina ndi malingaliro ake. Izi zidandipangitsa kuganiza ngati mwina ndi vuto langa, ndimadzifunsa ngati pali china chake cholakwika ndi ine. Sindingathe kulingalira kuti mantha anali vuto lokhalo, chifukwa panthawiyi tinadziwana nthawi yayitali ndipo zonse zinali zosavuta pakati pathu. Panalibe chilichonse chovuta kapena china chake, nanga bwanji ayenera kukhala wamanjenje?

Amandiuza nthawi zonse, kuti sizinali chifukwa cha ine komanso kuti amataya chidwi chake chifukwa amangoganiza chilichonse, sikuti sindimamukhulupirira, koma sindinathe kuiwala funso kumbuyo kwa mutu wanga, kaya ndikuchita china chake cholakwika ndipo makamaka nyengo imandikonda. Chifukwa chake zidandipangitsa kukhala wopanda chitetezo, koma koposa zonse ndikumva chisoni komanso kukhumudwa. Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndinali wokondwa kwambiri atandiuza za YBR & YBOP.

Ndikungofuna kuwonjezera kuti sindikufuna kunena kuti adandinamiza - akundiuza kuti sizigwira ntchito chifukwa akuganizira mozama -, ndikukhulupirira kuti mpaka atapeza masamba awa, adazikhulupirira yekha ndipo sanatero mukudziwa chifukwa chenicheni. Ndikakumbukiranso ndimamva chisoni pang'ono kuti ndimalira nthawi zina zikalephera kugwira bwino pabedi, chifukwa kwa iye ziyenera kuti zidamuipira kwambiri. Ngakhale kwa ine chinali chimodzi mwazinthu zazikulu kwambiri kumumva mkati mwanga, amayenera kudabwa nthawi yonseyo zomwe zikuchitika, chifukwa ayenera kuti adamva kuti panali china chake cholakwika, koma samadziwa kuti chinali chiyani. Makamaka chifukwa sichinali vuto lake kuti sizinagwire ntchito. Komabe, ndinali wokondwa kwambiri kuti adapeza chifukwa chomwe chitha kufotokoza zomwe zimachitika ndipo koposa zonse kuti adandiuza malingalirowo.

Anandiuza zonse za zomwe adawerenga munkhanizo komanso mbiri yake yonse yolaula komanso maliseche. Adayeseradi kufotokoza zonse ndikundithandiza kuti ndimvetsetse zonse. Ndikuthokozabe chifukwa cha izi! Zimamveka bwino kwambiri kudziwa zomwe zikuchitika komanso zimakupangitsani kuyandikira limodzi ngati wokondedwa wanu akuphatikizani muzinthu zoterezi, chifukwa ndiye zimakhala zomwe mumafunikira kuti muthane. Ndipo ngati akuyesetsadi kukuthandizani kuti mumvetse, zimakhala zosavuta kuti mumugwire.

Ndingolimbikitsa aliyense kuti auze abwenzi anu. Zimatengera kupanikizika ndikukuthandizani kuti musawakhumudwitse. Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukudziwa kuti PIED sichinthu choyipa. Masiku ano zolaula ndizofala ndipo pafupifupi munthu aliyense amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula kapena amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula nthawi ina (ndipo ndikukhulupirira kuti msungwana aliyense amadziwa izi). Ndicho chifukwa chake zitha kuchitika kwa pafupifupi aliyense, chifukwa simuyenera kukhala ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula kuti musokonezeke ndi ubongo.

Chifukwa chake musachite manyazi kuuza bwenzi lanu, amvetsetsa, mukamamufotokozera zonse. Komanso simuyenera kuchita mantha kuti msungwana wanu akusiyani chifukwa cha izi. Sangatero, ngati amakukondani. Kuphatikiza apo ndikukhulupirira kuti PIED ndiyosavuta kuthana nayo kuposa kusadziwa chifukwa chake chibwenzi chanu sichitha kapena sakufuna kugona nanu.

Kundiuza inali yoyamba, koma chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kuchira. Pambuyo pake adayamba ulendo womwe sizinali zophweka nthawi zina, koma pamapeto pake mukaupanga ndikuyang'ana kumbuyo, sizimawoneka ngati zoyipa. Poyamba - atasiya zolaula - sitinadziwe zoyenera kuchita. Chifukwa chake sitinayese kugonana kwakanthawi, kenako kugonana osagonana, ndi zina zotero (Ndikuganiza kuti aliyense ayenera kusankha yekha njira yabwino).

Kwa ine zinali zothandiza kwambiri kuti panalibe kanthu akugona pabedi. Ife tinkapsyopsyona, iye anali kundichitira zinthu zabwino popanda kudwala ndipo ine ndimakhoza kumugwira iye nthawi iliyonse yomwe ine ndinkafuna. Apo ayi ndikanakhala ndi mantha kuti tsiku lina tidzuka ndikumangokhala ngati abwenzi, osati ngati chibwenzi ndi chibwenzi. Koma chonde khalani chete ndi bwenzi lanu kapena mumusangalatse ngati mukufuna kutero. Ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zopweteka kwambiri ngati mkazi akuzindikira kuti ndi yekhayo amene akusangalala pakalipano.

Kupatula apo, ndikuganiza chomwe chimathandiza kwambiri ndikupangitsa kuti bwenzi lanu lisinthe. Chibwenzi changa nthawi zonse amandiuza akawerenga zatsopano za PIED, amandiwonetsanso masamba ngati YBOP ndi YBR, kuti nditha kuwerenga zambiri ngati ndikufuna. Tinakambirananso za momwe alili libido wapano. Anandiuza pamene anali kumva bwino, komanso pamene anali kumva kuwawa kwambiri, anandiuza pamene - panthawi yopanda pake - amamva kupweteka pang'ono, komanso pamene analibe chilakolako chogonana. Ndizabwino tsopano momwe mnzake akumvera pakadali pano.

Pamapeto pake, ndikufuna kukuwuzani, kuti sizinali zophweka kupyola izi, koma ndizofunikira kwambiri. Ndili wokondwa kuti tidakwanitsa kuchita izi limodzi komanso kuti adandiphatikizira pochira. Ndikumva ngati munthu wopambana kwambiri pompano! Popeza tinawonananso patatha milungu 5 tchuthi, tidakhala sabata limodzi limodzi.

Pambuyo poyesayesa kamodzi kolephera (komwe kudali chifukwa chamanjenje), tidagonana bwino kwambiri. Tikugona limodzi nthawi iliyonse yomwe tikufuna, kangati tikufuna komanso koposa zonse: sizinakhalepo zamphamvu kwambiri. Ndikumva ngati akundifunadi tsopano - zomwe zili zabwino kwambiri. Chilichonse ndichopepuka. Timakonda kucheza limodzi, kusangalala, kugona limodzi, kugona tsiku lonse pabedi. Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi sizinali zoipa kwenikweni. Ndikumva kuti zidatipangitsa kuyandikana ndipo ndikuganiza kuti titatha kulimbana ndi PIED, titha kusangalala ndi mwayi wathu pakadali pano.

Zikomo chifukwa chogawana chirichonse ndi ine ndikudalira ine ndi izi! Zimandipangitsa kumva kuti ndine wapadera kwambiri :) Bwino kwa aliyense amene akuvutika ndi zofanana. Inu mukhoza kupanga izo!

Ndipo ngati muli ndi mafunso aliwonse angondilankhulana, ndingakonde kukhala othandiza!

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by  NoNick